₦airaland Forum

its true having helpin hands around u is a plus for living in nigeria. But at times the problems associated with these helps is more than the help they offer i.e stealing, child molestation, husband snatchin e.t.c
The worst part is if u live in a small apartment with house gal, house boy , nanny, imagine the crowd

It always amazes me how most [i][/i]oyinbos are capable of maitaining a house and kids perfctly without the assistance of househelps.Over here (nigeria) we have abundant housegirls, security men, gardner, nanny e.t.c. but still things just dont look as perfect, any clue to the secret?

Fellow muslim brothers and sisters. the Glorious month is here again. Another golden oppurtunity for you to enrich your soulS .Im engaged in reading the holy Quran completely (twice) before the month ends,.Tell us what you are aspiring to achieve this month, RAMADAN KAREEM

Nairalanders pls take note,

It is becoming apparent that religion bashing is the IN thing in this network(particularly Islam).

It is apparent some religions don't have much regard or respect for their prophets, clerics or directives.But be aware that such attitude is not tolerable in Islam.

Why do christians always concede to insults when relating to other religions,always exhibiting their lack of direction and backwardness. One will think this forum is a congregation of intellectuals that respect other religions as much as theirs.

The coordinators  should not allow cheap ploys by ignorant fools taint the motive of this forum.

RAMADAN KAREEM

may we benefit from the endless bounties of Allah

@poster
a huge applause to u. situation well analysed.

gucci,

@ builder
abeg if u noget better thin to say jst shut ur mouth.?

any nigerian that is not smart, intelligent and hard workin enough to make it at home definately has zero chance of makin it in someones land.

u wont believe it, but there ar many big families in kano that are originally yoruba, linked to yoruba in their lineage or married yoruba wives.And are totally accepted in their communities. so go for it gal,

@poster
- most hausa men tend to appreciate the spice non-hausa women bring as wives.the usual shit he may apply to his hausa sistas will not be applied to you.
- Hausa men are prone to marrying any tribe in nigeria withoutbatting an eye, so u are not doing anything out of the ordinary.
- ur only problem is polygamy. but from what i see with the yorubas, they also practice polygamy or simply desrt their wives.so wats d difference.

O Nigerians.
It is a fact (though)hard to chew, that the northerners are better leaders and most organised people in Nigeria. the stability of Nigeria is maintained simply because the northerners have been in control, the yorubas are always ranting on how intelligent and developed they are, we gave them a chance.Along came OBJ . I NEED NOT SAY FURTHER).
What are the so called educated southerners good for? running away to europe or United states to SLAVE on a white man.All u southerners are waiting for an oppurtunity to desert nigeria and become 2nd class citizens in someones land.they constitue the most unpatriotic citizens of nigeria.

And are the Igbos talking too. are u not thesame people that hav found a second home and economic boost from the noth, with out the north u are nothin.Why do u always come back running no matter how many tribal crises occurs in the north, why have u not developed ur busines in your states and stay there?

As uneducated as the northern populace is, they are better off without the the south and east.the supposed oil money is only touching the elites.an average northerner doesnt benefit from oil in any way.Is it our fault that oil allocations given to Northern states are [i][/i]partially[i][/i]used for what they are allocated for as against the south and east that throw everything in their pockets.

BEWARE, A hausa/fulani man is always miles ahead of u in perception. if the north should exit, that will be the end of nigeria.

who needs any firsty lady,all they do is parading themselves like peackocks from one [/i]owambe[i] to another.flashing tgeir irritating faces on this and that magazines,we are sick of all of them

ABACHA
yes we all know he looted, but there was economic stability, security and obvious developments(PTF).

@sfdaram
thanks will send d details

if abacha were alive ,all these bullshit 4 no happen

@mustay
it gets worse with time Trust me, it doesn't change.



they want someone to dish out all their frustrations on. they complain that u ar still in their house, but ur only license out is MARRIAGE. which they still feel u have not met some 1 that appeals to them

i need an agent that can organise my trip for hajj (saudi arabia) at end of the year. i will like to have a stop over at dubai, at a reasonable price, advi.se needed

i soooo envy u.
im leaving with my parents, its HELL.
- u must come home 4 break from office,just 2 assure them u ar not wanderin about
- when friends come iver, they talk 4 hours how indescent their dressing is amongst many other things
-u ar advised on how to spend ur cash,(relatives always in need)
so gal u ar in paradise

hi
how do i get tax clearance ? i am working in a private owned organisation. Iam looking for tourist visa to u.k.

@funky baby
that was really helpful,thanx

A lady that is 40+ shld really 4get about love. A matured womwn like that can operate her life hapilly around her kids and other positive things, any woman that thinks a man can love her 4 ever is truly silly.

pls help. I am planning to travel to london nxt month, with my two siblings.I am desperately searching for an affordable holiday cottage/ apartment for two weeks,prefferably located close to the nice places.

This is a serious issue that is fast becoming a trend.The wives like it cos they get more freedom, more spending money(if she is not working) .At the long run you end up becoming strangers with your partner and a nuisance to your children.
The diffrence btw us and the parents of before is, there utmost priority is ther children(family), while for us its to keep up with the joneses