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Family / Re: Please I Need Help. by udz: 8:59pm On May 08, 2015
@schmilez
since U knw the kind of person and reactions ur husband gives, why did U ignore him, when he asked a simple caring question, stood up, went to the bathrooom and washed ur face. just to come out and ask him what he will eat. nobody saw this part, yes ur hubby reaction no try but U are a trigger. its a two way thing. manage the situation. call ur hubby !!!!
Politics / Re: Female Partner Of The GEJ Trekker Quits (see Pics) by udz: 8:46am On May 08, 2015
one things abt #trek4GEJ is the intrigue and drama that followed it. its real time. the babe brought spice to the whole adventure.
Family / Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by udz: 12:52pm On May 07, 2015
wait, is dis a true life story abi am watching nollywod movie. which kind action film marriage is this, y ur hubby dey behave like dis. am a guy and wont support dis kind thing even if na nollywood script.

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Family / Re: Why Do People Deactivate And Return? by udz: 6:54pm On May 05, 2015
tearoses:


You talking to me? cool

In my own case I got very busy in a new chapter of my life and I didnt want any distractions at that period.
There are other extra curriculars that are linked to my NL account that were taking up a lot of my time too.

The intention was for it to stay that way, but I had some discussions offline. Some of the people I talk to here kept in touch even when I deactivated.

As for me, I have nothing to hide . . . when I did come back I reintroduced myself. Be rest assured that I am not an alcoholic wife beater cool
Some Nairalanders know me inside out anyway; including my cat, my fish and my pet spiders grin

I wont be here as much as before but I will skip in and out from time to time.
Hope I answered your questions grin

Generally speaking, people will have different reasons for deactivating. 20 kids cannnot play together for 20 years.

ok, but plz what was ur former moniker?
Family / Re: Why Do People Deactivate And Return? by udz: 5:40pm On May 05, 2015
when person shit for church, e go dey run wen nobody dey pursue am.
Family / Re: I Need Advice, I'm Seriously Lost... by udz: 5:24pm On May 05, 2015
babyosisi:

I see that too
me too
Career / Re: Oil Workers Zone. by udz: 10:06pm On May 04, 2015
scantee don enter one chance
Family / Re: I Need Advice, I'm Seriously Lost... by udz: 7:59pm On May 04, 2015
steeze:
UPDATE: I apologized to the mom and she's accepted. I've apologized to everyone. I hope we all can get past this.

While it's very easy to want to blame the guy, I was competent at the job, respectful and wasn't proud. What happened was a product of see finish. It's very easy to want to believe that I'm writing all this to make myself seem innocent and blameless, but all the wrongs I did can be seen in my posts all over this thread.

Thanks once again.

Finally, U are my guy !

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Romance / Re: How Far Can She Push You? by udz: 5:18pm On May 04, 2015
so Twaci na ABA girl
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help With Any Useful Info by udz: 2:58pm On May 04, 2015
guy howfar na, i tot u took the EI...L offer. this ppl calling shld have sent u an email stating terms na or atleast tell u via fone when U enquired.
Family / Re: I Need Advice, I'm Seriously Lost... by udz: 9:13am On May 04, 2015
tearoses:


This is what you said, but not lets dwell on it.

The issue here is the comprehension of that statement. I have explained what I meant, sorry if U see it another way.
Family / Re: I Need Advice, I'm Seriously Lost... by udz: 9:06am On May 04, 2015
tearoses:


I am a mother myself so I understand that need to correct in love
But right now he is still on the idea that he is the victim and he was trapped and conned with pregnancy. We know that that is not true. He is also bad mouthing a woman that tried to help him.
Some people were advising him to walk away.
When he starts to do the right thing, then that will be acknowledged

In the mean time you told him that he cant marry the lady . . .Why may I ask? What has she done wrong?

Mummy Tea, thank God U are a mother. correction in love is a virture. U made ur points and the OPs late post shows dat he is taking the blames and wanting to make thngs right. so theres no need hammering the same blaming game.

As for marrying the girl, I didnt tell the OP that he "can't" marry the girl, I said he "must'nt" implying that they can still be friends but marraige is not a must. Alot has happened, the love they have might or might not be enough to cover all this incidents with marriage.

Finally, Tearoses I respect ur points of veiw. it should be channeled with moderation.

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Family / Re: I Need Advice, I'm Seriously Lost... by udz: 8:48am On May 04, 2015
@tearoses
He is not a friend, I dont knw him and cant say if I have met him bfore. if you beat with ur left hand, U use the right hand to cuddle. dats correction. read my post to him, I didnt support him and didnt badmouth him fully. Correct with love. we are human and are bound to make mistakes.

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Family / Re: I Need Advice, I'm Seriously Lost... by udz: 8:27am On May 04, 2015
@tearoses, calm down. U have made ur points but taking it too far. The OP has taken the advises here and he is not challenging them or forming holy. just advise not bad mouth him. thanks.

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Family / Re: I Need Advice, I'm Seriously Lost... by udz: 12:57pm On May 03, 2015
There is no humility in being poor.
There is time for everything.
Too much of everything is bad.
What doesnt kill you makes you stronger.

OP, U Hear this wise sayings everyday and in ur situation, I wont blame U but will simply point out some facts.


1. U are not the first baby daddy, but theres time for everything, U need cash to maintain a woman and child, the more money, the more respect. GBAM !!!!

2. Having made the mistake of have skin to skin sex, I wont dwell much on dat. But hey nigga , U should have hit the street as soon as U knew U were gonna be a daddy. U should have stayed on ur own. even if na squating or batcher, but making sure U call ur girl and the mum to donate something atleast every month. Instead, U were waiting for nysc... fresh grad things.

3. The mum is a god to her daugther, ur girls is a mummies girl and U should have not taken anything from the woman. Getting a girl preggy is not a big deal, U dont cash money from the bank with it. if U knw what I mean. Alot of ppl can do it.

4. U stayed in 3bedroom flat, u knw how much it cost. U became confortable untill the mother dangled a job in front of U and U accepted. why not, U have be boxed by the mother.

5. When the mother begin bad mouth U, Trust women na cos i knw exactly what U went thru which I cant even stand. but in Ur situation U for just chill do like mumu but na U get ur mind. as soon as u go for service, dats it. stick and love ur baby moma, dis could have made the love btw u and her stronger cos u didnt get killed by her mums bashing.

4. Always guide ur words from saying things U neva mean or can withstand till the end.

So what should U do?
.... try to reconcile with ur baby moma atleast to talking terms. thanx for mobile phone.

..... Tell urself that U must make money and make it big

..... U musnt marry her but U must take care of ur son.

finally, I must say something abt U . U are a nice fella, good writer and intelligent. emotional but be strong. One love.

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Career / Re: Oil Workers Zone. by udz: 2:14pm On Apr 30, 2015
why always excuse at the tail end?
Career / Re: Oil Workers Zone. by udz: 4:23pm On Apr 29, 2015
Wandeayo:
oga scantee, pls I wish to secure a job in the sector you works for, I studied chemistry, presently working in a cement manufacturing company as a hse inspector, I have gotten nebosh igc certificate, osha certificate, general hse and level 3 hse of ispon, I will appreciate any assistance you can render. More blessings.

GUY abeg just conceterate on dat job. na God I take beg U.
Career / Re: Oil Workers Zone. by udz: 9:05pm On Apr 26, 2015
scantee:
what do you want to find out? I am no more in Bonny, my contract with Bvc and NUlGE ended 2013, i dont know who is handling their ICT now.


hahahahahahahahahaha
Family / Re: Should I Wait Or Should I Move On? by udz: 10:00pm On Apr 24, 2015
OP, am just going to be critical not judging.
" he had become super rich (I swear I didn’t know how rich till I got really closer ....) "

This statment summarised everything, thats y u gave blind eye when he tld you abt a prior chick and u just decided to slug it out. Now he is cold and U still cant see or feel it.

Pls leave the bobo, let it slide, am not saying you shoud rush mr. B, but be wise baby, U are young and I guess, pretty. be wise...

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Family / Re: In-laws Attack! by udz: 11:43am On Apr 24, 2015
with dis story, i don cancel marrying anybody from warri. chaiii

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Celebrities / Re: “broke And Fake”: Designer Bag Seller Blast Tonto Dikeh For Refusing To Pay Her by udz: 3:07pm On Apr 23, 2015
oopss
Romance / Re: Things Guys Do That Turns Me Off. by udz: 6:34pm On Apr 22, 2015
ok ohhh, make i talk my own. i hate it when ppl have fake eye brows, bleached face and pout their lips like a pig.

NB: Check OPs profile.

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Celebrities / Re: Oritsefemi’s Babymama Slams The Singer Over False Accusations by udz: 3:55pm On Apr 21, 2015
C of O
The guy below will make a cool comment.
Career / Re: Oil Workers Zone. by udz: 10:25pm On Apr 17, 2015
scantee:
I want to apologiz to the Nairalander who came to my office yesterday to see me without my invitation i am sorry to deny i dont know you, pls i plead with u guyz dont come to my office without my invitation. Thanks

It's not right in the first place for a nairalander to visit with proper iv and arrangement. Anyway can I send you my doc to see if I can fit into any coy in ur reach. Biko
Family / Re: Please Help Me. Am I Making A Right Decision??! by udz: 6:04pm On Apr 16, 2015
@OP, my dear... all i see in the marriage is bad news. U might be weak now, as time goes on if he doesnt change U might be even harder than him. alot of bad blood in ther future for tha marriage and kids. its not worth it, U need love.... he doesnt love U. get ursolf together, there are things I wud want to discuss with u off this thread. u can mail me thezorani(at) gmail dot com

remain blessed
Career / Re: Oil Workers Zone. by udz: 12:41pm On Apr 15, 2015
scantee:


Which side are you in PH? maybe when I enter PH I will call you over, My house is @ GRA phase 1 Tombia Rd, opposite everyday shopping by Mandela car wash.when I enter I will hit u on mobile so we go find where we can eat agbugbu karikwa Ji. haaaa

chaii oga mi, am most humble. i stay in eleme axis, though am in eko at d moment. igwe m bu 09020180689. i remove cap for U.

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Career / Re: Oil Workers Zone. by udz: 10:38pm On Apr 14, 2015
scantee:
Nwa-afor nothing do you, hope u still de go Garrik go eat Ji na Agbugbu aka yam+ fiofio, chai i miss 042 bro. Will be there surely by may to align with the new Government o

hahaha, ate alot of that in uwani and a/L. miss dat too. left 042 to hurstle oo in garden city and eko. am a welder and elect engr grad. am salivating already..... fio fio...
Career / Re: Oil Workers Zone. by udz: 8:20pm On Apr 14, 2015
oga Scantee, U are doing a good job. met U at the politics thread where I got to knw U rep 042. God will bless U as U make us be like U someday. I hope to follow ur steps
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Much Does EISNL Engineering Coy In Ikeja Pay? by udz: 11:41am On Apr 13, 2015
viqueta:
yeah, the pay is 55k
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Much Does EISNL Engineering Coy In Ikeja Pay? by udz: 11:32am On Apr 13, 2015
have u been contacted?
Politics / Re: Imo Gubernatorial Election Results - Collation Live by udz: 3:12pm On Apr 12, 2015
scantee:


Onye Eze udo di. mu nwa bu born and brought up of 042

wow, me bukwa born and butter reping A/layout. i have wanted to relate closely with u on d oda thread but no attention. thx to nl.

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