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Hezzyluv:
Or u become Keke rider like me

Or POS agent

luminouz:
Look at how everyone is advising her to leave him...not even trying to advise her to work things out using family or pastor or counselor. Yet when she does and becomes a single mom with kids, they will still abuse her and says no man deserves a single mother.

It's funny how the first solution to these issues from women on NL is to 'LEAVE HIM'. Yet many of these women have worse relationships offline and they never leave their men.

Make I just Waka dey go jejely.

I love your comment. Everybody go just open mouth waa 'leave' 'leave' to where exactly. Do you know where she is running to might even be worse off? Many single mothers opt in and opt out again cos once you have a kid, your partner becomes secondary to you. The truth is that no sane man would opt for a single mother cos it does not always end well. Involve pastors and cancellors, lem them call both of you. All those things you listed are not big deal.

darkmarky:
We can agree that many mothers are the problem of failed marriages.

They are oooo! My wife's mum na example

LoveUdie:
WHAT EXACTLY IS AN ORGASM?

Orgasm can be defined as the peak or climax of SEXUAL excitement. Married couples should make it an objective to drive their partner to this peak during sexual acts.

The following steps will help to build up the excitement that would help you reach Orgasm.

1: Look nice, smell nice, and be clean. Stop carrying dirty pants around, learn to understand that vagina hairs need to be shaved or trimmed. It's so annoying that some ladies smell badly inside there which comes as a distraction.
You may choose to wear (nightwear, bra, or panties.

Take note that every man is Attracted by what they see.

2: Chose a nice and comfortable place to help you have undistracted sex. Eg. Hotel, living room, bathroom, bedroom, floor. Etc

3: Adjust the light to what suits you---- Darkness, dim lights, or bright lights.

4: pre-intimacy should begin with spontaneous endearing conversation accompanied by loving pats, hugs, and kisses.
Sir, pre-intimacy is a must, women are more moved by what touches them, what they see, and what they hear, unlike men that are been moved by what they see. Therefore, don't Rush your woman as if she is running elsewhere.

5: Gradually learn to UnCloth each other. Do you know a woman finds it Romantically rewarding, if her husband is the one that will gently UnCloth her? Just as a man feels happy if the wife is the one that will tell her husband, my king, I want you to see me. stop rushing her as if someone is about to catch you in the act. Even God knows you are doing it and he has no trouble with what you are doing.

6: The husband must continue Stimulating the woman's clitoris until she is high before penetration. Eg. He may gently start handling the clitoris with his tongue or finger. kissing and caressing her lips, thighs, buttocks, clitoris, labia, and other parts of her body until she is sexually excited. This will signal an increase in vaginal lubrication to enhance penetration and sweetness.

7: The wife should also continue Stimulating her husband's penis by rubbing and caressing the penis especially the cap or the tip and gently touching his tentacles.

PLEASE NOTE: Orgasmic Excitement in women is slower and last longer than in men. The women's Build-up during orgasm can be compared to the heating of an electric iron, whereas that of the man can be compared to switching on an electric bulb. This is why you need to take your time and not rush her.

8: At a point where the husband judges that his wife is at the height of her cloud 8 now he can penetrate. Do you know that one of the most pleasurable things during sexual intercourse is the woman's feelings about the man's penis entering her vagina? Not intimacy gadgets or as men are fooled to Believe that toys are far better than the real penis. Oh, my Goodness, you need to know the benefits of the pre-fluids that come out from a man's penis before entering.

9: Talk to each other and express your feelings during the act.
Read more at... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

By Dr. Ikemsinachi.

woman wey no get clitoris nko?

WeirdAlien:
This is the commonest reason!

Women never want to leave the children back for the man to take care of, even when they're no longer babies or toddlers.
And most times when the children are with the woman, she denies the man access to his children. And the man's response is "if you want to have them all to yourself, take care of them all by yourself".

As simple as that

obedience4:
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-birmingham-66232714

Wetin dey always attract oyinbo men for their ladies wey dey always get flat yannshh!!!!

flokii:
It's always same story of boredom.. she should join african clubs and mingle with other africans from Ghana and likes.

Moreover, the ugly trend of Nigerian women calling UK police on our Nigerian men once they start earning chicken change from nursing jobs is reason Nigerian men are avoiding them in UK and other parts of female-centric Europe. Indian women earn x10 of what our ozuor Nigerian women in UK earn but you won't see them call UK Police on their men for any reason whatsoever. Y'all should change and stop forgetting your manners and home training from Nigeria.

Exactly

CSTRR:
If you are a woman and travelling out, have a man before leaving.

If at all you want to ever get married in Life.

Great advice.

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

No waste your time cos those gender are always confused. My advice is this, the red flag is already there, she prefers the guy; so bros waka oooooo!!!

Oroolorun:
Mmm.... I could remember some years back, a woman was pronounced dead and was embalmed few hours later. During the embalming, some Pastors came to the hospital on hearing about the death of the woman and they started praying for her. Li and behold, she woke up and their was much jubilation.... But the joy was short-lived. She gave up the ghost almost immediately because the chemical of the embalming have already circulated her body.
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Fast embalming or burial is wrong. Most dead people are wrongly pronounced because of lack of pulse.

The way these our head slammers bury the dead quickly ehn, a lot of corpse go dey wake up underground ooooo!!!

MrBrownJay1:
the world is designed to make you SURVIVE as a gov employee, not to get rich from it.

Perfect answer.

englishmart:
What about those exporting drugs to chicago?

Hahahahahaha

HacheNoire:
Some of the landmass we call institutions are suppose to be cattle ranches.

How they became educational institutions should be queried.

Landmass that could have been yielding good beef, milk and animal byproducts, if they were converted to ranches.

Institutions that keep churning out hook-up girls, cultist and Yahoo fraudsters

Exactly

BeauBragnar11:
Keep quiet if you're inexperienced in the subject matter...

You think Nigerians come an inch close to Indians in terms of bringing Dependents??(Go look up the statistics), it's in public domain.

Indians that even bring their parents??

Don't respond rubbish to me if you're not in the UK

Wetin people dey find for UK sef?

MT:


Well analysed.

However, if UK continues in letting people in, their economy will go down. UK can't eat their cakes and still have it.

Most people travelling are working as low skilled workers. The jobs are not going round again as the country is over saturated with low skilled workers, meaning that even the immigrants are poorer and struggling
It's a lose lose at the end of the day.

Exactly

Corridon:
Just like saying Tinubu's brown teeth will turn white by Friday. If you believe this then you can believe anything.

Hahahaha .

RenegadeX:
Op ignore this simpish advice okay. Don’t have any heart to heart talk with any mofo . See I have dealt with women and I know them like the back of my palm. I repeat don’t have any heart to heart talk. Start giving her woto woto. An eye for eye. Sometimes this bitches do not respect you when you act Christlike or behave as a Godly man. They want to see crazy and you should enjoy showing crazy.

You need to harden your heart to a point were if a bitch threatens to leave you. You open the door and kick her ass out for making that threat. Kick her so had that she falls and scrapes her knee on the floor.

That money you are giving her stop giving her shishi. Don’t help her do anything. When you come home buy fast food and eat in her presence. Do your laundry yourself and make sure you go out and hangout with friends and post pictures of yourself having fun and arrange one of your guys girl to hold you in a romantic way.

When you come back don’t respond to her questions or naggings. Don’t make any advance sexually behave like she does not exist.

Either of two ;Dthings will happen. Either she will come to her senses or she too will not mind you. If she doesn’t mind you then I’m afraid someone is giving her back to back the way she wants it. She wants to tow her mothers lifestyle.

I repeat drop that gentleman that you are forming they don’t respect it. This bitches are like children once you don’t call their bluff they triple down on their bad behavior.

If she tries to abuse you verbally give am better slap for her left eye

You will be surprised how that once a week will change to thrice a week

I am just like you Mr op a very good man that don’t like cheating but if you take my calmness for weakness and want to be disrespectful. You go collect woto woto. Ready to go your papa house or that useless dick that she wants to cheat on me with. Let her go and have it fully. I no send your papa

Great

sisisioge:
It is well...I just do not understand why people do not take sexual compatibility seriously before deciding to get married. Your madam may just not have as much libido as you, hence the scarcity of conjugal dance.

But not caring about your safety is on another level fa. This is how people leave windows opened for strangers to mistakenly fall into their abodes. I just pity una....you've just moved away from home and she's being cold from a distance. Hello, 3rd party!

Do whatever eases your pain....this life too dey short to live in a tight corner. We wake everyday to pursue mostly economic gains with no time for emotional and mental gains. To live long and healthy, you need to be deliberate about your pursuit of happiness fa... do not allow others to undermine this pursuit. Good luck.

Nice advice

Jennyclay:
Why are buildings and towers always collapsing in Nigeria . They keep buying poor material to construct rubbish.

We really have poor engineers in this country. Even graduates in mechanical engineering can’t even repair and fix a car.

Olodo engineers!! Shame!!

Read the post very well, sis.

MatrixCircle:
R.I.P to him. He definitely has left for a spiritual Masters in heaven. Next time when he reincarnate he will learn to keep silence because the enemy may be lurking nearer than expected.

Story

His time reach, finish! Nothing dey UK wey go make people envy am. Hear stories of people wey don go, its always tough there. So its not as if he has succeeded, he was only going to be better than dey naija, because of the environment of 'everything works' over there

FalseProphet1:
Poverty is to blame. Cos most of the sex girls have these days are transactional. Money for hand, back for ground. Meaning if we have a working system in Nigeria, most girls wouldn't succumb to sex so easily in order to survive.

This I have seen.

Even if the system is workinh, greed and laziness would still make our girls sleep with men without protection

nedekid:
My guy was a top executive at same company then having worked there since their inception, today he is struggling seriously.

Who is the person i might know him. I worked there for many years in fact i worked in a unit headed by Lydia, saint obi's wife, before i left.

Princedapace:
when we call for good governance, some of u would carry tribalism for head. If this guy was in developed world, he would have probably got treated.
I always say this, any time u get certain type of sickeness here, just write ur will. U are gone!
The health care system here is dead and buried!
When u all have vowed to use tribalism and bitterness to select leaders, well done.

Aunty or uncle,saint Obi could afford foreign treatment while alive.

sinola:
Was he married. I have not heard about his wife and kids?

Hope all was well with his family

His wife as at 2017 was an MTN Nigeria top executive. She was reporting directly to the CEO..

Tallesty1:
Virgins cheat, pastors cheat, Mmmy GOs cheat, people in choir Bleep each other like rabbits.. Only few people in this world are completely lost, that is my belief. I see hope in almost everyone

You see hope in a hook up babe? For your information, except she changes her line, those men would still call her, and ask for sex; also when her husband is broke, she knows what to do to make money cos she has been there. She will still jam lots of them on her way out there.

Wickedfacts:
There is no Nigerian Billionaire in the UK. Meanwhile, we have several Nigerian Billionaires in the US. You think it's by accident?
The British system is designed for use and dump.

It is dumb salary earners who Japa to the UK, that's why you hear them talking about how much they are paid. Fecking peasant slaves. They can't build businesses there. They work there, pay heavy taxes and get choked by the rat race.

When they turn 60, they run back and start looking for cheap bungalow to buy in Igando and be using "When I was in Manchester" to disturb small girls around. Shishi, them no get.

If you must Japa, go to where the system allows you to transmit from an employee to a business owner. The UK doesn't allow that.

Very apt. Nice. On point

yesloaded:
Anger is bad

Even if your gf exchange numbers with another man, a sensible man will keep his calm and question the lady after the party. It would have been better to end the relationship with the said lady instead of fighting her.

No matter whatever, he will spend some years behind bars and also spend lots of money to get himself out if this trouble while the lady already moved on with her life

In addition, The Adesidas are a royal family in Ondo State so justice will definitely favour them with all their connections.

southsouthking:
The earlier you realize some people are walking dead, the better for you.

Reason i always avoid trouble at all cost, because Life is so Sweet and full of paparazzi.

My freedom is my number one priority.

No girlfriend know peace.

Nice comment

SultanOfAbia:
You see why i no dey invite babes to sleep over in my apartment

Even if you sleep over for my house
i go wipe you oriamo cord every 20 minutes to make sure say you still dey alive

God abeg no bring any babe wey her time don reach to my apartment.

If this girl was sleeping in your apartment and died in her sleep. Na 25 years for jail..
Dem go say you be ritualist..
Make God save us ohhh 🙏🏾🙏🏾

R.i.p to her

You are very correct

Even mouth go stink, clothes go dey smell. Besides this, our women are also full of repugnant odour in their mouth. Its common in the ewedu tribe.