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russello: Some ppl will still wanna tell me there's natting to learn from BBA
Well, maybe u shud go and ask how many ladies have learnt alot from Selly's mistake, or how many guys have learnt from Hakeem's attitude on how not to handle a relationship.

You just go ahead and pick anybody in BBA house (e.g. Oneal, Melvin, Beverly, Elikem, Bolt, Bimp etc) and see if there's not anything to learn from any of this HMs. Maybe an attitude u need to adjust, adapt, or put away.

One has alot to learn watching BBA from a SOCIOLOGICAL and PSYCHOLOGICAL angle.

Days why I watch the show...I learn a lot

[quote author=GARRI~ WARLORD]Well,i dont blame melvin cos dillish has pride and he also has his own pride and probably wanted to study her and take things slow so as no to act too desperate..
Dillish purposely led him on and backed off just to feel in control cos she was the same person yesterday who said "If you like a girl,dont give up on her even if she has a boyfriend". What does she mean by that statement...
She gave him all the green light in the world he needed and backed off when he tried to be real... Melvin doesnt have any fault in it..
Love you melvin ##no homo#.. It takes only a man to open up just like you did after all the mind games..[/quote]Yeah but as a guy u must 4get abt her ego...let her no ur desire first and then leave the rest 2 her. If she likes u back, she will let u no

[quote author=GARRI~ WARLORD]The problem i have with dillish is that despite the fact Melvin eventually opened up after all this while,she still refused to admit that she also had some feeling for him.. Why didnt she say "I like you also,but i have a boyfriend".. Melvin would have understood,but instead she lied that she only saw him as a brother.. No be only brother,na sister..
I love melvin (no homo) but i actually now love him the more cos he let his pride down and confronted his fears.. Why would i laugh at melvin when i know that she also likes him but is too proud to admit it..
Melvin till day 91.. He who laughs last,laughs the best..[/quote]Melvin didn't play his cards well. That's all..he had Dellish all this while! he should have connected with her romantically...he shouldn't have been saying I like I like..he should hve been kissing her when it was obvious delish liked him...luv na cause n effect

spade: I think she genuinely was attracted to Melvin but was atleast smart enough to weigh things out and agree her boyfriend is the reason she's what she is today.
She wouldn't want to risk that for some quick pleasure.

But wasn't she the same girl was said even if a girl has a boyfriend outside the hse, she can still be taken?
I don't agree with u

wild child: what if you're feeling her but she aint feeling you?

U make sure she has the interest b4 u go ahead...if she isn't feeling u, u create that feeling

spade: By the way, I don't understand guys who even choose to ASK a girl out.

That shiitt reeks of "ancientness"

if you're feeling her and you know she's feeling you, steal a kiss as a badt guy, one time!

Correct guy...babes r like cause n effect

wild child: its either O'neal and Feza just stopped kissing or they wanted to but didnt cos the way i saw them when i changed the channel to RH ehn

They were kissing

dominique: Pinky, are you saying Melvin should have kept mum about his feelings for Dilish? The same person we've been complaining has been holding back is now opening up and you're still dissing him. Which kain life be this sef? Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Na wa o

It wasn't necessary after Delish Friendzoned him..hehehehehe

fork adict: Hey guy, if na play you dey play, stop am. And if you serious, still stop am. I dey find Selly go ghana after Big Bro. So abeg swerve!

No be play I dey play...I go find am before u, no be Ghana I dey?

[quote author=GARRI~ WARLORD]You see,dillish will always try to play smart.. She has that pride thing and pretends just like melvin but melvin has started opening up but dillish will hardly open up..
She will try to make him more jealous now.. This thing just got complicated.. He shouldnt have opened up, not to a girl like dillish... Even if she has feeling for him she will hardly say it out..
This is sh**it mehn but KUDOS TO MELVIN FOR OPENING UP... Melvin till day 91..[/quote]She probably said that cos Melvin didn't express his desire 2 be with her...Melvin didn't start well, he should have expressed his desire to be with her n connected with her romantically in the early stages

wild child: Selly just told Dillish she's on the chopping board....Nando needs to be punished for revealing that to her

At this point I think the gals r playing the guys and the guys r also playing the gals

wild child: OMG...Melvin just told Dillish he likes her and she was like "oh so you like me?" lool

Dillish now asked about Maria,Melvin then told her he likes Maria too but its was she (Dillish) that he liked first before he started noticing Maria likes him too

Don't u think this I like u I like is not necessary, they always say that..aabbbba

fork adict: *** My Take on the Dellish-Melvin-Mariah love triangle***

Let me start by stating that even tho there are more than 5 ladies involved in Melvin's romantic life, only two are worthy of mention and they are the ones that should be taken seriously. They are Dellish and Mariah.

Sometimes in life, no matter how nice one may be he needs to put his foot down on certain issues otherwise fate may throw in his face what he doesn't really want. I believe that in the depth of his heart, Melvin wants Dellish. But the circumstances or should I say obstacles surrounding their getting to be together are huge and are proving on the surface to be insurmountable. Her boyfriend outside the house, her pride, his pride, Mariah Coming into the pix, his somewhat rigid stance agains relationships in the house and fear of rejection.

Melvin likes Dellish no doubt but due to reasons best known to him and which may not be unconnected with the list above refused to do nothing about it and then came Mariah who is a close friend of Dellish outside the house and who happend to be a go getter and quite an aggressive one at that. She persistently threw herself at Melvin both subtly and forcefully. Her arrival in the house naturally put Melvin in a fix cos of the Mr. Nice guy persona he has until now successfully sold to both the housemates and the viewers. The Mr nice guy in him could not let him tell Mariah off and even if he was bold enough to do that, the same Mr nice guy in him will not let him move on to Dellish who's already surrounded by a myriad of issues. Trust me guys, all he did while Mariah was in DH was just to tolerate her cos he didn't have the guts to reject her before africa. Due to Mariahs persistent 'harrassment' she began to grow on him and hence 'the kiss' that was reported a while ago happened. I believe that if Melvin had been into Mariah from the word go, do you guys think it would take all the pressure from the housemates for him to summon courage to kiss her? Given all the green light that she has been showing him since she set foot in DH? And I'm very sure maguy isn't color blind.

So guys if Melvin had a choice, he would have picked Dellish without A second thot.

Melvin's is choked...he started as Mr. Cool guy and now he cannot free himself, he ..he should have freed himself rite 4rm the start. He shouldn't' have said he didn't' want any relationship in the house...he shouldn't have even discussed relationships with her, he should have just gone with the vibe and that vibe will flourish like a fountain
Am sorry guys

[quote author=god_of_music]Are you not a Nigerian??[/quote]No..am Ghanaian

StateOfMind: For some reasons, I think the same too. I have a feeling his exit from the house would be a disqualification . And even if he doesn't get disqualified, He has already lost majority of the ladies' votes, and even men for the crap he spewed tonight. Taking the ladies out? Voting them out? Shame on him! Highly irresponsible, classless and shallow being.

He is a guy who like 2 impress whilst he shuts his feelings*sign of immaturity*...he is fool...selly maybe flirting all around, but I will like to date her if I h've the chance
Look at how sulu luvs this girl

Drahmah: Its gonna b thunder and natasha saying bye byr 2mr

Who is thunder?

otumfour: Bev shaking her arrz on bimp but bimp spying on Selly's arrz


Honestly, Bimp is not into Bev.....

I feel 4 Hakeem...he doesn't even know what 2 do when he isaround Cleo

[quote author=GARRI~ WARLORD]It was feza who said so..[/quote]kk...she actually meant Angelo now looks like a decent human

I like this forum

I now know Nigerians r funny....u guys r interesting

I think O'Neal is very wicked guy...telling the world Bassey is gay

StateOfMind: Oneal the philosopher..he sees everything,knows everything, knows the appropriate quote for every situation, sees into the future.. ...niggah please!!

Hehehehehehhehe

The camera man is a big fool...am even tired of watching the show

Heeeerrrrr...sum 1 just said Angelo actually looks like a decent human being...it was like Maria''s voice

ItsModella: but they sha kissed? that's a starting step jor.

This flame will take forever to light ooooo....but keep hoping

I hear pple always saying Delish is pretty, I now know...damn, she look like one of those ancient Egyptian queens
She is really beeeeeaaaarrrrrrriiiiiiiiifffffffffuuuuuuullllll

I like Bolt's Alpha swag

Charlie, Angelo is really hot guy

Ruby house mates r very creative, just check out their dresscode...specially the guys
WOW...I luv ruby hse

Whoever said Beverly has sex appeal...I concur
Dat red outfit fits her

[quote author=GARRI~ WARLORD]I can see that dillish and melvin both share this thing in common; both of them are careful with words and dont want to give out too much.. Sometimes,they get too self conscious..[/quote]Dats good quality, don't u no?