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cococandy:
I won’t encourage anyone to be irresponsible. Sex does come with a lot of baggage so one must engage wisely. But I will encourage responsible exploration only in ADULTS and with protection. You will get old one day. Your body will die. Your lungs will fail. Your heart will stop beating (I could go on). But the only life you have is one you have LIVED and all the types of orgasms that happened in it.

Are we going to tell a 30+ year old man or woman to keep depriving themselves of sexual pleasure until they find a wife or husband?

If I knew then what I know now, I personally wouldn’t have held out as long as I did and definitely would have felt no guilt engaging in sex outside of marriage. I did feel guilty then because my mind was still colonized.

Shame of having sex with someone you’re not married to is unhealthy. If you’re adult enough to do it, enjoy it and move on. Unless you’re ashamed of the person you chose to do it with. It happens .

Obviously not speaking from a Christian point of view so please no one should quote the Bible for me.

As for whether it’s better outside of marriage or inside of it, y’all can’t seriously expect a consensus on that.
Depends on what you want out of it and how well you and your partner or partners are synced.

OP someone you’re married to can still dump you
And a lady can also have sex in her house leaving the man to do the walk of shame back to the house, office or bus right?

This is deep.

I agree 101% with you

satelliteDISH:
A young man was caught this morning at a mechanic workshop opposite the University of benin main gate at about 6:43am today.

He was caught after he broke into a shop and was trying to carry the shop owner tools and some condemn irons. Something which is not up to ₦4000 on value.

He was tied with a rope and was mercilessly beaten before he was handed over to the police. The workshop owners claimed that so many items have been missing in the workshop over the last few months which made them to arrest one aboki who is still in cell up till now.

Upon interrogation he said that he is from Esan North lga.

Videos are not uploading here. How do I convert the file? My camera record it as 3gp by default.

The workshop owner/manager should drop the charges against the innocent aboki boy.

Mires:
Please who has bought cars from carmart.ng? The prices seem as if it is not Nigeria

Hmmmm!

Be careful so you do get duped.

Most of the cars advertised on carmart.ng have ridiculously low prices, this is a red flag which should not be ignored.

Philadelphia:
So Gazzuzz, you don start to dey do Benz now abi?
It's alright.

Some years ago, I contacted Gazzuzz to source some spare parts for my BMW E46. He replied that he does not do German cars.

I am also surprised to see him advertising a Mercedes Benz. Gradually he is getting to the promise land, lol.


Happy sales @Gazzuzz

@ Mynd44 and Dominique,

Please grace this thread on the front page.

Thank you

BillyPro:
I am a seller based in Keffi. I have available stock of fingerlings and post-fingerlings.

Keffi is far, I need someone to supply me some fingerlings within the FCT

Nice wedding pictures.

HML to Mr. and Mrs. Kingreign.

Bigcowhorn:
Thanks bro. Understood.

You are welcome Sir

Bigcowhorn:
@Seun, Mynd44, Dominique and all concerned mods, including Uboma. I greet you guys ooo. I swear to God I had no hand in any insult to you guys ooo so please give ear to my case.

Rule 19 has been broken wide open here and this is proof that OgaBuhari and Emptycontenthead are one and the same person. The comment above was made by him over in the sports section. Quick question... how does he know the account was banned?

Here is a link to the comment and screenshots.

https://www.nairaland.com/post/84652484


Oga Pistotita come and see how it's done oooo. No shouting at all.


@OgaBuhari I accept your thanks. You are most welcome.

The moderators can only ban erring members on the board which he/she moderates. In my case, I moderate the Jobs/Vacancies board. However the supermods like Dominique, Mynd44 e.t.c can ban erring members across all boards. Same applies to the administrator, Seun. As you already called them out, they will look into and do the needful. You should send a mail to the supermods on this as well.

Do have a great week ahead.

Cheers

Congratulations @kingreign.

HML

CHoccolaTE:
Too bad,



@Op accept my sympathies, may God restore peace and love in your marriage amen.

Amen.

Wow!

The op has deactivated her handle.

CHoccolaTE:
That's one thing Nigerian women need to learn, instead of swallowing all sorts of nonsense in the name of submission.

Submission even to a useless man that contributes nothing to the home.

I concur with you.

If he was employed in the past or had a steady flow of income even if little but lost the job or means of livelihood, it is understandable.

I blame the op for marrying an irresponsible man.

Jaapu:
Mumu Goan remove it.

I see that you lack the intelligence to engage me in a debate for or against the removal of her hijab to capture her facial view hence you resorted to insulting me.

AutosAbuja:
I have observed that Abuja, a good metropolis, lacks one important thing, and that is qualified auto technicians. so We decided to bring our expertise to the serene FCT.
We will handle all cars' ELECTRICAL problems.
We will run diagnoses with our modern scan tool before attempting any fix, so that you don't just throw parts around.
And We will install modern dash and rear cameras for you. Easy-peasy!

So why don't you hurry up and give us a call now on 07085681134

No time to waste time my people

You got registered today. You need to build your profile first to earn the trust of your target audience. Where is your workshop located within the FCT? Can you share pictures too?

Habby121:
No I'm not...I even try to help out at home with my own little money.. I'm the only daughter of my parents and I have 6 brothers so they opened a business for me after I got married, he is unemployed but he trys to hustle like every other man

Why did you accept to marry someone who has no regular job or with vocational skills set which he can put to use to generate income to take care of himself and you?

He is taking out his frustration on you. Imagine a man who is barely fit to take care of his basic needs threatening to marry a second wife.

Why not remove the hijab before taking the photograph to capture her full facial view?

@ Pistotita,

Insulting me alone was not enough for you but you had to insult my parents as well.

No worries. You did not disappoint me at all. The more thrash you spill out here, the more my suspicion about you having mental health problems gets confirmed. I pray that you actually do heed my advice of checking into a mental health care center as soon as possible for the sake of your overall well-being and that of the society at large.

You never get tired of calling me out. So go ahead, I will address what needs to be and ignore what isn't important.

I need a seller who resides in the FCT.

Pistotita:
Now that you have finally accepted that healthserve has multiple monikers which is the offence I am trying to nail him on, what is the punishment for this offence?

Seun
Dominique
Myndd44

Or is having multiple monikers no offence so everyone can open like 15 monikers operating with multiple faces?

Note
Readers, from my posts...it is clear that multiple monikers is the offence I am tackling healthserve on. Please, disregard all the distractors above. Focus on the issue of multiple monikers owned by same person.This is what i am tackling. We are getting to the end of the case soon.

I have told you earlier what to do but lemme repeat for emphasis sake.

Submit your proof/theories/complaints to the supermods and to the administrator for their action. They will carry out their own investigation and act accordingly.

midnighter:
Exactly what you have been failing to do, throughout the entire thread.

I wonder why

Savage but epic response.

healthserve:
Get it I don't see. Don't get yourself involved in issues you don't know the length and breadth of. Cause there's more to issues many times in life than the surface-view.


Asper your projected guilty tag on me which contravenes much of your argument, you should have that backed up with substantive evidence


The internet will make people attract warfare that they'll have avoided.

Now, dey your lane as I maintain mine unless you have anything on me. Your assertions disinterests me, be it positive or negative. I don't need it. If I've insulted you madam, abeg do the needful by showing me where I did.


And don't ask me anything, your validations are unnecessary as your existence to mine. Take your tedious campaign outta my life, my issues, my mentions. You're not needed in my life.

Till you have proof of wrong on me since 2005 I've been here leave me alone and maintain your lane

Thank you

She does have a point. If you are not guilty, why respond to every post here whether it was directed to you or not?

You claim to have been here since 2005. Did you build this site alongside Seun? Healthserve was registered sometime in 2017. If you have been here since 2005, it means that you actually have multiple monikers here. Why exactly do you create these multiple monikers?

healthserve:
Now that its clear beyond reasonable doubt that I've been falsely accused over the forum and have proven my innocence against all allegations against me, with the bystanders who witnessed all that has transpired in the past ten weeks, I choose to believe I have one or Two persons who will choose the side of Justice as this thread and these baseless accusations ( hopefully ) comes to an end.


To this end, I wish to announce my gradual withdrawal from the site across all monikers, as I roll out my timeline on leaving the forum.


To enjoy my peace of mind. To this end, I thereby declare my deactivation by Feb 1st 2020. This serves multiple purposes, so I don't deactivate now and someone comes and says I did them wrong and I can't defend myself against such lies. The forum is too toxic for my beliefs/values/principles/mental health and for my peace of mind, I need to bail.


Between now and Feb 1st 2020, I want to offer anyone who says I've financially wronged them the opportunity to raise up claims for settlement and due restitution.

I hope this clears the air. I'm going back to my home, Quora. I wish everyone on here the very best of luck


Cheers

Is it your plan to deactivate healthserve and continue your other monikers?

Or do you plan to also deactivate them and leave Nairaland for good.


You will hardly leave Nairaland even after you have deactivated healthserve. However be rest assured that you will always be fished out as it is impossible for a leopard to change its spots.