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dsnet:
The OP is selling a Motorola Moto G7 Power, not a Motorola Moto G7. It has a 5000mAh battery just like he said.

Ah okay, my bad

pimpo:
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The battery is not up to 5000mAh. It is 3000mAh.

Shugargal:
Bro leave that mumu button of a thing.if anyone stalk me with sex, I quickly loose interest walahi

I am finding it hard to believe you.

DaddyMorenike:
Olive oil and Vaseline.
Hmm, I no talk anything o.

Hahahaha.

You need to cleanse your mind.

HannahHitler:
me I've repented. Just looking for a man now. I've left all the girls for you people. Enjoy.

Lol.

All the best in your quest.

Shugargal:
He will run out of patience because the harder he tries,the more I get exhausted.i will only be pretending to say that am enjoying it.

Hmmm!

He needs to find your 'mumu' buttons and focus on them.

Shugargal:
Smiles... it's nice chatting with you. I hope say you de treat your woman well? Because God decorated us with great features that; ummm smiles... enjoy your weekend.

I am enjoying the chats, will love to continue if you have the time. If not, do have a good weekend as well. It was nice chatting with you too.

I meant that I give up on wanting to hear about your other techniques since you prefer not to disclose it.

Every man will surely say that he satisfies his woman even when in reality, he doesn't and the woman only tries to boost his ego by feigning pleasure.

But again, one (not all dudes though) can tell when a woman isn't pretending.

To answer your question, I dey try when I get the opportunity.

Lol

HannahHitler:
lmao!!! Straight girls na them dey sweet pass, I swear.

Abeg, make una leave the straight girls for us.

Shugargal:
Bro I didn't learn to be a professional, it's in me. na follow come oo. won't tell you those techniques na only me and my God know how e be.

Lol.

I give up

Shugargal:
Yes sir! he can't even take me to cloud 1

I beg to disagree that no man can take you to cloud 9? Because of your sexually orientation, all a dude, who is skillful, needs is patience when working on you.

Shugargal:
You don't blame him because is not his fault, he has tried but it didn't work, no option than to love me like that.he even enjoys seeing me and my woman together,he doesn't wanna hear us having issues.

Hmmmm!

Are you saying that a man cannot take you to cloud 9?

Shugargal:
Lol. He can't take me to any cloud anything because I won't even enjoy it, am the one taking him there. I have not seen anything or any guy taking my woman away. I sabi do that thing pass guys oo. just forget jor.

Sorry to say but your guy dey dull big time.
Hopefully your storyline will change like HannahHitler when you jam the right dude who is skillful in the art of love making.

Shugargal:
Hahaha don't threaten me with tongue and hands, I'm a professional in them. if you don't mind I can even do the other for you. if you talk too much I go collect your gal friend from you. Oboi some people just de assume oo come see pm coming in.

I am amused here. Asides from using the tongue and hands, what other techniques do you employ during the ......?

Shugargal:
Yeah bro,my kind of love should be affectionate,passionate,expressing love and feelings, someone that will always be there and look up to,someone that will keep your hopes high and make you happy at all time,not all this time sex demanding like the persons life depend on it.normal me,i no too like sex,one of the more reasons I run away from guys because they just like sex the way I like my tea in the morning,smiles..but for me bro,am very good in bed oo, I can wine wella even when am with my guy I do the whole practical but mind you I do them just to make him happy.but once am with my woman am ontop of the world,i can go crazy to take her to heaven.lol.thanks for your input good morning.

Good morning. I hope you had a good rest.

I guess right afterall. As you try to make him happy on bed, I hope he returns the gesture. I believe that if he takes you to cloud 9 and back to mother earth during your love sessions, you may one day ask your girlfriend to go get a dude.

MissWrite:
Are people born with "straight tendencies" though?

I guess my question to you is this: do you think sexuality is defined by nature or nurture?

There has to be some consistency to your thinking. If you think homosexuality can be "picked up" from peers, then we may also have picked up heterosexuality from our parents or other influencers.

The point I want to pass across is that gay tendencies are not inherited. I am willing to have a rethink if you can prove that certain persons are born to be gay while the rest are born to be straight.

midnighter:
You're picking up on environmental factors which can still be turned back on you. What about people who have never experienced any of those things yet still have homosexual desires? What about people who experienced all those things and more, yet are still straight?

I mentioned the fact that the brain of a gay vs. a straight person is different yet you ignored it. But a scan of a gay man's brain bears some resemblance to that of a woman. That would at least partly explain why he is attracted to men.

The truth is that even though environment and lifestyle can play a part in it, there are particular connections made between brain cells which give rise to sexual attraction and some people's are wired differently than normal for their gender which gives rise to these feelings.

It is impossible for me to muster up any attraction to a woman, but I can for a man.

This is what I imagine it feels like a for a gay person but the other way around. A lesbian would find it difficult to feel any sexual desire towards a guy no matter how hard she tried.

Or rather, she would find it difficult to suppress her impulse towards women. Why, if it's not coming from her brain?

This must be brain-related to an extent, which means that it started in the womb during development.

Yes, studies/research carried out by neuroscientist, Ivanka Savic have shown that the scans of the gay man's brain share some resemblance with straight women and also that the scans of a lesbian's brain do share some resemblance with that of a straight man.


"But as Savic herself acknowledges, the study can’t say whether the brain differences are inherited, or result from abnormally high or low exposure in the womb to sex hormones such as testosterone" (copied from the newscientist - link to the news article below)

Read more: https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn14146-gay-brains-structured-like-those-of-the-opposite-sex/#ixzz67wypqmbb


Please provide me with links to latest research carried out that proves otherwise (in the event that I may have missed it).

So for now, we can accurately say that gay tendencies are not inherited.

midnighter:
People are most definitely born with certain tendencies; the brains of gay and straight persons are different

Then people can also pick stuff up and be encouraged by environmental factors that you mentioned. But people are also born like that

If you can be born straight then you can be born gay since attraction hinges heavily on neural connections

I disagree with you. No man/woman was/is born with gay tendencies. They choose to give this excuse so you can feel pity for them. Study the history of someone who's gay and you will find what led to it. Some of them were sexually abused by older persons which will influence their lifestyles. Some others picked the tendencies from their peers. For others, curiousty led them to such tendencies and they got hooked in the process. There are several reasons but no one was/is born with gay tendencies.

Shugargal:
Sincerely speaking bro, I love and enjoy being a lesbian,its so fun having a baby that loves you without putting sex as a priority.. bro just leave it's so crazy being a lez. see varieties. lol..... please still tell me how possible it is to stop being one cuz have tried but enode work. even my guy can testify to that.

Herein lies the problem (most probably). You prefer a relationship that is not 100% about sex but about expressing love feelings/emotions. You had probably encountered guys who were only interested in just sex and nothing more. No wonder you had to seek solace from the same gender.

Love is a beautiful feeling especially when you are in sync with the right dude. Your guy should focus more on what makes you happy. Most guys are only interested in sex, sex where the lady isn't made to achieve satisfaction. Most dudes, after ejaculation, do not care about the feelings of their partner. Some even sleep off afterwards, leaving their partners hanging. Being a lady, it takes longer for you to attain sexual satisfaction, unfortunately only a hand of guys are willing to wait that long while touching you in the right places.

For once, I wish you will meet a straight dude who is skilled in the art of love making.....

Shugargal:
If I actually picked it from my peers, I would have stopped because of the way Nigerians criticize and see it as an abomination and again it's not even allowed in naija.bro it's just too difficult to stop what you are. just like you're straight, can you stop being straight? the ones that change are the ones that just wanna come and have a taste of it. but anyways thanks for your contributions.

I love being straight and will not trade it for anything in this world. You need to experience the feelings/satisfaction an experienced straight brother can provide. Maybe the lack of it was what prompted you into experimenting with lesbians.

Gay tendencies are most of the times picked up in single sex schools. Again I agree that it is difficult to change but remember it is not impossible. This is not saying that I consider you less of a human being. I respect your privacy and whatever decisions you choose.

Shugargal:
Bro I don't understand how being a lesbian is nurtured because I will speak for myself,i didn't learn to be one because if it was a choice I wouldn't have chosen to be one,its just in me right from time,as am growing up have tried to be straight on my own still but it seems am pretending. tried having a guy but that his thing scares the hell outta me,i rather be the one caressing and doing some other things to him but I don't want him to touch me,see am an adult 30 plus now just have to accept whom I am and love myself to the fullest.not seeing myself becoming straight in anyway.. because if you follow what some people talk about gay's atimes umm! in fact they're just pretending.thanks for your response

No worries. I agree that you need to love yourself no matter what. I wish you best.

You were not born this way. No one was/is born with gay tendencies. You probably picked up the lifestyle from your peers while at school or someone older influenced you into it.

Shugargal:
Bros it's not possible,have been a lesbian right from my childhood, and as am an adult now, have tried going for the deliverance but it's not working.rather the woman that wanted to deliver me ended up falling in love with me and I still enjoyed the whole show. let me tell you, most women now are lesbians even the married folks.i just have to accept and love myself like that.its so sweet being a lesbian and my hubby likes me like that.so forget the deliverance thing e node work.

No where in my comments did I suggest that a lesbian needs spiritual deliverance session to become straight. Personally I do not accept/allow any clergyman to place his hands on my head to pray for me. I believe that even in my sinful state, God listens when I call out to him.

A number of factors may contribute towards this. But overall, the lesbian needs to be determined that she needs to change.

Remember that no one was born gay. These habits are nurtured along the way.

HannahHitler:
it's impossible. If a lesbian changes, that person wasn't really a lesbian to start with. Maybe bisexual and even those don't change.

A lot of gay people pretend though, just to fit in. Later they commit suicide.. kikikiki.

But I'm the only Lesbian girl that can change and I've changed.

I beg to disagree with your submission. It is not entirely impossible for a lesbian to become straight. I do agree though that some will choose to pretend just to blend in but will later go back to their true lifestyles.

I am not against anyone who chooses to be a lesbian as it is a personal decision.

Shugargal:
Lol! what gives you the conviction that am ill and needs deliverance? you think that your small cassava revols around you at all times.bros am a lesbian and nothing stops that I will rather Bleep you if you don't mind, besides your moniker says you're a female while you sound as a guy that means you're impersonating. so just face front I can't deal with you because you're fake abeg.

What makes you think that a lesbian cannot become straight? Why do you think it is impossible?

queenfav:
This was what I was discussing with my husband yesterday. When times are hard, think of what u can do to keep afloat, not borrowing or begging money to eat today then go back to hunger tomorrow. There are so many things you can do if u remove shame from your eyes.
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Two years ago when I moved to PH, I encountered a man and his wife selling big well garnished akara balls for N50 naira each at my house junction. His wife is there to fry it while he sells to customers. What moved me to start buying from tnem was the fact that I know it would have taken a lot of courage to do that.I later saw him in my estate some months after, I was surprised when he told he he has a land that he just bought and is developing it small small. I was wowed!
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After a while, I noticed he was no more at their stall, when I asked after him the wife told me he has gotten a rig job that takes him off shore. Ok, despite that, she is still frying the akara. Those are people who will achieve big things fast in life.

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Moral of my story oga, we know u are not lazy, and there are jo jobs in Nigeria. Find a job to do. Even if it's to rent wheelbarrow daily, use it to go round some streets to help people dispose their trash at a dump site for a small fee.. Do it. If it's to start frying puff puff, buns, fish etc.. Do it. Giving u money isn't an issue, the problem is that people can't keep giving you. Think of what u can do today to feed your family, provided its honest.. From that, God will open bigger doors.

Excellent advice.