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Politics / Re: Nigerian Leaders Most Corrupt In The World -jega by twindude: 1:33pm On Sep 25, 2010 |
[color=#990000][/color]nothing wrong wit dis guyz statement,d most importnt tin is 4him to deliver the rit person 2us,no b 2sell us giv goat lik obasanjo again! |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant For Another Man by twindude: 7:50pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
@poster Guy, u don fu$K Up!! y u dey paste anoda man work? idiot! mak una dey continue enh, dey waste ur time,,,,, |
Family / Re: Will Contract Marriage Work In Nigeria? by twindude: 4:22pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
example; peter of P square and omolola |
Romance / Re: Do You Consider Kissing Someone Else As Cheating? by twindude: 11:41pm On Aug 09, 2010 |
it depends on if its the spanish,french or english kind of kiss. if its the french type,a deep kiss then id say its cheating cuz whn a gal agrees to go deep in u(mouth) shez defintely goin to give it all up (y'al kno what i mean), |
Politics / Re: 2011: Nothing Can Stop My Presidential Ambition –ibb ! by twindude: 10:50pm On Aug 09, 2010 |
i no dey blame these casualties of poverty, they kno the truth, bu then me2 i for like try chop dis man money no matter how small,abi? how una c am?? |
Family / Re: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by twindude: 3:27pm On Aug 08, 2010 |
Family / Re: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by twindude: 3:00pm On Aug 08, 2010 |
all this hating and blabbing is uncalled for. lets discuss issues without getting in each other's hair. like i said; the whole thing boils down to respect from both parties be it in a relationship or marriage or else. the ability to listen, ask for suggestions and take her opinions seriously would be a great asset with nigerian men, instead of being a control freak, feeling deprived or egoccentric when she gives suggestions. u laugh 2geda, play2geda and even at times make her feel totaly in control, women love the feeling. When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of options they’ve been presented with. This is called option limitation. now, i understand some chicks might have a problem with authority; obviously thinking their about rights, equality bla, bla, bla bu if u truely luv some1 u would want to make each other happy no matter what. u win some and lose some without any feeling of deprivation. thaz a happy and fufilled life |
Family / Re: Is The Fight For Equality Ruining Marriages by twindude: 7:55pm On Aug 07, 2010 |
i'd say the whole thing boils down to respect from both parties be it in a relationship or marriage or else. the ability to listen, ask for suggestions and take her opinions seriously would be a great asset with nigerian men, instead of being a control freak, feeling deprived or egoccentric when she gives suggestions. u laugh 2geda, play2geda and even at times make her feel totaly in control, women love the feeling. When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of options they’ve been presented with. This is called option limitation. now, i understand some chicks might have a problem with authority; obviously thinking their about rights, equality bla, bla, bla bu if u truely luv some1 u would want to make each other happy no matter what. u win some and lose some without any feeling of deprivation. thaz a happy and fufilled life |
Romance / Re: What Should Be Done To Wife Beaters? by twindude: 7:10pm On Aug 07, 2010 |
harakiri:my friend, xcept u started dating today which i doubt u did, u & i kno da nothing absolutely nothing justifies hitting a woman, forget all da long talk. we'v seen it all |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Student murdered In Kansas City Missouri by twindude: 6:53pm On Aug 07, 2010 |
RIP bro. for those suggesting that the african community is targeted; ur defintely blowing the issue out of proportion, Britain yes! maybe i would concede that idea bu U.S defintely no. i kno forsure that U.S harbours high criminal rate and less stringent measures for arms control in comparison with Britain bu i wouldnt subcribe to lebelling the african community a potential target. God Bless America. @christ4mi; ur defintely a slowpoke and a decadent slowpoke to post shit like dat, even if it were ur enemy. idiot! |
NYSC / Re: Mark Seeks Extension Of Youth Service To Two Years by twindude: 9:13pm On Aug 06, 2010 |
Does this slowpoke ever think before he talks? First he said in the 70s poor men should not use telephones; now hez blabbing bunkum about, fukk$$in idiot!!!! |
Health / Re: More Women Becoming Virgins Again With Hymen Replacement Operations by twindude: 8:54pm On Aug 06, 2010 |
y me:mi broda na true oh!, if no b panadol, e no fit b am. d toto no fit sweet like d original one bu if u no kno, u no fit kno. |
Romance / Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by twindude: 11:23pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
if this happens, i'd say im imcompetent. so should evry1 else out there male or female although i admit the fact that some pple could be irresponsible. bu then, better a male than a female. trust mi, it can nevr happen to mi though, nt wit my expertise in beansing. |
Romance / Re: Am I That Dumb? by twindude: 11:12pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
kilakhan:from xperience abi?? |
Romance / Re: Am I That Dumb? by twindude: 11:08pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
u are! |
Romance / Re: Why Are Guyz Scared Of Asking Cute Gurlz Out ? by twindude: 10:51pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
mitchyy:what dat "she" is sayin is da naija guyzs are timid! well, sorry for her cuz she doesnt kno the half of wht an average naija guy is about. |
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A female Soldier? by twindude: 10:26pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
officer, soldier, whatever!! as long as she's beautiful, bobilicious and can go more than 4 rounds in bed. yep! i'l definitely jump in, |
Romance / Re: What If? by twindude: 8:56pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
kilakhan:thumbs up to dat! or better still her best friend |
Romance / Re: How Do I Become Bold 2 Ask A Girl 4 Friendship by twindude: 8:31pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
Mr Poster, first u nid to kno da Women like to be cherished, respected, loved, and most of all, showered with attention. So that is what we should give women: attention. The problem with most men is they think that in order to make sure their catch doesn’t get away, they must constantly give women attention. Wrong! The reason that most women get bored in a relationship, or turned off by a new acquaintance, is that they get too much attention at once. Have you ever heard of the phrase "I need some breathing space please!"? Well, this phrase exists for a reason, yet most men ignore it, and continue giving their women their undeniable attention. Yes, because the whole secret is to know when to give attention and when not to. I’l recommend a three-step method for you; I hope no chick sees my secret, bu I’l help u nonetheless. Stage One: Bait Her For a woman to know that you are interested, she must be aware of it. If she is not, then absolutely nothing will happen. You therefore have to take a risk. This is where the chase begins. Pick the girl u’r interested in and concentrate on her. If you start looking around too much, you will give her the impression that you are looking for anyone to sleep with. begin by looking for body language signs, such as eye contact, a smile, hair touching, etc. If you get these signs from her, you must move quickly. Most men just wait around eyeballing the lady the whole time. By the time they get the nerves to go talk to her, either someone else moved in, or she’ll think you are some perverted stalker. Even if u dnt get any sign, still move in and initiate a conversation. Stage Two: Spoil Her With Attention Okay, now you made your move. You initiated the conversation, I sure hope u kno how to initiate a conversation. You do this by picking something about her to comment on positively; her hair, height, unique dress code, her assesories, hand bag etc. Now how do you make sure you keep the conversation going, and ensure she remains interested? Spoil her with attention by asking her all types of questions regarding her life. No sex-related questions please. Instead, talk about her likes (music, food, drinks, restaurants), her education, movies, even the current awkward situation. The important thing is to not mention anything (no matter how tempting) about yourself, unless of course she asks you to. If she does, (this usually means she’s interested) please remember to be brief and move the topic back to focus to her. Offer to buy her a drink only once the conversation has gone on well for an extended period of time (at least ten minutes). Once the conversation deepens, it is okay to mention that you’d like to keep in contact with her, and ask for a phone number. The first phone call should be at least two days after the encounter. The conversation should end with you inviting her out. On the first date, don’t initiate a conversation about sexual topics, unless of course she does. The first date is a time to explore and find out a little more about each other. Do everything for her, but you don’t necessarily have to agree with everything that she has to say. When she disagrees with your stance, accept it, and don’t offer excuses either. Excuses make you look weak. Stage Three: The Earthquake Now that the little "princess" is comfortable, it’s time to make the ground shake under her feet. The fact that we want to be accepted, liked, and needed is human nature. Once this need is fulfilled, we turn our attention towards stabilizing it. It is time to take away all that attention from the little sweet princess. How? Simple, ask her to call you. When she does, speak to her and sound really interested, and have a longer conversation. Make her feel that you really like talking to her. End the conversation by politely letting her know that you have things to do, but let her know that you enjoyed talking to her and that you’ll call her back. Don’t tell her when you’ll call her back. Let her wait for a while (around four to five days). She will wonder why you haven’t called back, and eventually call you. Now the ball is in your court. The secret to making this method work is that you confuse her. First you make her think that you are really interested in her. Second, you make her feel as if you are no longer interested. What will eventually happen is that her need to be accepted will grow and she will focus her attention on you, to make sure you like her. Then her mind will wander, and she will think about why she is spending so much time thinking about you. Her subconscious mind will then reason that it must be because she cares about you. It is a shame that people have to resort to such devious methods, but your alternative is to be a nice guy. We all know what happens to nice guys, right? They finish last. Why? Because the women they are with get bored and eventually leave. Guy, im tired of typing tk and goodluck 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Leave Me, I Am Not In The Mood ! by twindude: 7:57pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
seyibrown:this dude dont kno a tin about romance. guy, women are responsive to emotional feelings and not reason or rationality. didnt u see, MR POSTER has been talKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKing, |
Romance / Re: Leave Me, I Am Not In The Mood ! by twindude: 6:31pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
Guy, I’m not advocating cheating on anyone, or avoiding commitment, or any of the other possible nasty things you could extrapolate from that phrase. I’m merely saying, you need to keep your options open. Look, attracting women is a SKILL, and like any skill you need to PRACTICE A LOT before you can get good. Even if, after all I’ve just said, you think you’d feel more comfortable with your wife, YOU CANNOT ACT LIKE SHE IS THE ONLY ONE. That’s I’m-a-desperate-loser-who-needs-you-to-save-me-and-make-me-feel-good territory. That’s about as UNATTRACTIVE as it comes with Nigerian women. Not to mention humans, in general, most want what they can’t have. There’s a reason people play hard-to-get. Because IT WORKS. That’s also why most men face the same problem – wanting the women they can’t have, and yet being liked by those they don’t find attractive. Use those logic lessons. It’s not just a giant coincidence that EVERYONE faces. No one likes a desperate anything, and when you focus only on ur wife, you tend to make your feelings for sex exceptionally clear. And it feels desperate. What I need to LET her know is that I DON’T NEED HER. My life can be perfectly fine without her – I’m going to have a good time no matter what, because I’m a fun interesting guy. If it’s with her, great, and if it’s not, that’s fine too. I find most women married or not get MORE attracted to men they know are dating other women simultaneously.I know. Humans are strange. Bu It also activates that primordial COMPETITIVE gene all people have. One other bonus I’ve discovered is they tend to RESPECT and TRUST you more when you have a life, exercise a lot, spend time at work or your business, hang out with friends, and like I said earlier ignore her completely. Women are natural attention seekers, I bet u, It’l work on ur marriage like magic. |
Romance / Re: Tell Us What You Liked About Yourself. by twindude: 11:23pm On Aug 04, 2010 |
190.:RUBBISH |
Romance / Re: Leave Me, I Am Not In The Mood ! by twindude: 10:17pm On Aug 04, 2010 |
guy, Don’t be precipitous in assuming the worst. The phrase "I need some space" or any other mannerism that fits might simply mean that you are too available, and need to present a challenge again. Consequently, the only way that you will ascertain whether the relationship is over is by giving her exactly what she wants -- SPACE. However, make sure the "space" you give her is on your terms, not hers. If your availability is the issue, don’t be too quick to respond when she is ready for you. Alternatively, if your relationship is over, she may very well ask you to come back if she finds out that you are dating someone else -- particularly if you begin dating someone else before she finds a replacement for you. try completely ignoring her, seek some where for solace, it alwaz works like magic. |
Romance / Re: Ladies: What Do U Like In A Man's Body? by twindude: 8:51pm On Aug 04, 2010 |
Dondav:a gyz body not a femalez,, love-vendor! |
Romance / Re: Why Do Guys Break A Caring Woman's Heart? by twindude: 8:34pm On Aug 04, 2010 |
whn i waz a boy my dada used to say "variety is the spice of life" yo! ladies i mean no offence |
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