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Health / Re: Is This A Sign Of Infection? by Ujuvals1: 11:29am On Jan 05, 2020
Timekeeper:


No be mi offer u sex for cash na.. Why r u crying

I am crying because it is none of your business

If no be you offer me sex then why pokenose into it.

You suppose allow us settle ourselves instead of interferring.

Oga this is 2020, you better seek the face of God and stop being unnecessarily dramatic.

As you can see he offered,i didnt accept but he didnt force me is optional.

Dont rant on my post, pls!!!i have bigger issues than wasting time replying yoi.
Health / Re: Is This A Sign Of Infection? by Ujuvals1: 10:46am On Jan 05, 2020
Timekeeper:



How far na, how una meeting, how many rounds, who won


Milemimi93 Oya come and tell us.. How was d sex with a married woman? Adventurous or what?

You should be asking yourself why you are a terrible human being with a dirty mindset.

If everyone you have met is promiscous then pls change your circle, also try to seek the face of God.It will help your soul.

Sex is the least of my problem.i am married and very much satisfied sexually so take your sick analysis elsewhere.

Lastly dont ever mention my name again before you find yourself in a worse predicament.Ewu!!!
Health / Re: Is This A Sign Of Infection? by Ujuvals1: 5:41pm On Jan 01, 2020
milemimi93:
Am not in lag wud cal u wen i get to lag. Agrement stil remain sex

Happy Newyear to You.

I pray this year will be the best for you.

I also pray you get a wife that will satisfy all your sexual urge such that you dont have to always be online offering random people sex.

Lastly, may you be blessed financially, spiritually and may laughter never cease from your mouth.

I hope you have a blast!!!!!
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 5:37pm On Jan 01, 2020
Happy Newyear to all Nairalanders.

May Almighty God bless you and your family with sufficient love, joy, and may your heart desires be fulfilled in Jesus name,Amen.

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Health / Re: Is This A Sign Of Infection? by Ujuvals1: 4:25pm On Dec 31, 2019
milemimi93:
pU pick d hotel we wil b

Please dont tag me again.
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 3:03pm On Dec 30, 2019
saxy4c:
Amazon she is.


Dear Sir,

Thank you for encouraging me with your words.

Very grateful.
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 10:33pm On Dec 28, 2019
dominique:



That means you have four more installments to go. I know how excruciating loan repayment can be (I've been there before) how much more if you lose your source of back-up funds. It might seem long but you'll be done repaying before you know it and you will go back to collecting your full salary. I hope your husband hustles harder to make up for the deficit. You can forward the message you intended to send to K4kenny to me, I'll make sure it gets to her.

Thank sis...check your watsapp.

Yes i really pray he gets up and hustles real hard to meet me halfway.

Its been a crazy ride, i literally do alot of pushing.I pray God helps us out.

Thanks

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Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 9:30pm On Dec 28, 2019
dominique:


Amen, thanks. God will see you through this temporary setback. How much longer do you have to offset the loan you took?

Goodeve Dominique and my nairaland family.

Its a five months loan repayment starting from this december.

I have a monthly debit mandate for repayment set to my account via remita from the loan company.

Thats how it was done.

Thanks for reaching out and showing support
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 8:15am On Dec 28, 2019
Thank you uboma for your support, i am very grateful

Dominique, life saver thank you for reaching out and encouraging me.you are amazing.God bless you

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Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 3:44pm On Dec 27, 2019
timseye:
You are such a strong woman, I envy your husband. However, your husband can do a lot to help you, since it's ladipo, there are so many things he can do to get money in ladipo. I did biz there between 1999 to 2015, so I am telling for a fact, there are so many ways to make money in ladipo. I made it big there. I got there with nothing. If your husband can work as a job man in the warehouse at ladipo; offloading and loading goods. Let me know, I may be able to help. This maybe next year though as ladipo market must have closed for the year now. Not there anymore but still have biz there.

Yes thank you.

He can do all that pls.

Till nextyear like you said.thank you

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Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 1:16pm On Dec 27, 2019
Kene Chineye

I don't know you or even your user name but thank you for the support.

God bless you.Very grateful

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Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 9:55am On Dec 27, 2019
craleonic:
Op, drop your acct number for those who might want to drop their widow's mite.
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 7:45am On Dec 27, 2019
Kaychiz:
Dear OP tears rolled down my eyes as I read your story. I know exactly how u feel cos I was also suicidal a few months back. Pls be strong and don't loose hope. God will see you thru.
I may not have anything to help you with now but all I'll say is listen to the song titled CHETA by Ada . listen to it over and over again.

Goodm Kaychiz.

Thank you somuch.i have listened to so many songs and read a lot of writeup that by now i am feeling alot better.

You may not have cash to give but sometimes cash isnt all there is to give, your words are encouraging.

Thanks alot.I will come out victorious
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 2:15am On Dec 27, 2019
CHoccolaTE:
OP try to get your pound of flesh abeg

Post the guys details online, if truly he travelled abroad, employers in developed countries always Google search names of those they are hiring to get background info that the applicants might try to hide

You can get evidence from yourself and other people and post on and other free platforms. Put his pictures there, showing different angles of his face and his full name. If he tries to get a job abroad and his potential boss googles his name he will he exposed as a criminal.

Don't let this guy go Scot free please.

Thank you dear, this is a good advise.

I have already posted his name.His phone no in Nigeria is switched off since the day he travelled.i can post that too if it will yield any result.

The truth is that we dont have his picture.My husband uses a nokia torchlight fone so they havent snapped or anything like that.Most of the guys in the market do not come with Android due to the nature of their job, spare parts which has grease and dirt and many of them use simple fones so they dont really have his picture.He isnt a social media person so we dont have his social media details too or is possible he hid that info from everyone.The guy is sha dangerous honestly.

The men that he duped went to his home, his not even married and his fiance at home whom they told was so shocked.They even made attempt to arrest her but again she isnt aware and what offence canshe really be accused of so at the long run they left her.

This man just wrecked many people, if i had his full picture or even quater picture i for even tag every social media handle i know because he put my life on hold due to his foolishness and greed.

As i dont have it, let God fight for me.For everyday i struggle to work i
and repay the loan my sweat is with him so his entire life will be useless.That abroad he think he was smart to go to, every night i pray and call his name,No peace for the wicked.

He will go and come back empty handed and if eventually he makes itthe God of justice will settle my case and put him where he belongs.I am still searching for more details on him.It is well.

Thanks alot sis, and thanks to everyone that has reached out.Godbless you all.

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Health / Re: Is This A Sign Of Infection? by Ujuvals1: 2:03am On Dec 27, 2019
milemimi93:
I knw u are married. I hav neva had sex wit a married woman. I saw dis as an opportunity. Sorry for takin advantage of ur situation. I need ur num. Where do u stay?

i stay in lagos.

Also reachable via watsapp.Thanks for your understanding.

Appreciate.
Health / Re: Is This A Sign Of Infection? by Ujuvals1: 9:46pm On Dec 26, 2019
milemimi93:
Drop ur num

Do you think is ok to do that??

I wouldnt want to infuriate you as i am not interested in the sex for money offer.

If you truly want to help me that will be very well appreciated, but if you cant too i understand thanks for even commenting on the page.

I am not really at my best as i am still trying to raise money to sort out my situation so if i drop my number and youstart writing me the sex chat thing my reacting might not be so polite because i need help and not mockery.

For this reason i may not drop the number unless you say otherwise.

Lastly pls dont feel insulted, i am married and already some of your post to me is demeaning.I am trying to remain calm and polite.

Thanks
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 9:39pm On Dec 26, 2019
k4kenny:


I'm truly heartbroken by this. You're a strong woman and a good wife who's facing a lot of trials. I'm a Muslim, we don't see things like this. This has nothing to do with the devil, rather we see it as a divine decree from Allah. He has stated the Qur'an that we'll face all forms of trials from fear to hunger and loss of wealth, lives and fruits(of labour) Q 2.155. Please be patient and keep praying. Indeed God is with the patient.

Also note that God doesn't burden a soul beyond it's capacity 2:286. Each time you feel you can't handle it, know that it's a phase of your life and as difficult as it may be, you can definitely best it by His grace.

I want to assist with a little token. You can get in touch with mod @dominique with your details. I'll see what I can do, God willing.

Dear Ma,

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and offer of assistance.i appreciate.

Truly, your words gave me hope as well as some other comments on this page.

You wrote here that God doesnt burden a soul beyond its capacity, now i just believed that he has made me capable to shoulder all these, through the storm and to come out victorious.

Honestly i have been through a lot and i keep fighting harder to win every battle.

I believe my testimony is near.Thank you so so much for stopping on my post and encouraging me.

I have read your write up ten times and i am still reading.I am holding on to those words as i walk out of this too victorious with my head held up high.

Nairalanders, i truly appreciate everyone, because of you guys i feel a lot better like truly the world has not ended.

Thank you all.

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Health / Re: Is This A Sign Of Infection? by Ujuvals1: 7:53pm On Dec 26, 2019
milemimi93:
U loand 250k rite? I'd send u 30% of the cash if u agree to hav sex wit me. I cnt ujuvals1 open my mails. Drop ur num if interested

Lolzzz, you need to read your writeup again and help me laugh at yourself.

Nairaland be producing clowns, so because i took loan and i am in need my brain is dead, sex for cash

Thank you dear for your offer.You are really not just a clown but the circus.

Anywaz,happy christmas and pls stay safe, we still love you the way you are.

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Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 12:28pm On Dec 26, 2019
milemimi93:
Nothing is beyond u.all d best. Pm me lets b frnds

Thank you sir for your understanding.
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 8:19am On Dec 26, 2019
uboma:
@ujuvals1,

I got a notification that you sent me a PM. I no longer have access to the email account I used in registering my account with NL. I tried to retrieve it to no avail.

Kindly send SMS to my number on my siggy.

Thank you.

Alrite sir, thank you and Merry Christmas.
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 8:19am On Dec 26, 2019
Saintmary:
God is your strength madam, you will overcome this, hang in there.

Thank you ma, i appreciate your kind words.Godblesa you
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 1:16am On Dec 26, 2019
milemimi93:
U hav a job. Use part of ur salary and repay d debt. I dnt know y u women like wailin weneva u are bin placed on d seat of responsibilities. No b una want equality?

Dear Sir,

I am not wailing. I have been on the seat of responsibility for over three years and have been doing it without a fight.

I came to ask for help because the situation got so bad and is way beyond me now.

Ofcourse my entire salary is for the loan repayment, but while on that how do i run the home?How do i transport to work all tru? i live in lagos and work in ogun state, i go to and fro daily.how do i take care of my baby while at this.I have to repay this for a few months, after i work the whole months i am repaying loan for a criminal that duped us and is probably enjoying himself in korea while i am struggling to repay with nothing left to survive on.Pray you dont find yourself in this kind of situation,my dear it is very tough even for a man how much more a woman.

My husband has moved around looking for watever he can lay his hand on to do and maybe because is christmas he hasnt seen anything yet.

We are not folding hands and waiting for manner, my dear we are doing every tbing we can on our won while i still try to solicit for help even if its a driving job for my husband or anything support, God can do wonders.

Don't be so inhuman with your words.There are even better ways to encourage me to carry my cross as you say.

Lastly, it's not a crime to speak out if you are in a difficult situation, God is still the God of the last minute, He alone can give me a testimony, He can rise helpers to help me, He can change this situation.He can make this pain go away.

My nairalanders are already reaching out to me, even if it is to say it ia well be strong thats a lot rather than what you put up there.

If humans were God, i am sure people like us won't even be on the surface of the earth anymore.

Show empathy, it doesnt cost you anything to do that.For some of ua are having life tougher than the others isnt by our making it is called Life.

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Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 10:00pm On Dec 25, 2019
cococandy:
Hi OP respond to your email. Thanks

Thank you Cococandy
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 3:33pm On Dec 25, 2019
dominique:


I'm good. We've not chatted in at least two years or so but I still have your number. How is your little man doing? You're one heck of a strong woman, doing that demanding job (if it's the same job of back then) and several businesses in between. Are you still active on Whatsapp? Your profile is not showing any last seen date.

Thank you sis, yes i am active on watsapp.

Our lil man is doing great and sends his regards.

Will be expecting to hear from you sis on the watsapp.

Thanks alot for your words of encouragement.You are a blessing
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 2:38pm On Dec 25, 2019
dominique:
Are you the same as Ujuvals that did this thread some years back?

https://www.nairaland.com/3328284/employers-stop-frustrating-us-cry#49054994

We used to chat every now and then on Whatsapp back then, if it's you give me the last four digits of your number.

What effort exactly is your husband putting in to get you out of this predicament?

Hey Dominque!!!!

Merry merry Christmas.

Thank God you remeber me and you are here.

Yes is me ooo, my last four digit 3439.

My husband had already started business since september with that loan money, he was doing ok.

He was into spare parts at ladipo and things got alot better sis, he took care of the home front and all while i was repaying the laon with my salary.

I was supposed to pay up the loan in few months and that will be all so it was a good idea.

He isnt a graduate so is more of a business person, everytype of spare parts business he was doing and it was alot better sis.

I don't know why devil just wóke up and came visiting december, you can imagine, the money he was using for business he was even increasing it gradually from the proceeds of his gain.

Like i wrote earlier his business partner i guess got his visa this december, kept mute,gathered alot of them in ladipo not just my husband to make purcahse together which they did, they sold the goods and while the man was claiming network transfer was an issue,they decided to wait till the nextday only for him to abscond with everyone's money.This same man has been doing business there for over four years so he isnt new.Maybe he had always wanted to travel and got his viasa this december.

Right now my husband is even very sick and down due to this hardluck, he has to put himself in good shape to be able to think the way out.I am just here seeking for help because i dont want him to die and make things even worse for me.

He isnt a bad person is just that things are rough and just when it got better someone duped us.

I have even suggested we go for prayers sef because my afflictions are repeating.

Thank you dear,this lengthy writeup is for clarity.

How are you inbetween?
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 1:41pm On Dec 25, 2019
fertilewomb:
Op, I just pray God see you through and sustain you this period. Don't allow this to weigh you down, you are a strong woman and one day you will look back and have a reason to rejoice. It's tough I know, but God gat you. l Sincerely wish I could help.

You just helped, words of encouragement is also a means of saving a depressed being.

Thank you fertile womb.

You have done alot.My testimony is near.Thanks alot
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 1:39pm On Dec 25, 2019
Kelvin30286063:
Op, please quote me and dropped your phone number. I feel like helping you.
All those people up there dragging her and calling her a stylish better should know that people go through stuffs for real.
In 2015, I came on nairaland to beg for money. I was teaching in a school and somehow I spent the money meant for inter House sport. People made mockery of me and I was ashamed of myself.
Today, I'm a proud owner of 2 houses, a beautiful wife and a booming business. I can't find that post anymore but I wish I can read it again.

Thank you so much sir.

I sincerely appreciate.I bless God that you are a testimony of his mercies and greatness.

From 2015 to now its indeed a massive turnaround.

I tap into that blessing and also proclaim into my life that i will also be a living testimony.

Kindly permit me to drop my email as i prefer to communicate by email, i can send you my phone number to your mail too.

I don't want to openly drop my phone number so i can be concious of my calls for security reasons and my safety.

If you also need my pics etcand proof i can send all that to you privately.

Thanks alot sir for this testimony and for giving alot of people hope that tough times dont last.

Also thanks to all nairalanders that have reached out one way or the other.

My testimony i belive is here and real soon this tears is turning to laughter and Joy.

Cococandy, you are a blessing.Thank you

Thanks somuch to nairaland family.i am really short of words but thank you.

Merry Christmas to everyone.

My email is ujuvals@gmail.com
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 9:21pm On Dec 24, 2019
HarunaWest:
sorry bout your situation..Human Beings are dangerous....Meanwhile u shud have posted your hubby's location,age, educational qualification and expertise maybe someone out here wud have something for him...

Thank you so much sir/ma

My hubby is 38years, he isnt a graduate.

He has driver's liacene too, we are at iba lagos and he can drive

Any other thing called work we are available.

Godbless u
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 1:32pm On Dec 24, 2019
ProtectMyMoney:
..

Church should not be only for dancing and singing. Sincerely, the first place you should ask for help is from your Pastor and Church support in the Church you attend.

We often leave out Churches that should be first to give succor in the time of need. Or is it not written that come unto me all ye that are heavy laden, and i will give you rest.


Yes you are right, my church is a small church.i have spoken to my pastor who has prayed for me.

There is really no support the church can give me now except prayers.

This very december i supported some women in my church just to help then feed this christmas and even supported my church for their church program this same december which was where i went to dance and sing.

I mean after all this, despite i am struggling i have been a good supportwr to the church,so my faith got shaken when i gor this sad news this same december right after our programme.

Is that bad now because my husband used every dime even his funds and the little i have to do december business hoping to get good gain.

Truly the devil visited me but i know as you all have rightly said this too shall pass
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 1:10pm On Dec 24, 2019
azimo:
am not a force man or any arm agent not even an intelligent office that's not my job I can't help track them ok but if ur story is proven we will try to help

Ok sir, thank you somuch.

Please how do i prove myself, pls any nairalander in Nigeria pls help establish my story pls.I desperately need help

Pls
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 12:59pm On Dec 24, 2019
azimo:
Some one should verify this story I mean those in Nigeria and get back to us let's see what we can do

Thank you sir, please someone should help verify me.

Pls even if anyone can help us track the criminal too i will appreciate.

Thank you sir and thank you to everyone
Family / Re: Black December For My Family!!!my Heart Is Broken Chai!!!God Why Me by Ujuvals1: 12:58pm On Dec 24, 2019
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Thank you somuch

I can send you all you need pls just tell me what and what.

If you even need physical proof pls i am available same with my husband and even people from his business area can testify to this because he couldnt even come home to break the news,he thought i would die.They had to come home to gradually break the news.

Poverty is bad but loan is terrible because if anything goes wrong is as if you arw dead.No sleep and No peace.

Pls i am really in need.Thank you for giving me the benefit of doubt.

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