I have read through comments and its a real debate going on here. However, one clear thing is clear, Rape is a Crime. Though am still trying to wrap my head around the 'catchy' topic... It can send alot of females on a 'zombie' path which MIGHT not favor all. Infact, let me observe comments. I want to read Gaborone 's comment. This is one NLer that I look forward to read from.

Gaborone:
udz, thanks for the compliment! I'm flattered.

U are welcome. People like U are not easy to come by on NL these days. Am privileged to have U ff back. Thanks

Gaborone:
I feel very pained reading this. I feel though, that the first time your sister came home with her then husband-to-be, a knock on her head, and a gun pointed at his head would have prevented all of this.

That been said, let be drop my advice. You guys can reach out to her husband's family and table the issue of abandonment before them. You never can tell, they may be able to talk some sense into him, and make him take up his responsibilities.

If all attempts at reconciliation fail though, she can proceed to institute a suit against him for upkeep when she has the baby. She should wait a few months at least first., to see if he comes around. You guys shouldnt worry about the DNA test. She was (still is) married to him when she got pregnant, so, there is a presumption in law that the child is his. If he denies it when you guys institute the suit, it would be his place to attempt dispelling that presumption by doing the DNA test, not your sister's.

May I add though that she/you cannot sue him for plucking her in her teens, marrying her traditionally, and 'dumping' her soon after. Things don't work that way. If he had kidnapped her, it would have been different. More so, she gave her consent and was married off traditionally, and with the consent of her parents- though given grudgingly.


You can call at the Federation of International Women Lawyers' office at 14/16 Makoko Road, off Herbert Macaulay Street, Yaba, Lagos, Nigeria, Lagos, Nigeria. I believe they will take the case up when it's ripe...and for free.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask and mention me.

#Sorry about everything. It will be fine in the end.

P.S: I am not an advocate of divorce. Do not read anything extra into what I've written here. Just read and interprete as-is. Thank you.

NL do have very intelligent people. I just followed you, pls folloe back.

Will this enable the students get or create jobs after graduation ?

xender:
dat man should b sent 2 confront boko boy on d war field.

wicked man.

Daft post

A young man just died another young man in Africa is having bad dreams on how to throw out someone squattig with him

I have read through the comments and all I see in NL are kids. Even in marital and relationship advises, they are fast to judge and say break up or divorce. My guy, my experience on earth has made me to understand that this world is just vanity. If you have to ask him to leave, pls be considerate and mature and try to help him reconcile with the sister, show concern, if e no get job, try and tell him abt infos, encourage him to be independent. One thing is certain... CHANGE.
In my school days, I harboured a friend who got admission. He told me he was searching for accomodation but later I found out that the folks was even finding it hard paying ther fees and admission stuffs. So with my mind, I just born, I no even ask am if e dey find house again. He stayed for a whole session and he respected me for that. He left after his first yr when he was able to settle well. His folks were always calling me thanking. I finished and served before him without securing a job. He finished and secured a job in a big city. When I decided to relocate to the big city, guess what I stayed i his house, searched and found a job. stayed for extra months, before I gathered enough money have my own space. His house was mine, he was cool with it. So pls, if the guty is trying to find his feet, encourage him. Dont make it worse. Thank you.

VictoriaBee:



I don't even care about their opinion because I know that i am healthy how i look.
Faceless ugly males feeling funky.

U better care and do the needful, b4 U become a walking stick.

wisdomiskey:



yeh shez too frail for my likin and
would age badly.
I lik fat elderly b1tches
ie freecocoa
shez lonely and needz
ma nutz in ha mouff
bukake

Thanx buddy, women and their mouth, she started by 3 sq meal talk, I pointed dis to her, she yab my sis and mum. I handled it calmly but not evryone will. . . unto the topic.

Stillfire:


You have still not posted it...

Its Ok, U've got enough of my attention. Atleast that will do U for the rest of the yr.

Stillfire:


Post your pic...

My Pic, my Username, My Data, my Choice. . . . Biiitch !!

Stillfire:

Upload your pic...simple!

stop calling my attention, if I want urs. . . I will ask.

VictoriaBee:



Just like you don't have the guts to upload yours.
Being obese like your mum and sisters is an evidence of good food.
Good for nothing retarded simpleton.

U lack the necessary healthy fat and ur skin looks shrinked. Eat more of healthy protein and cabs. Am being nice, dont take it for granted

Stillfire:


Upload your pic first now... Make we judge who dey chop good meals...

why mention me, I didn't whisper to U. Abi U want me to check ur pix. Sorry, I won't.

VictoriaBee:
Lmao, online monikers that can't afford three square meal a day plus exquisite life calling Freeze weakling and claiming alpha male.
Instead of thinking how to better your life, it's woman-hating, wife battery and things that are useless you are claiming meanwhile you are all sissy with no life in the real-world.

Ur pix does't look like someone that eats good meals

No

londongal03:
Use another format

Lame post !

y ask much on NL. Enugu have lots of hotel. Just move around and drop cv

take d job but NEVA allow it hinder you from attending interviews for better jobs. Again, NEVA...

A judge in a saner environ will say its wrong. However judging from NAIJA its simply Hurstle. I give it up to Teachers, working their ass off and earning shi... in private and public schools. . . Govt find it easy to owe teachers, conduct yeye degrading exams for them. Most of these teachers have to teach home lessons in different homes yet most of their men are characterised with flat nyansh, tiny neck and big shirts. Babes ditch them, students mock them, Govt fvck (owe) them, Privates slave them. But I love them so I say its right. One day you will have your rewards on earth...

Congrats!

fireforfire:

Abeg carry ur yeye sef comot for my comment.

Do U have a 'self' ? Do U exist? . . . Lecture me because I don't think so.

fireforfire:
Ur nonsense head

Do U even have a head?

fireforfire:
Hmm.... Any marriage wey papa or mama no bless get as e be

Nonsense !!

Pato007 my bro, 1st of all, thank God for your life. Now my two cents. If your thing is living big, owning properties, answering 'oga' but bearing in mind of security, kidnapping, power, water, transport etc problems. Then Naija is for you because the 1.6m will have great value in Naija.

If your thing is having your sanity, living in a system that works, good health care, effective security etc Then UK is better. I will remain in the Uk even with lower pay and more tax and bills because I love a peacefull and cool life. I am in Naija. . . Its your choice, I wish I can get to relate with you privately.
Thanks.

Ugojames:

Bros my own is the pay better be worth all this ur Forming, I'll attend the interview and I assure you I will impress you but I will not work with you if the pay is not worth it.

LOL !

congrats

babacha u can send me a direct mail . i will delete soon, plz dont quote

depends sha, btw 15ok to 250k . i stay just there. hve tried to gain access but na man knw mn tins. hw u take apply?