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@schmilez since U knw the kind of person and reactions ur husband gives, why did U ignore him, when he asked a simple caring question, stood up, went to the bathrooom and washed ur face. just to come out and ask him what he will eat. nobody saw this part, yes ur hubby reaction no try but U are a trigger. its a two way thing. manage the situation. call ur hubby !!!! |
one things abt #trek4GEJ is the intrigue and drama that followed it. its real time. the babe brought spice to the whole adventure. |
wait, is dis a true life story abi am watching nollywod movie. which kind action film marriage is this, y ur hubby dey behave like dis. am a guy and wont support dis kind thing even if na nollywood script. |
tearoses:ok, but plz what was ur former moniker? |
when person shit for church, e go dey run wen nobody dey pursue am. |
babyosisi:me too |
scantee don enter one chance |
steeze:Finally, U are my guy ! |
so Twaci na ABA girl |
guy howfar na, i tot u took the EI...L offer. this ppl calling shld have sent u an email stating terms na or atleast tell u via fone when U enquired. |
tearoses:The issue here is the comprehension of that statement. I have explained what I meant, sorry if U see it another way. |
tearoses:Mummy Tea, thank God U are a mother. correction in love is a virture. U made ur points and the OPs late post shows dat he is taking the blames and wanting to make thngs right. so theres no need hammering the same blaming game. As for marrying the girl, I didnt tell the OP that he "can't" marry the girl, I said he "must'nt" implying that they can still be friends but marraige is not a must. Alot has happened, the love they have might or might not be enough to cover all this incidents with marriage. Finally, Tearoses I respect ur points of veiw. it should be channeled with moderation. |
@tearoses He is not a friend, I dont knw him and cant say if I have met him bfore. if you beat with ur left hand, U use the right hand to cuddle. dats correction. read my post to him, I didnt support him and didnt badmouth him fully. Correct with love. we are human and are bound to make mistakes. |
@tearoses, calm down. U have made ur points but taking it too far. The OP has taken the advises here and he is not challenging them or forming holy. just advise not bad mouth him. thanks. |
There is no humility in being poor. There is time for everything. Too much of everything is bad. What doesnt kill you makes you stronger. OP, U Hear this wise sayings everyday and in ur situation, I wont blame U but will simply point out some facts. 1. U are not the first baby daddy, but theres time for everything, U need cash to maintain a woman and child, the more money, the more respect. GBAM !!!! 2. Having made the mistake of have skin to skin sex, I wont dwell much on dat. But hey nigga , U should have hit the street as soon as U knew U were gonna be a daddy. U should have stayed on ur own. even if na squating or batcher, but making sure U call ur girl and the mum to donate something atleast every month. Instead, U were waiting for nysc... fresh grad things. 3. The mum is a god to her daugther, ur girls is a mummies girl and U should have not taken anything from the woman. Getting a girl preggy is not a big deal, U dont cash money from the bank with it. if U knw what I mean. Alot of ppl can do it. 4. U stayed in 3bedroom flat, u knw how much it cost. U became confortable untill the mother dangled a job in front of U and U accepted. why not, U have be boxed by the mother. 5. When the mother begin bad mouth U, Trust women na cos i knw exactly what U went thru which I cant even stand. but in Ur situation U for just chill do like mumu but na U get ur mind. as soon as u go for service, dats it. stick and love ur baby moma, dis could have made the love btw u and her stronger cos u didnt get killed by her mums bashing. 4. Always guide ur words from saying things U neva mean or can withstand till the end. So what should U do? .... try to reconcile with ur baby moma atleast to talking terms. thanx for mobile phone. ..... Tell urself that U must make money and make it big ..... U musnt marry her but U must take care of ur son. finally, I must say something abt U . U are a nice fella, good writer and intelligent. emotional but be strong. One love. |
why always excuse at the tail end? |
Wandeayo:GUY abeg just conceterate on dat job. na God I take beg U. |
scantee:hahahahahahahahahaha |
OP, am just going to be critical not judging. " he had become super rich (I swear I didn’t know how rich till I got really closer ....) " This statment summarised everything, thats y u gave blind eye when he tld you abt a prior chick and u just decided to slug it out. Now he is cold and U still cant see or feel it. Pls leave the bobo, let it slide, am not saying you shoud rush mr. B, but be wise baby, U are young and I guess, pretty. be wise... |
with dis story, i don cancel marrying anybody from warri. chaiii |
oopss |
ok ohhh, make i talk my own. i hate it when ppl have fake eye brows, bleached face and pout their lips like a pig. NB: Check OPs profile. |
C of O The guy below will make a cool comment. |
scantee:It's not right in the first place for a nairalander to visit with proper iv and arrangement. Anyway can I send you my doc to see if I can fit into any coy in ur reach. Biko |
@OP, my dear... all i see in the marriage is bad news. U might be weak now, as time goes on if he doesnt change U might be even harder than him. alot of bad blood in ther future for tha marriage and kids. its not worth it, U need love.... he doesnt love U. get ursolf together, there are things I wud want to discuss with u off this thread. u can mail me thezorani(at) gmail dot com remain blessed |
scantee:chaii oga mi, am most humble. i stay in eleme axis, though am in eko at d moment. igwe m bu 09020180689. i remove cap for U. |
scantee:hahaha, ate alot of that in uwani and a/L. miss dat too. left 042 to hurstle oo in garden city and eko. am a welder and elect engr grad. am salivating already..... fio fio... |
oga Scantee, U are doing a good job. met U at the politics thread where I got to knw U rep 042. God will bless U as U make us be like U someday. I hope to follow ur steps |
viqueta: |
have u been contacted? |
scantee:wow, me bukwa born and butter reping A/layout. i have wanted to relate closely with u on d oda thread but no attention. thx to nl. |

