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dmcdad: I don't think that is the case... A girl who spends the whole day at home did nothing? Didn't she eat? Watch movies? surf the internet? take a nap or something? how about cooking? The list is rather endless. How about if it goes like this....:

Me:Hi
Girl: I
Me: What's up with you?
Girl: 5n
Me: How was the day?
Girl: 5n
Me: What did you do today?
Girl: Nothing(does that mean she woke up in the A.M and just saw herself in the evening? Maybe not.)
Me: (sometimes outta curiosity you might ask how come she didn't do anything all through the day)
Girl: I went to the bank before noon and on my way back I saw a school mate of mine blah blah blah(abeg that one no be something to talk about?)

Now, it would have been better for the girl to respond with "nothing special" buh I just woke up and after doing some house chores I ate. Power holding didn't even bother to restore power supply and thereby I couldn't charge my phone. Abeg with this, talk never dey to yan for subsequent minutes? Maybe the guy could pick it up from there and the both of em could chat about the issue of power supply in the country and before you know it, it might lead to some more salient issues and on and on it goes...

So you found a way to keep the convo going!!
Like I said earlier, you want to get her to let down the barrier. Take control of the direction of the conversation and keep the juices flowing.

Dannyxy: pleeaasee, i hate it when girls carry themselves like they are something, you should happy i am even starting a conversation with you, there are many girls who don't have that priveledge.. What is "i" "K"?.. That's why i love white girls

Truth be told, most girls consider it a privilege to have given you their phone number or pin .
You need to understand the way a woman thinks before you can handle her.

So internet slangs have taken over, change it and stop complaining!!
A guy chats with me with silly shorthand, i ask him to stop. If he doesn't, i stop responding. Easy.

If you're tripping for a girl and hate the way she writes and yet refuse to tell her cos u dont wanna lose points, then you're stupid(sorry to say).

Caracta: Some guys can bore you to tears with unnecessary questions. Some of them don't know when to keep quiet and leave you alone. Some don't get the red signals and back off.

It's the generation of insensitive males

Dannylux: LOL! you see It's not just when you're conversing with a stranger that we experience this shiit. It's the same with some of our casual friends, course mates etc.

I think most of them are plainly lazy or just dumb. Imagine a situation where someone types 'I' Instead of "Hi" how do you converse with someone like that?

So tell her to type in full. I've always hated the stupid shorthand and pls guys do it too.

Dannylux: The nothing and 'kk' thingy demoralizes someone. Its gets you dispirited that you automatically forget whatever you had wanted to discuss.

awww relax. She doesn't know you, remember you're trying to get her attention.
Just like it's difficult for a girl to talk freely with a guy she's just met on the street, that's the same way it's hard to hold a convo with one.
You are trying to break through that wall she's put up, make her interested in you .

Awwww

Obi m(my heart) or ifunanya m(my love),
amam na'm kpasu gi iwe(I know i made you angry)
biko iwe ewena gi(pls don't be angry)
gba hara mu, o gaghi eme ozo(forgive me, it won't happen again).
A furum gi n'anya(i love you).




Phew writing igbo is difficult.

Dannylux: She'd reply she did nothing.

Always nothing and nothing like tha phuck is nothing?

So what if she really did nothing?
You end a convo because of that even when there's a million other things to talk about?

Biko some of you just have no idea how to hold a convo.

jay bee: I wouldn't be giving up if i get them type of replies though, i will simply follow it up with something along the line of
" so you woke up had a shower, what else did you do?"
Just complement her by saying something along the line of "now that's an interesting day" Once she completes the list of activities that she engaged in for that day

Cool
Some guys just ask questions that leave no room for conversation, then they complain that you're ignoring them tomorrow.

Hahaha what away to start the morning


Ok guys seriously you already know why a girl would respond this way to your questions, but like always you're indenial.
1. She doesn't find you interesting, get used to it.
2. She's having a conversation with other people and she can't keep up with all of it. So she gives monosyllabic replies and hopes some of you will end the convo.
3. She's just being polite by replying.

4.Another possible reason(using myself as case study) could be that she has always been in the habit of initiating convos, so she decides to stop and let you do the talking. If you keep going monosyllabic, she'll ignore you

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And a good portion of what Olamide and Phyno releases

I realised November diet's quite easier than May

Just my observation on the average, i may be wrong.

I wish i were a man

Is she related to Mercy Johnson?

firestar: ...

furrystar!!

He likes dogs then I like him.

jay bee: Dude, stop being a chicken. Man up and ask her out via direct communication. Let your intention be straight and concise.
What's the worst that could happen? Patapata she will just say No and that sure doesn't kill

Why do i think the girl in question is Uju

She keeps attracting 'em poetic nuccas

I've never seen this moniker before

Take a cold shower.

What a nice man but pity marriage? tsk Hope he finds happiness in it.

Her mother has probably told her to call off the relationship because you are yet to graduate and will most likely not be ready to marry her when mommy thinks she has to settle down.


What can you do?

1. Prove mommy wrong. Show this girl that you're worth the wait. You may have to work extra hard to make this possible or you'll just end up wasting her time. A promise of marriage isn't enough if she can't see any progress.

2. You can let her go. Love isn't everything.

You don't need to have money as in 'be stupendously rich', but it is necessary that you can atleast afford to show her a good time

Anyway different things work for different people. Saying what you feel sometimes may not suffice if she's not into word...you may need to show her.


First things first, what does this girl like? How does she spend her free time?

snthesis: hi Guys,
i just found the love of my life , but the tins is she doesnt send me.- i have sent flowers, bought chocolate, wrote poems but so far nothin for me, pls abeg how do i woo/toast her o, i cant sleep, eat, -pls save a brotha-tanx

p.s
Babes, how wud u like to be toasted, thanks

Why do I feel like I know the girl in question?