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[color=#990000][/color]nothing wrong wit dis guyz statement,d most importnt tin is 4him to deliver the rit person 2us,no b 2sell us giv goat lik obasanjo again!

Does this slowpoke ever think before he talks? First he said in the 70s poor men should not use telephones; now hez blabbing bunkum about,    fukk$$in idiot!!!!

kilakhan:
@Poster
guy the soap for your house go quick finish ooo,

from xperience abi??

u are!

kilakhan:
go f*&k her sister, that should burn her up real bad,

thumbs up to dat! or better still her best friend

Mr Poster, first u nid to kno da Women like to be cherished, respected, loved, and most of all, showered with attention. So that is what we should give women: attention. The problem with most men is they think that in order to make sure their catch doesn’t get away, they must constantly give women attention. Wrong! The reason that most women get bored in a relationship, or turned off by a new acquaintance, is that they get too much attention at once. Have you ever heard of the phrase "I need some breathing space please!"? Well, this phrase exists for a reason, yet most men ignore it, and continue giving their women their undeniable attention. Yes, because the whole secret is to know when to give attention and when not to. I’l recommend a three-step method for you; I hope no chick sees my secret, bu I’l help u nonetheless.

Stage One: Bait Her
For a woman to know that you are interested, she must be aware of it. If she is not, then absolutely nothing will happen. You therefore have to take a risk. This is where the chase begins. Pick the girl u’r interested in and concentrate on her. If you start looking around too much, you will give her the impression that you are looking for anyone to sleep with. begin by looking for body language signs, such as eye contact, a smile, hair touching, etc. If you get these signs from her, you must move quickly. Most men just wait around eyeballing the lady the whole time. By the time they get the nerves to go talk to her, either someone else moved in, or she’ll think you are some perverted stalker. Even if u dnt get any sign, still move in and initiate a conversation.

Stage Two: Spoil Her With Attention
Okay, now you made your move. You initiated the conversation, I sure hope u kno how to initiate a conversation. You do this by picking something about her to comment on positively; her hair, height, unique dress code, her assesories, hand bag etc. Now how do you make sure you keep the conversation going, and ensure she remains interested? Spoil her with attention by asking her all types of questions regarding her life. No sex-related questions please. Instead, talk about her likes (music, food, drinks, restaurants), her education, movies, even the current awkward situation. The important thing is to not mention anything (no matter how tempting) about yourself, unless of course she asks you to. If she does, (this usually means she’s interested) please remember to be brief and move the topic back to focus to her.
Offer to buy her a drink only once the conversation has gone on well for an extended period of time (at least ten minutes). Once the conversation deepens, it is okay to mention that you’d like to keep in contact with her, and ask for a phone number. The first phone call should be at least two days after the encounter. The conversation should end with you inviting her out.
On the first date, don’t initiate a conversation about sexual topics, unless of course she does. The first date is a time to explore and find out a little more about each other. Do everything for her, but you don’t necessarily have to agree with everything that she has to say. When she disagrees with your stance, accept it, and don’t offer excuses either. Excuses make you look weak.

Stage Three: The Earthquake
Now that the little "princess" is comfortable, it’s time to make the ground shake under her feet. The fact that we want to be accepted, liked, and needed is human nature. Once this need is fulfilled, we turn our attention towards stabilizing it. It is time to take away all that attention from the little sweet princess. How? Simple, ask her to call you. When she does, speak to her and sound really interested, and have a longer conversation. Make her feel that you really like talking to her. End the conversation by politely letting her know that you have things to do, but let her know that you enjoyed talking to her and that you’ll call her back. Don’t tell her when you’ll call her back. Let her wait for a while (around four to five days). She will wonder why you haven’t called back, and eventually call you.
Now the ball is in your court. The secret to making this method work is that you confuse her. First you make her think that you are really interested in her. Second, you make her feel as if you are no longer interested. What will eventually happen is that her need to be accepted will grow and she will focus her attention on you, to make sure you like her. Then her mind will wander, and she will think about why she is spending so much time thinking about you. Her subconscious mind will then reason that it must be because she cares about you.

It is a shame that people have to resort to such devious methods, but your alternative is to be a nice guy. We all know what happens to nice guys, right? They finish last. Why? Because the women they are with get bored and eventually leave. Guy, im tired of typing tk and goodluck

seyibrown:
Explain how you feel to your wife. Help her understand that you need to get intimate more often. Find ways to spice things up. Do things you did with her when you both were still very on fire for each other!

this dude dont kno a tin about romance. guy, women are responsive to emotional feelings and not reason or rationality. didnt u see, MR POSTER has been talKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKing,

190.:
MUST U EXPOSE ME IN PUBLIC!!

RUBBISH

guy, Don’t be precipitous in assuming the worst. The phrase "I need some space" or any other mannerism that fits might simply mean that you are too available, and need to present a challenge again. Consequently, the only way that you will ascertain whether the relationship is over is by giving her exactly what she wants -- SPACE.

However, make sure the "space" you give her is on your terms, not hers.

If your availability is the issue, don’t be too quick to respond when she is ready for you. Alternatively, if your relationship is over, she may very well ask you to come back if she finds out that you are dating someone else -- particularly if you begin dating someone else before she finds a replacement for you. try completely ignoring her, seek some where for solace, it alwaz works like magic.

Dondav:
On a females' body?, *thinking*., The soft skin i guess.

a gyz body not a femalez,, love-vendor!

whn i waz a boy my dada used to say "variety is the spice of life" yo! ladies i mean no offence