Funkybabee:




My sister keep trying God will shower u his mercy my advie for you is to print ur cv much,go to those companies u know and trust that they are doing well,online stuff might take some times before getting back and if u apply in person their might be some vacancy that they wont want to ask u for cuz of ur qualification,but if u go they might ask u if u don't mind and u will be there managing till ur time comes...I know things will be better for you and your children by Christ sake....And for your children its ain't easy to leave them because of their gender just try to keep the work balance with them
Thank you very much, God bless you.

Funkybabee:
You too leave with your children and go out to hustle,ur children future is wat matter they also leave for thier children not to steal or become useless in the street find where your children can live,if its with ur parent do so and go out and find a decent work,u have a qualification nah and if u can defend it all will be well for you pls for the sake of ur children find means to take care of them lack of things turn children to something else may God be with you and be prayerful I don't know if u are a christian or muslim but u need prayer in ur situation....


All is well ma,some man are so useless like poo so sorry for saying this ooo....I just hate to see strong woman suffering

Donald3d:
Hmm,na small thing na
1.Don't ask him for anything again


2.Go back to your parents house for the time being

3.Ignore what anybody says about you,its just words learn to suck it up

4.While you are with your parents ,look for a job

5.Also learn skills that would bring in money

6.Pay more attention to your children

7.No matter what ,tell God all your problems.
Thank you, sometimes I would make up my mind that I will not ask anything from him but since I don't have a job, I will be forced to do so.
Another reason why I don't want to go to my parents house is that they also find it difficult to eat and sometimes if I am there some creditors will come and be shouting so I don't want to compound their problems.

thorpido:
You may have to go back to your parents' house.Turn deaf ears to whatever neighbours say.
Look for a job or try to run a business.Use the time you spend with your parents to evaluate your life and your so-called marriage.Ask yourself if there are chances of the man and the marriage improving.
By the way,do the other wives have children and did they leave with them?

EagleScribes:



If you can do everything you can, get some money and start a business. If you have a good computer and Internet, there are things that you can do from home

J0hnTrevolt:
Hehehe u neva see anything

Laeroy:


This has also been the major cause of our disagreement, infact it was exactly what caused yesterday's, Conflict, I simply told him to go Starch the clothes he went to pick up himself, the next he said was, it was my job to do it and not his and that infact, he created the laundry business for feeding purposes and since I don't have a job I should be in charge of it.....The work of starching isn't easy not to talk of ironing.......Just this morning I have ironed one Ghana must go full of clothes , but he was in the room pressing phone and chatting himself away......

I have always challenged him it's our both duties to do the laundry work.......Starching and ironing shouldn't be left for me alone...but I noticed He doesn't like starching at all,
my major Fuss bout it all is dat he wakes every morning and press phone....while I wake earlier before him to run the house chores before doing laundry work...


Last year when I was into Laundry, and side income jobs......I worked myself thin just to ensuring I make ends meet....... Sincerely if it wasn't for my contributions (I'm not praising myself) , his families would think i probably brought bad luck to him....But I keep patching things up just to cover up for him......

Sometimes I feel like just closing up the laundry business and just fold my arms doing nothing, but the truth is I can't help it, My baby will definitely suffer for it.....

MizMyColi:
You seem an industrious one.

I don't like that the little one does not go to school yet.

Instead of fighting for possessions, why don't you focus on making more money, looking for other ways to fend for yourself and the little one, and doing stuff that makes you happy.

Do you have somewhere you can go to and comfortably live should he decide that you leave?

If he keeps regurgitating that rhetoric, how about involving immediate family members?

Meanwhile, there is something I wish to bring to your attention...
It is your state of mind.

From what I read, it seems that you have given up on him and your mind focuses a lot on the big day of separation when you will finally leave him and have a shot at starting your own life.

Would it be too much if I request that you shift your perspective to something more positive and all encompassing?

Can you do that for the sake of the little one?

It is a simple law of the universe that whatever you allow your mind focus on for so long is what you attract.

So Sis...

Don't mind that this is a public forum.
You should picture me sit with you, and with a deep expression of concern and love for you; I ask....

What do you really want?
What do you want?

Do you want him to keep behaving that way and perhaps one day, he injures you, and you still end up leaving?

Do you like that you are so bitter and judgemental at him?

Do you like that the love between two of you has grown to become bitter resentment and hate?

Do you like that you are not happy?

These questions I ask should help you arrive at a decision on what it is you truly, truly desire.

If I were in your shoes, my first priority would be to feel good, and always happy, no matter the unrepentant douchebag I live with.

Another priority would be to enrol my child in a school I can afford, or wish to afford.

Other things may follow.


If you rid your mind of negativity, and focus more on loving yourself and your child....while forgiving your husband and wishing him well, and then applying a bit of patience, and WISDOM....

I see no reason why your marriage should not be happy.

Point is, are you willing?

It is easier to love than to hate, but for some sick reason, we humans somehow prefer hate and all that load of negativity.

Choice is yours..

Greetings. I love you ma

ojibole:
Oh mr timaya nice one.....remembee 2015 you where in benin for an appearance in club joker n you lodged with my guys gf which led to their break up. Well the thing is me n that my guy are doing well cos sure job dey plus crib set, we are waiting for your daughters to come of age if you like carry them go the abroad we go still find them

ojibole:
Oh mr timaya nice one.....remembee 2015 you where in benin for an appearance in club joker n you lodged with my guys gf which led to their break up. Well the thing is me n that my guy are doing well cos sure job dey plus crib set, we are waiting for your daughters to come of age if you like carry them go the abroad we go still find them

ubunja:
any woman who tries to use children to blackmail and control us will hit a brick wall face first.
you gonna see stars.you will wish you never had those kids.coz we will ignore you and them like you are strangers.
zero fvcks given.

ubunja:

i also feel like slapping the devil.
but we dont always get what we want do we?

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

Oxster:


De general queen has spoken

AFONJAPIG:
diz barren woman again maybe that her lazy jobless yellowbar demon of a husband don give her high hope diz year
You hate both the wife and husband, I hope you don't have psychiatric problem

Twaci:
Merry Christmas darling

Preetiex:
i will call u later ma

Preetiex:
hello ma tttmar i want us to meet on friday,have u replied glitteringstar's mention

Preetiex:
ur phone has been off since morning,i sent u text twice pls i want us to meet on friday.

forzarush:
I could send it through a friend who stays in I'd but frequents Lagos island but dunno how urgent you might need it so if you have an alternative besides coming all the way. and if you'd rather wait ,no problem. I'll keep it for you.