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gbegemaster:
The level of infidelity these days is crazy!

I thought it was said that women hardly cheat on Men?

Women cheat on men more actually. There are several recent studies that proce this as fact.

When men cheat we are the disgusting creatures but when women cheat, they are the vulnerabke innocent creatures made to cheat by a man who didnt pay thm enough attention (still demonizing the men).

raymondhill:
Here are just few lines of interested overseas buyers of cashew nuts,bitter kola nad cow gallstones:

We are interested in procuring Raw Cashew Nut and importing it to India . Can you please send us your specifications & price ? Once we finalise on the Terms and Conditions , we would go down to Nigeria with our team, do the quality check , pack them and put them into shipment. My mailed ID is : my mobile no is : +91.9874613333. My name is Soumen Roy.



I would be open to receiving more detailed info about your Bitter Kola. Please supply us with bitter kola details - spec, origin, quality control assurance and trading terms Hopefully if everything lines up, we should consider a trial purchase of minimum of 100kg

Hello Sir, i am interested to buy ox/cow gallstones. Can you provide me with further details of your product? Regards. Gogita Pshavela +99557746273

we are buyer for ox/cow gallstones we need highest quality demand is 40kg per year, and will be 1000kg soon We will need some grams of samples for checking (we will pay the sampling cost). Future deliveries should be almost the same as samples Pls contact us with your price and send me email: lohardpc@gmail.com Thanks/Peng Chen



Dear Sir/Madam, I am interested in importing ox gallstones and cow gallstones for medical use. Shipping Terms : CIF Destination Port : East London and South Africa Payment Terms : T/T Looking for suppliers or exporters from : Worldwide –


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jesusbabe00:
I have been happily married for 6 years now with beautiful kids. But recently my husband started being secretive with his phone. He passworded his phone and when I asked him what he was hiding, he will not give me any tangible reason. This attitude continued for some time, so I decided to hack his phone. I downloaded an Application that enabled me have access to his WhatsApp account from my own phone. From this application, I observed that he was chatting with his ex-girlfriend who is now married too. They were expressing love for each other and how they wished they got married and all that. On this same day they were chatting, my husband was suppose to travel outside the country, so I noticed that the two of them have scheduled to meet at the airport where they planned to have sex with each other before he finally flies out. When I saw this chat, my husband was already on his way to airport, I screeshot all their chats and sent it to him, expressing my disappointment. I also sent the screeshot to the lady so that she will know I know what is happening. I also warned her to stop destroying my marriage, if not I will disgrace her. I later got in contact with the lady's husband through Facebook friend request and I started chatting with him. In the process I told him that his wife is trying to destroy my marriage. I also sent the screeshot to him. He promised me that he will make sure his wife does not destroy my marriage. Right now my husband has been calling but I have refused to pick him calls. I feel so betrayed that a man I trusted so much could do this to me. I don't want to easily forgive him and I am looking for a way to really punish him for betraying my love for him. Please help me because am so demoralised right now. Sorry for the long story.

I think you have done enough. Just take ur time, let him reassure u he wont be unfaithful to u anymore. Move on as you become assured.

HerPov:
*Sigh*

Well, thank you for your time and energy dear, much appreciated.

Its easy to walk away from drama as a guy. However if he sees a future with u (and not just what u see), he will come back, u dont even have to do much.... If not, your attitude is a good excuse to stay away.

Kolawole81:
I recently realise i may have TMAU, the worst thing that can ever happen to a man. I get ridiculed by my coworkers and I've heard insults from family members,( especially my mother) about my body odor. I've even had two coworkers spray perfume on me behind my back. My brother and sister cover there noses around me and sometimes avoid me altogether including my father. When I talk with my sister she puts medicated lip balm above her lip. When i am in tge midst of my friends every one lights a cigarette. I brush my teeth twice a day or after every meal and I shower two times a day. I practice good hygiene and I've changed my diet. But I've asked my sister and family if i smell and they say no. I've asked my ex-girlfriend and she is extremely honest with me and she said no. I've asked close friends of mine and they've said no. It seems to vary from time to time. Yet just yesterday on my way to buy fuel from the filling station : NOW LISTEN TO THIS..

He dropped the fuel pump, gave me a look of horror, what came out of his mouth was a shrieking cry of revulsion as he fled. People around the vicinity covered their noses and looked at me. All this despite the fact my car Windows were up. I hit the accerator on impulse to flee and almost rammed into a metal barrier. I ran home and began to cry., then I realised how stupid it was if me to cry, I locked all Windows and stuffed tissue paper to cover any hole, watched National Geographic all day, vowing never to leave my house ever again.Screw my job, I quit,


.....the thing is I can't smell anything bad. In fact, I smell the perfume I spray and the lotions and soaps I use. I've never had this problem before and I am very frustrated, disappointed, angry, paranoid and I can go on with a two page essay on how I feel. How am I suppose to function in the world if I MAKE PEOPLE FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE AND REPULSE? AND MOST IMPORTANTLY WHY IS THAT PEOPLE MAKE THE FACES OR COVER THEIR NOSES BUT WHEN YOU ASK THEM DO YOU SMELL THEY LIE? YOUR HURTING MY FEELINGS BY THE THINGS YOUR DOING AND NOT LYING TO MY FACE WHEN I CONFRONT YOU............ I really can't smell anything bad about myself and truthfully I am withdrawing from family and friends and on the verge of committing suicide. Why should I have to cope with this problem I have no control over and expect the world to be understanding and compassionate................

You are healed in Jesus name, Amen!

Just take care of ur hygiene. Baking soda under the armpit or wherever u deem fit works very well... Baking soda, not powder

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bonjovi12:
Got married in 2011.No children.
Doctors have diagonised medical issues with me.Wifey has got some issues too but we have had them sorted.
There are spiritual issues on wifey father's side.We have been praying.We have sowed seeds.We both love kids.We don't envy anyone but bless them when they have their kids.
Have seen almost all my friends,church members and family all have kids.Some of them got married after us but are on to their second, third issue.
Just heard that the wife of one of my guys that acted up during his marriage is preggies.Almost couple i know has kids.
Have done procedures except IVF until a couple of years back.Spent money.
We decided to use money to do other things and just trust God to come through.
I'm not a saint.I.try for God.Bless people and do service.
Prayers have revealed we would have kids.We have both had dreams about having our kids.
Today I'm just down. Depressed. Wish I had enough dough so i can risk doing enough IVF to give us our children but worried about squandering my lil savings and not get desired results.
I need help.Pastors have ripped us off.Most of them wanted or wants something in return.
Just pray God can just do it and now too.
Wifey was not handling it well before till she signed out.Now is she just trying to live her life.
Its getting to me.I am a correct Guy that people admire and some envy cos I have got some other things going on for me.
I want above every thing else to be a father.Can't stand the stigma. I need help.Is there anyone out there who can help?
Real,genuine individual prolly been in this before and knows and understands how it feels and overcame.
I don't know.Just sad but cos I have a relationship with God no matter how ffed it is sometimes cos of my sins,I am still hopeful.

Olushola Areogun. Jesus gives kids, you dont have to pay neither can you buy his blessings. You and your woman can take a day off for counselling with pastor Olushola Areogun. God still has real servants.... Im glad that you will be so fruitful and your fruits will be exceedingly wonderful and some of Gods choicest

bonjovi12:
Got married in 2011.No children.
Doctors have diagonised medical issues with me.Wifey has got some issues too but we have had them sorted.
There are spiritual issues on wifey father's side.We have been praying.We have sowed seeds.We both love kids.We don't envy anyone but bless them when they have their kids.
Have seen almost all my friends,church members and family all have kids.Some of them got married after us but are on to their second, third issue.
Just heard that the wife of one of my guys that acted up during his marriage is preggies.Almost couple i know has kids.
Have done procedures except IVF until a couple of years back.Spent money.
We decided to use money to do other things and just trust God to come through.
I'm not a saint.I.try for God.Bless people and do service.
Prayers have revealed we would have kids.We have both had dreams about having our kids.
Today I'm just down. Depressed. Wish I had enough dough so i can risk doing enough IVF to give us our children but worried about squandering my lil savings and not get desired results.
I need help.Pastors have ripped us off.Most of them wanted or wants something in return.
Just pray God can just do it and now too.
Wifey was not handling it well before till she signed out.Now is she just trying to live her life.
Its getting to me.I am a correct Guy that people admire and some envy cos I have got some other things going on for me.
I want above every thing else to be a father.Can't stand the stigma. I need help.Is there anyone out there who can help?
Real,genuine individual prolly been in this before and knows and understands how it feels and overcame.
I don't know.Just sad but cos I have a relationship with God no matter how ffed it is sometimes cos of my sins,I am still hopeful.

Olushola Areogun.

These might be some dark lessons you need to learn in the area of Love:

- The person who cares less has the most power in a relationship.

- No one will ever be able to make you feel loved unless you love yourself.

- You can't change others.

- No matter how hot you find someone, you'll get used to their appearance faster than you like.

- The cute little quirks of today can be the soul-crushing flaws of tomorrow.

- We will all eventually become old and unattractive in the eyes of society.

- Often, the less you care about a particular woman, the easier it is to end up with her.

- Both sexes are easy to manipulate with the same principles that marketers use to sell us crap – scarcity, commitment, reciprocity, authority,
social proof, and liking.

- Men will never know how it feels to be a woman and vice versa.

- You can love your partner till death and still want to sleep with others.

- You can't always get what (who) you want.

- Love, dating, and relationship can't be "figured out" logically. They require empathy, vulnerability, and honesty.

- Emotions change all the time. It's possible to think you love someone with all your heart, but then one day you sober up and find out you
truly don't.
- When in love, everyone becomes an idiot.

- "Show me a beautiful woman, and I’ll show you a man who’s tired of sleeping with her."

- The higher you set the expectations from the beginning, the harder it will be to maintain the relationship. E.g., Send your girlfriend flowers
every day and it will be cute for the first three days, cheesy after that, then awkward, and finally unbearable.

Cortesy: Julian Reisinger (Quora)

Rocknation , farano

So if i say chukwu, thats the god?

worriedmind:
Hi guys. They say a problem shared is a problem half solved. I noticed that I've developed body odour ‎for about 2 years now. I'm 35 years and I first noticed it in 2014 about when I just got a new job. I've tried all sorts of deodorants and body sprays and nothing works. Body sprays actually makes it worse for me. I've tried driclor and maximum strength anti perspirants but to no avail. I've tried the baking soda treatment, lime and lemon but still to no avail. I make it a point of duty to shave every night so it's not like I keep hairs. I also shower atleast twice everyday. It's not like i get too sweaty,infact I don't perspire as much as to wet clothes in the pits area yet the slightest hint of sweat that comes on mixes with whatever roll on I have on and then creates a bad smell even when I'm dry. I get a lot of mean looks and turned heads everyday and it's actually starting to affect me mentally as I dream of people rubbing their noses and making faces at me in my sleep. Funny how people judge you immediately like you don't groom yourself properly. My life is on a stand still right now and I get panic attacks from the thought of going out because of the treatment and funny looks I get from people. I've been masturbating for about 7 years now, could this be the cause? Is there any link between masturbation and body odour? Could it be ulcer? I'm inclined to think it's from from the inside because I've tried all measures of outter cleanliness. Please has anyone out there ever encountered this social burden and how did u deal with it? Please help a dying soul. 


Lalasticlala kindly move this to front page so I can get more help. Thanks alot‎
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Have your bath, rub baking soda under ur armpit.

Incognito101:
My name is Tope. I am 26 and have had problems with hemorrhoids for years. It was getting to where I was spending several hours indoor due to the pains and discomfort. I don't socialize, don't go out, always behind closed doors.

I got referred to a surgeon recently and he said I had bad case and set me up for surgery. They decided to do a colenistimy (colon probe. where I guess they pump you full of air and put a tube all the way up) and I was told afterwards that I had some of the largest they had seen.

I will be going back for the main surgery in few days and I am scared to death the risk and complications that might follows.

Any advice, suggestions, what to do and what not to do from you all will be well appreciated. Thanks.

You will be fine and you will live in Jesus name. Just get on with the surgery and look at the other end of the surgery. its a an opportunity for a new lease on life, be thankful to God that they can do it, some people have issues the doctor just says sorry, Go to india. Dont worry bro, God will help you.

Dont self medicate and stop taking these herbs that could cause something untreatable on the long run yet financially draining.....you are honestly in my prayers..

Truelies2017:
You all have spoken well. And yes the story isn't complete. But I didn't bother breaking it down cause I feel there is still no reason whatsoever to annoy you to the point of calling me a vagabond. It killed the love I have for him instantly at that moment. The fact an a wife makes my husband talk to me anyhow. If I made a mistake by calling him back a vagabond (I wouldn't have being able to call him that cause that word is just too heavy) but if I did. He would have called me a disrespectful wife. He is the kind of man who believes you must hold him in high esteem and with all manly respect, don't talk while am talking kind of man, the kind of man who wants you to give him a fatherly kind of respect. The kind of man who wouldnt talk to you for more than a day if you wake up in the morning forgetting to say goodmorning, the kind of man who doesn't believe a woman deserve to be respected, (hubby, if you see this correct me if am wrong) But how do you treat me?. Do i I have issues with his mum. Well that's personal, and i dont but he thinks i do. But was it because I refused to go check out the land with them he called me a vagabond? NO. He called me that because I didn't tell him his mum said she would be going to check out the land with us. I thought it was a decision they both made. So I decided I wasn't gonna interfere, and since it's not.like I have any money of my own yet to acquire a land, let him and his mum who really needs it more than I do go together. However I don't want to be there while she is making land decisions for her other kids. so his annoyance was why did i conclude that he asked his mum to go and check out the land with us and not discuss it with him first. That was what led to the name calling, but shpuld it warrant vagabond, calling me a FOOL almost 10times and topped it with vagabond. I can't deal. Too much for me. Dear hubby, if it happens you eventually find this post. I am not happy I was called that. That am smiling with you is because if i don't let go of grudge it's me that will still suffer but every time I i remember being called a vagabond. All I feel like doing is keeping to myself and not talking to you again you didn't kill my self esteem in anyway cause no man has the right to do that. But you have given me something to live with for a longgg time. No one has ever ever called me the kind of names you use on me many times you are angry not even my strict dad, and my keeping quiet is just because i don want you to call me a disrespectful wife again. Piece of my mind. A man, father and husband should live the life and say the kind of words you would want to hear your daughter's husband's say in future. I respect you and will always do but if I don't let you know how i feel now you will keep calling me names and I don't want. Let's bless each other more while angry than cause. Cause with time it will unconciously be depicted in our ways and we won't remember it was our mouth that caused it.

Im believe u saw this coming even while u dated, the only solution now is to be patient and pray about it, stop always trying to correct him, he isnt a baby and ur corrections would only bruise his ego (yeah his nature), discuss not correct (cos in most cases a womams correction could be nagging), discuss with him, after a few more times, he will learn to caution himself when angry with u..

Antell95:
CGPA, can't withdraw, I Cant See the future but this will be d toughest task of my life

Why not just study harder. And really know ur course, learn programming extremely well etc. You might have to work twice as hard but thats d point. Studying to get a good cgpa doesnt guarantee a bright future. A 4.5 in psychology or sociology is almost as useless in most career paths anyway. Computer has prospects just develop urself.

The one who stabbed the victim got 14 years, the one who ran with the phone got life.... Perplexing.

They stood and took pictures....

He was in pain, his breath left him, his soul left him.... And still

They stood and took pictures.