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GO0DHardDick:
Dear men,

Always remember you're not loved when you have nothing (money) to have offer

Read the post very well

outoftheworld:
Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

In otherwords, respect your sef. But what if the girl loves him too?

Vinnie2000:
Depends, OP.

Some kind of YANCH are Hard like KpoKpo Madiga while some are soft like ShopRite bread.

Na our south eastern babes dey get hard ones, but if you need soft, big and succulent ones come to south west, yoruba girls are doing well in that area.

omoredia:
Emi lo kan people too like to dey complain. Una go still catch cancer for this country. People that love what is bad want to enjoy a good life how will that happen? Make Adeboye dey follow deceive u fools with fake holy ghost congress

Hahahahaha! Baba wey don chop belleful up to 10th generation dey deceive them

Always remember this day whenever you want to cheat on your wife.

ScamHunter:
Satan specifically targets Christians with wrong marriages, not just because the Christian is careless but the church of JESUS is especially fixated on materials things and these TRUTHS are not ingrained into Christian youths. In fact, many church leaders and parents are ignorant about it. Th devil is wily, and knows that a man in a second marriage is trapped and may not have the will to divide his new home. He is also aware that the marriage between two believers forms a church in the home. This is why he uses unbelieving partners, divorces and remarriages to entangle Christians. Not just that, he uses discouragement and bad examples from fellow Christians to deceive many Christians. I encourage you my brother to seek the face of God and be strengthened to do the right thing, which is separating from adulterous marriage. I understand that many Christians in such situations resign because there are many aspects of their lives that are not right before God. However, if holiness is a believer's goal, every entanglement must be cut off. Receive grace.

Am really inspired. Read this over and over again. Very deep. I want to ask, is there any thing like a wrong marriage. Probably thinking i married a wrong person.

ogododo:
https://punchng.com/three-oyo-monarchs-die-in-auto-crash-nine-others-injured/

Thought they usually had 'protection'

misreal:
That’s because women generally judge things emotionally.
When it’s time to correct a child and be from about it,most of them will get emotional.
When it’s time to help a child make decisions,they will make emotional decisions rather than logical decisions.

God bless you. My wife, who has officially left my home, complained bitterly that i scold our son too much. No wahala. Boy is in custody, lets see as e dey go

babamoha:
Raising good children is beyond the ability of anyone but the intervention of the most high

Story

CoronaVirusPro:
No debate!

Women raise the worst kids!

Anywhere in the world, women always raise the worst kids!

Exactly

TruthsFM:
Hmm 🤔 what she said here is very deep

“Based on statistics, single mother households produce the worst children” — American woman says

American woman supports the fact that single mother households produce the worst children, quotes statistics as evidence.


The black American lady revealed this in a Podcast where she revealed that single mother parenting is a pandemic.

She compared it alongside two parent households and single father households, claiming that the single mother household produces the most delinquents.


Milano, Cinque Terre & Lago Di Como

“Based on statistics, single mother households produce the worst children” — American woman says

The American woman explains that this is prevalent in the black community and more women need to start valuing the presence of men in their children’s lives.

Some reactions to the video:

@elmannygram said: “Every child needs their father figure in their life so unless the father of the child is dead, mothers should allows kids access to their fathers. You cannot play both roles. That’s why the kids turn out worse.”

@EbisikeIj disagreed: “She is wrong to generalize this. I know some single moms that their kids turned out right”

@FOEJ_Swaggie asked: “Is she saying women are not greater leaders?🌚🤐”

@ev_reason added: “Not always. But they have the higher tendency of raising badly behaved kids. Single parents easily gets overwhelmed, this could be the cause too”

@BamieCent said: “This is true
A child needs both parents”

https://www.gistreel.com/based-on-statistics-single-mother-households-produce-the-worst-children-american-woman-says/

She is very correct

ScamHunter:
Marriage is far deeper that many of us realized. That's why many of us approached it carelessly. Divorces stem from marrying carelessly and without spiritual guidance (especially for a Christian). If you marry wrongly, your marital destiny has been destroyed unless the wrong spouse dies and you're free from them to now find the right spouse. If you plan to have a partner all the days of your life, you must marry only who God directs you to. Now to your question, the high standard of the word of God for the Chrstian dictates that they NEVER marry again if a former spose is alive. Even if that spose has remarried, they're not guided by the same law of Christ as the Christian is. The vision of the Chrsitan is to please God always and finally make it to that heavenly home. The unbeliver doesn't have that vision hence they can live in second and third marriages oblivious of the fact that they're committing adultery and on the broad road to hell. For the Christian whose partner divorced, they MUST remain unmarried as long as that partner is alive, even if they had remarried. That is God's word.

A tough one, meaning a lot of people don dey hell be that. I'm currently in this mess. Dont even know what to do

Chingyyy878:
Do y’all agree or not ?

Prove it na

ScamHunter:
Never, I repeat, never marry a divorced man or woman unless you're not a Christian. Marrying a divorced person whose former spouse still lives is adultery before God. Also, never discountenance the opinion of family who oppose a marriage. God may be speaking through them. Your sister is priming herself for future regret if she ignores your mother.

I agree totally about not marrying a divorced whose spouse is still alive, but person go wait till the ex spouse die? If the ex spouse no die or has remarried nko

EnglishUsa:
It is not easy journey more especially to the christians, women are the 95 percent course of divorce in Nigeria. Women are very stubborn people to control, where you asked them not go that is where they will go and what you asked them not to do that is exactly what they will do. Some people that are married will always burst that there wife can never sleep outside and they trust them to heaven but, I wished God will open their eyes to see what their righteous wife is doing behind their backs the will marvel. Any man that trust his wife is the most stupid person on earth... If you Quote me go to a busy hotel you may get a little knowledge of what I am saying...your wife is not messing up around is only because she is very ugly. Married woman is very easy to catch if you know the scope, they don't reject advances if you know the scope... Men are poligamous in nature but they don't pretend like women does. A woman can swear with amdionha, Bible, Ogun and Shirin that she ever have affairs with another man since you got married to her... If not for children and sexual satisfactions these people are not good for anything .

I agree with you.

Afodot0022:
its always a mixed feeling, i will say the only reason why you should go for separation or divorce should be on the ground of infidelity and domestic abuse , even on this ground, there can still be room for forgiveness and second chance given. For domestic abuse, separation is truly needed to avoid death. At the beginning of separation or divorce, you feel happy, fulfilled and the freedom you crave for madly , you have it now, but with time, you start discovery that its not really worth it and what you crave for is not enough to give you that happiness and fulfilment. Today you can be so happy that you are free and tomorrow you can wake up with severe depression blaming yourself of not giving your marriage a second chance. For the man, you will need a lady close by to be an emotional strength cos you separating from your wife will make you vulnerable emotionally and you need someone to kill that severe loneliness you feel after separation. Its really a crazy experience but i bet you, with time you going to get over those feelings and face the reality at hand. But my advice to couples out there is that no matter the issues so far its not domestic abuse, pls try to stay humble and work on your marriage to make it work. There is no perfect marriage and even the next person you will meet might even be worst that the person you left. That your spouse that you detest so much and want to run away from, some day you gonna miss him or her and wish you never went your separate ways.

Love this. Am in same situation

Eyinju112:
I’ll jejeli accept that motherfvcking Ex Abeg. Na cheat him cheat, he no kill person🤣🤣🤣🤣Loneliness no be anybody mate 😂😂😂😂

You are a good woman. God bless you dear.

The hookup ladies you met must be from the ewedu tribe?

Truths9ja:
Hmm 🤔. Na true talk ooo

“Why I Won’t Allow My Brother To Bring A Wife From Nigeria”- Woman Voices [Video]

Nigerian woman has caused a clash of opinions online after she explained why she won’t support her brother if he wants to get married to a lady based in Nigeria and take her overseas.

According to her, she doesn’t want her brother to end up in a mental institution as a result of heartbreak, as many of those women based in Nigeria and lucky to land ‘abroad husbands’ —according to the poster— are heartless.


The angry narrator
The angry lady went on to advise men to strive to sign a prenuptial agreement before they tie the knot with their prospective wives.

“Marriage is now a business”, she said.

Many Nigerians didn’t agree with the Nigerian woman, who claimed to have put herself in the shoes of a typical Nigerian man.

“Then marry your brother, matchew”, a Nigerian, Ido Ekong slammed the lady.

“Everybody have different experiences sha”, another netizen, De Bishop explained, waving away the poster’s explanation as a personal opinion —which it is.


https://sabiradio.com/why-i-wont-allow-my-brother-to-bring-a-wife-from-nigeria-woman-voices-video/

She is saying the truth.

Person wey dey BIGO dey do sex video call, what do u expect from such person?

Kobojunkie:
You love the lie? If say na you, you go turn your own life into prayer and fasting for someone who abandoned you. You lot prescribe that nonsense to women when to men you immediately demand they move on.

It deoends on who was wrong here, the lady might be the wrong party from her expression

Charly68:
Keep praying to see if God will bring back your husbdand because from the look of things you now.appreciate him after he left and felt pained because he care-less about you . The day a woman knows she got what it takes to conquer her husbdand, that will mark the end of trouble in her home . If all you believe is what a man can do ,a woman can do better then there can't be peace at the home front.
- Never say never, allow your emotional wound to be healed before contemplating any relationship. In any case,if he refuses to look for you ,try to let him know his child is missing him.. He must be there for the little baby and from there God will take total control .. When things become normal again,come back and give.us your testimony on this page . Good luck

I love your comment

Gboy5050:
You need to move on my dear sister.. The lord is ur strenght contact me on 08037782248 if u like me let's move on start new life

This is very wrong and childish!

Smartguyboy:
Men will always bounce back but women will turn to low key olosho.

Exactly

1Sharon:
Family affair- Mary J Blige

As in ehn..........

anonymous1759:
Long overdue they’re killing themselves anyway killing is normal to them so they won’t feel it this law will make them die honorably.

Hahahahaha!!!

izonborn098:
For woman u are likely to raise another man's kid... Smh...

Hahahaha!!! A woman who is probably not a virgin, wey boys don use different sex styles scatter her duri

izuch:
Half of them might even be owned by one person, they shut these ones down and in the next 2 months he opens another 50.

Hahaha

very ugly people

festacman:
What this means:

If you spend at least 1 hour to analyse football matches and than place a bet, take a bow, because you are not unemployed.

If you spend at least 1 hour to pose as a sexy lady online to chat with men, obtain their nudes and blackmail them, keep working hard because Nigeria regards you as gainfully employed.

If you spend at least 1 hour bombing formats out from your lappy, be happy because even though EFCC is unhappy about your activities NBS is happy you are employed.

If you spend at least 1 hour on hook-ups with a man, take a bow, you are contributing to the Nigeria's GDP.

If you spend at least 1 hour on X (Twitter) to drive impressions, take a bow, you are gainfully employed.

If you are among the people who spend at least 1 hour to watch movies online for money, repost porn works of porn artistes for money, etc., rejoice because you are not part of unemployed statistics in Nigeria.

Alleluia somebody, Nigerian economy is booming.

Hahahahaha! Funny but true. And if you spend some few hours online sexually teasing men into hookup and sex video calls as in BIGO and the likes, you are infact gainfully employed.

Felix6:
Head with infections. Take am.

Hahahaha

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