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Business / Re: Domainers/self-delivery Group. by udalor: 9:12pm On Jun 01, 2023
2sexycom:
I am creating this thread as a place to gather as much people as possible.

The idea is to help us handle delivery within your locality for a token. It works like this:

When we get orders in your location, we can waybill the item to you in your name, while you help us deliver to the customer. We can discuss how much you will charge for this service.

I can also recommend you to my fellow friends who need this service for their respective businesses.

Please, if you know you can not be trusted, do not bother to join. Do not bother to join if this a means for you to start giving stories of missing items or funds.

The opportunity here is one in which companies have built empires on but this depend on how you view it at your end, you can even decide to build a new business on this idea and flourish. I know a guy who started something like this in Lagos in 2017 and today he has as much as 10 staff working for him.

Let's be guided with diligence and foresight to grow.

Thank you.

Hello. I am based in Ipaja, Command area of Lagos. I am interested. I have done something like this before and I got good commendation. Thanks
Business / Re: Domainers/self-delivery Group. by udalor: 12:03pm On May 04, 2023
Hello. I am based in Ipaja, Command area of Lagos. I am interested. I have done something like this before and I got good commendation. Thanks
Romance / Re: Once In A Lifetime by udalor: 2:22pm On Apr 10, 2023
How long is a while?
Romance / Re: Once In A Lifetime by udalor: 12:18pm On Mar 31, 2022
Cotton candy cloud
Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 7:41pm On Feb 27, 2022
You probably have a lot of preconceived notions about what love should be.


Many books and movies have been written and made about love should be. You know, the ones that end up with the happy couple holding hands and walking off into the sunset with the promise of them living happily ever after.


And you know what?


You are probably still waiting to experience the magic. I am not going to be pessimistic by saying it doesn't happen but I would let you know that what works in those movies is not what really leads to love. It just makes for a good story.

So get those romanticized emotions out of your head because the truth about love is much more stunning.



If most of your knowledge about what works with men and what doesn't, comes from watching TV shows and romantic movies, then you are heading for disaster. And you probably don't even realize it.

Real life is NOT like the movies.



You must learn what men really want, and what they are hard-wired (through millions of years of evolution) to respond to on an emotional level.

And what really works with men is an absolutely different idea from what you are used to.

If you're really looking to find the one who will love you completely



In my e-book: "Eyes Wide Shut...Get The Unexpected Answers To Finding And Keeping Love..Only For Single Ladies", i went into details to explain the exact step by step secrets to use to stop men from playing games with you.

You deserve to know what's inside this book.

Because it shows you how to change certain things about yourself if you are unsatisfied with your love life (and making the same old mistakes


(See my profile by clicking my name to see how you can get the e-book).

See my profile for the link to get it


Peace..
Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 6:22pm On Feb 16, 2022
The Basis Of A Toxic Relationship



Women are known for ignoring bad treatment when they’ve become attached to a man.You don’t want to ruin what you already have with him because you have invested time and emotions and you think you love him.

Your perspective becomes distorted, the longer you tolerate bad treatment. This happens because you are now emotionally attached. 


The key to making the right choice in a man is two things:

Watch his actions

Don’t deny how his actions make you feel.

Sometimes, you talk yourself into believing he is going to change for the better. All because you are already attached emotionally.

I’m sure lots of women do have their ideal man by their side and are really happy.

Still, when it comes to commitment, you have to evaluate him without any ounce of sentiment. You have to be careful.


In my e-book: "Eyes Wide Shut...Get The Unexpected Answers To Finding And Keeping Love..Only For Single Ladies", i went into details to explain the exact step by step secrets to use to stop men from playing games with you.

You deserve to know what's inside this book.

Because it shows you how to change certain things about yourself if you are unsatisfied with your love life (and making the same old mistakes

See my profile by clicking my name to see how you can get the e-book).

See my profile for the link to get it


Peace..

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Romance / Re: Once In A Lifetime by udalor: 9:25pm On Feb 14, 2022
Happy Valentine's Day
Romance / How To Enjoy Valentine As A Single Lady Without Any Fuss Or Self Pity by udalor: 5:29am On Feb 14, 2022
lt is Valentine's Day. A pagan holiday if you ask me, but it is a special day dedicated to lovers. A day filled with excitement, joy, and a genuine gratitude for that special someone in your life.



This is a loner's guide for the single and luckless in love. I don't mean to be blatant with my description of the single state of a lot of people but I believe in an actual diagnosis. This piece is for the recently single and the ones who are currently in a failed talking stage, or situationship that turned out to be a no-situationship. Bless you all!!



But before you start moping or feel sorry for yourselves, I want you to know you should be thankful because you are not under pressure or obligated to be in search for a gift that suits "the one".



Single by choice or nah, this short piece will help rid you of the blues today. You just haven't found the right person and that's fine. It can be a celebration of yourself and the people you care about.


While you might be single, that doesn’t mean you only have to spend all of Valentine’s Day at work or at home.

Go out, window shop, sip cocktails, eat pizza...you never know, you just might meet your potential Valentine date for February 14th 2023. Take the time to appreciate the wonderful friendships you have in your life



Reject pity. You are still amazing, regardless. This is not a pep up talk. It's just how I feel . Would you rather be in a relationship going nowhere or would you rather spend time by yourself to still explore and improve yourself rather than be shackled to a narcissist who thinks you should be grateful to have him in your life.



You don’t have to have a partner to be happy on Valentine’s Day besides there is no rule that you have to spend this day with a "lover" of the opposite sex(who you are not related to). It is all about love so you can spend it with mum or a couple of friends or any available ally or comrade so you can form your Lonely Hearts band(just joking).



It is an excessively commercialized super-sexy holiday, so go take advantage of the sales and have fun by yourself or with your girls.



Also, don't try to secure a last minute Valentine moment by replying a DM sent since December 2021. It is plain embarrassing. Everything will be fine as soon as it's 12 midnight and we are all back to reality and gender wars.





It is okay to restrain yourself from scrolling through Instagram today if you can't bear the onslaught of #CoupleGoals pics. Don’t spend too long on social media if images of romantic Valentine’s Day gifts and pictures are going to irk your soul.



No matter what you do, this thread is to make being single and also being in a relationship worth the time and the wait. Sometimes all you need to feel better about being single on Valentine’s Day is reminding yourself just how amazing you are



In my e-book: "Eyes Wide Shut...Get The Unexpected Answers To Finding And Keeping Love..Only For Single Ladies", i went into details to explain the exact step by step secrets to use to stop men from playing games with you.

You deserve to know what's inside this book.

Because it shows you how to change certain things about yourself if you are unsatisfied with your love life (and making the same old mistakes


(See my profile by clicking my name to see how you can get the e-book).

See my profile for the link to get it


Peace..
Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 5:24am On Feb 14, 2022
How To Enjoy Valentine As A Single Lady Without Any Fuss Or Self Pity


lt is Valentine's Day. A pagan holiday if you ask me, but it is a special day dedicated to lovers. A day filled with excitement, joy, and a genuine gratitude for that special someone in your life.



This is a loner's guide for the single and luckless in love. I don't mean to be blatant with my description of the single state of a lot of people but I believe in an actual diagnosis. This piece is for the recently single and the ones who are currently in a failed talking stage, or situationship that turned out to be a no-situationship. Bless you all!!



But before you start moping or feel sorry for yourselves, I want you to know you should be thankful because you are not under pressure or obligated to be in search for a gift that suits "the one".



Single by choice or nah, this short piece will help rid you of the blues today. You just haven't found the right person and that's fine. It can be a celebration of yourself and the people you care about.


While you might be single, that doesn’t mean you only have to spend all of Valentine’s Day at work or at home.

Go out, window shop, sip cocktails, eat pizza...you never know, you just might meet your potential Valentine date for February 14th 2023. Take the time to appreciate the wonderful friendships you have in your life



Reject pity. You are still amazing, regardless. This is not a pep up talk. It's just how I feel . Would you rather be in a relationship going nowhere or would you rather spend time by yourself to still explore and improve yourself rather than be shackled to a narcissist who thinks you should be grateful to have him in your life.



You don’t have to have a partner to be happy on Valentine’s Day besides there is no rule that you have to spend this day with a "lover" of the opposite sex(who you are not related to). It is all about love so you can spend it with mum or a couple of friends or any available ally or comrade so you can form your Lonely Hearts band(just joking).



It is an excessively commercialized super-sexy holiday, so go take advantage of the sales and have fun by yourself or with your girls.



Also, don't try to secure a last minute Valentine moment by replying a DM sent since December 2021. It is plain embarrassing. Everything will be fine as soon as it's 12 midnight and we are all back to reality and gender wars.





It is okay to restrain yourself from scrolling through Instagram today if you can't bear the onslaught of #CoupleGoals pics. Don’t spend too long on social media if images of romantic Valentine’s Day gifts and pictures are going to irk your soul.



No matter what you do, this thread is to make being single and also being in a relationship worth the time and the wait. Sometimes all you need to feel better about being single on Valentine’s Day is reminding yourself just how amazing you are.


In my e-book: "Eyes Wide Shut...Get The Unexpected Answers To Finding And Keeping Love..Only For Single Ladies", i went into details to explain the exact step by step secrets to use to stop men from playing games with you.

You deserve to know what's inside this book.

Because it shows you how to change certain things about yourself if you are unsatisfied with your love life (and making the same old mistakes


(See my profile by clicking my name to see how you can get the e-book).

See my profile for the link to get it


Peace..
Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 6:57am On Feb 11, 2022
An Unpopular Reason Reason Why You Haven't Met The Right One

Your logical mind says you want a functional relationship devoid of strife and unhappiness, but sadly, you are not driven by logic because of your emotions.

When your subconscious mind and conscious mind are in alignment, We are magnets for whatever experience you feel we deserve, either positive or negative. The law of attraction pulls people into your life based on your subconscious.



You see, we think millions of thoughts every day, negative or positive, confident or fearful, determined or defeated. These thoughts create a world based on your most dominant thoughts, thereby forming a pattern. There is a constant struggle between your thoughts and your reality when they should align.

You also need to understand that your subconscious often comes from your experience, other people's experiences, seeing your father cheat on your mother so many times, hair salon chatter or ladies night gossip with your girlfriends. These things form the basis of your subconscious and your subconscious determines your reality.

So, you are quick to jump ship, act out or exaggerate his actions or indiscretions because you have internalized the idea that men are unfaithful so you sabotage a beautiful friendship or just nip it in the bud before it becomes significant.



Example:

He does something that upsets you, so you start to focus on how he’s going to leave you or get sick of you or break up with you over qualities then you wonder why your relationships dies after 3-5 months



In my e-book: "Eyes Wide Shut...Get The Unexpected Answers To Finding And Keeping Love..Only For Single Ladies", i went into details to explain the exact step by step secrets to use to stop men from playing games with you.

You deserve to know what's inside this book.

Because it shows you how to change certain things about yourself if you are unsatisfied with your love life (and making the same old mistakes


(See my profile by clicking my name to see how you can get the e-book).

See my profile for the link to get it


Peace..
Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 8:06am On Feb 10, 2022
Why Men Rarely Ask You Directly For A Relationship


I see this question asked often:

Why won't he ask me directly to be his girlfriend if he's interested?

Often, the presumption is that he doesn't know what he wants or he is trying to make up his mind(commitment phobia).

Well, here is an alternative explanation.

All have always been fair in love and war which simply means there are no rules to this "game" called Love. It sure isn't meant to be a game but a lot of people have an ulterior motive or an hidden agenda. At best, you might simply serve as a reflection of his self image or an extension of his ego so he can't resist the possibility of another opportunity for gratification.


He likes you. He wants you but you are not necessarily "the one" .

Everyone has a timeline for different points in their lives. School, marriage, starting a business. Somehow, he feels that a relationship might be disruptive to his plans so he doesn't ask you directly to be his girlfriend. You are only convenient for sleepovers (and sex appointments) and he wants you to be reasonable enough to accommodate him that way because he is comfortable with the arrangement.

Once you’re hooked, you’ll invest your time and emotions only to realize that you have "just friends" all along. And it's too late, you are hooked and Mr Hotshot isn't considering the possibility of a relationship, let alone "happy ever after" with you.

Secondly, you might not be his type. It happens. We have our specifications and somehow, we haven't met the one that makes us feel like gliding but we meet people who don't fit the description of the ideal mate, especially in the physical department but we date them, regardless because they have other qualities that make up for their lack of sex appeal or something else.


The current society has normalized women "shooting shots" at their desired choice of partner. It is simply making advances at the man. It shows you are assertive and confident. I encourage it too. It's good but be ready to evaluate what really happens afterwards, especially if he doesn't reciprocate your advances. In fact, be glad he rejected you. Look on the bright side. At least, he didn't lead you on.

Most men will encourage flirtation from women because it is a boost to their ego I understand a lot of women hate to be rejected because they have been doing the rejecting almost all their lives, especially in the area of heterosexual relationships and situations.

All I know is that it simply FEELS GOOD when a woman makes it obvious that she likes a man.

Making the first move by the lady is being gradually encouraged in this era. It is no longer a masculine trait but it doesn't guarantee that he will like you back. Men will rarely reject a lady outrightly just like the women would. He will definitely reciprocate your gestures and advances because you have stroked his vanity but understand that you might not fit his ideal description so he will not be motivated to ask you out or ask you to be his girlfriend.



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Yes, men should give chase but don't let society foist rules on you that have not been accepted by the majority because of social conditioning. Go at your own pace but don't be in a rush to hop on a bandwagon that does not agree with your values.

Take charge!

You may not necessarily like having to do all the work because he is the man but taking charge is a sign of confidence and feminity in 2022 because it is synonymous to saving your time and not wasting it with yet another perennial bachelor if marriage is in your sights.

Taking charge of the situation is simply defining what you want and letting him know that before it drags on


In my e-book: "Eyes Wide Shut...Get The Unexpected Answers To Finding And Keeping Love..Only For Single Ladies", i went into details to explain the exact step by step secrets to use to stop men from playing games with you.

You deserve to know what's inside this book.

Because it shows you how to change certain things about yourself if you are unsatisfied with your love life (and making the same old mistakes


(See my profile by clicking my name to see how you can get the e-book).

See my profile for the link to get it


Peace..

Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 8:26am On Feb 09, 2022
Are You An High Value Woman?





If you want him to think that you are a high value woman...

Then you must be more than just a pretty face and a great body.

Read on


Your attitude should be:

"I am sophisticated, well rounded, charismatic, intelligent, confident, assertive, powerful, passionate and important"

This is how we perceive an high value lady who understands her worth and importance.

I am not going to lead you on or deceive you by telling you that you are high value because I don't know you. You would have to decide what you are but I want to let you know that your "value" is what determines everything that happens to you. From your relationships and your association. It determines the access you have and also how people treat you, both men and women.

Value is the difference in how the First lady of a country or a popular actress or artiste is treated from a local unknown market woman in Oyigbo market.

High value is not the window dressing. A local housewife or a market woman in a business suit and a Cadillac is still a local woman because of her self image

That's why she appears uninteresting and uncouth.

Your appearance can only go so far. How do you sustain the interest of the kind of man you desire as time goes on. Instagram presents a facade to the world. You can easily filter and airbrush your photos to look the part but will people get disappointed when they meet you in person?


High value people will ask for more than window dressing.

We are qualified on our interests, hobbies, goals in life, things she likes to do for fun, etc. Start paying attention to the things that are high value worthy.

I could write a book on how to be regarded as high value because it is a very vast topic but in this context of romantic relationships, you have to understand that people are drawn to people who are like them or person who they aspire to be like.


It is a sunny Saturday afternoon. You are wearing shorts and watching funny videos as you lay on the couch in the living room. You suddenly come across the photo of a really goodlooking fella on Instagram. He is dark skinned like Kofi Siriboe with a full dark beard. He is wearing a dark blue suit as he winks at the camera with a set of perfect teeth.

Well, as expected. You click on his handle to take a look at his page. His posts have tons of comments from hordes of female admirers just lusting over him and calling him "stud", " hunk", "hottie" with heart thumping emojis to boot.

Well, what do you expect?

Well, you are probably thinking you don't stand a chance. You are not in his league as you consider sending him a DM.

What the heck!! You just might. What's the worst that could happen?

You pause for a bit to muster courage. You scroll over his photos again to see him smiling like a Cheshire cat in what looks like a cockpit. Oh, he must be a pilot. He is even dressed like one. Other photos show him beside the Eiffel tower in Paris and some other exotic locations.

At this point, you decide to go back to watching videos. Yes, you have followed him but only to look at his ravishing photos. Oh, he is wearing black briefs in one.

Why didn't you shoot your shot?

It is simply because you felt unworthy. You didn't think he would entertain your advances because of the photos you saw on his page. I absolutely understand. This is why I recommend investment in your self development on the path to being an high value woman.


Have some depth. Read books on emotional intelligence, seize every opportunity to improve yourself. Read to expand your knowledge base. Exude genuine warmth and also value your self esteem. Listen to classical music, jazz and R&B from the 90s and also from the present. Explore horizons. Pick up a new hobby. Get involved in yoga or pole dancing. Eat healthy and also pay attention to your appearance.

You don't have to wear shoes or clothes that cost an arm and a leg just to prove that you are high class
Sometimes, style isn't necessary equated to price. Nobody knows or even cares how much your blouse costs if you are not wearing your price tags.


When you compliment others, they appreciate it greatly because of how they hold you in high esteem.

Men also wonder if they will make a good match for you when they are in your presence.

This paints you as the validator.

You become the source of validation when you are high value.

Now whether or not they are willing to commit to you is a whole different story.

But you set the frame. If he doesn't submit, there is no romance.

A high value lady wouldn't hesitate to DM Kofi Siriboe if he catches her fancy.

In my e-book: "Eyes Wide Shut...Get The Unexpected Answers To Finding And Keeping Love..Only For Single Ladies", i went into details to explain the exact step by step secrets to use to stop men from playing games with you.

You deserve to know what's inside this book.

Because it shows you how to change certain things about yourself if you are unsatisfied with your love life (and making the same old mistakes


(See my profile by clicking my name to see how you can get the e-book).

See my profile for the link to get it


Peace..

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Business To Business / Re: PALM OIL BUSINESS( Productions, Sales and Storage) by udalor: 2:15pm On Jun 30, 2021
Any palm oil suppliers in Ekiti here? Please quote me. Let's talk. Thanks
Business To Business / Re: PALM OIL BUSINESS( Productions, Sales and Storage) by udalor: 2:06pm On Jun 30, 2021
Please, can you supply palm oil consistently to Lagos and how much do you sell?how much is 25 litres of palm oil?



authority2006:


Well, that's for your area like I said where you have instrument for measuring grade A, B or C. In my area, Osun State, palm oil is uniform. It all good oil, no grade. Produce bad oil and eat it yourself or find somewhere to dump it.
Business To Business / Re: PALM OIL BUSINESS( Productions, Sales and Storage) by udalor: 6:34pm On Jun 29, 2021
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PLEASE, How much is 25 litres of palm oil and where are you located?



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Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 8:02am On Jun 21, 2021
10 Steps to Becoming Awesome



1) Put Yourself First



2) Be the Best Person Possible

Improve your eating regimen. Exercise. Scale back medications and drinking. Be useful. Learn valuable things. Do not spend money on frivolitieso.

3) Be Present

Learn from your mistakes. Understand that you can not change the past, and there is no assurance that what you do today will shape tomorrow.

4) Be Reliable

Your friends, family and allies should be able to trust you to keep your word.

5) Choose your associations carefully.

Learn to invest your emotional energy wisely. Choose your associations carefully.



6) Treat Everyone the Same – With Respect

Have a similar regard for the individual cleaning your office as you would your best client. At the point when you do this, you put on a show of being more valid.

7) Don't Lie

Being truthful is the most ideal approach.

cool Be Social

Attempt to take part in friendly exercises with others. Discover something you are keen on and get included. The best speculation you can make in your life in growing your organization.

9) Stop Complaining

In the event that there is a going thing on in your life that you don't care for, make a move to transform it. On the off chance that it's anything but something you can change, figure out how to adapt to it in the most ideal manner you can.

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Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 8:58am On Jun 18, 2021
You have to admit that the ordinary characteristics that make a lady 'spouse material' or 'marriage' material sound pretty exhausting.



My recommendation:



Try not to intend to be spouse material.



Expect to be in the unrivaled lady class. Since being a spouse is no assurance that he is infatuated with you, is faithful to you, or considers you to be his all in all.



Marriage can be an outer image that you're the all in all, however it is a long way from an assurance.



It is just when you're the unparalleled lady that you can guarantee that all his enthusiastic assets, time and energy are saved distinctly for you.







However, when you're the unparalleled lady, you have the characteristics and the weakness that makes you the sort of lady that men become hopelessly enamored with









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Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 9:38am On Jun 17, 2021
Perhaps the greatest craving for men, paying little mind to custom or culture, is opportunity, regard and sexual curiosity

Men comprehend their acknowledgment as validated by the society.

A few men battle for their entire lives for opportunity, and to encounter opportunity.

Typically once they find that feeling of opportunity, they could never release it

Yet, you need responsibility. You need to be the focal point of his reality. A man as of now has such countless duties and commitments so being with you should not feel like a commitment in light of the fact that you trigger enthusiasm when you are together.


A relationship is an association, and responsibility is a two way road. On the off chance that you need somebody to focus on you, ask yourself exactly how much responsibility you've given as a trade off. Come at the situation from your accomplice's perspective and ask yourself exactly what they believe they need to focus on in you, and what responsibility they can expect consequently.

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Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 6:54am On Jun 16, 2021
The movie " Queen & Slim" ends on a very sad note. I had already envisioned their possible escape and safety but it wasn't meant to be . They were shot and killed by the police just as the couple was about to flee on their getaway plane.

If you haven't seen the movie, then I will give you the synopsis. The story is based on a black couple who are on the run after killing a police officer. You need to see the movie to know what led to the "murder".

The man in the photo(who was supposed to help them escape)snitched on Queen and Slim just to get the reward money for their capture. Obviously, there was a manhunt for them but the man wasn’t loyal. He alerted the police and it led to an unexpected anticlimax that really broke our hearts.

You see, everyone suffers at least one really bad betrayal in their lifetime. The Son of God was no exception.

So, how did you manage betrayal from a friend, a family member or a lover?

Have you been able to trust fully and implicitly since then?

Have you gone on to develop deep bonds with other people?

It is natural for people to affirm their distrust in others because of one act of betrayal but we have to be careful about the thoughts we send out to the universe by casting sentiments aside.

We have to process the reality of pain as a result of betrayal. Paranoia impedes spiritual and psychological growth. Trust is the foundational principle that holds all relationships but what happens when you suffer a really bad betrayal that just knocks the wind and the trust out of you?

You see, the ending of "Queen and Slim" reminds me of a grim past. It poked an old wound. I realized that I am still detached but I am rational in my level of trust towards others without highlighting the magnitude of what happened .

Kindness will prevail.


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Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 7:28am On Jun 15, 2021
As a woman, your authenticity is limited because you have to bend to societal rules and patriarchy (which is not really extinct yet) for your goals, behavior yet) and even how you present yourself.

Look in the mirror.

You do what you are told. Go to school. Look and dress a certain way. Get married at a certain age. You have lost touch of who you really are. Maybe it is too late to go on a journey of self discovery or maybe it isn't but most of the time, you get so good at doing the things that are prescribed to you by society that you lose touch with yourself and have forgotten who you really are.

According to societal dictates, the chance of a woman getting married is hinged on her looks, body size and how homely she is. The game depends on how appealing you are to a man. Has the times changed much?Are women regarded and respected for their minds and achievements? Yes, they are but it isn't widespread yet but you can be different...You can change the game.

Say "Amen"

Are you single and genuinely want to "settle down"? This book is for you. Are you lovelorn and about to give up men altogether ?

Then this guide is for you? Absolutely



Click the link below



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Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 7:27am On Jun 15, 2021
Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 8:17am On Jun 14, 2021
Will You Marry For Love Or For Money?


It is age old knowledge that woman are naturally predisposed to marry the richest man she can find

Why does society equate a woman prioritising her lover's financial status with gold digging?

Every woman has her individual desire and wants, sometimes influenced by society, associations and pop culture

But I will say this..

A woman's desire for a rich lover a man is a primal desire like a man going after a woman with humongous backside

It is a base level desire

It’s the most primitive desire of a woman – to choose a man with readily available resources

But is providing financial resources more important than providing emotional availability and companionship?

I am tempted to give an encompassing answer but to each her own. Women are not all the same. There are women out there who have minds of their own.

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Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 7:20am On Jun 11, 2021
You have heard it many times.

"What do you bring to the table?

Whether it's in dating or marriage, men and women bring a lot of things uniquely to the table that help build one beautiful, whole relationship.

Everyone always writes about what they want in their ideal partner, but how many people actually take the time to list out relationship traits they actually possess and what they would bring to the table



It is time to be assertive about what you bring to the table.

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Romance / Re: The Brutally Honest Guide To Successful Dating And Relationships:for Ladies by udalor: 8:43am On Jun 10, 2021
Hey, miss

You've been lied to.

You have been told for decades that it's the man's place to chase you

It is hard to believe otherwise but...

The times have changed.

I know it may sound hard to believe, because men are supposedly genetically programmed to chase you.


There is no research to back this claim but I can boldly tell you that you have the power to make the final decision.

You have the power of...

CHOICE...

Sexually... emotionally... and every other way she can imagine.

The man chases but you choose him based on your standards.

You will only choose him if he meets your expectations


Now you know....

When a man makes a move on you, there are two possible outcomes, you either reject him or encourage his advances.



PS - Remember – You choose him, not the other way around.

That means every time a man approaches you or CHASE you

You're actually choosing him.

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