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[quote author=vinehedge post=110238606][/quote] It's on my signature |
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vinehedge: Hi |
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Since it's posted on the webmaster section, you can gift him a website |
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joelliving: Please where you able to find a group for support? Can you add me to one? |
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webm: I can help you set up one. I've set up more than 10 pharmacies for different people in Lagos. |
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Strongdickfresh: What's CK and AZ? ![]() |
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It's is a fine app, but you account is zero naira, you money is not fine to be inside?
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When doing business do the right things. You have set up the right limit in any business, rich or poor. Who gives out bike to a stranger without guarantor? Even with the rich you have to set the right boundaries, because people would always want to go beyond boundaries. It's even the poor that'll make you rich. You need to learn manage things properly. You clearly want to make gain. It's business, it's not help. He's also going to make money for you. You can't be emotional about it. These one of your life lessons. If you want to make more money hire people, rich or poor, just hire the right person cos that's your real duty as a boss. Drops mic 2 Likes |
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Radionigeria: Speak for yourself |
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This guy sabi find Buhari trouble, walayi 12 Likes 1 Share |
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digitite: Please my whatsapp is on my signature. |
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cj4humanity: What's our biggest challenge? Security? |
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Sounds like what someone would say before Find an investor, co-founder or Early Employees 3 Likes
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uchelouis45: Kindly message me or chat me up on WhatsApp |
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They way they call money in this country you'd think we're anything close to developed countries. Find an investor, co-founder or Early Employees. 7 Likes |
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I hope we get it right in this country ![]() Interested in finding an investor, co-founder or Early Employees..Join 1 Like |
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GrowYourSales: Chat me up or dm me |
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They're a lot of startups springing up lately. I've observed that most are looking for a Co-Founder or an early employee just like me. I've decided to create this thread for startups looking for co-founders or early employees. I've also created a telegram for it. If you're interested make a comment on this post, let me add you to the telegram group. I hope this makes sense. 1 Like |
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gistray: Evening newspaper, that term always sound hilarious to me...well I've seen young men marrying older women who even have kids in Nigeria here...in the real world love is blind. 1 Like |
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Holumhidey: Well I love pocohantas, but she doesn't like men. I admire ishilove, always will. I'm sure I'm not the only one ![]() |
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chiommy123: 70% to 80% of time men will rush you if a lady acts right. If he does not propose, not everyone likes apples, spread your branches. |
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pocohantas:Obsessed? When NL women say obsessed I think they want to say overpowering. We can't be more obsessed when they're more women in the romance section than any other section of nairaland. Well, no show for us, that's what I get. ![]() Yeah, I won't agree less, you're a trap itself |
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Sadly, there is a growing number of single ladies in our time and generation. This wasn't always the case in the time of our parents. Most of our parents were married early enough, some even before 20, 25 and 30. Why is it becoming increasing difficult for most ladies to get married nowadays? For me here are a few things. For me I always say, any woman who wants to get married would get married. I feel women are so powerful that they don't know their power. To me any women can hook up any man of his dreams. That may sound impossible but 70% of the time it is possible if they do the right things. Here are couple of things ladies can do to marry any man of their choice. Develop your inner beauty Today, you'd find a lot of people making fun of people who encourage developing your inner beauty. They argue that when you meet a person first, is it not their outward beauty you see before you make a move towards them. Let me tell you the truth, you see people's inner beauty before their outward person. When you meet a person for the first time you are already evaluating the kind of person they are. Their dressing, their facial expression, their charisma, their composure, their demeanor and more. At that point you're already making a decision whether you want to be with this person or not. Trust me we're always reading people's body language consciously or unconsciously. If you're a friendly person it reflects in you at first glance. If your a shy or less confident person your head and shoulders would possible be looking down. For example, pocohantas has started becoming a more friendly person that she used to even though no one has seen her before. You can develop your inner beauty so much that you can carry yourself with confidence and not faking it. Talking about inner beauty a lot of ladies in our time are so self centered. They show a "I want relax and be taken care of" attitude. While wishing for this things are not bad, but then you don't have to push it to someone's sons face. Let him do it out of free will. Many men want their wives to relax so the take care of them, forget all this redpill attitude. But then don't go pushing it into their faces as if demanding it from them. Who are you? Are you the only girl in the world? Try to be kind. Kindness doesn't make you stupid. It's the person's lost if the take your kindness for granted. Kindness doesn't need to be spending money. A kind eyes, a kind listener, a genuine interest in someone or whatever their lives are up to are little things that make you human. Forget spec, a man would ditch his spec for a woman who carries herself right. We all want someone who treats us right. Be a Person of Substance After building your inner beauty, work towards becoming a person of substance. Being a person of substance can mean different things to different people. It simply means developing your skills. For some it means making money, for others it could be becoming a good cook, while to others it can mean how to buy things in the market. A man doesn't necessarily want you to be rich, don't mind all men say, they just hope you're a person of value. That they can trust you to handle a couple of things. Make a Move to the Man you Want Sometimes if the first two things doesn't get you the man you want you might want to make a move. You don't necessarily need to stop them in the road and tell them I love you. Most Nigerian ladies (I don't know if that's the same with other African ladies) would love a man and would keep it entirely to themselves. I have met women who were madly in love with me, they came as good friends but I never knew they were madly in love with me, until their friends secretly told me or they revealed it many years after. Indirectly, let men know you're interested in them. Don't come as friends, afterall you're not here for friendship. While keeping a distance and appearing a little hard to get, drop hints now and again that you are interested in a romantic relationship through your words or actions. This is something easy for women to do, afterall there the best pretenders among the gender. Most prostitutes also know how to use their eyes to achieve this same effect. Don't Take Men for Granted Don't look down on men. You'd see a woman who can barely feed herself telling a man he's not his spec. Don't wait to find the perfect man with full pocket to accept their advances. If a man is sincerely making effort appreciate it and give them a chance. A man would go all length to please the right woman. Obama became president because Michelle knew how to bring out a president in him. A man would careless for the world, but would do anything for a woman who sincerely respect him. Be Principled Stop going naked to please men. Stop dressing like prostitutes to attract men. Fine, you can attract a man by how you look, but how long would that attraction last. If he finds someone more attractive would he not cheat on you with that person. You can pretend all you want a man would know if you're the type of person that would sleep around. Most would begin to lack trust in you. Where is a relationship without trust? Even if you catch a man after sleeping with them, I wonder how many you have to sleep with to catch your soulmate. Your chances following this path are very slim. Being principled doesn't mean lacking manners or being rude. It only means you truly want to do what's right and who doesn't want to be with such a person. I pray this little piece changes someone's daughters life. pocohantas, can you write one for men who want to get any lady of their choice, I'll love to read it. lalasticlala Mynd44 3 Likes
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Faiththatworks: You don't watch it, how do you know it's not boring? I read through the comment to understand the statement I couldn't find. It's actually hard for me to watch people living their own life on T.V, like don't I have a life. Like you said the news is out there, so of course one can read what's happening in the house, like every other news. |
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Rape or no rape, immoral sex messes up the mind. Porn, wrong sexual thought or activities affects the psych more like rape itself. You're perfectly normal. You're not beyond redemption. We're all imperfect. That means porn, rape, sex or not something is missing in us humans just as we're born. We can learn to unlearn the things that have become ingrained in us. It is completely possible and you too can. The world would make believe you're not in control of things, but man is the greatest being in the universe you have perfect control over your past bad experience. Now I've come to understand your some of your redpill ideas, which I've always felt excited about. While most of them make a lot of sense, there's a place to draw the line. Yes, because your bad experience must have cut into your pure judgment. You can regain your good senses. If you wish we can talk about it, we don't need to meet but I can help. My contact is on my signature. I'm not a therapist, not a professional but I've seen people made changes in their troubled thinking and get help to heal your scars. @TheGidRedpiller |
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born2lead01: How do we contact you? |
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Rosement: Psalm 84:11 - For the LORD God is a sun and shield; the LORD bestows favor and honor; no good thing does he withhold from those whose walk is blameless. God created us and knows us better than we know ourselves. If he says we should not fornicate, he knows it's for our benefit. Stay holy, you'll meet 1001 guys who'd appreciate you and be your desired man. All this guys shouting go pop the cherry, would be the same person condemning you for moving from one man to another when they're serious to settle down. They're good men out there. Just know that. From my more than 30 years understanding of life, women act wisely when they stay away from sex & their value increases on many fold in their husbands eyes. Why do you think they're many broken homes, increased rise in heartbreaks or problems in marriages? It's this same lack of self control over sex. If I had sex with you today, I cannot trust you not to have sex with another person. Expressing self control till marriage, is a quality that has been tested in you and your partner would learn to trust you. But one thing you must know, don't carry virginity for head as if it is gold, learn the ropes of being a good person with an attractive personality. We all want to stay with someone who's kind and treats us well basically, sex or no sex. Chat me up, I'll link you up with a certain lady that can motivate you on this path, she's an inspiration to me too. 2 Likes |
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joelliving: Let's chat |
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