seriously, i do feel fullfilled within me nd as a single parent its kind of well done to my efforts jst that sometimes i do think they re saying it for saying sake. thanks all for ur response.

if i should go by the gospel of our lord Jesus, he said that no matter how dark our sins are that he is ready to forgive us if only we confess our sin. My dear pray nd talk to ur pastor abt it he may now ask u to confess to ur hubby, though painful i believe he will forgive u nd both of u will join hands together nd agree. There is nothing impossible for lord to do. *peace*

Hi everyone, This question has been bothering me, i want to knw whn kids about 4 and 3yrs of age always hug nd says I love u mum,or u re d best mum. is it really from their heart or they learnt it from somewhere maybe cartoo. My kids always does that each time i get something for them or after eating.

(cont. from previous ) the woman should try to save nd start selling things from her home like recharge card, soft drinks etc as long as she is at home. whn he sees how serious u re he will definetely have a change of mind nd if he disturbs report to ur pastor or his best friend. Also i will suggest teaching, it will give u time for ur kids nd home. think abt this nd forget divorce.

Some are here blaming the woman saying that she is lazy nd all that. from the post, u can imagine the woman family background. The mum died whn she is in secondary school nd maybe the man saw her thru the university nd to show appreciation she married him. Does she have mouth? whtever the man says that she will do. For me i see a woman with no one to speak on her behalf. i will not suggest divorce but i will like the woman to start up something in her home, since he asked him to stay at home

Nd what makes u the right man? mtchewww. Keep searching till u get to 60 or better still get a baby mama like others.

At last.

thanks all for ur contribution, for those of u that re saying that my marriage crashed early, is it not better for me to be alive to see my kids grow or die trying. do not judge pls. i pray for God's direction. thanks.

some of u think that am denying the father his kids, not at all, he takes the kids to his house whenever he feel like, talks to them, my problem is that my ex in laws from my experience with them cannot take proper care of my kids, everyone on their own in that family. i am not painting anyone black but am saying wht i saw. Thanks all for ur opinion.

thanks for all ur reply, @debrief, we both went to Alausa ikeja nd there he was ordered to come for us to settle amicably which we did, dowry was refunded. the issue here is this the kids father is not the type that stays at home, he comes home midnight. the parents cares only abt themselves nd my kids re too small for that kind of life. i knw them better. they believe everyone on their own. had it been they re of age like 8 or 9, i wont mind at all. he is still their father but the kids re all i ve got.

Hello everyone! pls i want ur opinion on this issue. I seperated from my hubby since April nd i stay with my two girls, 4 nd 3yrs old. the father pays their fees nd insisted that i take care of their feeding since am workin. now he wants me to release the kids to him for them to travel with him to the village. i ve not replied him. the fact is this, his parents have not called for one day to ask after their grandchildren even his brothers nd sisters. how can i leave my kids with them. i dont trust them.

I blame the woman for all this troubles, a man rejected ur son nd u agreed to that cos of marriage. As i am now with my two beautiful kids nd a man comes for marriage, he is going to marry all of us cos my kids re very important to me. @ op take keep on taking care of the boy, God will see u thru nd thank GOD for ur wife. Daalu.

The welfare of the kid have been taken care of, we hve moved on jst that the talk thing is wht i dont want now. I feel like ignoring him .

@jenny he sent a text that we need to talk.

Hello everyone, thanks for ur support nd advice. If u look at my past threads, u will understand my story better. The marriage has been dissolved finally but it was after reporting my ex at min. Of justice at ALAUSA ikeja. He was asked to go nd finalize everything so that the kids welfare will be tackled. He promise to cater for the kids welfare nd finally the bride price refunded but now my ex wants us to talk. Pls should i listen to him or ignore him.

If wht this lady said is true i must say that serves her right. How can a lady with such exposure nd orientation allow her fellow human being to batter her this way in the name of marriage. U re lucky that u re still alive to grant interview. Abeg waka, u re a desperate nd dont have self esteem. Mtchewwwwww.

@othnok, sharp woman.

Hi ladies, jst remembered wht i did on my first day of menstruation nd what my mum told me afterwards. Whn i noticed the blood i took my bath nd did not go out of the house thru out the day nd whn my mum eventually knew she told me that from now on if a man touches me that i will be pregnant. That was her sex education till i got to knw better. So friends wht was ur reaction on the first day nd wht was mama's instruction?

@op the thought of that voice mail is killing ur emotions towards ur man. Do find it in ur heart to forgive him nd move on. U alone can bring this light in ur home. I believe ur hubby no longer sees his ex. If he does not be happy nd show ur man love. Ur own is that u heard only wht about me that saw nd heard yet i forgave him nd moved on but the reason why i left is cos that he refused to let go of her nd at same time no sex for years. Forgive nd forget abt the incident. Ask God to help u cos its not easy.

Ohhh, this is good, do we still have such men now? Men who understands their wife. I believe we do. Nice one.

@op, welcome on board. I understand how u feel but only time will heal ur heart. Get busy, make friends nd dont shut ur self out from the world cos there is another girl out there for u. Pls quit calling her for now nd dont make her ur enemy. All will become history. Move on.

Thats rude, dont u think so? Any way child support i mean is child welfare. I ve only being drinking water sis. Thanks

@blank. Thanks

Thanks so much, am grateful.

Good morning all, pls i need to knw whether i can make entry for child support in any welfare office in nigeria? I base in lagos.

Good morning all, pls i need to knw whether i can make entry for child support in any welfare office in nigeria? I base in lagos.

Pls start from the first page, this is just the continuation. Am using a phone pls bear with me.

The girl now told him that she had a child for my cousin. The wife called my cousin's best friend nd asked whether he was aware that the husband had a child apart from her own, the guy said no, she went on to say that she saw a passport in her hubby wallet that it was for the baby. She further told d guy that she has prayed for the baby to die, the guy asked him to get the baby pix, behold the baby in the pix belong to the guy, the baby as i speak is sick. The wife did not tell the hubby till today .

Hello nlanders, I have a cousin who got married 6yrs ago with two boys to show for it. The problem is that the wife normally suspects him. My cousin is a company driver,goes out early nd comes latest 10pm depending. Though i cant vouch for himoo. The wife do smell his boxers each time she wants to wash his cloth according to the man. The recent issue was that the wife picked a nos from his phone nd called nd it was my former cousin's girlfriend,d the girl is married. She started threatening the girl.

Pls mine is addie_ujutonia2010@yahoo.com. no harm in trying.

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