₦airaland Forum

Do you miss Okocha at the World Cup? Someone has retired, yet you expect them to be on active duty. How na Na controversy you de find. Move on.

Assuming Obi went to beg both sides, are you saying someone who can bring peace isn't fit to be a leader or dispute resolution isn't a trait worth having? Isn't this what some South Africans abused Mandela for, yet he took a reasonable path of reconciliation? They even called him a sell out for working with his enemy, the apartheid regime that put him in prison for 27 years. As brash as Trump is, his supporters always say he did well for not fighting wars. This was the Trump the media painted will start a World War, but he went to North Korea and Russia and made peace.

Okay, let's leave America out of it. When Yar Adua became President, was he commended or condemned for his Amnesty program to the militants? Didn't he bring peace to the Niger Delta region through that program? Nigeria was losing oil production to this problem and Obasanjo took the military action because you don't test a General. Yar Adua came and within 7 months, quelled the crisis. Yar Adua was not ashamed to say that the election that brought him in wasn't fair and today we had the Uwais Election Reform. Wasn't that truth? Does Obi not speak about the truth in the faulty system? That you cannot ascend to the seat of Presidency on a faulty process. What exactly are you ranting about? How many of our leaders can say the truth about what will affect them?

I think you just want to beat a dead horse and whip sentiments. Not every leader needs to appeal to you. As gentle as Yar Adua was, he didn't waste time to order the IG to fish out Mohammed Yusuf of Boko Haram in 2009.

Gentility isn't stupidity but there's wisdom in managing conflicts that don't need to escalate. You can decide to choose vawulence, some people can work with peace. Na Pope de one side, na War Machine Presidents de another side.

Branco6:
Chai abeg please teach Nigerians to differentiate between brown skinned and white people o
Education would not do it here at all

Even your education is to be questioned. Have you ever seen a white person? Is that the color you were taught in school? Don't you know what black looks like? Like your phone? Who taught you to call yourself black

Also stop bringing people into your house just to return a book. Meet people outside, only bring people you want in your lives to your home or else, your house is open to all

Your suspicions are what they are until you have hard proof. I don't think you have healed from that threat depsite your families intervening. Bro, you have 2 kids. The first question that came to mind reading your story is, ARE YOU SEXUALLY SATISFYING YOUR WIFE

After finance, sex is the second leading cause of divorce. Are you giving her what she wants? For her to demand this after your second child is unusual and don't use joblessness as an excuse. It is good you have families checking on you but I think you need to put your home in order. Families will take sides and this is the reason people try to protect their partners because it's the picture you paint of them your family will have in mind.

You guys need a therapist and I think she has said things you are not listening to. Ask her directly if you think she is suspecting. If she says No and you still think she is lying, go see a therapist. You need someone independent and professional to help you both. Look for someone who understands Nigeria and Netherlands/Europe

They said it was he who fed them and that he had only recently purchased a new BMW motor car. They noted that before going viral on the platform, Fogah sold egg and plantain sandwiches for a living.

It doesn't seem that they were comfortable with his success on the app.

You can't elevate people beyond their minds. Look at what we die for on this earth, THINGS. FOOD. MONEY.

Jealousy is an evil disease, purge it if you see the signs.

This will be more painful to the mother who was there.

It is difficult to believe anything here especially when the report reads they were attacked by bandits. I don't even know what are bandits. Were these terrorists or armed robbers?

Why are you putting pastor in quotes

An acclaimed pastor? That he is Pastor, Pope, Traditional Chief, Imam or teacher does not mean they are not persons. Hopefully people can see that the roles don't make people less human or define their positions.

LifestyleTonite:
But it is okay to have Ikpeazu kerosene

When it's other people's leaders, you condemn. When it's your leaders, you look the other way.

The thing with you minions here is that you read to reply, you also assume and you can't engage in discussions so whenever there is something contrarian, you assume which makes an ass of u and me.

MIKOLOWISKA:
explain. Is it bad to donate to less fortunate? You prefer Tinubu rolls Royce. Blockhead

He is the President. He represents the Executive Seat of FG. Education is the primary responsibility of government, so personalizing public education makes no sense.

OgbeniOja1:
I hate politicians from both sides.

Is it not disgraceful to have something called Tinubu's books


These guys are a disappointment

Seun himself was handcuffed


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua4_oiXoBeA

As I wrote, they are helping some people with materials for their books and videos

dumahi:
Is it actually right to handcuff someone who has not been convicted if the person is not attempting to resist arrest? By my level of legal awareness, my answer is no. Or, who has a different view on this?

Britishpea has answered correctly. In issues of judgment, the authorities can claim safety and security even if he is not a criminal. That's the law for you. I think there are attempts to disgrace him but I don't rush to judgment. Our President has been in the box before, OBJ was in prison before. Tafa Balogun, our former IG of Police was handcuffed. Ibori has prison photos and is back. Bode George went to prison and came out.
Nothing new under the sky.

If you watched Dele's recent videos, I think he is ready for this. Especially when his friend, Barrister Ogunlana died at 60 after the book launch. He has come to question himself about life. What is the worst that will happen? death. If you don't fear death, you will go though this without any fear. Dele said the truth is his shield before and after he dies. This experience will just give him more topics to write about and boost his YouTube page

You can build a lie for years, it only takes one truth to bring it down.

emee701:
Maybe your bank doesn't have. Access and zenith banks have or probably you didn't check very well

I don't use either but this is good to know. Despite all the upgrades the Nigerian banks were involved in recently, we would have expected this feature to be a basic requirement since we have had so many reports of scams.

emee701:
Go to debit card in your bank mobile app. Deactivate. You can activate back when needed

I don't see anything like that

MrJames007:
But e dey na.

Can you please tell us where it is on any typical bank app you know? Pls include screenshot if you can

QueenVaji:
Good day Nairalanders...abeg you people should assist me here before i can decide on what next to do...my dad is elderly and not too strong to go about bank wahala. ..

But yesterday someone stole his atm card from where he keeps it and withdrew 50k from the mans account...

This is a screenshot of the debit, please can anyone recognize the bank that owns this type of pos name at least..or suggest what i can do next to locate the pos...thank you, i dont know how to call the mods so they can push to Frontpage.

Where is your location because the POS device is located there in the message, including the number (ID)

Your dad is elderly and I'm sure he must have given his ATM to someone to 'help' him or withdraw on his behalf. He could have even told someone his pin. Use this opportunity to educate him and if you are afraid of his memory, let him have 1 trusted person in the house who knows the pin. In the meantime, NL is not where to come to. Find out your account officer's details and tell them about it. They should be able to help. Most of what you are asking for can be managed by AO and he won't need to stress himself going to the bank physically. They manage his account and can help with the investigation you want NLs to do but don't work for him

Also banks have fraud teams, send them a mail and they will help you even if they take time. Go to the right places, they will help you.

Angelfrost:
Nigerian bank apps are supposed to have features that should enable people block or freeze their cards or accounts even during weekends.

This is not rocket science na.

It should be an option in the apps

Sparrk007:
How many Nigerians can bost of 600m in abroad, Na who never make am dey japa, when you have money Nigeria is very enjoyable to stay

I am not a fan of japa or dollar dollar but this chart shows you the value of that money.

Let's say the guy likes West Africa, changing that naira to CFA overtime has weakened.

Let's even forget the guy wants to travel abroad, one small change in petrol price will reduce the purchasing power of that 600 million.

Righteousness2:
Not everyone's destiny is outside the country.
Thats why you Should Conciously seek the Face of GOD before you make any move.

Dont just move out because the crowd is moving.
There is no tree that grows money out there.

If your Destiny is here and you decide to move with the crowd,
You may move and become worse than those under the bridge in lagos.

Have you equated money making to destiny

Snow indeed is beautiful and is one of the wonders of Our Lord but clearing the snow is one of the wonders of Our Work.

Can we do the Lord's Work by taking care of our environment and manage God's blessings to earth? That is the big question.

You can't be judge and jury in your own case.

Even unlearned people know this OP and others

Why do we make issues about Obidients


The Obidients I know even challenged their principal, Obi when he made some comments they didn't agree with. I think we should stop this cowardice of supporting people good or bad. If they supported us yesterday and do bad today, should we turn our eyes away

This is why our leaders are surrounded by sycophants. They are always yes men who don't say the truth about an issue because they don't want to offend the person.

PapaNnamdi:
Take am,

Dem be thief what's fair about that interest rate,
Dem never see anything,

If I see 1million loan, and the pay back dey ridiculous I go take the loan, when we don drag payment taya I pay Dem back 1.2million,

CBN put its interest rate at 27.5%. What about that


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hdH7RWjI_4s

Cunny customer and cunny seller

Who are these people

Jonathan is still an asset. Northern cabal know he will do 1 term and will likely place a strong successor from their side to he his VP.

Many of you are quoting MadamVanessa but she is right, both men and women should stop the public show of kneeling down.

To any potential admirers, let this be clear, I will not be proposed to in a public spectacle. You don't have any right to kneel down for me while proposing, you don't have the right to expect me to kneel and accept a ring. Try that silly attitude and see me walk away from you.

Only a man infested with Western ideas will kneel to the girl instead of asking the parents or elders for her hand. Why are you proposing in public? Was she born by the public? She no get home address?

shadrach77:
This is how it was designed to be before oyinbo and Hollywood changed the mindset of our guys

No.

We don't marry each other, we marry into families. The West deceived women that they can choose on their own, forgetting that she has plenty to lose if she makes the wrong decision and she needs her family to protect her. It takes a man to face fellow men who will scrutinize him and his ideas for their daugther and sister. Today, women have put themselves on the slaughter's tray, they are now single mothers whose husband don't want to follow tradition.

Our society had structure but ITK made us think everything na freedom. Why was it that a man could not claim to have a woman as his wife until he performed all the rituals? Today, they say it doesn't matter. You let the man have freedom to do anyhow. He will run away from his responsibilities.

Men are alive today but they are proud to be raising bastards. When people condemn polygamy today, they forget that the man has to go with his full chest to marry that woman. It's not side chick. People know it is his woman, he is not hiding in hotels or traveling to Paris to sleep with another man's daughter he is not entitled to. Even if na concubine, them go formalise am. Ask women whose husbands cheat on them, they hate it that they don't even know who he is sleeping with.
Women are the ones to suffer for the wokeness today because now the people claiming to give them rights know it's all left!

In the past, there will be someone to investigate the man's family on behalf of the woman so they know she's not just loving blindly because marriage is the eye opener. They will investigate if that family always send their in laws away, if that family has respect, if that family has one disease or the other, if the family has responsible people.
Today, she's using dating site and the men are all lying to her. She finds out that he's a liar years after he has impregnated her and accessed her treasure pot. When they need someone from his side to talk sense to his head, she will come to Nairaland or Instablog to report family matters. Internet pikin wey no send go add sand for her garri. Poor women

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. I have come to realize that those who do eye service or are hypocritical with their jobs are more regarded than those who sincerely or faithful do their jobs. i.e They easily get promoted or rewarded.

Welcome to the real world. Where your values will be tested with what others have. You may not go far if you are principled but you won't go far away from your peace and confidence. A lot of people are compromised and it will get to a time when people know that only you can say the truth without caring whose ox is gored. However, you must be ready to pay the price. The thing with those people who do eye service is that they are like the police, they don't trust each other and may one day discharge accidental bullets on each other. That's their squid games.

RealityKings1:
Double tummy... They both have something in common so it doesn't matter who is proposing

I didn't look at their bodies but upon first sight, I said "they fit each other". They look good together, it must have been a match made from heaven