Zonefree:
I don't want to believe cultists follow dey run too. They should stand and defend their school.

That's the essence of confraternity.

Hehehehe!!!! I tire oooo

lildush:
Don't buy Samsung. I repeat. Don't buy Samsung. Buy infinix hot 40i and thank me later..

Hahaha! Infinix For where samsung dey?

Tochi3:
..her name will tell you the extent of her brain capacity..

..is her brain able to fathom that there are tenants who also possess landed properties & still choose to remain tenants.. dis one dey disguise as an intellectual Lady..

..Na dem dem

Read her post well, ode

Mcslize:
First of all, what thing that I can say that 70% of ladies lack in its entirety is wisdom and common sense. Majority lack that thing, I won't apologize for saying this because that's the bitter truth. Not so many ladies are smart. Very few are smart and thought thinking.

A wise lady shouldn't be so fixated on getting married to an already made man because they are very few. Rather a lady that truly has wisdom should focus on looking for a guy with potentials even if he is currently not doing well.

Remember, those that are made today, if they tell you stories of how they started and the numerous struggles they went through before they get to where they are today, you will feel shocked and amazed.

If I were to be a lady, as there are limited numbers of already made guys that can't go round every lady out there, I will be wise enough to look for a man who has viable potentials and hustling spirit. A man with the spirit to make it in life. A man who is smart, goals oriented and who is a die hard hustler, because, I believe such a man will surely make it in the future in no time to come. He will hustle his life into riches and wealth.

When you build with such a man through thick and thin, and you are not the type of a lady that always nag a man when things are going bad financially for him, if you're the type that encourages a man and gives a man peace of mind, if he has that hustling spirit and he makes it in life in the shortest time possible in the future, he will treat you like a Queen better than an already made man you got married to out of greed. I don't know if you understand the point I am driving at.

I am not in any way saying that ladies shouldn't marry already made men or look for one. But in a situation where you already know that rich men are very few to go round every lady out there, if you eventually come across a responsible guy with potentials who still treats you well, why not build with such a man rather than looking for a rich man that you won't find even in 100 years to come? This is why I said a handful of ladies in this generation lack the thing called wisdom.

So, in conclusion, I will truly advise ladies of this generation to stop looking for already made men that won't go round everyone of them, but instead they should make it a habit to look for men with potentials, not minding the present financial situation of such men. Look for potentials and not wealth. Cuz potentials give rise to wealth.

See beyond the present situation of a man. Instead look deeper into him and see if he has potentials. Look beyond his current struggling life and instead look deeper into his souls and see whether he has that burning desire and hustling spirit to want to always succeed; that hard working spirit. With that, trust me, such a man will surely make it big later or sooner in life.

In all, I won't loud it enough, I will advise all ladies to learn to think out of the box and stop seeing only the present situation of a man. Look to the future and search for potentials because believe me, already made men are quite few. They won't go round every of you ladies.

As you already know this simple but bitter truth, why not be wise enough to start looking for potentials in men order than looking for already made riches? I wish all ladies will read this piece of post and see the golden gem of advise in it that is filled with golden wisdom. You won't get this advise anywhere easily, trust me.

A word they said is enough for the wise.

cc:

EconomistXplain

No waste your time typing.....most naija ladies are fools cos they lack wisdom

BornToSucced:
I got married to my wife who was a POS operator last year and it was the best decision of my life.

If someone had told me a POS business can generate an income of about 700k per month, I’d say it’s impossible.

Guess what, she prayed about what business she can do after failing to secure a job post NYSC, and this POS business was revealed to her. Despite her beauty and intelligence, she was humble enough to venture into the it.

You see this life, never underrate anybody or handwork. Just hustle legally and involve God. E go be like money r1tuals.

In this current world, money no longer reside in offices, but in the streets and corners of our cities.

You have said it all in the bolded. Most of us are myopic in reasoning.
Most of our ladies are fools!!!!!!

ecolime:
I'm sure most of these universities operate from a 3 Bedroom apartment.

Room 1: Vice-chancellor
Room 2: Lecturers
Room 3: Non teaching staff

If you need MSc or PHD certificate before next weekend, dem go run am for you.

Na real cash cow, just buy a good printing machine to mill out certificates and you are good to go.

SultanOfAbia:
Person spend 19 million naira to go UK
.Just to end up sleeping on the street

Mehnnn some people dey flex shaaa
Imagine spending 19 million just to sleep on the street of UK.

Too much money

YelloweWest:
I won't call it failed but it's hard.

Especially if you are not friends.

Marry a friend you have a lot of common interests.

If you both want the same things and think alike, marriage is indeed enjoyable.

I didn't tow this path... I married very young.

My spouse and I are two good people committed to our vows but we have little or nothing in common.

Our commitment keeps us together.

Best comment in my opinion.

elder1002:
The beautiful side of marriage is the friendship, companionship that comes with it, this is by far the most beautiful aspect,
Aside this, there is nothing preety much attractive, in summaary without this its hard to love, you easily fall out of love, a living bondage. Husbands who don't just known how to stir up joy and wives who are as lazy as you can think of 😅😅... The end you end up with both partners with mutual understanding,0 love and just being tolerant of each other for the next couple of years till death do them part.

Happy in picures, happy in public.
But tolerant of each other in private.
Even VERY difficult to exhibit affections to each other in private.
The divorce rate this days are skyrocketing, then we understand that marriage is far *more deeper than sex itself*

If there is no love, true genuine love, omoh , if you like have a plantation of wealth that covers the sea, its very difficult for you to pleasure and please someone who has fallen out of love.

Truly, it deeply takes *Love* to keep a home.
Teachings on marriage this days add , no , you need this and that and those 😅😅..

The foundation for a sustainable and long lasting relationship is love, try to prioritize any other instrument and make love a second option and see how your relationship collapse bit by bit..

There is no subistute for love, its far deep that hunans can comprehend, that is why love is likened to SACRICICES.

That's why love has to stand the *test of time* before it can be translated to true love.

Most marriages break up, relationships fall out of love, no butterflies in their bellies as it was at first time 😅😅.

Husband's beating wives, wives disrespecting husbands, relationship having second thoughts about themselves after a couple of years together.

*Time, the true revealer*

*TIME THE TRUE REVEALER*

You don't have to prove anything to anybody, you don't have to force people to do certain things to showcase how much they are head over heels for you.

*ALLOW TIME DO THE PROVING*

untill love has stood the test of time, then it translates to *TRUE LOVE*

Love does not keep marriage, commitment does. Most marriages that went under, the couple loved each other at a point, and still did till it got broken.

GO0DHardDick:
Dear men,

Always remember you're not loved when you have nothing (money) to have offer

Read the post very well

outoftheworld:


Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

In otherwords, respect your sef. But what if the girl loves him too?

Vinnie2000:


Depends, OP.

Some kind of YANCH are Hard like KpoKpo Madiga while some are soft like ShopRite bread.

Na our south eastern babes dey get hard ones, but if you need soft, big and succulent ones come to south west, yoruba girls are doing well in that area.

omoredia:
Emi lo kan people too like to dey complain. Una go still catch cancer for this country. People that love what is bad want to enjoy a good life how will that happen? Make Adeboye dey follow deceive u fools with fake holy ghost congress

Hahahahaha! Baba wey don chop belleful up to 10th generation dey deceive them

Always remember this day whenever you want to cheat on your wife.

ScamHunter:


Satan specifically targets Christians with wrong marriages, not just because the Christian is careless but the church of JESUS is especially fixated on materials things and these TRUTHS are not ingrained into Christian youths. In fact, many church leaders and parents are ignorant about it. Th devil is wily, and knows that a man in a second marriage is trapped and may not have the will to divide his new home. He is also aware that the marriage between two believers forms a church in the home. This is why he uses unbelieving partners, divorces and remarriages to entangle Christians. Not just that, he uses discouragement and bad examples from fellow Christians to deceive many Christians. I encourage you my brother to seek the face of God and be strengthened to do the right thing, which is separating from adulterous marriage. I understand that many Christians in such situations resign because there are many aspects of their lives that are not right before God. However, if holiness is a believer's goal, every entanglement must be cut off. Receive grace.

Am really inspired. Read this over and over again. Very deep. I want to ask, is there any thing like a wrong marriage. Probably thinking i married a wrong person.

ogododo:


https://punchng.com/three-oyo-monarchs-die-in-auto-crash-nine-others-injured/

Thought they usually had 'protection'

misreal:
That’s because women generally judge things emotionally.
When it’s time to correct a child and be from about it,most of them will get emotional.
When it’s time to help a child make decisions,they will make emotional decisions rather than logical decisions.

God bless you. My wife, who has officially left my home, complained bitterly that i scold our son too much. No wahala. Boy is in custody, lets see as e dey go

babamoha:

Raising good children is beyond the ability of anyone but the intervention of the most high

Story

CoronaVirusPro:
No debate!

Women raise the worst kids!

Anywhere in the world, women always raise the worst kids!

Exactly

TruthsFM:
Hmm 🤔 what she said here is very deep

“Based on statistics, single mother households produce the worst children” — American woman says

American woman supports the fact that single mother households produce the worst children, quotes statistics as evidence.


The black American lady revealed this in a Podcast where she revealed that single mother parenting is a pandemic.

She compared it alongside two parent households and single father households, claiming that the single mother household produces the most delinquents.


Milano, Cinque Terre & Lago Di Como

“Based on statistics, single mother households produce the worst children” — American woman says

The American woman explains that this is prevalent in the black community and more women need to start valuing the presence of men in their children’s lives.

Some reactions to the video:

@elmannygram said: “Every child needs their father figure in their life so unless the father of the child is dead, mothers should allows kids access to their fathers. You cannot play both roles. That’s why the kids turn out worse.”

@EbisikeIj disagreed: “She is wrong to generalize this. I know some single moms that their kids turned out right”

@FOEJ_Swaggie asked: “Is she saying women are not greater leaders?🌚🤐”

@ev_reason added: “Not always. But they have the higher tendency of raising badly behaved kids. Single parents easily gets overwhelmed, this could be the cause too”

@BamieCent said: “This is true
A child needs both parents”

https://www.gistreel.com/based-on-statistics-single-mother-households-produce-the-worst-children-american-woman-says/

She is very correct

ScamHunter:


Marriage is far deeper that many of us realized. That's why many of us approached it carelessly. Divorces stem from marrying carelessly and without spiritual guidance (especially for a Christian). If you marry wrongly, your marital destiny has been destroyed unless the wrong spouse dies and you're free from them to now find the right spouse. If you plan to have a partner all the days of your life, you must marry only who God directs you to. Now to your question, the high standard of the word of God for the Chrstian dictates that they NEVER marry again if a former spose is alive. Even if that spose has remarried, they're not guided by the same law of Christ as the Christian is. The vision of the Chrsitan is to please God always and finally make it to that heavenly home. The unbeliver doesn't have that vision hence they can live in second and third marriages oblivious of the fact that they're committing adultery and on the broad road to hell. For the Christian whose partner divorced, they MUST remain unmarried as long as that partner is alive, even if they had remarried. That is God's word.

A tough one, meaning a lot of people don dey hell be that. I'm currently in this mess. Dont even know what to do

Chingyyy878:
Do y’all agree or not ?

Prove it na

ScamHunter:
Never, I repeat, never marry a divorced man or woman unless you're not a Christian. Marrying a divorced person whose former spouse still lives is adultery before God. Also, never discountenance the opinion of family who oppose a marriage. God may be speaking through them. Your sister is priming herself for future regret if she ignores your mother.

I agree totally about not marrying a divorced whose spouse is still alive, but person go wait till the ex spouse die? If the ex spouse no die or has remarried nko

EnglishUsa:
It is not easy journey more especially to the christians, women are the 95 percent course of divorce in Nigeria. Women are very stubborn people to control, where you asked them not go that is where they will go and what you asked them not to do that is exactly what they will do. Some people that are married will always burst that there wife can never sleep outside and they trust them to heaven but, I wished God will open their eyes to see what their righteous wife is doing behind their backs the will marvel. Any man that trust his wife is the most stupid person on earth... If you Quote me go to a busy hotel you may get a little knowledge of what I am saying...your wife is not messing up around is only because she is very ugly. Married woman is very easy to catch if you know the scope, they don't reject advances if you know the scope... Men are poligamous in nature but they don't pretend like women does. A woman can swear with amdionha, Bible, Ogun and Shirin that she ever have affairs with another man since you got married to her... If not for children and sexual satisfactions these people are not good for anything .

I agree with you.

Afodot0022:
its always a mixed feeling, i will say the only reason why you should go for separation or divorce should be on the ground of infidelity and domestic abuse , even on this ground, there can still be room for forgiveness and second chance given. For domestic abuse, separation is truly needed to avoid death. At the beginning of separation or divorce, you feel happy, fulfilled and the freedom you crave for madly , you have it now, but with time, you start discovery that its not really worth it and what you crave for is not enough to give you that happiness and fulfilment. Today you can be so happy that you are free and tomorrow you can wake up with severe depression blaming yourself of not giving your marriage a second chance. For the man, you will need a lady close by to be an emotional strength cos you separating from your wife will make you vulnerable emotionally and you need someone to kill that severe loneliness you feel after separation. Its really a crazy experience but i bet you, with time you going to get over those feelings and face the reality at hand. But my advice to couples out there is that no matter the issues so far its not domestic abuse, pls try to stay humble and work on your marriage to make it work. There is no perfect marriage and even the next person you will meet might even be worst that the person you left. That your spouse that you detest so much and want to run away from, some day you gonna miss him or her and wish you never went your separate ways.

Love this. Am in same situation

Eyinju112:
I’ll jejeli accept that motherfvcking Ex Abeg. Na cheat him cheat, he no kill person🤣🤣🤣🤣Loneliness no be anybody mate 😂😂😂😂

You are a good woman. God bless you dear.

The hookup ladies you met must be from the ewedu tribe?

Truths9ja:
Hmm 🤔. Na true talk ooo

“Why I Won’t Allow My Brother To Bring A Wife From Nigeria”- Woman Voices [Video]

Nigerian woman has caused a clash of opinions online after she explained why she won’t support her brother if he wants to get married to a lady based in Nigeria and take her overseas.

According to her, she doesn’t want her brother to end up in a mental institution as a result of heartbreak, as many of those women based in Nigeria and lucky to land ‘abroad husbands’ —according to the poster— are heartless.


The angry narrator
The angry lady went on to advise men to strive to sign a prenuptial agreement before they tie the knot with their prospective wives.

“Marriage is now a business”, she said.

Many Nigerians didn’t agree with the Nigerian woman, who claimed to have put herself in the shoes of a typical Nigerian man.

“Then marry your brother, matchew”, a Nigerian, Ido Ekong slammed the lady.

“Everybody have different experiences sha”, another netizen, De Bishop explained, waving away the poster’s explanation as a personal opinion —which it is.


https://sabiradio.com/why-i-wont-allow-my-brother-to-bring-a-wife-from-nigeria-woman-voices-video/

She is saying the truth.

Person wey dey BIGO dey do sex video call, what do u expect from such person?

Kobojunkie:
You love the lie? If say na you, you go turn your own life into prayer and fasting for someone who abandoned you. You lot prescribe that nonsense to women when to men you immediately demand they move on.

It deoends on who was wrong here, the lady might be the wrong party from her expression

Charly68:
Keep praying to see if God will bring back your husbdand because from the look of things you now.appreciate him after he left and felt pained because he care-less about you . The day a woman knows she got what it takes to conquer her husbdand, that will mark the end of trouble in her home . If all you believe is what a man can do ,a woman can do better then there can't be peace at the home front.
- Never say never, allow your emotional wound to be healed before contemplating any relationship. In any case,if he refuses to look for you ,try to let him know his child is missing him.. He must be there for the little baby and from there God will take total control .. When things become normal again,come back and give.us your testimony on this page . Good luck

I love your comment

Gboy5050:
You need to move on my dear sister.. The lord is ur strenght contact me on 08037782248 if u like me let's move on start new life

This is very wrong and childish!