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Sheistoopretty:
Watch how these Broke and Jobless Redpillers Association of Nairaland (BJRAN) will come here to wail, gnash their teeth and begin to tell the man how to spend "His money"

The money they can never have

Emyogalanya:
Father and relative found . Police investigations begins from here

Rozross:
Why will married couples stay in different rooms? Me I can’t ooo, how will I be able to sneak and check his phone when he’s asleep?

Emaprince:
Exactly the point!!!

That woman probably shut him out and made sure he never had any contact with the kids again. The man may decide to start a familly with another woman atleast to birth some kids for him.. but later the the woman who is the actual villain will lie to the kids about how their father never wanted to have anything to do with them .



Women usually weaponize the kids against the man whenever there is a break up. Even if she was the cheat. Bitterness from the break up will eat them up to act that way.

Emaprince:
Exactly the point!!!

That woman probably shut him out and made sure he never had any contact with the kids again. The man may decide to start a familly with another woman atleast to birth some kids for him.. but later the the woman who is the actual villain will lie to the kids about how their father never wanted to have anything to do with them .

Luckily for the man of the kids happens to be male children BECAUSE irrespective of what the mother could had fed them towards their dad. Good or bad they will definitely grown up one day to become a man too and see the truth for themselves

Women usually weaponize the kids against the man whenever there is a break up. Even if she was the cheat. Bitterness from the break up will eat them up to act that way.

Kobojunkiee:
1. Again, women don't typically turn down help from the father of their own kids or others, unless they perceive such a person as a threat of some sort to them or their kids. And when you rightly consider the Nigerian situation where the majority of either abandoned or divorced women are left with nothing and expected to fend for themselves, women typically desire to have some support, even if minimal, from the father of their kids. So, I don't know where you find these "most cases" you continue to push here.

2. Again, regardless of who it was that was at fault, the fact in the OP's mind is that her father has all but erased memories of them and that their situation is bad but there is no help coming from any quarters even from their dad's.

Kobojunkiee:
Do you realize that the case you mentioned is rare. You rarely find a woman who would refuse support of any kind from the father of her kids unless she believes her safety or that of her kids is at stake. Most women would love to receive support even from the men who abandoned them for other women.

Regardless, the OP's story does not indicate that her mother is at fault but instead that her father more than likely has them erased from his memory.

Kobojunkiee:
Look, regardless of what lead to the split, so long as a father erases the memory of his kids, there is no reason for them to feel burdened by him in anyway.

Kobojunkiee:
The father already made them bastards by erasing them out of his memory. Holding on to just his names means nothing after that.

IDeyNL:
The Seun guy writes like a motor park tout. To think that a founder of a site like this can put up such thought.