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Good development. I was asking a friend some weeks ago why we don't have black dolls around. The recent display of black mannequins are alright, but dolls are important too.

I hope he's able to make some of them plus-sized so little girls know it's okay to be anything but thin too

These Huff Puff people again

Elxandre:
Are you that small?

Meanwhile, all these will change I believe with the arrival of W10. They don't want to release a flagship for now on an outgoing OS.

Lol I'm not small. Just used to narrow devices

I like that private schools are a lot more focused when it comes to building character and learning. Forget the story of public schools giving you independence and little restriction, when it comes to all-round benefit, a private school is better in producing more balanced degree holders.

They can learn the ways of the world when they're in the labour market

Luckygurl:
Going through this thread just made me realise I've been under using(not soo sure of this) my lumia 520. I got it like two months ago and it's just been calls and browsing all this while.
I can't wait to go back to school so I'd connect to free Wifi and make the necessary updates.
Hoping to maximise usage from now.....

Hello Ujsizzle and everyone else contributing to this thread
I'd brb with my barrage of questions

Hi bebe We'll be waiting for those questions.

Elxandre:
Well, the battery is 3000mah plus the 13 mp camera, it's still quite better.
Also note that there is 640 and 640xl.

The 640xl with the 3000mah battery and 13mp camera(whose picture quality we know not) is over 5in. That's already a no-no for me. I don't want to cart around a phone that makes my hands suffer.

I don't like the way these guys release their phones.

Feraz:
Na spec I read. . .oh, so you too dread screens more than 5"?

No much difference though

Over dread o. But the 830 looks more beautiful
Read the 640 will be released next month. I'll wait to read the hands-on review first.

Mynd44:
*side eyes her to gsmarena*

Phonearena

MS to bring Cortana to iOS and Android devices as an independent app.

http://www.phonearena.com/news/Poll-results-Would-you-use-Microsofts-Cortana-on-Android-or-iOS_id68161



Meanwhile, has anyone tried a different Windows device that isn't a Lumia phone? Say, htc?

Feraz:
Choi!!! I just saw the Lumia 640XL y'all have been saying. The phone make sense die. . . Uj_sizzle, you may want to reconsider getting a Lumia 830. . .

You sighted it physically?
I read the spec. Anything larger than a 5in screen will be too large for my womanly hands But otherwise, it seemed pretty much like the 830 to me save for the memory capacity and camera ability and battery life.
I'm just confused sef

henryskywalker2003:
$9. And that includes shipping, handling and tax. It will be delivered to your doorstep or any place you want. I use shoptomydoor for deliveries to Nigeria.

You ordered from Amazon?

Caracta:
Yaaaaay! 7. Taink you.

Lol. Did you see the little one between the heads?

Caracta:
I see no dolphin

About 7-8 Dolphins (can't tell of the one between her breast is a dolphin too).

Look at the supposed spaces between the raised arms, the ones cupping the breast of the woman and between her legs.

Just go to O2tvseries.com and get the first four episodes.

Seun did you already watch them?

E don try weh Christian craze start

Feraz:
My LinkedIn was ok oh. . . Worked well. . . Try using this guy called Mikkyangel. Visit this link. He's trusted. Bought my two Lumia phones for me.

Thanks!


@Elxandre. The 640 and 830 sure as hell feel like the same phones with of course an exception in memory capacity. I'm disappointed.

Elxandre:
Not exactly.
Opera is just an example of what is wrong with the app availability on WP.
Why the hell would any sane company release such crude stuff? Why didn't they experiment with this 'new look' on iOS or Android?
Instagram is still in beta for ages now for example. (6tag is quite a good 3rd party app tho)
Even many apps lack features already available to android versions.

App-wise they're just messing up. You can imagine my shock when I saw LinkedIn working superbly on my brother's Htc. These app developers make me want to go droid instead.
I checked the 830 on amazon. Turns out it's way cheaper to buy from the US than here What's the cost of shipping btw? Or having someone send via dhl from the US?

Elxandre:
Why are those leaves not green ?

Because I made them so

omonnakoda:
Please spare me all those programmed responses. The spirit and not intellect .Lol Why does the spirit not give understanding to imbeciles or to chickens and goats. But in your own eyes your own understanding is spirit given.
The problem I have with you so called Christians is you do not think when you should. Yes tell him what you think but do not deceive yourself that what you think comes from any spirit.It comes from your personality and life experience . Jesus Never said you should not rebuke.?? What an interesting piece of Sophistry. Jesus never said don't use cocaine did he? I sm not really sure which is worse the socalled Christians or their Jihadi Muslim counterparts

Okay.

omonnakoda:
That is YOUR OWN interpretation as it seems good to you.
Let us spare hypocrisy. Pointing out a person's failings from 1000 miles away without any further intervention is hardly "helping them do what is right" besides Jesus said something about removing a log before removing a speck.Let me explain that metaphor to you in case its deeper meaning escapes you. A log is a hundred times bigger than a speck and that means you should be busy cleansing yourself before focussing on
other's failings so STOP looking for them and just LOVE them.Even if you have 200 years you will not have time to remove your log and you should be busy enough dealing with that rather than seeing other's specks. That was Jesus' way of saying UCHE FACE YOUR WORK .
I repeat once again ALL without exception of the so called born again Nigerian Christians I know are very good at judging other people. That is their pastime. Not feeding or clothing the poor,the orphans or widow,I have never seen ONE of these people do that. Yes some churches do but individuals,NEVER.

Now you look at it this way. If the young man didn't want help, would he have come to a public forum to discuss his problem? So no one is looking for faults here. When a person tells you what they think is wrong with their life and asks for help, you do your duty as a brother by telling him what's really wrong and how to fix it. Which is exactly what a number of people on this thread have done.
And Jesus never said we shouldn't rebuke. We are allowed to do it with love remembering we also are not without guilt. Hypocrites are people who pretend they are sinless when in truth they are just as dirty as every other person.

We aren't in an argument here I hope. The spirit gives understanding of the scriptures and not human intellect. That said, our young friend hasn't been judged. He's only been given answers to his questions. If his hackles are raised (as most people on this thread have theirs), it's not because they have been judged. It's because the guilt in their hearts makes them feel condemned. To that I'll still say talk to God. I've been there in my own peculiar way so I know how difficult this can be.

Caracta:
After banging her twice a day for 3 years?

The girl needs help too. Pushing her away could turn her into a monster or something worse.

I agree she needs help too. But they're not doing each other any favours by living together and trying to conquer their respective (or shared) demons.

omonnakoda:
Lol ! I am not a Christian. I read the bible but I am neither brainwashed nor a bigot, I am a man who likes to figure out things for myself.Jesus teaches us not to JUDGE which is the favorite pastime of many so called Christians who are very quick to mount a horse of righteousness and pass judgement on others. Who am I to judge anyone. All I know is that there is no man without sin and so I have little patience for hypocrites.
In many ways so many so called Christians are just as fundamentalist as Boko Haram in the way they maintain how right they are and how wrong everyone else is.

You do realise the word Judge actually translates to condemn, right? It says don't condemn a sinner to death because we ourselves are guilty of sin and God doesn't condemn us to death. Contrary to what people believe, it's actually kindness to point out a person's wrong to them and help them do what's right. It's wicked to pretend like nothing's happened and you're not watching your brother go to hell.

God rebukes those he loves. We show our love for others by rebuking them too. Nothing judgemental about that hun, we all looking out for one another.

mikketech:
Madam eeeeeeeeeeeeeh!!!

Its the girl. Stop been bias. Na d girl simple. So whatever ur saying its out of the way. The girl has badluck.

Ask questions before u rant. Please stop quoting me.

I'm biased because of my sex? Lol. I'm not interested in his partner. I am more concerned with how he got there, and how he'll get himself out.

So far I don't see you proffering solutions, just blame. It must be hard being both Nigerian and masculine.

Help him get out. Don't tell him what he thinks is wrong.

agbajesaid:
thanks for ur advice but 1) I didn't accuse the girl directly, i was asking if it was the girl or the sex. of course its not by force I have sex with her and she didn't ask me out but what I'm saying is after discovering I was going down the drain, I had to back out but she would not let go. I didn't break up with her, we are still together. But sex is like food for her, and its affecting me

You are still together?
Stay away from her and turn to God.

omonnakoda:
So are you sin free. Or are there just good sins? Is any human sin free? So why am I and so many others prospering. Is Dangote sin free or Mama Peace or Bill Gates or JayZ,Fashola,Tinubu,IBB or Mr Ibu sin free?. Prosperity has little to do with sin. Whether we are sinful or not we prosper and at any rate every one is sinful every day so let us leave story. Prosperity lies in the minds. Those people who you find seeking prosperity in churches and by paying tithes are those who rarely make it.

You, a christian are going to put yourself at par with people who make wealth via dubious means? Wow.
Yes, we are sinful everyday. Yes, we have grace through Christ. But do we go on deliberately sinning because grace abounds? Please don't ill advise this young man. We are all guilty of sin everyday, but that shouldn't be the aim of the christian. And you cannot continue to excuse yourself with that statement. It's clear attribute of one who isn't appreciative of what Christ did on the cross.

P.S God encourages hard work as much as he encourages righteousness. He never taught us to seek prosperity in the church. If man does that, then man is the foolish one for misrepresenting God.

jaybee3:
Think about it this way hun, God didn't instruct him to spend his productive years on things that's of no benefit to him so why should he start bothering God now?
I just hate it when people run to God every single time when they can easily engage their own brain to see what exactly they've been doing that's fuelling the setbacks.

Just pay attention to him and see how he is trying to blame someone else for his misfortune whilst comfortably forgetting the fact that he actively engaged in unproductive activities.

Heck, why would anyone have sex twice daily for 3 years straight and not get paid for doing so?
He had better turn himself into a male prostitue if he can't keep that nonsensical energy in check

We are on the same side. The young man is foolish (and that's not an insult). He left what was important to dwell on unfruitful ventures. All I'm saying is, if he feels unable to disentangle himself from sin, then God is so willing to help. He wants us to prosper in our endeavours, but he wants us to do it on his own terms, sin-free. Now if he was any less a Christian, I may have ignored him. But he feels like something spiritual is attached to this. So I'm only supplying the spiritual implications of his actions.

mikketech:
madam its the girl. Take it or leave it. As if you don't know that 80% of you ladies are possess with the evil spirit.

Oh please. It's the girl. It's the girl who saw him first and propositioned. It's the girl who stripped to her birthday suit and placed his penis inside her. It's the girl who demanded to be serviced twice a day for three years.
It's the girl who showed up in his line of vision when he was thinking about heaven. She threw his mind off God and planted the first seed of sin.

Wrong.

You want to tackle a problem, you uproot it, not swat at branches and leaves.

He is the cause of his problems. He was the one who harbored thoughts of sex. He saw the girl. He propositioned. He was the guy on top pounding away. He stayed with her for three years.

When the devil is ready for you, he takes even the smallest seed or thought you have and grows an oak tree out of it. He will gradually help you water and nurture it. But it is never an independent thought. It s always something you desired.
That will why the Christian is admonished to guard his heart with all diligence for out of it comes the issue of life.

Tell your friend to repent. The devil may have helped him, but he left the door open.

jaybee3:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with the dude.
His priorities are skewed and he is certainly mentally/intellectually lazy.

He is spending a good chunk of his daily life to think about sex as well as directly engaging in sexual activities

Of course he's all that boo boo, as well as a Christian who willfully lets his physical desire rule his life. When a brother is stuck there, I direct him to ask God for help. Some things can cause you the weirdest setbacks, you just realize that singular past action is the reason.
But to say his guilt and feeling of helplessness should be addressed? Nah. He needs God now more than ever (if nothing else, for peace). But he needs to first accept his faults, instead of blaming everything but himself.
People prosper in times of peace, not just in the nation, but also in their hearts. I think Nigeria is peaceful enough for now. It's his heart that needs a spirit overhaul.

olamilekside2:
Oga Agbaje, sex is not destroying or affecting your life, u're involve in what God dislikes e.g Gambling and not keeping promise, check urself , d lady is nt ogbanje, ur prblm is frm ur bad act.

Thank me later

God bless you.
I don't know why people like to play the name-shame-blame game. What will it cost man to accept that his problem is as a result of his own actions? And he's looking for deliverance. Truth will deliver him.

mikketech:
Its not sex that caused u all these things. Its the girl. She is possessed with a bad spirit.
It happens to me. There are some girls u meet that are bad luck to you. While some will bring goodluck to me.

It has happened to me.

Advice:: break up with her and move on with your life,while u do so. Find another girl who will add more value to ur life in every aspect. Things will be better for you. Am a living testimony.

Seriously, it's the girl? It's not the apparent sin he willingly dwelt in, but the girl he sinned so joyfully with?
Talk about the Adamic law: Always blame the woman.

Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.

Smh. God will help us all.

I don't believe you're convinced the sex is your problem. First you say you prayed. Then you say you would love to see a psychologist and go to rehab. And shortly afterwards you say your 2*365*3 partner has stolen your destiny.

If I a mere mortal can see your apparent lack of conviction, then even God can.
When you are truly sorry and repentant for not just throwing away a life God has given you to the devil, enjoying the act for so long, going back to sin after asking for forgiveness the first time, and shaming His spirit....when you are truly convinced you have sinned, go back to God and beg him to turn your life around. Then He will listen to you.


Blessings.

bigfrancis21:
Jaa ojuju na Juju ojuju juru n'uju juru juju uju.

Hail ojuju for ojuju's Juju is aplenty that matches Uju's juju.



Uju badt for juju o.

lol how exciting.