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Are you guys watching the uncensored cut on AIT?

bastien:
have been following this show from season one, apart from last season,I can tell togetherness doesn't work at the final stage..............well e dn end sha I'm going for next year shey u go vote for me ma,?

Lol enter the jungle first and we'll decide.

tari040:
na saturday

Ok thanks. Time?


Mehn I had to view this thing on AIT again

Nonso23:
We are on the same page. The bulk of the work rests upon him afterall he's the one who needs to work out how to earn the wife's trust again.
I don't think he'd request you to yell at the 'other woman'. It's not necessary.
The most important thing is realizing that it's a union. If you want in, it's all in; out and it's all out. No sitting on the fence.
That has been my stance.

Right. May God keep us away from cheating spouses though.

chimhigher:
Guys abeg which Day Dem go gv dem deir moni

Should be Sunday if I'm not mistaken.

nelsenhenry:
I won!!!!! If you won in the past How did you get your prize.

They'll contact you.

bastien:
Reason why the final wasn't interesting like it should have been,cossy, emma, and chinedu were all working together, no individuality, until the task Where they were to solve the puzzle. Smh for this final




Anyway congrat to the ultimate man

Dude, the last three always work together to get the pieces to locate the ultimate prize, before splitting.

Nonso23:
Everything you stated above i have at one point or the other stated same on this thread.
I absolutely recommend communication before the 'act'. But the question posed was:
After the act, you don't want a divorce and want to work on the union. Same goes for him. What next?
Do you leave him to go through the transition alone or help out anyway you can?

Well then, if he needs help I'm sure we'll find a way to get him out of the fix he's gotten into (something he managed quite well on his own ). Far be it from me to deny my spouse limited help.
But I'm sure as hell not going to yell at another woman for any reason whatsoever.

That said, I hope he knows the best his wife can do is offer him emotional support. The bulk of the task still falls on him.

safarigirl:
Aww. Happy for Chinedu. He's such a skinny boy and he was able to win over the big guys. He's blessed

Skinny, entertaining and delightful

Yeeeees!!!!!!!! Whooohooooo!!!

Nonso23:
At least you get to keep standards for pruning out the weeds from the plants :p

Loyalty to spouse should supercede any other affliations IDEALLY. It is these kinds of unrealistic expectations that ruin marriages.
He is still a man. The ring doesn't make him a robot. You are still a woman. The ring doesn't make you emotionless. That is where the real work lies. Conditioning the mind to respect the sanctity of marriage while also accepting the frailty of your human resolve. The union should serve to strengthen both their resolves.
It's not necessarily pity -pity is just one tiny part, it's more like confusion. Maybe it takes a man to relate to what i'm saying.
BTW, i'm not excusing infidelity.

I understand we must not eliminate human weakness especially in marriage, but that means both parties should talk about impending dangers to their union Before and not after the cat has been committed.
So there's a hot woman who wants you, and you're tempted to succumb. Why not tell your wife if you really don't want to cheat and hurt her, rather than falling and seeking help way after you've eaten the apple?

We're trying to respect the sanctity of a union here. Unless of course said man has no regards for his vows?

See as house full gan

Nonso23:
Experience should count for something here. She has been approached by numerous men right from adolescence. It's only normal that she gets better at choosing than hunting.
Men on the other hand do the approaching. They hone their preying skills not the other way round. Plus the stereotypes like 'if a lady makes the first move, only a jerk would hurt her' flying around doesn't help issues at all.

Choosing is never easy when you're hunted from every side


We're talking about cheating, Nonso. I would expect that loyalty to a spouse(or otherwise) will supercede stereotypes. Or am I to assume he's screwing around out of pity?

Nonso23:
Dey laff o!
It's the truth. A woman may have 20 men hot on her case and won't bat as much as an eyelid whilst discharging 19 and choosing the last 1.
A man with just two women will be as confused as hell. It's a bit awkward.

And why is that? You think women don't get confused too, when they are faced with more than one eligible male (by her standards)? You guys really have no idea what women battle with everyday. I should think temptations will be a lot easier for men to overcome since they aren't faced with it every darn day, unlike women. Unless you are going to tell me men fall for it because apparently they have been waiting for the opportunity all along.

Nonso23:
I'm talking from a male's perspective here. It is more difficult to tell off females for men than it is for women to tell off men. We don't get to do that everyday. We are amateurs in that field. A woman's/wife's assistance is better than him walking that road alone.
This 'it's your mess, clean it up' is why men don't open up to their partners about the romantic pressures they face at work, church, e.t.c.
They bottle it up and deal with it and at the end of the day some of them fall.
Wives should realize that that cool husband of hers is cool to every other person including those that want to sign-up as mistresses who wouldn't mind a bite or two of him. If he can't open up to her because she thinks it's his mess well... Na dem sabi

I had to come and laugh at the emboldened


Going to read the OP now.

Lol men need to be 'assets' too

Genny and Agbani look

This is the problem with using heavy cosmetics. When you take it off, people have difficulty reconciling your face

AngelAmina, nice lips

Bashing and curses? Whatever for

cao:
I knew she would turn out to be important, after they took their time to introduce her and did the slow mo zoom in, after she said her name.

But she looks so different.

Misogynist2014:
Ma'am, what actually are you driving at?

I'm saying this definition of an 'asset' doesn't make sense.
Yeah women should work blah blah, but if this is the deal breaker for men, then I'm really sorry for all of you in advance.

No fuel o. Did Otto cry?

SeverusSnape:
Nice one Op, women has many roles to play in this present day and age. Being assets rather than liabilities, Hopefully, my WIFE will be an asset, not just an asset; a fixed asset.

You better specify the kind of fixed asset she is, because most of them depreciate over time

kandiikane:
The bolded corresponds with what I wrote regarding the man relying on the woman to be taken cared of. It can be considered a liability too.

The double standards in this country is really overwhelming. People wanting one person to be everything without giving back in the same proportion.
If you talk they'll scream "women are helpers!!"
Begs the question, what kind of help was God referring to? Help in carrying out your duties, or help in keeping you sane while carrying out your duties?

Methinks if a man can come home to peace and quiet after a hard day's job (even if his wife is a housewife), and omalicha food, he sure as hell has an asset in there. Are they selling peace of mind in ochanja market

Funny thread and people

Men have a lot of problems really. If saying what the OP typed here is enough to earn a woman a wedding ring, then most of you will be running out of your houses in no time

In other news, why is it ok to call a woman an asset if she can go beyond being a domestic appendage, to holding up her end in providing finance when her man is down, and a taboo to even suggest that a man helps on the domestic end
Or shouldn't that be part of what makes a man an 'asset' too?

All these partiality you people are sharing eh, it's not good oo.

LogoDWhiz:
Uwc!

That's also true.

But remember, your fans will always stick with u.

In case u do create such, please lemne know or Mention me

Will do

jaybee3:
Abeg take a peep into mine as well biko

You want 30 women too?

Nonso23:

That beeshop is high on multidimensional, cosmic methamphetamine.

BTW how did you arrive at that figure? You wan kill person?? 30 ke??

Ayaf seen your fushure

prof800:
Everybody hates Cosy. I've not come across someone who doesn't.
He might as well surprise y'all.

Lol I don't hate him. He's just boring and generally insignificant in entertaining me on the show

Nonso23 can I be your 30th wife? I'm already old and shrivelled

LogoDWhiz:
spamming? Okay. If you say so.


Was only looking at it in d perspective of posting your blog post here on nairaland too.

Like d literature writers do, they post their stories here, but they can also have a blog where they also post their stories.

Wishing u a nice day ahead!

Oh I get you know. Doesn't work so well for non fiction/articles like it does fiction though.


Thank you