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Boko Haram can be handled if the president focuses just one month in using all available resources to tackle them. That is let him abandon every other affair and do just this one but RIGHT NOW HE IS THINKING OF RUNNING AGAIN.IF HE CAN DO SOMETHING MIND BLOWING IN SOLVING THIS ISSUE HE WOULD BE VOTED FOR WITHOUT MUCH CAMPAIGN. CAN'T HE SEE THAT THE EASIEST WAY IS TO USE HIS OFFICE AGAINST THEM. GOD WOULD DO NOTHING IF WE DO NOTHING.

CONGRATULATION, YOU MADE IT TO THE MONTH OF MERCY.

I want to specially congratulate you for making it to this great month of November.It is not a right to see another month, but it is by God's mercies.Lamentation 3:23 says that it is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed,His compassion fails not, they are new every morning, great is His faithfulness. There are many people that died along the way,they were not bad people, infact, stray bullet hit some on their way to church. But here you are, alive and happy. Someone may say that she is alive but not happy because she is not yet married, can the dead marry? Another person is complaining bitterly because he is in debt, listen the dead cannot pay debt, a person that has cancer cannot be thinking of debt no matter how much the person is owing. Do you know that the greatest miracle is not just to be saved, the greatest miracle is to sleep and wake up. Many died before they were even priviledged to receive Jesus Christ.

If you are truly honest, you will see the reason to thank God no matter what. So for the next few minutes, begin to say thank you Jesus, thanksgiving is a debt that we owe God. The things God did for you that you did not see is even greater than the things you saw. God has never slept once because of you. It is not that God cannot sleep, Don't you know that He rested on the seventh day after creation. But He chose not to sleep because the devil vowed to destroy man. No matter how sick you may be, God is the only one that can heal you, thank Him and trust Him for the best this month. This month is hereby declared your MONTH OF MERCY. Mercy is not just for forgiveness of sins, mercy is for everything. God is the one that choses who He shows mercy to. He has chosen to show you mercy this month. Do you know that it is mercy that precedes favour. God will not give favour until He shows mercy. Psalm 102:13-15. That blind man cried asking Jesus to have mercy on him. Because mercy is what brings Healing or anything from God. This month, everything you need from God will come to you by God's mercy. Never see yourself as deserving anything,see everything from the platform of God's mercies.

End of October, what are your achievements and regrets

God does not make people better, He makes them WHOLE. He does not want you to excel in your business or job while your marriage or relationships fail. He does not want you to be spiritually stable while your finances dwindle. He does not want your finances to be balanced, while sickness ravage your body. Proverbs 10:22. He wants you complete. The easiest way to be complete and make progress is to stop blaming people for where you are, stop blaming God, don't blame the devil either, don't blame your nation. Blame yourself. Take the blame and make amendments. In the name of Jesus be perfectly whole.

WELCOME TO ANOTHER MULTI-TESTIMONY DAY. I HAVE JUST CONFIRMED FROM HEAVEN'S FAVOUR ROOM THAT 2000 WONDER JOBS HAVE BEEN RELEASED,470 CONTRACTS HAVE BEEN SIGNED, 3000 VISAS HAVE BEEN ISSUED, 5700 MIRACLE BABIES IS RELEASED AND 5000 MARRIAGES TO BE CONSUMMATED WITHIN 3 MONTHS. NOW BEGIN TO RECEIVE YOUR OWN PARTICULAR TESTIMONY WITH THANKSGIVING.

The price required to be paid in order to fulfill God's master plan for your life.

a. You must be born again; you must accept Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and savior. Paul had to accept Christ for His destiny to change. And you must get ready to walk diligently with God. Because you cannot determine your destiny you only discover it.

b. You must have the desire to find out what God has called you to do, and you can only find out by searching Gods word diligently.

c. You must be a reader of the right kind of books, Daniel said in Daniel chapter 2 vs. 9 that He understands by books. Paul too was a reader. All the great men that have caused drastic changes were readers so they became leaders, in this life you will rule in your respective field.

d. You must get the required the facts for your field; the book of proverbs says every enterprise is built by wise planning and getting the right facts. You must know the ingredients of music before you can be an effective musician.

e. You must search, yes search the right materials you are seeking to uncover as every valuable information opens up with a diligent, persistent search

f. Get wisdom and understanding, you must operate wisely, your destiny is great and glorious but there are phases and chapters, so you must program and plan accordingly, what I mean is this, set short term and long term goals.

g. You must be spiritual, because spirituality is the booster of destiny, live a Holy, fraud free life, study the word, pray and fast so as to build enough capacity to defeat the oppositions because the enemy is envious of your destiny

h. You must value time, David said in psalms 90 vs. 12; Oh lord teach us to number our days so that we can apply our heart to wisdom. You must live each day as if it is the last day so avoid procrastination.

i. You must be involved in charity in whatever level it gives you speed as you approach your desired goal. This also means you must think of others and not just yourself.

j. You must be proud of what you have been called to do, don’t envy others

k. You must have mentors and role models in that same field you have chosen.

I HAVE SEEN TESTIMONIES, I HAVE HEARD TESTIMONIES. BUT BEFORE THIS WEEKEND ENDS I WILL SEE AND HEAR YOUR OWN TESTIMONY. I RELEASE 21 TESTIMONY ANGELS TO PERFECT YOUR EXPECTED TESTIMONIES. NOTE THE WORD 'EXPECTED' WHAT YOU DO NOT EXPECT YOU CANNOT COLLECT. SO EXPECT BIG!!!!

LONG COURTSHIP OR SHORT COURTSHIP,WHICH 'SHIP' SAILS BEST?

I know someone that was in courtship for 9 full years,and just barely 3 months to the long awaited and `prepared for` wedding,the guy called off everything.The lady is still unmarried till now,51 years old,has a flourishing printing business in Lagos but UNMARRIED.What possibly happened,whose fault was it?Well,i am not in the business of finding who to blame but the truth is the courtship was too long.

How do you expect a marriage when virtually it was like they have been married for 9 whole years.they had done everything together.He had even known everything about her so he lacks interest in her.

I understand that the reason for long courtship most times is financial,the man wants to be over ready so they keep expecting and expecting,but do you know one fact, you don't fully get super prepared for marriage, even the rich sometimes experience financial challenge preparing for marriage all you need is a prepared mind and heart. That is all that is necessary,with this in mind i strongly believe that long courtship is unnecessary at most 2 years is most suitable.

Another reason for long courtship is that the man is trying to know the woman better,Mr! what are you still trying to know if you love her you must love her fault,you just have to be compatible that is only how you can change her.We all have faults at one time or the other but the love of God helped us all whether you know it or not.If you really want to marry her,long courtship is not necessary.

Finally,if you know you wont marry her, break the courtship or relationship immediately,a broken courtship or relationship is better than a broken marriage OR WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Will you allow your wife to work?

Most men will not allow their wives to work,irrespective of their academic qualification and skills.

They feel they might be harrassed sexually at work place.

This had helped in converting most Intelligent women to perpetual house wives no wonder when most nigerian women get married they become unnecessarily fat and round.

They become bored and no longer find marriage interesting.

The best some men will do is to open super markets and boutiques for their wives.
Most women dont like being house wives even if they enjoy it at first.

One of the reason i have found out as responsible for men not allowing their wives to work during my observations is that,most men are scared of the unknown.They fear their wives been molested and harrassed,they fear their wives cheating on them.little do they know that we are often times victims of our own fears.What you fear has legal right to jump on you.

Women ought to work because they are primarily HELP MEET.And the help a woman is capable of rendering cannot be underestimated.So would you allow your wife to work.

As for me yes you cannot handle the responsibility of the home alone no matter how rich you are and you cannot pocket a woman, All you can do is to trust her and pray.

But i will like to know if you will allow your wife to work.

The three basic needs of a man.

It is important to know that the man is designed to give love. Hence the bible says husband love your wives as Christ loves the church. A man may not necessary need love the way a woman does but he needs something else which to him is greater than love and that is the first primary need of a man which is called RESPECT. This is the need that propels him to show love in an unusual way. Ephesians 5:33.

The first primary need of a man is respect; A man values respect, no matter how much you claim to love him, if you do not respect him then that love is nothing, your respecting him is interpreted as love to him. Please this kind of respect does not mean kneeling down before him or saying SIR! SIR! all the time, this respect is fulfilled when the woman reminds him of his capabilities and help him to maintain his self esteem, to her he should be the richest, the most hard working, the most handsome. She should be proud of her husband not out of duty but as an expression of sincere admiration for the man she has chosen to spend the rest of her life with. A man needs the woman to value his accomplishments no matter how small. Now if a woman meets this primary need of a man the man will do anything just to love and please her, it will help the man to even work harder. Don't you know that a man telling a man that he tried will make only a little impact, but when a woman tells a man that he tried then that man's ego is boosted.

The second primary need of a man is recreational companionship; Where the woman needs conversation the man needs recreational companionship. The man needs the woman to watch football or any other games with him sometimes. He wants the woman to share his sporting and recreational ideas, if he like computers, he wants the woman to like it too. Now the woman may not really like it but if you can just show him that you like it a little, show him that you like the games he likes or the things he likes to do in his leisure time. If you don't like his sporting activities or recreational activities, any girl that likes it may win his heart a little.

The third need of a man is sex; Please note that this is for the married. Where the woman needs affection, a man needs sex. He needs it because he is principally a driver, he is always ready, he likes the event of sex, while the woman is more interested in the environment, like romance, hugs, holds, touch and kisses. The man must learn to meet the need of his wife by satisfying her romance appetite then she will offer him the best sex ever. Husbands please don't think your wife reacts to sex the way you do, she reacts differently so take out time to show her enough affection first, through texts, calls, gifts, hugs, kisses. Please note that these are only primary needs. BBM PIN IS 7F67F91A

mesoade:
This Op is a learner o,



You are sounding as if women are satisfiable.

MEET THESE THREE NEEDS FIRST AND YOU WILL KNOW THAT THEY ARE SATISFIABLE

Fweshdude:
Mr.man she also needs money.

Heavy condo.

Food

BASIC NEEDS.. READ BEFORE YOU INSULT

snowprince07:
Everyday na woman
#how to attract a lady
#how to mke a lady luv u
#how to take Kia of ur woman
et cssssss
so una mean say men too no like all those things?? Mtcheww after all d advice people still de divorce seff.

MEN ARE GIVERS, WOMEN ARE RECEIVERS. EVEN IN LOVE MAKING

jsunex:
Luv shuld b d last on d list, u show a woman luv, she takes u lik a mumu... ladies of ds generation needs little or no luv at all but material tins... talkin frm experience.

A WOMAN NEEDS LOVE BUT WANTS MONEY, WANT AND NEED ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS ONLY IRRESPONSIBLE WOMEN THINK THAT A MAN MUST GIVE HER MONEY. HAVE YOU NOT SEEN WOMEN WITH ALL THE MONEY THROWN AT THEM BUT THEY ARE STILL NOT HAPPY?

WHAT A WOMAN NEEDS...

I will advice every man to read this short message, this will enhance your relationship as a single or as a married man. You need to understand the basic needs of a woman.

The first basic need of a woman is LOVE;

A woman needs love just as the way she needs the air she breathes, she was programed by God to receive love, God designed her this way. she needs love, A man may buy her a house, an expensive car and she will not still be satisfied if you don't tell her that you love her, she wants to feel loved, she becomes scared if you become too busy to tell her that you love her.

The Second thing a woman need is conversation; She needs somebody that will listen to her, she needs a man to spend time with her just to listen to her, she needs someone to talk with. Not just talk to but talk with. She may not really like being alone, that is why she always talk. Husbands, if you shower your wife with all that she needs but if you are not there from time to time to discuss with her, she may look for someone else to fill that space. It is not that she does not love you, she does, but she needs conversation.

The third basic need of a woman is affection; She needs affection, not sex, but affection. She wants a man to hold her hands, she wants a man to hold the door for her as she enters a place, she wants a man to help her carry heavy luggages, she wants a man to hug her, but the problem is that a man may start thinking that she wants sex, she does not, she just want a show of affection. So please understand the need of your wife and she will help you to meet your own need. BBM PIN IS 7F67F91A

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YOU ARE NOT A SUCCESS UNTIL YOU HAVE ENEMIES. ENEMIES INDIRECTLY HELP YOU THINKING THAT THEY ARE HURTING YOU. THE DEVIL HELPED JESUS TO THE CROSS. JOSEPH'S BROTHERS HELPED JOSEPH TO HIS THRONE, GOLIATH HELPED DAVID TO FAME. THAT ENEMY IS HELPING YOU. LOOK BEYOND THE HURT THERE IS GAIN IN THAT PAIN. THE PAIN BUILD ANGER BUT THE GAIN WILL BRINGS JOY THAT WILL HELP YOU DEFEAT THE ENEMY. BBM PIN 7F67F91A

Job was declared a perfect man by God when Jesus Christ had not yet come but He still fell because of fear. JOB 3: 25. Righteousness with fear is foolishness. The righteous is suppose to be bold as a lion. Satan only attacks through fear. You are where you are because of your fears. A bold sinner will get more results in life than a fearful believer. Receive the spirit of boldness to bury all your challenges today in Jesus name.

Hear me; IF THAT BREAKTHROUGH DOOR WON'T OPEN TODAY, THE HOLY GHOST WILL BREAK IT DOWN.

YOU RUN THE RACE OF LIFE WITH TWO LEGS. THE LEFT LEG IS CAPACITY, WHILE THE RIGHT LEG IS CHARACTER. CAPACITY WILL GIVE YOU THE JOB BUT CHARACTER WILL KEEP YOU ON THE JOB. SAUL HAD THE CAPACITY BUT LACKED THE CHARACTER. SAMSON HAD THE CAPACITY BUT LACKED THE CHARACTER. DAVID, DANIEL, BISHOP DAVID OYEDEPO AND JOSEPH HAD THE CAPACITY AND THE CHARACTER. CAPACITY IS SKILL, KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM, QUALIFICATION BUT CHARACTER IS HONESTY, PURITY AND HOLINESS. RECEIVE GRACE TO POSSESS THE TWO IN JESUS NAME.

MUST HE CHEAT?

It is possible for someone to love you sincerely and still cheat on you. You cannot assume that because your spouse loves you he or she may not cheat on you. The fundamentals of cheating in relationships have to be fully understood because until understanding is in place, misunderstanding may continue.

Cheating in relationships is not a question of love but a question of contentment, it is a question of satisfaction. A man that is not contented or satisfied with everything about you may still cheat on you even if he loves you and this includes the ladies too.

It is also good to understand that whether it is the man that cheats or the woman that cheats it is the same crime. I say this because we weigh a woman cheating on her man as more grievous than the reverse. They are both the same. They should both be frowned at. For example; the man, a wife is cheating with is also a man and had the mindset of not seeing this as grievous. The bible says do unto others as you will want them to do unto you.

Divorce is not the remedy to infidelity, forgiveness is not the remedy, shouting and fighting will not help the situation. You must call your spouse and ask him or her what went wrong. If it was the devil cast him out, if it is your spouse draw him or her closer and fix things. Don't see the person as a "dog" or as a "swine" something went wrong, you could do same if you are not contented. Like I said the problem is lack of contentment. Your partner is not contented with you, the good news is that there is a solution. The solution is LOVE, love her or him the more, it may hurt and you would want to revenge, but two wrongs cannot make a right. Telling your friends or anyone that cares to listen cannot make things right. You must keep your own part of the marriage vow and covenant and then God who has the heart of every man will intervene.

Finally beloved, not everybody has the capacity or ability to cheat, people who cheated in their relationships may eventually cheat in marriage because although they are in love but they lack contentment, contentment cannot be bought or assumed it can only come from God. Godliness with contentment is great gain. Be contented with your spouse, do not compare him or her to others. Your own is the best, if she is getting too fat tell her the implications and let her work on herself, marriage in itself is a job. You don't have to be monitoring the person up and down and checking her mails, texts and phone calls. Are you expecting her or him to cheat on you? In some cases you just have to act as if you don't care if she cheats or not because what you worry about or fear most may happen. Philippians 4:6, Job 2:3. Also make sure your spouse keeps the right kind of friends because he or she could be negatively influenced. Don't stop her from associating but let it be with the right company. If this is happening to you and your relationship or home is undergoing this problem, I pray for peace and restoration of contentment in the name of Jesus Christ.

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QUESTION OF THE DAY

Do you think the world would have been a better place if Adam and Eve had not disobeyed God?

GOD MADE THE DEVIL. WHAT THEN CAN THE DEVIL CAUSE THAT GOD CANNOT RESOLVE.

The most important thing in life is to understand that God has the final say on all issues. There is no closed case with God. No matter how difficult. When God is ready to solve a problem, the problem will vanish as if it never existed. Knowing this, should fill your heart with uncontrollable joy and peace. It is God that has the final say, no matter what anybody says. Jeremiah 32:27. It is God that even created the devil in the first place. What can the devil cause that God cannot resolve? Many people have underestimated God because they feel He is too slow. Please God is never slow or late. His ways are not our ways. Because nothing has happened does not mean something is not happening. Nothing takes God unawares, He can do and undo. He can reopen any case. Live your life with a GOD-HAS-THE-FINAL-SAY-MENTALITY and you will be at peace, you will be free from anxiety and this will cause God to step in. God is stepping in for you today.

IF YOU WON'T LEARN FROM THAT CHALLENGE IT MAY JUST HAPPEN AGAIN IN ANOTHER FORM.

WITH A LOUD VOICE AND A HEART OF FAITH PRAY THIS PRAYER...

I agree with you as you pray;

Father LORD, I thank you for giving me the glorious opportunity to see today, according to your word in Psalm 118:24; this is the day that you have made for me to rejoice and be glad in it. I will rejoice because you shall visit me with your goodness and favour today. I will also be glad because the people connected to me will also experience your breakthrough power today. Lord Jesus, let me experience a day without struggles, let me encounter joy unspeakable today, Let age-long challenges come to an end even before twelve mid night today. I speak to the earth, O EARTH, O EARTH, Hear ye the word of the LORD. Release the profit that is for all to me this moment in Jesus name. Let the work of my hands and all that I am involved in today blossom.

Let everything work together for my good in Jesus name. Angels of God; I release you to go into every hour of today and touch the heart of my helpers, cause them to help me in a hurry today in Jesus name. Go before me and make every crooked way straight. Clear off misfortune, clear off dangers, clear off heart aches, uproot the works of darkness from my path today in Jesus name. Give me the grace to talk to people about Jesus today in Jesus name. Thank you LORD Jesus for answering my prayers in Jesus name I have prayed.

Beloved this is the most favour-filled day of your life. Good things will run after you in Jesus name. Before you recover from one testimony another one will come in Jesus name. NO MORE SORROWS, NO MORE DELAY. REJOICE!!! Please if you have the time, share this prayer for others to benefit and the special blessing of publishing God's word will locate you today in Jesus name.

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THE TOTALITY OF SALVATION.

It is important to know that salvation is a two packed experience. A lot of people focus on one all through their lives no wonder they live in struggles continually.

The first experience is having Jesus as your saviour while the second is having Jesus as your LORD. Many have given their lives to Christ and taken it back by not making Him their LORD. What does it mean to give your life to Christ? It means to hand your life totally to Him. So the life you now live is in Christ or of Christ.

The beginning of an ever winning and overcoming life is in making Jesus your LORD. JESUS CAN BE YOUR SAVIOUR AND NOT YOUR LORD BUT HE CANNOT BE YOUR LORD WITHOUT BEING YOUR SAVIOUR. SAVING YOU WAS HIS RESPONSIBILITY WHILE LORDING YOU IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.

Until Jesus become your Lord, sin will still have dominion over you. Sin is either your master or Jesus your master. No wonder many Christians lie, fornicate, deceive and masturbate. Jesus is the only LORD that can discipline your flesh permanently. Not fasting or isolation or dressing. I have seen someone who went to the mountain to pray and masturbated there, some receive phone calls during a fast and still lie over the phone. Some cover their body from head to toe, wear no earings or weavon but nurse hatred, jealously and envy in their hearts.Sin is a singular thing. You may not fornicate but if you gossip or backbite you are still sinning. You are too small to deal with sin. Let Jesus who conquered sin be your Lord and He will dominate sin in you. Romans 6:24.

Do nothing without the word, live a life by faith. Faith is not just what you use but how you live. Praying before making decisions prove that you have made Jesus your Lord. Paying your tithe means Jesus is your Lord. Depending on the Holy Spirit and talking about Jesus means He is your Lord. Is Jesus truly your LORD. IF NOT MAKE A DECISION BE BLESSED.
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God will not allow you to be put to shame FOR HIS NAME SAKE.

The easiest way into the miraculous is to be more God-conscious and less self/flesh conscious. Expect everything from God but know no man after the flesh. God uses men, but see them as only channels, God is the only source. You can work out that miracle by taking your mind from that present challenge and placing it on God even if it is for 1 hour.