₦airaland Forum

aeion:
He doesn't have the right to take your ATM card away from you nor demand your PIN. If he needs money, I'm sure he knows how to ask but forcefully having direct access to your money at his choosing should be a no-no. If he's threatening you over this, tell your family and get yourself and the baby in your belly to a safe place, but do not give him that PIN. A man who behaves like this is up to no good and can't be trusted.



These are the words of a controlling, abusive man. He does not own you, neither does he own your salary.

The fact that a man.pays dowry on your head means that he owns you. Stop being blinded.

hardbody:
And their grandfather was...

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An Igbo man by name Wole Soyinka

Wole Soyinka brought cultism and Azikiwe was a cultist. So, where is the difference

Azmanaty:
Wole Soyinka brought cultism into Nigeria. He should be executed for wasting thousands of our youths and leading more to early graves

Well
Nnamdi Azikiwe hobnobed with cultists. So, he too should have been executed. That picture indicates that Nnamdi Azikiwe was a cultist.

Iamgrey5:
You keep bringing out this useless quote that was formed by some disgruntled elements to deceive themselves.

Why did Hausa/Fulani then allow a Yoruba man to become the president after the whole Abiola saga if our drums of war were indeed empty?

If they didn't allow Yoruba man to be President, nothing would have happened

sarrki:
Is it not better than sacrificing millions because of ego and chest beating?

Stop covering up shameful cowardice.

That statement only means one thing: that the Yoruba tribe is not serious

Jimwils:
Hmmm..in d land of afonja

Fayemi where u dey??

Are there no such schools in your region?

Binikingdowm:
nigeria is a joke of a country Sha.

South Africa companies in Nigeria include MTN, ShopRite, DStv,gotv, zenith Bank etc.

Mtn is Nigeria biggest network provider and Nigeria largest NSE.

ShopRite is nigeria largest shopping business.

DStv is nigeria largest cable provider

Do you suggest that they close down so that Nigerians working there can lose their jobs?

BurntSoul:
Have u taken ur daily medicine this morning?

But what he said is true

qwertyboss:
Three can never be a coincidence, talk less of twenty something!
Except the girls know what that are doing

How old are you? You must be one with limited knowledge about how far humans can go to tarnish people.

How much experience do you have about life to be saying 3 cannot be a coincidence? How will you be making affirmative statement over something you can't prove?

tot:
See this Rapist. Barakat was decently dressed and in her father's house. Uwa was decently dressed inside a church. But of course, a rapist like you will continue to find cheap useless excuses.
Your downfall is around the corner. Continue exposing yourself even more.

You were too blinded by stupid emotion to understand what I'm even talking about.

I wasn't referring to the Uwa case; I was referring to Peruzzi's post about a girl that walked into a club with no panties.

Stop hiding behind the internet. Provide your contact address and name so that my lawyer can contact you. I want you to come and show evidence that I'm a rapist in a court of law.

That shouldn't be a problem for you, right?

Norphiee:
What about a 4year old girl that was defiled by her teacher...is it her indecency?

That's a different case. The man should be castrated.

It differs from a grown woman that walks almost naked intentionally to a club with drunken men

theoneJabulani:
you probably have a wife, a sister or a daughter, there is no justification for rape.

And that's why I will teach my daughter to watch her company, watch her dressing and watch her conducts.
I'll teach her not to try to play smart by dating two guys at the same time.

I'll make sure the raping is not her fault. Even if to happens after she has adapted to all my counsels, then it is not her fault and I'll seek justice for her.

Salem17:
it's not a comparison per se,it's an analogy
my point is that if someone flaunts something they own before u its not a justification for u to take it without the persons consent

When a woman flaunts what should be kept private, that's sexual harassement.

And your right ends where mine is infringed

[quote author=cococandy post=90278716][/quote]Those who dress decently and got raped have a case, but you can't go pantless to a club and expect queenly treatment.

tot:
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If dem born you well, drop your identity and address here. My lawyer will serve you a court summon. I really want to make a scapegoat of you. Stop accusing people of rape if you have no evidence.

Salem17:
Man this ur line of reasoning is so so 15th centurish

Are you saying dressing decently is archaic?

afribabe:
Are you in anyway trying to justify rape??

No. I'm just condemning the indecency in many woman. And the indecency is what leads to rape most of the times.

While rape is evil, many of us forget the fact that many of the women who claim to be raped actually walked into it with their eyes wide open.

You can't dress indecently intentionally and still join those who are condemning rape. You brought it upon yourself.

afribabe:
even if she dresses like a reverend sister, you will still come up with "what was she doing there?"

So a naked mad woman on the street, since unclothedness is the keyword now

No need for stories. Ask your sister to dress in panties and bra alone to a club and see if she will be treated as a honourable human

Bamibor:
Oga, you are beginning to sound like a halfwit. Even if a girl dresses semi nude, it doesnot give you permission to her body. Many of you are simply consumed by savage lust and simply seek out stupid justifications for your depravity.

Outside the country, people go semi nude (and even nude in certain places) to hang out at beachside during summer, yet no one sees that as a justification to rape.

Peruzzi's posts are reprehensible and outrightly contemptible. In saner climes, he would currently be struggling to remain signed to record label or keep hold of any endorsements he might have.

To think that he still has enough effrontery to engage in public tirades on social media rather than, in the very least, apologise for his unguarded comments in those tweets, simply reveals the shallowness of his person in terms of having a moral compass. He is a talented artist no doubt but with such character flaws as are being revealed, his genius becomes like gold hung around a pig's snout.

You are the one sounding like you have a leaky brain. You can't dress like a dog and expect to be treated as human.
You should dress how you want to be addressed.

tot:
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You can't dress like a low life and be given a place on the high table.

dhejykeane:
okay I can see you want to start throwing tantrums, I won't stoop so low to your level of studipity so you can beat me at it.

Bye bye boy

So old man close to the grave, kindly stop making daft comparison

Ariza:
Comparison can not be daft, a human can be!



You should be charged for MURDER!

Oh. Are you saying you are the daft one then? Maybe your comparison is the medium via which you display your daftness, right?

Ariza:
Uncle I'm sorry to be the bearer of this sad news...

bab' Lankaye. No SENSE at all. . Are you saying if someone ask you to put hand inside fire and you do, the person is to be blamed for your pains? If a lady dresses provocatively if you can't look away ,you ask if she says No , Let her be!

Nothing justifies Rape Biko.!

Then go ahead and wear only pantiea and bra to a club filled with drunken men.

Shebi you want to prove your right ni? Kindly go ahead.

You will be treated the way you present yourself

safarigirl:
Don't jo soapy with these, you hear?

Those pictures you show are not daily norms.

You girls going almost naked on the street is a daily norm

Ariza:
Slut not slot! Ahn ahn!

Oh my bad. I mean slut

dhejykeane:
Even if a person walks naked does not give anyone the right to rape such person. Sexual harassment is one thing, but rape is on another level.

A 3yr old child that was raped dressed inappropriately and acted seductively right?

Stop being unreasonable. Your comparison is daft to say the least

Ariza:
Slot ko , Choice ni Sorry oooo Mary Amaka Skirts Ambassador!

That you see a lady with no panties on in a club doesn't mean you should lose your sanity and act like an animal! Are you a cock? You know I find it baffling that you are busy screaming what a lady should wear and what not, while you leave your own dignity and sanity unchecked. Are you saying you will harass a lady because she's not dressing appropriately? That makes you what? Man-Wh.ore? Or an uncultured, undisciplined entity with no self control or morals? Will two wrong ever make a right? If you meet an indecently dressed lady "Wa de look away" abi is that too hard to do?
What audacity do you even have to think you can make a lady pay for how she chooses to dress?

Screaming "treat like a queen" like Bashirat ,Ada ,Uwa weren't dressed well. No lemme reason your matter abeg.

Then go ahead and tell your daughter or sister to dress like a slot to a club filled with drunken men. Until you do that, kindly shut up

NGpatriot:
Before asking such questions or before getting into argument with knowledgeable and smart people, do a simple google search before you get embarrassed with facts.

You made a claim, Mr. Every truly intelligent person knows that the burden of proof is on he who makes claim.

So ask yourself; are you really as intelligent as you claim?

tot:
Chnage your ways. Rape is EVIL.

I'll be glad if you can prove your comment with evidence in a court of law.

It's high time someone taught you people a lesson for just throwing rape accusations around without evidence.

If you dress like a slot, no one will treat you as a queen

dhejykeane:
Don't cry when your gf/wife/daughter tell you she was raped. Remember this tweet of yours and let her know it's all her fault for being raped.

People who got raped even though they are well dressed and never act provocatively deserve justice

But you, who dress provocatively, show yourself to be irresponsible and give yourself zero dignity. So, you shouldn't complain if you are treated the way you portray yourself.

It is what you call yourself that others will call you.

safarigirl:
Keep this energy when SARS arrests another young man for having dreads or having a beard

Maybe all the young men with beards and dada or afro, are all yahoo boys.

Yes, those who wear dread lock are "addressed" the way they are dressed.

You can't dress like a slut and expect to be treated like a queen.

Ariza:
Uncle I'm sorry to be the bearer of this sad news...

bab' Lankaye. No SENSE at all. . Are you saying if someone ask you to put hand inside fire and you do, the person is to be blamed for your pains? If a lady dresses provocatively if you can't look away ,you ask if she says No , Let her be!

Nothing justifies Rape Biko.!

You can't wear no panties to a club and expect to be treated like a queen.

You already show yourself to be a slut. So, you shouldn't complain if you are treated as one.