 Christianity Etc › Re: Muslim Brothers Please Explain To Me !!! by udatso: 8:16pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Mubbyleey:
It might mean something... Just try it out, he didnt colect anytn 4rm ya, he didnt ask 4 anytn, God might've used him 2 send a message to u... Who knows
Just do it bro, it's mor or less lyk an offering 2me... If you are a Muslim, you would know that there is nothing to consider in it. You would equally know that Islam has nothing to do with stuffs like this. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Irreconciliable Contradictions In The Bible by udatso: 8:13pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
truthman2012:
@ Takara
Receiving record in the left hand and behing the back is not the only contradiction in the quran. They are numerous.
The two contradictory verses are referring to the same event: one says 'in the left hand' and the other 'behind the back'. These are two different directions. It didn't say you will receive your record with your left hand stretched to your back. No.
Look at this again:
Qur'an (3:83) - "Are they seeking
a religion other than Allah's,
when every soul in the heavens
and the earth has submitted to
Him, willingly or by
COMPULSION?" This is against
earlier verse (2:256) stating that
there is "no COMPULSION in
religion".
Now, reconcile that.
Again, is it true every soul has submitted to allah on earth? Why are there other religions?
Is it also true that every soul has submitted to allah in heaven? Why are there people in hell?
I want to hear from you first before I call allah a liar. You have been advised to open a new thread for this. You bringing more of this would be derailing the thread. Thanks |
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| Politics › Re: Presidency Lists Grouse With February Polls Date by udatso: 7:32am On Feb 07, 2015 |
J12:
Jega thinks this election is child's play. I doubt if this man is mentally sound, he doesn't understand that this year's elections are pivotal to our democratic and social progress.
His PVC distribution and collection plan is useless and stupid. I went to INEC office in Area 10 to collect my PVC this morning only to be told I can't collect it because I registered in Enugu. I can't imagine how many nigerians are like me, who registered in a different state in 2010/2011 and left their area of registration permanently thereafter but can't vote in the upcoming elections because Jega can't use his brains properly even though he is a professor.
Jega must go after 2015.
INEC has the sole responsibility of sensitizing and informing eligible voters of the status of the TVC's and PVS. Technology has made it extremely easy to achieve this.
So if I registered as a voter in lets say, in an insurgency infested area like Baga in 2010/2011 and left, you expect me to go back to Baga and collect my PVC?
Or what if registered in lagos in 2011 and I no longer live in lagos and I am now disabled because I have an accident? That means i'm disenfranchised.
Why can't INEC have a centralised and publicly accessible database where users can check the status of their cards. INEC is not the NPC or NIMC, their activities are continuous and important. I dint like it when people don't put much effort in thinking before commenting. isn't INEC's fault that you changed your location? how will the commission know that you changed location so they can bring it to your doorstep. do you open up a bank account in zaria and then go to lokoja to collect your Atm? you would be told you can't collect it in lokoja but you have to go back to zaria to collect it. I am currently in Accra and my permanent voters card has been collected and brought to me. sstop blaming your laziness in retrieving your pvc on INEC. leave jega alone and start using your brain. |
| Politics › Re: Thugs Thumb-Printing Ballot Papers For Aregbesola (Video) by udatso: 7:01am On Feb 07, 2015 |
I must confess that am quiet surprised at the dubious attitude of Nigerians when facing issues like this. I have just watched the video and the only thing am going to tell those using this an avenue to attack Apc of been bad, we already know that Apc isn't Saint, in fact there is no such a party that is Saint, in fact when it comes to rigging, PDP tops them all. most people voting for Apc (presidential) just want change in government hopefully they would get it right in Apc, most believed PDP (presidency) has failed them. so it's not about "Hey don't vote for Apc, they also do bad stuffs but rather it's hey we will vote anything(presidential) but PDP |
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| Christianity Etc › A Word Of Advice For The Christians by udatso(op): 7:14pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
I decided to write this cos I believe there are lots of reasonable, honest and tolerant Christians here who would call a spade a spade no matter the circumstances or especially if it means treating other peoples' faith fairly.
it is no longer a news that everyday, there is always an anti - Islam thread in this section where our beloved Prophet or our faith generally is insulted by certain users who have taken it upon themselves to spread falsehood.
Muslims are not knew to this treatment . but when I visit such threads, I try to reply in most cases just to clear the misconception for the new users or for those who had no clue about the topic. my Muslim brothers have also tried their best in this aspect.
what baffles me is the reaction of the clueless. When an information is passed to us, we shouldn't be lazy in verifying such claims. if we can't verify it, why endorse such info. it would be an act of insincerity for one to come to a topic were Islam is been accused of certain crimes and his reply would be something like "na wa for Islam ooo, Islam is a religion of bla bla bls" and other hateful statements. for such persons I can only conclude they are not ready face the truth.
personally when an info is passed to me about Christianity I must ensure that I have made my research before I have my say. I don't just go about and start to criticise Christians based on what I heard. why can't we also emulate this good virtue? . Do you always have to insult Islam?if you can't verify it, why can't you just keep quiet.?
the point is don't just take what you are told hook, line and sinker. it's the 21st century when info can easily be verified. and when you see your Christian brother doing what is wrong to non Christian, don't just ignore him. the least you can do is caution him. The Bible doesn't ask anyone to support evil by a believer on a non believer.
Peace |
| Politics › Re: Who The Hell Is Buhari? by udatso: 10:59am On Jan 31, 2015 |
citizenY:
And who is the inept dumbo that allowed him to do all these?? good question. |
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| Politics › Re: The Many 'faults' Of Buhari by udatso: 8:15am On Jan 31, 2015 |
BeeBeeOoh:
Another fault of Boohary: he's just a statement of result holder so, advice him to go register for WAEC. Late entry has a penalty, help me convey d message to him..
at least you can't equally call him corrupt. we can't say the same for one who eats, drinks, sleep and wake in corruption. by the way, the PDP has rested the waec issue for now, try to be updated so you can know the ongoing propaganda
GEJ till boohary believes dat he's an affidavit swearer.. |
| Politics › Re: The Many 'faults' Of Buhari by udatso: 8:11am On Jan 31, 2015 |
I have to admit the op has a huge sense of humour |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Boycotts Presidential Debate by udatso: 6:07pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
lyntiffany:
pls explain this to your mr integrity in a DAYCARE terms. no need. it's for your type only |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Boycotts Presidential Debate by udatso: 6:00pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
lyntiffany:
that's how dullards reason always thinking that the most brilliant in class has seen the paper before hand. Tell your gworo chewer to go defend himself and stop giving flimsy excuses. no he won't, whether he does or not, it won't stop you from not voting him, same way it wouldn't stop others who from voting for him. even after explaining the situation in a kindergarten level, you still fail to grasp the idea. |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Boycotts Presidential Debate by udatso: 5:01pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
lyntiffany:
shut the Bleep up! it's only a dead man that can't defend himself. sometimes I wonder how you guys reason, you gave my opponent a gun with lots of ammo and you left me with nothing yet you expect me to fight and prove that am better. does that make sense to you?it's a debate not just about selling ideas to the public alone. if I am the dullest in a class and I got questions before exam, trust me not even the brightest of students would match me. so let's not allow sentiment be cloud our judgement. |
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| Politics › Re: Buhari-stole-more-than-any-nigerian by udatso: 12:58pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
let's assume that Buhari is guilty of all these s crime, Nigerians want is someone who can handle people like this have who stolen a lot from us and not simply laughing it off and saying stealing isn't corruption. when you claim Buhari has stollen or embezzled public funds yet he walks free, you are only pointing out how incapable our president is. which is the reason why change is eminent. if I were you I would stop trying to defame Buhari by lying cos it only makes him more popular and gaining peoples' sympathy. if you think am lying, ask ffk, fayose, ruben, omokri omokri etc and we'll learned PDP nairalanders supporters. they have all learnt their lessons. |
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| Islam › Re: Islamic Teachings on Intimate Relations Between Spouses by udatso: 8:02pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
Wizeboy:
Praise be to Allaah.
The woman does not have the right to refuse her husband, rather she must respond to his request every time he calls her, so long as that will not harm her or keep her from doing an obligatory duty.
Al-Bukhaari (3237) and Muslim (1436) narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning.”
If she refuses with no excuse, she is disobeying and is being defiant (nushooz), and he is no longer obliged to spend on her and clothe her.
The husband should admonish her and remind her of the punishment of Allaah, and forsake her in her bed. He also has the right to hit her, in a manner that does not cause injury. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next) refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allaah is Ever Most High, Most Great”
[al-Nisa’ 4:34]
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked what a husband should do if his wife refuses him when he asks for intimacy.
He replied:
It is not permissible for her to rebel against him or to withhold herself from him, rather if she refuses him and persists in doing so, he may hit her in a manner that does not cause injury, and she is not entitled to spending or a share of his time [in the case of plural marriage].” Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, 32/279.
And he was asked about a man who has a wife who is rebellious and refuses intimacy – does she forfeit the right to maintenance and clothing, and what should she do?
He replied:
She forfeits her right to maintenance and clothing if she does not let him be intimate with her. He has the right to hit her if she persists in being defiant. It is not permissible for her to refuse intimacy if he asks for that, rather she is disobeying Allaah and His Messenger (by refusing). In al-Saheeh it says: “If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, the One Who is in heaven will be angry with her until morning comes.”
From Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, 32/278. The hadeeth was narrated by Muslim, 1736.
So the wife should be admonished first, and warned against defiance (nushooz) and of the anger of Allaah and the curse of the angels. If she does not respond, then the husband should forsake her in her bed, and if she does not respond to that, then he may hit her in a manner that does not cause injury. If none of these steps are effective, then he may stop spending on her maintenance and clothing, and he has the right to divorce her or to allow her to separate from him by khula’ in return for some financial settlement, such as giving up the mahr.
Similarly a slave woman does not have the right to refuse her master’s requests unless she has a valid excuse. If she does that she is being disobedient and he has the right to discipline her in whatever manner he thinks is appropriate and is allowed in sharee’ah.
And Allaah knows best.
http://islamqa.info/en/33597
It should be stated first that Islam is keen to build a strong society. Since family is the cornerstone of society, Islam pays it much attention so as to preserve its stability and well-being. In doing so, Islam defines the main objectives of family life and clearly defines the role of each partner.
The relations between the spouses should be based on tranquility, love and mercy. Allah says, "And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." (Ar-Rum: 21)
Tranquility, love and mercy are very important concepts in Islam. These three summarize the ideals of Islamic marriage. It is the duty of the husband and wife to see that they are a source of comfort and tranquility for each other. They should do everything physically, emotionally and spiritually to make each other feel happy and comfortable.
In his response to the question you posed, Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and an Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, gave the following answer:
As far as the teachings of the Qur’an and the Sunnah are concerned, just as the husband has rights over his wife, the wife has rights over her husband. Allah says in the Qur’an: “And they (women) have rights similar to those (of men) over them in kindness…” (Al-Baqarah: 228)
As Imam Al-Ghazli has analyzed this issue, this includes women’s rights to sexual satisfaction. Therefore, just as a wife will be accountable for her refusal to the demand of her husband, the husband will be also accountable for his deliberate act or negligence in this matter.
In conclusion, let us remind each other that of the Prophet’s statement that “your spouse has right over you.” This involves both partners. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, is reported to have said: “Man would be committing a huge sin if he were to neglect those who are dependant on him.”
All of these reminders would be sufficient for the husband who is conscious of Allah to do his best to please his wife just as she should be doing whatever she can within the permissible limits to please her husband.
Having said this, I would like to draw your attention to the fact that there might be some medical or psychological reasons for your husband’s unusual behavior towards you, so it is advised to seek professional help in this matter. People often become disinterested in sex because of depression for other reasons, so both of you should seek professional help in this matter.
Allah Almighty knows best.
http://www.onislam.net/english/ask-the-scholar/family/intimate-relations/175475-a-husband-refusing-intimacy-with-his-wife.html jazakallahu khairan |
| Islam › Re: Islamic Teachings on Intimate Relations Between Spouses by udatso: 10:07am On Jan 23, 2015 |
may Allah reward you abundantly for this as well as all the contributors but I do have some questions
1. what does Islam say about forced intimate relationship by the husband on his wife.
2. what does Islam say about a husband who denies his wife sexual intercourse
tbaba123 maclatunji wizeboy Abuamam sisie and all brothers, you are invited |
| Islam › Re: Canadian Muslim Puts 'free Speech' To The Test; Promptly Investigated, Shut Down by udatso: 10:39am On Jan 21, 2015 |
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| Politics › Re: Controversial PDP Ad On Punch Newspaper Front Page (Photo) by udatso: 8:15pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
tswitch:
Your stupidity is lucid.
What diffrenciates you from the Fayose you so castigate?
A young nonentity like you addressing your elders and obvious betters foolishy in a supposedly faceless forum will take you nowhere but the gutters you rightly belong, you low life bigot! elderly one, you not so sensible at all faceless elder. you fell for the trap I set for you. you just supported fayose's statement with your freedom of speech nonsense and now you react to been called a fool. it's freedom of speech (according to you) and if you aren't a fool, you should debunk the claim by subjecting yourself to a comprehensive medical test and post the result in nairaland. The rate at which people turn e-elders on nairaland is alarming |
| Politics › Re: Controversial PDP Ad On Punch Newspaper Front Page (Photo) by udatso: 6:29pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
tswitch:
Well the Fayose we all know takes the bull by
the horns or balls (depending on where you
are standing) but the most important thing
is-the bull is controlled/mastered.
Enough of idoms,today's advert on Punch
Newspaper is what everyone in the know and
corridors of power are aware of.
So if Fayose wants to pubicise it.
He can go ahead!
Freedom of the press.
Freedom of expression.
Freedom of speech.
No decree 4!
If the retired general debunks the claim he
should subject himself to a comprehensive
medical test with the results published.
Shikena! you have spoken like a true and sincere fool. keep it up. may you get better and better in this |
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