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That was my advise but considering the children she will leave behind,

The last child will be 7 or 8yrs not too sure.

Michelle55:




Why beg a woman who has refused to have sense? As long as he's not verbally or emotionally abusing her then he should let her see the world as it is, if she's lucky by the time she gets back good for her and if not that's her loss.

A good woman builds her home with all she's got and not tear it down with her bare hands, I can understand if it's the man that's misbehaving but for a woman and a mother to threaten to leave her marriage, home and most importantly her children then something must be truly wrong with her.

It's not easy anywhere, let's forget how people divorce these days like it's some seasonal movies they are not happy. Let's call a spade a spade!

If you walk out on a marriage then be ready to accept seeing someone else when you get back performing your duty, na body go tell you. Except if the man is being abusive then she call leave with kids but don't deny the man rights to his kids.

But if na worldly life dey worry her then she's a goner the moment she step out of her marital home, na that time she go know say another woman dey corner dey wait make she misstep first.

Tell the bro to let her go, eyes go clear by the time she realise herself.
My people talk say dem no dey tell deaf man say war don start!

His wife on several occasions packed and threatened to walk out of the marriage and to leave behind their three children with the man.

Did she need a counselor or to allow her see the world and decide ?

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Why emphasising on the children? How old are they? The said man is retired, probably not in sound health, maybe they might have been frustrating him , for man to take such decision is very hard, don't just judge, hear from the man before.

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This is a serious issue - 1. People of South Eastern part of the country that takes Enugu State as their capital should be careful with investing in Enugu, Governor of Enugu State should be called to order by South East Governors Forum while Federal law makers ethic and privilege arm should look into this issue and call their member to order.

I advise Arc Emejulu to petition to South East Governors Forum and House of Representatives ethics department since he claims that he has all those documents. Nobody is above the law in this our Nigeria, we should learn to respect the rule of law.

Anyone in Enugu should know Governor Ugwuanyi when it comes to land issue, then Cornelius Nnaji the Nike born Land Grabber.

Land Grabber Governor.

kelechiodo:
I don't understand this. Judgment has been delivered by court. Would the panel report overid court judgment. Well, let's hope for the best.

Governor Wade's in cos of his personal interest, follow this thread and understand this Governor,, Emejulu that he pulled down his house had court order ,why did he not set up panel before reprisal action ,The people of Ugwuaji should forget part of the land if not all.The Governor love land to a fault.

We're in this world together, listing to Hon Paul Eze broke my heart! This Paul was the one crying and pleading with the Governor not to demolish the house cos he was staying with Emejulu when everyone including the Governor abandoned him cos of his condition.

Emejulu took Paul in and was talking care of him as a friend. What was the Governor doing in Emejulu's house? Is he a law enforcement officer?

I pray that the people supporting the reprisal action by the Governor experience the same.maybe you don't know the pain of someone to forcefully collect your property.

How can that Land Grabber Governor think he can get away from all his atrocities? That was his fellow man's sweat!.

People in Enugu will attest to the actions of the Governor when it comes to land grabbing!

Truly Enugu State is in the hands of God!!!

kuuljay:
That fat toad called ugwuanyi wants to grab the whole land in enugu.there are cries all over the town

This is problem in Enugu now, land grabbing by the Governor, Aviation ministry should look into the man's case unbiased.

Their is always a three side of a story , mine , yours and the truth. I was on the side that this Emejulu of a man should be considered enemy of the state till I read his own side.

I still have confidence in our legal system and in our law enforcement officers, they should do thorough investigation to ascertain the truth.

Our NGO'S , Investigative Journalists also should do the needful.

Pls don't forget that present Enugu State Governor is a land grabber , confirm from Enugu residents

sarrki:
Someone that can't settle his child matrimonial home

Wants to solve Nigeria problem

Igbos and enemies of the state new lord and savior

This shows that Atiku Abubakar is the man we need in this country, still pondering with all his contacts , powers and money allowed this to happen, that means that we will have independent tiers of government no federal might

frankgreat:
Oga there is one in Eket na...about is Eket not part of akwaibom?

yes behind Eket local government headquarters

consider locking the bedroom door whenever he comes around, don't try raising ur voice for him to hear cos it'll hunt u in future.

they said respect is reciprocal , but in marriage its expected for a wife to respect the husband as her senior partner , in a situation where the husband takes the respect for granted then it should be earned.

I wonder how people think these days, your brother inlaw for that matter, in African settings he's your husband also, accommodating him for a short while won't do you any harm, this is marriage not friendship, you will definitely need their assistance one day, no body is an Island.

Acidosis:


The question remains: what are the benefits of marriage to a man? Are we talking about a bad marriage or a good one?

Did u read the post? go through the post again.

Acidosis:
1. Companionship


Nothing beats that ^ ^ It is not good for a man to be alone.

Companionship in a peaceful marriage or otherwise?

Evacroft:
Benefits of marriage for a man outweighs a woman in this part of the world. Eg:
(1)A man can cheat and still show no remorse,but a woman cant especially if u want that marriage back.
(2) A man can storm out in anger and says he needs to clear his head,literally works out on u, but when u do it na gobe.
(3)A man can ignore ur warnings/ advise on things and it is termed as been the head, when a woman does that it is called disobedience
Committment isnt an easy thing to do,marriage is sweet when u marry the one God chooses for u,go down on ur kneels and pray for that one person who is right for u cos even when u seperate or get divorced and end up marrying another person, it still doesnt guarantee peace if mind and long lasting marriage. Most pple stay longer because of the experience ,not because the honey moon stage isnt over.
Baby mamas aint easy either ,they come with there own type of headache too .
The truth is the world is evolving ,nigerians too are changing, dont go into marriage expecting our mothers kind of respect or our fathers type of financial dependency ,adding all this economic bruhaha .

Still believe that it benefits women more than men cos when God blesses a family with offsprings (male and female) most women loyalty to their husbands diminishes ,leaving the man in dilemma ( to leave the woman or to endure cos of the children)

Considering recent happenings in marriage : disobedience,killings, infidelity, divorces by women ,what can a man benefit from marriage this present time when they can resort to babymamas for offsprings. can we discuss this maturely.

I need some experience herbal practitioners and consumers to enlighten us on the safety and effectiveness of herbal antibiotics.

Carinarita:
this is the reason ladies dont fall in love with their hearts again. we built house together so my name must be on it bc i have already made the sacrifice of leaving my family for you, change of names n blablabla... chikena

Some men sees it as nothing by including their wives name on some documents, but the issue is this , can women be trusted for so long? you made sacrifice by changing your name, that's not an issue cos the way things are fashioned you cannot be in your parents house unless if their are issues. in this part of the world 90% of women cannot be trusted with some important issues. on the issue at hand the man made a wise decision on the ownership, If you love someone, who cares about the name on the documents, so marriage is now what is in it for HER! don't blame men that resort to having baby mamas'

JONNYSPUTE:
. I ve asked so many questions but she could not answer any. I asked her if she knew why the man hated the wife Nd children since they were kids,but she didn't answer. One need to be careful before saying things that they don't know how it started. Just because she is a friend to the woman's children she ran to this place to tell us a sentimentally based story to paint an old man bad. Those people saying go Nd meet or call whom Eva re just been naive. I lost one of my child hood friend because of the lies the wife told about him. They heard a heated argument, the guy left home that night,as soon as he left,the woman brought a knife Nd stabbed herself but while she was doing that,she didn't know that their 6yrs old daughter was watching her. After she started screaming Nd called her dad. They came,took her to hospital. In the morning the guy came bk to dress up for work,he didn't see anybody at home except the house help who told him that their daughter has gone to school Nd that the wife was rushed to the hospital. Before he could even asked why she went to the hospital,the wife brothers rushed in Nd started beaten him,he sustained injury Nd was also taken to the hospital,anyways, he died on the way. The daughter came bk Nd narrated what happened to her grandmother. So we should be careful before we jump to conclusion especially in the issues of marriage.

I've heard so many of this kind of stories, that man live up to 70yrs cos he left the woman! some women are so mean to the point of seeing their husband as father of their children, since the children have grown , he's a good man to allow d woman there for that long. temple2grace should advice them better cos they'll lose if they choose to fight with the man.

temple2grace! you just opened this account for this, the man in question left the house for them for 24years and you are calling him a mean man, a seventy yrs old man that's supposed to be taken care of by his children were abandoned and you want to fight him for using his supposed gratuity (house) to take care of himself, I don't know the parties in involved but be careful the way you dabble in such a sensitive issue, attaining 70yrs with evil mind is rare. call the children to order, what goes around comes around!

I don't know that man's age ( junaid Muhammed) but pls let him know now that the ball has been set to roll, it's no longer Igbos now, He is now letting the oppressed, conquered , intimidated , cheated brothers ( Tivs, Jukuns, Igalas , montols,Alagos, Rons, Mungas, Ogoris, Yagbas,Ijumus, Bunus,Madas, Gwandaras, Ufias, Yallas,Waja, Zaranda,of theirs to understand that they can never be president cos it's a game of number.

madam, I know you're feeling bad, but you're the cause , most women believe when they have grown up children the husband should go to hell, he can if he didn't plan for his old age but if the reverse is the case he'll buy his way to happiness , that's what the man did pls leave him alone or seek forgiveness from him.

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I came in contact with police officers that claim to be from Trans-ekulu police station, three in number all wearing mufti with ak-47 rifles; no name tag , no Identification numbers. How do I report such officers for harassment and extortion?