VALIDATOR:

A man beats his wife because he is unable to control his temper.Uncontrollable temper doesn't develop overnight. It must have been there all along before the wedding. It was her choice to marry such a man may be because of other stuffs she was getting from him.She should learn that "you can't eat your akara and still have it".

d bigrod:

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My dear brother,y would a woman do all those stuffs (u wrote) to u?pls stop exagerating.no matter wetin d woman do,just walk away from her.that would make her calm down.u will be surprised dat when u are back,she will apologise for her actions.why would u hit a woman?u need to understand women.

mr harakiri,i wish to advice u to stop hitting your wife.i know u do.nairalanders,help me beg this bros eh
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d bigrod:

My dear brother,y would a woman do all those stuffs (u wrote) to u?pls stop exaggerating.no matter wetin d woman do,just walk away from her.that

Mr Cork:

Sometimes womens do need to be checked in line.

They never obey and they need to no theire roles (no offence)

This is the result of too much edukation, they start growing wings and then they stop cooking (BBC Report: 1979)

harakiri:

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Very funny how men have allowed themselves to be addressed as wild untamed beasts. People talk about wife beaters all the time but who talks about men who are assaulted by their wives on a daily basis? Yes. . . there are some terrible men who waste no time in getting physical with the opposite seXXx but as a man, just pray never to come across a woman who will push you to the limit. Women naturally love to test the men they are with and discover just how far they can push them and how much BS the man can tolerate all in the name of "love". . .during the course of this testing, some women go over board and force the man to do the unthinkable. Some guys here who have spent so much time watching the E! Channel/ Oprah Winfrey show will always suggest that the man backs out/leaves the house when things seem to be getting out of hand but what happens when the woman refuses to let you out of the house, pounces on you, lands 4-5 hot slaps on your face, rips your T.M shirt to shreds and in the process designs your bare skin with her long nails,hits you repeatedly with any object she can lay her hands on and these include high heeled shoes,kitchen utensils and bottles.When you shamelessly and sheepishly get away from her grip, she screams "[b]Useless man. . .Woman wrapper. . .Impotent. . .[/b]" at the top of her voice to the hearing of all the neighbors. . .

How many of you so called "westernized-civilized" men can tolerate even half of all that before exploding? This is not a matter of "sitting her down and holding her hand".Just consider yourself fortunate if you haven't encountered such women.Some women will actually force the most docile/enduring man to consider committing murder on the spot. If you haven't experienced it before, please shut your trap and go to another thread where you can talk about things that YOU know about.

harakiri:

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Very funny how men have allowed themselves to be addressed as wild untamed beasts. People talk about wife beaters all the time but who talks about men who are assaulted by their wives on a daily basis? Yes. . . there are some terrible men who waste no time in getting physical with the opposite seXXx but as a man, just pray never to come across a woman who will push you to the limit. Women naturally love to test the men they are with and discover just how far they can push them and how much BS the man can tolerate all in the name of "love". . .during the course of this testing, some women go over board and force the man to do the unthinkable. Some guys here who have spent so much time watching the E! Channel/ Oprah Winfrey show will always suggest that the man backs out/leaves the house when things seem to be getting out of hand but what happens when the woman refuses to let you out of the house, pounces on you, lands 4-5 hot slaps on your face, rips your T.M shirt to shreds and in the process designs your bare skin with her long nails,hits you repeatedly with any object she can lay her hands on and these include high heeled shoes,kitchen utensils and bottles.When you shamelessly and sheepishly get away from her grip, she screams "[b]Useless man. . .Woman wrapper. . .Impotent. . .[/b]" at the top of her voice to the hearing of all the neighbors. . .

How many of you so called "westernized-civilized" men can tolerate even half of all that before exploding? This is not a matter of "sitting her down and holding her hand".Just consider yourself fortunate if you haven't encountered such women.Some women will actually force the most docile/enduring man to consider committing murder on the spot. If you haven't experienced it before, please shut your trap and go to another thread where you can talk about things that YOU know about.

harakiri:

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Very funny how men have allowed themselves to be addressed as wild untamed beasts. People talk about wife beaters all the time but who talks about men who are assaulted by their wives on a daily basis? Yes. . . there are some terrible men who waste no time in getting physical with the opposite seXXx but as a man, just pray never to come across a woman who will push you to the limit. Women naturally love to test the men they are with and discover just how far they can push them and how much BS the man can tolerate all in the name of "love". . .during the course of this testing, some women go over board and force the man to do the unthinkable. Some guys here who have spent so much time watching the E! Channel/ Oprah Winfrey show will always suggest that the man backs out/leaves the house when things seem to be getting out of hand but what happens when the woman refuses to let you out of the house, pounces on you, lands 4-5 hot slaps on your face, rips your T.M shirt to shreds and in the process designs your bare skin with her long nails,hits you repeatedly with any object she can lay her hands on and these include high heeled shoes,kitchen utensils and bottles.When you shamelessly and sheepishly get away from her grip, she screams "[b]Useless man. . .Woman wrapper. . .Impotent. . .[/b]" at the top of her voice to the hearing of all the neighbors. . .

How many of you so called "westernized-civilized" men can tolerate even half of all that before exploding? This is not a matter of "sitting her down and holding her hand".Just consider yourself fortunate if you haven't encountered such women.Some women will actually force the most docile/enduring man to consider committing murder on the spot. If you haven't experienced it before, please shut your trap and go to another thread where you can talk about things that YOU know about.

my friend, xcept u started dating today which i doubt u did, u & i kno da nothing absolutely nothing justifies hitting a woman, forget all da long talk. we'v seen it all

ssemire:

i am of the opinion that he who resorts to hitting a woman to command respect is the greatest weakling there ever can be. why stoop so low? believe me, no matter the provocation, a man that can win is the man that can show the greatest restraint in the face of the greatest provocation.

you gain nothing by resorting to violence. what happens to dignity and to being a man? being a beast or being vicious is not being manly. take time to think on the end result of your actions before you carry them out and don't be too hasty to react. you will save yourself the aftermaths of such violence.

i have a friend that dated this guy that always beat her if he ever saw her talking to another man he doesn't know. according to him, the first time was a mistake, the second time she provoked him by talking to someone he doesn't know. she didn't wait for a third time.

women, you are supposed to have gentle hands that care, soothe and repair. please do not lay those hands designed for goodness on a man in the name of trying to prove a point. God bless