₦airaland Forum

jesmond3945:
like i advised the Op, abroad is good and you have to work hard. However, if you are not in a high skilled position dont expect to be in the level you were when you were in Nigeria. Those high skilled jobs dont come easy even when you are qualified. So he should weigh his option. Because he will not be happy when he sees his colleagues doing well, buying expensive cars and he has nothing to show.

There is something fundamentally wrong with how an average Nigerian youth reasons. To most of you, it's all about buying expensive cars to show off. Why shouldn't he be happy when his colleagues are doing well. If you aren't doing well you would be happy for your colleagues not to do well? Is this not witchcraft? That's why many of you are into fraud to buy expensive cars for show off.

Flipmac:
Off point.

The point is, things are not as rosy as people think. You'd understand if you've ever lived abroad. Until then, none of this will make sense to you.

Pls dont be a daft. My question was simple and clear. As you have told us the percentage of people living paycheck to paycheck abroad, pls also tell us the percentage of people who are living from paycheck to paycheck in Nigeria.

Flipmac:
Lol.
You clearly have never lived outside Nigeria, if had you for don calm down.
Only 20% live large, most people live paycheck to paycheck. Facts.

Since youv done a study and have come to a conclusion of the percentage of those living large, and those living paycheck to check.

Please, use the same energy to find out the percentage of those that even have a paycheck in Nigeria, let's not even get into those living paycheck to paycheck. Thanks.

jesmond3945:
not really. Many took up menial jobs because thats what was available. Even the IT sector is competitive. Visa sponsorship for good jobs is very hard.

We are saying the same thing.Its definitely competitive. It's all about the willingness to take that risk and work hard. With hardwork you would get there. But the think is most Nigerians seems to be greedy and are entitled. They want to come in and become CEOs from the get go. Nah bro, you'll have to work for it to get to the top.

If anyone thinks its too hard or too competitive, or unwilling to work from the bottom up, that person would be better off remaining in Nigeria. But if someone is willing to take the chance, not just for yourself, but for your kids and their future, then I would say go for it.

My grouse is with the people that are jobless in Nigeria that keep critizing those that are legitimately working hard to earn a leaving outside the country. But you never see them share stories of those that are making progressing.

Klass99:
There is nothing misleading about it. Someone has shared a personal experience about her life and time in the UK. It is left for people to make of it, what they want. They can use the info or her experience to help them make an informed decision on their japa plans and destinations.

You can watch it, then decide to stay back, move or reroute your destination. The choice and final decision always lies with an individual and the OP is seeking other people's views on his japa plans. I only pointed him to views of people with actual diaspora experience, how many of us commenting here have lived abroad? I haven't o, so let me direct him to those who have.

And when you say few individuals, I wonder if you read most of the comments below her video. I didn't listen to Juliet's tale alone, I read other people's views and experiences too. But make I rest, I am not here to argue on someone's thread, just passing on info and sharing knowledge.

Op, these are they kind of people that would discourage you from leaving the slum, those that havnt even left the shore of Nigeria before. They are too quick to share people bad experience abroad, but they would never tell you about those that have made it.

Everyone's experience is unique. For instance you can expect someone who has no skill to travel out and make it all of a sudden. You would need to work hard and upgrade your skill. If you know you aren't ready to work, you can aswell stay back. But if you are looking for where your hardwork would be rewarded then you can take the chance. I believe with the level youv gottent to in Nigeria, based on your salary, there is a good chance you would get a job in the Uk that would be willing to sponsor you.

Those complaining about menial jobs in the Uk are those that are jobless and doing menial jobs in Nigeria. They rather stay lazy in Nigeria and beg people doing menial jobs abroad for money than to work.

You might be very comfortable in Nigeria, but this is Nigeria, anything can happen, and very quickly.

All the best.

Isaacpositive:
Whenever the name Gov Yahaya Bello is mentioned, one thing that comes to my mind is,it is time the Nigerian youths takes their destiny by their hands. Let us aggressively support our own. He has the capacity to heal the many wound of our past and create a Nigeria of our collective dreams.

It is Yahaya Bello for president

I would rather vote a pig than vote this big fool called bello

MhiztaEnny:
The birth of a new Nigeria under the leadership of GYB

#Hope23
#YahayaBello
#TheGap

Have you seen the birth of a new kogi state? Ode..

usmanabdulsalam:
Kogi Youths were massively recruited into various ministries as a result of his vast knowledge of handling job creation

If he has created job in kogi, you wont be this jobless to accept peanuts to support a clown.

OdogwuZiggy:
Indeed, for Job creation and human capital development GYB is the answer.
#Hope23
#YahayaBello

How many job and human capital development has he done in kogi. Clown.

Zikogerald:
Yahaya Bello is a man of his words, I believe he will do that which he said he'll do and he has the capacity to create a new Nigeria.

how much were you paid to type this nonsense?

dejiboss10:
the road map to better Nigerian with GyB
#hope23

How much were you paid?

Philanthropy is not a Job. If someone tells you their job is philanthropy is a fraud.

You are dating a prostitute.

The usuless dulllar Bullhari that would leave for London even before the war starts.

RealityBender:
Trust me I know how to trade words, but I won’t trade words with you cos I understand your frustrations. I used to be like you. It’s only people that haven’t made money that will say money isn’t everything.

You were never like me, you can't be like me, and I would detest being like you. Everyone online these days claiming to have made money. Are you amongst the top 10 richest people in the world? Oh sorry, what about top 1000? My bad, let's say top 6.5billion?

PrimadonnaO:
You were sounding great until you insulted him.

He merely stated his preference. It didn't warrant an insult.

Your validation isn't need, do with it what you will. There's a difference between preference and outright irresponsibility. If you also think you can take advantage of the woes of Nigeria, Opperess people and get away with it coz you have the money, then you are a pig too.

RealityBender:
I feel you my negga. This is what most people don’t realize. Just have your money in this country and you can get away with almost anything. How much be police escort sef? Who born monkey to come do anyhow for where you dey? You talking about living like a king, negga I live like a young god!

Most people aren't leaving the country because they want to live like kings or gods. Most people leave coz they want sanity. You may think moving about with police escort is cool, but guess what? People leave the country coz they want to feel safe without needing police escort. And you think getting away with anything coz you have the money is ideal, shame on you. Pigs like you is the reason people leave the country.

adewumiopeyemi:
Dont you have friends and family to borrow from why must it be loan shark with huge intreste which wil still combine to hunt you
See so far your download the loan app
You will still go there and borrow again

It's not your business how and where he borrowed his money, if you have nothing tangible to contribute you can move on.

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lol What sort of simping is this.

sukkot:
i being dey chicago but i touch base for albany upstate new york, i enter wisconsin, i enter indiana, and i enter new york city. too much suffering in the land. of course the suffering is different from naija kind of suffering. its more like industrial prison suffering. you are on the go all the time just to make peanuts to allow you to get by. that new york city alone if you are not earning over 250k a year you are suffering

lol. Bro you are funny. Well, different strokes for different folks.

ajumma:
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Known strategy for trolls;
1. When faced with a argument you can’t refute, CURSE.

2. When dazed by brilliance, PERSONALIZE


when desperation enters arguments logic disappeared
simply question

Quackery
So in rural area where there is internet or communication facilities
who are you going to consult?

Youv made no brilliance for me to be dazzled by.

Who wrote this for you or where did you copy it from, coz this seems to be the only near sensible post youv made.

Youv criticized the medical professional for checking up or consulting with a colleague when unsure, even though this is for the sake of patients safety, which I find very daft of you. I would like to take my time to educate you, since you are ignorant, that no doctor knows it all. This is why there are hirarcy of doctors from junior to senior who should be working as a team.

Back to your question where you a doctor is in a rural setting. It's very unlikely not to have network to call a senior colleague and seek for advice regarding a patient. In an unfortunate situation where there are no sort of communication at all, then it's best to safely refer the patient than doing harm by giving the wrong treatment.

Bottom line, it's not wrong for a doctor to seek help. A safe doctor is the best doctor. Its a shame the level of illiteracy and ignorance been exhibited by you lots. But please now you know, educate those after you. You could contribute to making Nigeria a better place.

sukkot:
hehehe i done live for yankee ooo. i see am with my own 2 eyes . too much suffering in the land

Where for Yankee you live?

babzo:
You can't fulfill any dream in life if you are not feeding yourself and taking care of your responsibilities like family , rent.

Making your dream come to pass is not moinmoin, which is most people never do.

Most people you see massively successful today except those born to rich families worked jobs first. Not talking about Nigeria, talking about the USA.

There is dignity in labor. No dignity in begging relatives and friends to lend you money or pay your children's school fees.

The fact that people see being a security personnel as a bad job is worrisome. This goes to show you how deep the rot in our society is. Most Nigerians dot believe in dignity in labour.

babzo:
Sorry sir, that's ignorance.
To work security in America, you have to under go training, almost police like.

They don't just allow anyone to do any job in some countries.

Security is serious matter; peoples lives and properties are under your watch.

Most of these people haven't crossed Nigeria's border before, not even to Cameroon, yet they are the ones with the loudest opinions.

ajumma:
[s]Quack like you.. only posing with Scrubs doing selfie.
Dr consulting and same time be asking google?
asking his colleagues that have not see the patience physically or the history of ailment.
sometimes i wonder how do they qualified?
a consultant was asking those doing internships simple chemistry law but all in confused state.

tufiakwa
Only good in demanding for higher allowances and outrageous claim

shame on your generations [/s]

Go back to your Slum and heal yourself of hate and poverty. Your poorly worded write says so much about you - a low life who had little or no education, a mere internet troll, and a nonentity who hides behind the anonymity of nairaland to seek cheap relevance. Please, constantly seek exposure and purge yourself of this crass ignorance you exhibit.

Iyaebe:
Internet generation doctors. Avoid any doctor less than 50yrs of age they belong to the internet generation.So sad

what about doctors that are 49 years?

And between a doctor who graduated at the age of 25years with 10 years of experience, and a doctor that graduated at the age of 40yrs with 10 years of experience, which of them have more experience?

Can you now see that you are a m0r0n. No country will make progress with people like you living in it.

ajumma:
I agree with you 100 per cent..
internet Dr everywhere you go,,
take complain to any Dr below the again of 45 years
they first Goggle it, or called any other colleagues in other hospitals

And you think when a doctor is unsure it's wrong to check up and seek opinion of a colleague, for your safety and the safety of other patients?

Sometimes I wonder why we reason like pigs in this Nigeria. Where did we get it all wrong as a country, having people who reason like you are littered all over the country.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright.....

I can bet my balls this lunch is going to have one hell of a damnnn happy ending

Na the chef house them even for dey eat the lunch

If this niggar of a chef nor fit do anything ehnnn..I go know say na weak niggar

Not every guy is as perverted as you are bro..

So what should we do with this news?

Iyaebe:
Useless men everywhere, I pity ladies that give you people free sex all in the name of expression of feelings, even Adam couldn't touch Eve till God asked him to do something which serves as the bride price before he was allowed to touch her but some ladies wey nack head for ground will begin parting their legs over nonsense expression of feelings. Its unbibilical to have free sex,go and find out.So Oga Op if you can't feed her then leave her for her parents and go your way,you did not complain when you were winning your pelenge waist on top of her.

If you are a prostitute just tell us straight.

AdaSunshine:
Your terms and conditions are just simply too much, a huge turn off.

-Don't you think that is too much of a sacrifice to ask of someone you're not married to?

-Do you think you're worth that sacrifice?
Why would you ask someone to give up their fertility?
-How far have you gone with him to dare to ask that of him?
-Do you know the magnitude of the sacrifice you're asking for?
- Isn't that selfish of you?

-Will you be ready to take the blame later in future?
If I were the guy, I'd take that as a red flag.
I'd be the one to opt out.

Thanks for your comment, it appears she doesn't understand the gravity of her request. Imagine the audacity and entitlement.