₦airaland Forum

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

Supported 100%. Sebi naija women think say dem get sense abi? E don dey cast. Things are changing. Dem wan dey build castle on top a man's success. Look pussy don dey everywhere available so no women should come dey believe sat she bring on kind thing for table.

What were you doing when he started the silly habit? You and your family watched him till it became something else. I am sure his mum was looking at him and saying God will deliver him, while still pampering him as women does na( spoiling their kids) Make Una carry am go meet a spiritual pastor na abi.

frazee:
Oyo government should try and do same...
Almost all the gutters on akala expressway is littered with poo...

This ewedu tribe, I tire oooo

Zonefree:
They'll come from Ekiti, Osun and Ogun state and constitute nuisance in our beloved Lagos state.

The Lagos Authority should send them back to their primitive villages.

That ewedu tribe is known for dirtiness. Those guys are touts I guess

TinubuCriminal:
Would have said it's Tinubu but he cannot set foot in the US without going to jail.

if I catch you ehn.....

Antoeni:
All Yoruba Speaking State is Suppose to Be on That Dirtiest State List

Exactly

Racoon:
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I knew Ogun state was going to make it to the list of dirty states.

tuoyoojo:
Maybe that is why some women may stay in a loveless relationship as long as the money cones

However, what happens when the man or woman dies, who is entitled to what...over yo the lawyers in the house

He already mentioned it. If a spouse dies, the other partner is allowed as far as he or she can prove their contribution to the acquisition of the property while they were legally married.

Maybe she wore a sexually revealing outfit with her legs widely open, and boobs popping out. You can't blame the man; or the man, while driving probably saw a Yoruba girl with protruding yansh.

krushdripper:
When did women ever have interest in settling down?? And where is the law that says I must let myself be belittled, mocked or given hateful gestures by a woman because I think i should settle down? Call it forming, not wanting to seem easy, playing hard to get or whatever, it is a clear signal that they don't want to settle down, they just need a man to fund thier existence cos they're letting you stick your dick in them, which is why they switch up on you when you have issues with your financial stability so it's only normal that more men would continue to loose interest in settling down owing to the decietful, self serving nature of women.

Very True.

rinzaugustine:
Not advisable . Common sense should tell anybody with sense that men and women are not and will never be the same in anything. If a woman tries this on a man, the man thought process would be to just bang her and move on and not a relationship and the lady will end up turning herself into a public toilet for men

For me, a lady that summon that kind of confidence to approach me ehn, I go accept and love and treat her well even in marriage. Do you know what it is for a typical naija lady, naturally proud, to approach a man?

FourQu:
Wear push up bra

Make your kaka shoot catapult

Dazzall

this one don kolo. This Tinubu era men no send women again ooo

FourQu:
Wear push up bra

Make your kaka shoot catapult

Dazzall

Wawelexy:
You wear pants or not, man we go cheat go cheat....

Even if they finally decide to wear the pants sef, is it not that tiny Mercedes Benz logo they will still put on? sontin wey no dey cover anything...

Abeg talk anoda tin

Mercedez Benz logo!!!! Hahahahahaha

LoveUdie:
Every now and then, I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to be eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not! Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one's spouse. We don't marry to "taste" and "test" other people sexually. Marriage signals or heralds the end of "sexual indiscipline". In fact, according to God's standard, we are supposed to enter marriage in a state of virginity. And those who lost their virginity before marriage, well God doesn't throw you away, alright? However, He commands you to lead a godly life in the area of sex henceforth.

Sex is very sweet. However, as spouses you are the ones to spice up your sex life by making it very active, interesting, sweet, appealing, adventurous and romantic to both of you. Sex life shouldn't be boring, tiring or unappealing. It must be something that both of you should always be looking forward to.

There's nothing "sweet" or "sexy" about a married man having sex with different ladies. It's simply a sign of gross sexual irresponsibility and godlessness.

There's nothing sexual that a husband can't get from one wife. One wife has all the varieties of "soups" or "delicacies", be it onugbo, oha, nsala, eforiro, edikang ikong, ewedu, bongo tchobi, ndole, nkwui, okasi, fried, white or jollof rice, moin-moin, beans, plantains, fufu, eba, semo, etc. If you are looking at sex as a delicacy, then your wife has all the delicacies you need. Just change your mindset and attitude towards her.

I have been married for many years (I am not yet a veteran o). As a man, I also face sexual temptations like every other man out there. But I won't succumb to any of them for anything. My wife is enough, more than enough for me. To enjoy your marriage with your wife alone, you must be contented with her vagina. That's the raw truth many men don't want to come to terms with.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing under their legs. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Now, let me strike the balance here:

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urges also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's joysticks just as you are always trying other women's vaginas. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE or gender-based only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way. Dear men, please don't take the sexual discipline of your wives for granted. Because if they start doing what you do, please don't blame them. Cheating is wrong no matter who commits it. Cheating husbands should never be excused for their sexual misconduct.

Dear men, please cherish your wives with all your heart. Treat them like the queens they're. Sexual indiscipline is recklessness, wickedness, insensitivity, gross disrespect to one's spouse and most importantly, godlessness. Like many men out there, I am proudly a happy married man to one wife. Together with my wife we are happy with ourselves, not because we have everything going on well for us, but because we're satisfied and ....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1


By Coach Joshua

Woman never deal with the writer before.

BareFacedLies:
Madam go and get yourself a boyfriend, someone who will be fuçking your brains out

Story! Life is not all about Bleep. Get sense

Reelmii:
Sorry for him

So it's either he is a rival cultist or their member that wants to turn a new leaf and probably they saw him as a threat

OR, he offended a cultist

OR, he offended someone that knows a cultist

OR.......it was a mistaken identity

Bolded ruled out. They know their targets. He must have taken their wife or girlfriend, or had affair with her

brain54:
To naked Waka just dey hungry this one since...


He just see opportunity.

The guy carry Sha.

Maybe na why he just one showcase!

UstazAhmed:
Any location that involves staying in one place like a football field is an owambe party and not a protest

chiiraq802:
Kenyans protested... nobody hear noise.

opamoses1:
Why bother. Let them protest for 6 months.

Easybet1:
Please, what can I do to stop Okash from calling me?
They call me at least twice every single day. I have never taken a loan from any loan shark, and I never will, even under duress.
No matter how many times I block their number, they keep calling from different numbers, which is extremely disturbing.

The worst part is that I can't even speak with the person to tell her to stop calling. It’s always a recorded voice, and as soon as I hear, "Hello, this is Gift from Okash," I hang up.

I’ve reached out to them on Twitter asking them to stop disturbing me with calls. Despite this, just today, I received three different calls from them, and I blocked those numbers too.

I can understand why some people take loans from them and then avoid repaying—both the lender and the borrower seem driven by greed.

I don't understand why they are so persistent in trying to force a loan on me.

Is it possible to take legal action against them? What can I do to stop this constant harassment?

please mod help me move it to the front page

Mine is Easemoni. They have turned themselves to nuisance by infiltrating my lines with silly recorded calls. Na by force to collect loans. If you block one line, other lines would still call you. In fact, I hardly answer my phone again cos it always turned out to be their calls, but normal calls are already suffering this as callers claim I don't answer their calls again.
EASEMONI is silly.

BeyondCertainty:
And why must a man approach a lady in church ?

Churches are full of retired war veterans.

You wicked ooo!!!!hahahaha

KingMack:
Like for Trump...Share for Biden

I billion likes for trump niggaz!!!!!

advanceDNA:
Sometimes..it's sweeter to be the side chic that goes on regula trip to Bahamas





.....than the to be wife at home being disrespected at doing all the work of mummy, wife, daughter inlaw....

Side chic don dey collect house for lekki oooo..

Does that make it dignifying?

TableLeg:
Which kind stupid story be this?
Planning his own wedding fixed for April 27, 2024 when we dey July 2024?
Abi o ya weyrey ni?

Amotolongbo:
Baba, at 82?
Shey the thing still dey stand ni?

Hahahahaha Siddon there. That Baba strong oooo

Righthussle:
No blame them oo, dem be victims of brainwashing. They must have been told that their god sends one angel to come and take attendance of the people who come early.

Hahahaha

43Ronin:
The worst is that many of their pastors are adulterous, liars and scammers

exactly

kingar:
Why not open the gates for them to wait inside. Anyways these ones are under spell, their daddy don pocket their sense of reasoning

Funny but true

deathtoLeo:


ahhh ahhh ahhh
tinubu have destroyed this country beyond see finish.
Benin republic kwa

ahhhhh
jeezzzz this is beyond insult.
e no go better for tinubu and anything related to him.

flokii:
So most Nigerian men in UK are now homeless?.. cos these stories are becoming too frequent.
I watched one clip where an African youtuber was advising women from Africa especially the ones from Nigeria to stop involving UK police in their marital lives.. the Indian women according to the youtuber earn x3 of what our women earn in that same UK but don't call Police to throw their husbands out the way Africans are doing.
Why are you people giving us bad name in the global community?

Greed and selfish interest on the part of our Naija women. To a typical naija woman, abroad na heaven.