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Often times we come across posts in the internet that talks about how to fall in love and less emphases on how not to Fall in love.

Love can sometimes be define as a strong positive emotion of affection or pleasure, to some people falling in love is an inevitable feeling

Believed it or not some people are tired of falling in love because when they do they always get there heart broken so they term love as a very dangerous state of mind.

They say it's actually not all that pleasurable. I don't know who the hell wants to get in a situation where you can't bear an hour without somebody's company.

So here are some of the things you can do to stay out of love.

1. Learn to say no with authority, not passion.
If that person wants closeness with you, then say no to any request whether innocent or dishonest. Sometimes, by them getting you upset or jealous, that person can open your vulnerabilities and feelings.

2.focus on their bad side.
Every one of us has flaws. And one of the best ways to get over someone you love is by constantly focusing on their bad side and picking their flaws. Each time you meet this guy or girl or when you remember them, remember their bad side or the things they say that hurt you. It’ll work a lot better if you could even make a list of reasons behind why you need to stop loving this person, and look at it now and then know they also fart.

3. Don't let yourself build a false world inside your head.
Avoid thinking about "what ifs" You’ve decided to move on, haven’t you? So why do you spend half your day dreaming about this person or wondering what they may be doing right this moment? Remember, the more you think of someone, the more they start to feel like a bigger and inescapable part of your life.

4. Avoid people who share personal information:
This is the first sign that someone is interested in you, Avoid long conversations with this person. And most importantly, completely avoid late night texts or phone calls where both of you share intimate details of each other’s lives. You have to remember that in this case, you aren’t getting friendlier with this person, you’re falling deeper in love and that’s not good at all.

5. Focus on someone else.
Sometimes, the easiest way to get over someone is by getting under someone else. If you’re having a really hard time distracting yourself from the one you love, try to divert your attention to someone else.

It could be a rebound relationship or a bit of flirty banter for a few days. Sometimes, flirting with someone else is by far, the easiest and the most fun way to stop yourself from falling head over heels in love with a particular person.

6. Ignore or avoid the attention.
Even if you’re in a stable relationship with someone, flirty attention from someone you fancy or place in high regard can always make you weak in the knees. So if you’re not ready for anything serious or if you want to avoid falling in love with them, avoid the attention at every instance even if it feels good!

7. Know and build a reason.
Your self-respect. There’s a reason behind why you want to stop yourself from falling in love with this person. And in all probability, it’s a convincing and real reason. So why are you stooping down, behaving like an idiot and losing your self-respect over someone who isn’t good enough for you? You’re worthy of a much better lover and a much better experience from love, and you need to keep that in mind.

Please add yours

I have notice that a lot in almost all their shows, even how to get away with murder that I am currently watching is predominantly visible and u can't help but relate with it emotionally.

This is serious issue, its clear this man has bad intention for this country, I can't believe this, 9.6trn? Please is there no way we can write in mass to who ever they want to collect this loan from and explain to them how demonic this man is.

If they succeeded in giving him this loan that means Nigeria is done, there will be nothing left to call a country

blackweaver:
Like i said, try to get another device/charger ti charge the battery to 100% and see if the phone will run down immediately. Either way, you will probably need to take it to a phone technician to fix whatever is wrong with it

. I don't think its the charging port because when I used desktop charger its still run down to 0% with in 2minutes. Thanks all the same.

blackweaver:
Does it charge at all? Does it reach 100%? Can you charge the battery to 100% on another similar phone (or use a desktop charger) and put the battery back on your phone?

I don't know for sure, but i'm suspecting that the phone's charging port might actually be the fault - maybe the battery is not charging when the phone is plugged in

thanks for ur replies, yeah it charge but not more than 20% it has never gotten to 100% since I notice the fault and I don't think its the charging port because when I used desktop charger its still run down to 0%with in 2minutes

The fone is now plug and play, even when I am using power bank it will show charging but it will not count it will remain in 0%

blackweaver:
Can you give more details?

Is it that the battery never gets to 100%, or the battery runs down too quickly or what? When you say you tried another battery, how long did it last before it ran down? How long does the one that came with the phone last?

it does not last at all, once I remove the charger it will not stay up to 2 minutes before it will shutdown

Pls help, my infinix hot 3 has refuse to hold charge, I have tried different battery n charger but its still the same

I have 1gig to give any one interested to exchange

Mention me when it hit at least 200 naira.
Appreciating by N2 is NO GOOD NEWS

Okpovurode.
He has a square shape head

Victurh:
Wow! I fall for dz stadium o. I doubt if any University or polytechnic in Nigeria has dz kinda stadium.

But wait Shey the school itself don develop?. If not, this one na misplaced priority o.

Anyways, na part of the infrastructure wey we need for our schools. Kudos

yeah it has developed more than polytechnic level, best polytechnic I have seen structure wise.

Awesome

I am really having a nice holiday, hilarious!

Where did u get all these? really funny

This is bull.shitt

A weak currency is the sign of a weak economy, and a weak economy leads to a weak nation.

I day fear for my country

Forever
Twisted
Lying game

Thank God

I love this series like ?

Everything we do, every thought we've ever had, is produced by the human brain. But exactly how it operates remains one of the biggest unsolved mysteries, and it seems the more we probe its secrets, the more surprises we find. This government is full of surprises. Sometimes I wonder if they don't think at all.

Good for them

It’s so tempting to try to suck it up and keep going. You tell yourself “it’s just a phase” and you try to push yourself to get up in the morning. It’s tempting to close your eyes and avoid dealing with it. I should know, I’ve been doing it for years. Take my word for it, this approach will only dig you deeper into the mess. One day you will wake up and wish you made the change 10 years ago.

Yeah what I am trying to say is that stop encouraging yourself, tell yourself you are to blame. That way you will be desperate to do something about your joblessness.

Congratulations to Okiemute. She deserve it if you ask me. Thanks to all those that made this thread a home. I called it home because when ever I leave the offfice this thread is always where I urge to spend the rest of my time.

I felt so great reading your wonderful comments. One again i say THANKS TO YOU ALL.

First method is cool but the second one is just too cheap. They will know where you are heading to once you use the second method.

Which of the station is showing it?

So so funny

How do u trace with your hand? I have tried doing that with my hand but its not accurate.

Bad governor everywhere in Nigeria

My number. 081********

Na waoo it keeps getting worst