SorftWerk:
hmmm...seem you've always taken him for granted, then I'd suggest you meet his sister whom you're very close to, she'd help you talk to him and sort things out.

HerPov:


Amen. I wish you the same.

HerPov:


How many times can one apologise and be taken seriously? I think I lost this one, I'll just have to use this as future reference.

bibijay123:


Awww all the best sweetie

HerPov:


Honestly, there is nothing I can do but let fate take it's cause. I wish him love and happiness.

HerPov:


Honestly, there is nothing I can do but let fate take it's cause. I wish him love and happiness.

Raine80:
What man needs that level of instability? I hope
He does not take you back because you have developed an expectation that he will always take you back. You need to focus on having emotional maturity before embarking on relationships. The fact that you have such insecurities does not help because you will always find fault where none exist.For you to not like yourself ( low self esteem ) what happened? Why do you transfer your anxieties on to him? You know he had nothing to do with the way you feel about yourself . Or does he?

HerPov:
Baby! I never thought I would have you and now you're gone. Everything on this thread is everything you said to me. To read other people say the exact same thing, has humbled me. I don't even want you to get back with me because I don't deserve you but I miss our friendship, and I would take friendship over nothing. I wish you wealth, health, and happiness and undying love.

Davidgrey:
Same to you. #Subtle Manipulation

Draei:

Davidgrey:
Same to you. #Subtle Manipulation

ikp120:
OP wehdone o. I just dey look as people dey take you serious.

A simple background check on your account would have revealed a lot about you to all these folks taking you serious.

Wehdone o!

HerPov:
I really really really really really really need advice

CHESTER48:

I'm very sorry but you have to try to get over your anger
My current baby,now breaks up with me anytime I get her mad.s is like yoh.sh has anger issue.even after I broke her virginity sh still breaks up.untill I noticed she says that anytime she is angry to get me angry I remove my mind from it.anyti she says I'm no mor your girlfriend, I will just leave her or end the chat I it over the phone
When she gets herself she comes bk to beg.but I have seen it as nothing to worry about cause I love her.now I do know about your bf,if he loves u,he would have noticed u do that to get bk at him.it seem he is not your type.im in shoes too.my baby broke up with me 4 times in a month..though sh just say it,but don mean it

CHESTER48:

I'm very sorry but you have to try to get over your anger
My current baby,now breaks up with me anytime I get her mad.s is like yoh.sh has anger issue.even after I broke her virginity sh still breaks up.untill I noticed she says that anytime she is angry to get me angry I remove my mind from it.anyti she says I'm no mor your girlfriend, I will just leave her or end the chat I it over the phone
When she gets herself she comes bk to beg.but I have seen it as nothing to worry about cause I love her.now I do know about your bf,if he loves u,he would have noticed u do that to get bk at him.it seem he is not your type.im in shoes too.my baby broke up with me 4 times in a month..though sh just say it,but don mean it

HerPov:


Yeah, I have a lot of work to do. I do love him, it's just my impulsive behaviour that's causing the problem. People argue and don't talk even but they don't end the relationship (these are his words) I guess I wanted him to be like you and know that I love him and not to take my words seriously but that's not how it always works.

MissCuppy:
So breaking someone's virginity means that she will not leave you.

CHESTER48:


Nope.i only meant in this scenario, I thought breaking her virginity will make her trust m more.and at least know If she break up for nothing she Is loosing that stuff se kept for 21years for nothing.ho u grab?

HerPov:


*Sigh*

Well, thank you for your time and energy dear, much appreciated.

yomi007k:



Have u tried treating typhoid?

SorftWerk:
lol...i want her bro... It's either we put leg for one trouser or u allow me take her home... Raine80 pls choose oo

uche92:
Lol all of you guys getting deceived by the op. Probably a dude writing as a woman. Herpov "her point of view" also which main woman dey admit their fault?

Raine80:

Is he causing trouble?

MissCuppy:
That was the greatest mistake she made.

CHESTER48:
I beg your pardon!!!

MissCuppy:
Yes, losing her virginity to someone like you .

HerPov:
I don't know what's wrong with me, everytime I feel insecure in the relationship or he does something to piss me off, I end the relationship. At that moment I'm overwhelmed with anger and he has a way of blanking me when we argue and because I can't release the anger, I quit the relationship.
I really do love him. He is my dream man, I approached him and introduced myself and we just fit. Except my "It's over" drama every month.
I finish with him every month (when I come on my period, I can't control my emotions). He said he can't take me seriously and if I broke up with him again he won't take me back and I broke up with him last week for the 5th time

What's wrong with me? Do other women feel like this? Men what would you do in his situation?