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Great.
So should we dance or what?

Good mindset, even better mentality.

A loan agreement with no option or obligation to buy clause.
Useless deal.

Congratulations Bro
You don finally make am �

Love for both sexes is simply a conscious decision that is made when some preset underlying conditions fit.
All those emotional tory talks na just disguise.

slimanyd:
No bro. I already sold it out yesterday to someone else . Just these morning , the guy started bombarding with calls. Was just very mad at myself for falling into Such mess. Now , The new buyer has also detected such network anomalies. When am at work , There won't be network , When am at home, same thing , On my way home from work , Network keeps fluctuating ,Yesterday, when I was on my way to give it out to another buyer, When I got to Ventura area ,Network went off, On getting to U.I , Network came back. Which kind phone be that. Imagine. I noticed whenever ure near any network Mast , Network is good but once u move away from that area , The phone enters into emergency . This guy actually knew all this about the phone shut decided to play a fast one on me . But perhaps ,you need the contact of the person I sold it to, Am willing to drop it for you. Its a pity the guy would start thinking on how to dispose the phone again as well. Just within 24 hrs. Imagine the mess I found myself.

So in essence you have just done to another person the same injustice you're here crying had been metted out to you?

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The woman is either a trouble maker, not very wise or doesn't have respect for her husband.
What was she really trying to achieve undermining her husband like that in front of their children?
Of course, one (including her) can have a question to ask the husband on how he couldn't support his child's educational pursuit at that point and couldn't get the spouse to understand his situation but there's a way and time to do things, not in the presence of the daughter & certainly not while he's trying to pass encouragement and advice to her.

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A submissive wife who sees the husband as her Lord would not deny her husband information about her finances. In the same vain, a husband who loves his wife would not make some of the comments the OP attributed to her husband although it's possible he has been pushed to this point by OP's intransigency.
It's obvious the marriage was not layed on a sound foundation & the OP for one has scant understanding of what it really entails.
Opinions on Nairaland will always differ as there are contributors of different age, experience & family settings.
It's left for the OP to decide what's worth more to her, the confidentiality of her finances or her marriage.
Marriage especially in the Christian setting which I guess the OP is from is a union of 1 + 1 to become 1. There's nothing like my this or my that, it's 'our' both for the man and the woman.
OP you should wise up while there's still time less you lose your young marriage. Good thing you didn't accuse the man of failing in his role as a husband in your write up. That to me means he's been a good husband until this.
Do not allow posters with little understanding and experience of the topic of discussion lead you astray.

gentlekay2017:
I'm sure I took the right decision but I don't know why I became confused since afternoon and kind of lost my peace, I don't know.

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It was the best thing you have done in the last 6 months of the relationship. You're not wrong & of course it's never wrong to do the right thing.
Let her realign herself with your dreams if she's for real & or find another sponsor.
Your heart is just revolting the long overdue hostile takeover by your brain.
Stick to your guns now or regret it if you choose to return decision making to your heart.

Ekez:
Nairalanders can you get married to a girl who cannot cook and not ready to learn.
I was discusing with one of ma female friend recently ,she said if her husband to be cannote hire a cook he should forget getting married to her.

Depends what else she's bringing to the table. She will have to be worth the stress some other way.

Money doesn't guarantee happiness but it doesn't cause as much sadness as a lack of it does. In other words, while you need many factors to be truly happy, financial comfort at least makes your chances better than a lack of it.

thefamousnaija9:
I am in a great confusion, I had issues with my husband some months ago and my Pastor helped us to settle it, that was three months ago, now my husband is really in love with me, and he is taking good care of me.
But after the service on Sunday, my Pastor asked me to see him in his office, he called in another Pastor as witness and they told me that God said I should not sleep with my husband again if I don’t want him to kill me.

https://gistsfanz.com/2020/06/holy-spirit-said-i-should-stop-sleeping-with-my-husband-what-should-i-do.html

It’s very strange to me, but my fear is my Pastor has given me more than ten prophesies that came to pass, he even prophesied that I will get my present Government job without applying for it and it came to pass.

Now, he said I should stop sleeping with my husband, I still love my husband, he doesn’t look like a killer, but this prophesy, I am really down and confused, can Holy Spirit say something like that?

I have not allow my husband to sleep with me since Sunday, it’s already affecting his relationship with me, I can’t even tell him, how can I say such a thing, can somebody please help me with a solution to this issue?

https://gistsfanz.com/2020/06/holy-spirit-said-i-should-stop-sleeping-with-my-husband-what-should-i-do.html

Are you in enmity with the Holy spirit?
Is your own direct line disconnected?

ICEKING95:
naira landers pls help I just broke a promise... I promise my mother that I won't involve my self in betting again after what I put her through and she forgave me..
its been about 4months and I kept the promise until today...the 5k she gave me to give to her customer, I don't know what pushed me to avoid church today only for me to find my self in bet house...it is all gone...pls in a any Lil way u can...I had to borrow a phone to come online pls... 0051160464 Eze
chijioke union bank...thank you

So what's the account number for? The 5k wasn't enough?�

I wager one is currently ongoing in a thread on phone section.
Full result expected next week.

dawahlarry:
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2 usb 3.1 gen 1 (hp sleep and charge); 1 usb 3.1 (type-cTM); 1 hdmi; 1 headphone/microphone combo
power supply type
45 w ac power adapter
battery type
4-cell, 55.67 wh li-ion
webcam
hp wide vision hd camera with dual array digital microphone
audio features
bang & olufsen; dual speakers

It goes for.180k

No contact Address/or number

So a consultant searched the the deepest part of the bag for a way to tell OP to go home & stay home but Baba thought he could go round it.
Forget Nigeria, the consultant's request can't be fulfilled anyway in the world right now & that's exactly why he chose such condition

Situations we misinterpret in such many charged emotional states may actually have very logical explanations.