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Romance12 Ways To Identify A MISOGYNIST (a Must Read For All Ladies) by uncleFola(op):
Ladies, before you Say YES to that Man, it will be very wise enough for you to know that you won't be a victim of domestic violence.... here is 12 ways to spot a MISOGYNIST, also refers to as "woman-hater"....


12 Ways to Spot a Misogynist
Men who hate women may
not consciously realize it. But their actions reveal them




The Misogynists.You may have heard of them. But what you may not realize is that they can be anywhere around you. They are notoriously hard to spot. They do not come with a label attached, and they may even come across as pro-woman.
In most cases, misogynists do not even know that they hate women. Misogyny is typically an unconscious hatred that men form early in life, often as a result of a trauma involving a female figure they trusted. An abusive or negligent mother, sister, teacher or girlfriend can plant a seed deep down in their brain’s subcortical matter.


Once planted, this seed will germinate and begin to grow, the tiny root working its way into the fear processing and memory areas of the brain as its tiny stem works its way into frontal areas of the brain, affecting emotion and rational decision-making.


The first signs of misogyny are barely noticeable, but with additional exposure to neglect, abuse, or lack of treatment, this behavioral seeding will grow larger and more prominent. But even when the misogyny reaches maturity and the tendency toward acting with hatred toward women can no longer be controlled, the misogynist and the women around him will often fail to notice the condition until it’s too late.


The following traits are typical of the misogynist:


1. He will zero in on a woman and choose her as his target. Her natural defenses may be down because he’s flirtatious, exciting, fun, and charismatic at first.

2. As time goes on, he begins to reveal a Jekyll & Hyde personality. He may change quickly from irresistible to rude, and from rude back to irresistible.


3. He will make promises to women and often fail to keep them. With men, on the other hand, he will almost always keep his word.

4. He will be late for appointments and dates with women, but be quite punctual with men.

5. His behavior toward women in general is grandiose, cocky, controlling, and self-centered.

6. He is extremely competitive, especially with women. If a woman does better than him socially or professionally, he feels terrible. If a man does better, he may have mixed feelings about it but he is able to look at the situation objectively.

7. He will unknowingly treat women differently from men in workplaceand social settings, allowing men various liberties for which he will criticize female colleagues or friends.

8. He will be prepared (unconsciously) to use anything within his power to make women feel miserable. He may demand sex or withhold sex in his relationships, make jokes about women or put them down in public, “borrow” their ideas in professional contexts without giving them credit, or borrow money from them without paying them back.

9. On a date, he will treat a woman the opposite of how she prefers. If she is an old-style lady who prefers a "gentleman" who holds the door for her, orders for both and pays for the meal, he will treat her like one of his male buddies, order for himself, and let her pay for the whole meal if she offers (and sometimes even if she doesn’t). If she is a more independent type who prefers to order her own meal and pay for herself, he will rudely order for both and pay the check while she goes to the bathroom.

10. Sexually, he likes to control women and gives little or no attention to their sexual pleasure. pre-intimacy, if it occurs at all, is only a necessary means to an end. He likes MouthAction but only as a recipient. His favorite positions enable him to avoid looking the woman in her eyes.

11.He will cheat on women he is dating or in a relationship with. Monogamy is the last thing he feels he owes a woman.

12. He may suddenly disappear from a relationship without ending it, but may come back three months later with an explanation designed to lure the woman back in.

Only rarely will a misogynist possess every one of these traits, which makes it harder to identify them. Their ability to lure women in with their charm and charisma adds to the difficulty of spotting the early-warning signs.

Women haters (unconsciously) get off on treating women badly. Every time they can put down a woman or hurt her feelings, they unconsciously feel good because deep down in their hidden brain, their bad behavior is rewarded with a dose of the pleasure chemical dopamine—which makes them want to repeat the behavior again and again.

Berit Brogaard is the author of On Romantic Love

Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201502/12-ways-spot-misogynist

HealthRe: All You Need To Know About Sudden Cardiac Arrest That Causes Death by uncleFola(m): 8:22am On Jun 12, 2017
AreaFada2:
You're welcome sir.

For now do not worry about it. Get the echo done first. That will show the full detail. And the possible cause.
Typically it is about preventing it worsening (like treating underlying condition like high BP) & possibly control symptoms as appropriate.

Then lifestyle advice might be added.

But be very frank to your doc about all your medical history, family history of any cardiovascular conditions (ask your parents & siblings about any heart conditions), medications if any and so on. Remember if any close blood relative died of sudden death (God forbid), died young (aside accident) even if long ago.

I hope your doctor is a cardiologist, not just any doctor. A teaching hospital is the best place to find one.
thank you so much brother... God bless... I will do as directed, I really appreciate
HealthRe: All You Need To Know About Sudden Cardiac Arrest That Causes Death by uncleFola(m): 7:04pm On Jun 11, 2017
AreaFada2:
Sir I suppose echo is the test you have not done yet. Try and do it soonest.
Echocardiography is a better test not just to confirm it but to search for possible cause or causes of it.

LVH means that the left chamber that does pumping of blood around the body has a thickened wall. Although it naturally has a thicker wall than the right ventricle but it still indicates that it is working too hard over time.
In older people the major cause is high blood pressure. Especially if diagnosed late or is poorly controlled.

It can also be due to congenital abnormality of the heart in younger people mostly.

Echo can detect a cause like aortic valve stenosis. Where the aortic valve if stiff and the heart has to work harder to pump blood through it. Echo can also measure the actual wall thickness.
thank you so much sir.... I will surely go for Echo and that was what exactly the doc told me to do.... But I really want to ask if it can be controll or cure or does it have to be like that?
HealthRe: All You Need To Know About Sudden Cardiac Arrest That Causes Death by uncleFola(m): 5:32pm On Jun 11, 2017
Papzey:
Cardiac arrest occurs when the effective blood flow suddenly stops due to the inability of the heart to contract efficiently. Usually, some people may suffer from chest pain, nausea, or shortness of breath before it occurs. If it is not taken care of swiftly and immediately, it usually leads to sudden death.

Signs and symptoms of Cardiac Arrest:

Cardiac arrest is sometimes preceded by certain symptoms such as fainting, fatigue, blackouts, dizziness, shortness of breath, weakness, vomiting, and chest pain. The arrest may also occur with no warning. The symptoms also include the absence of breathing or loss of consciousness.

What are the major causes of Cardiac Arrest?

Coronary artery disease is the most common cause of cardiac arrest. Other less common causes are major blood loss, lack of oxygen, very low potassium, heart failure, and intense physical exercise.

A number of inherited disorders may also increase the risk including long QT syndrome. The initial heart rhythm is most often ventricular fibrillation.

The diagnosis is confirmed by finding no pulse. While a cardiac arrest may be caused by heart attack or heart failure, these are not the same.

What are the other causes of Cardiac Arrest?

As mentioned earlier, coronary artery disease is the leading major cause of sudden cardiac arrest. There are hosts of other cardiac and non-cardiac conditions that also increase the risk. Coronary artery disease often results in coronary ischemia and ventricular fibrillation (v-fib). Cases have shown that the most common finding at postmortem examination of SCD is chronic high-grade stenosis of at least one segment of a major coronary artery, the arteries that supply the heart muscle with its blood supply.

Left ventricular hypertrophy is believed to be the leading cause of sudden cardiac death in the adult population. This is usually the result of severe high blood pressure which has caused secondary damage to the wall of the main pumping chamber of the heart, the left ventricle.

How to Prevent Cardiac Arrest?

The best prevention of cardiac arrest is to quit smoking, avoid heavy physical activity, getting enough sleep, and maintaining a healthy weight. The treatment for cardiac arrest is immediate cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) and if a shockable rhythm is present, defibrillation is used. An implantable cardiac defibrillator may be placed to reduce the chance of death from recurrence.

If you observe any of the above-mentioned symptoms in anyone close to you, please rush to the hospital or call emergency services immediately. Sudden cardiac arrest is killing quite a lot of young people these days.


Source: http://www.rapportnaija.com/2017/06/sudden-cardiac-arrest.html
thank you so much OP. But I want to ask something, there was one time like that I was having palpitation and very strong one and the doc told me to go for ECG.... Which I did, but in d result there was this "left Ventricular Hypertrophy"... Which I took back to d doc and told me to do another test on d LVH. But have not gone for the test.... Pls I want any doc in the house to explain to me what's LVH all about... Here is a picture of the test

BusinessRe: 23 Banks Got N28.7bn Inflows From Dubious MMM Transactions. by uncleFola(m): 8:49am On May 31, 2017
Partnerbiz:
These people can only report this rubbish in Nigeria.
So how could you know mmm and non mmm transactions since most don't indicate it.
abi oo, they just don't know what to say or publish about MMM anymore. How on earth do they know MMM transaction cuz almost everyone doesn't signify their transaction as MMM.... MMM has passed tru hell of media and government, the scheme is just here to stay for good... FG itself should better join the train... If u can't beat them, u join them. Only fools will blv whatever they have to say.
NYSCRe: Female Corper Survives Horrific Accident On Her Way To Orientation Camp (Graphic by uncleFola(m): 9:11am On Jan 05, 2017
And a fool will still say in his heart that there is no God?...... This is nothing but a Miracle... Great God... I give u tuale oo.
InvestmentRe: "Leave MMM Alone" - Sergey Mavrodi, MMM Founder Tells Bloggers, Journalists by uncleFola(m): 10:11am On Dec 19, 2016
Nairalanded:
How dumb! So MMM froze the power of participants to withdraw money(get help) yet some few participants as claimed by you are still able to get help right? If people are providing help like your so called friend then who is he/she providing help to? To ghosts?
All man for himself, I am beginning to wonder why you are this concerned!!! Biko calm ur nerves and take a chill pill, then wait till January for MMM burial.... U can actually be the one to plan the burial ceremony.... So chill!!!
InvestmentRe: "Leave MMM Alone" - Sergey Mavrodi, MMM Founder Tells Bloggers, Journalists by uncleFola(m): 9:24am On Dec 19, 2016
I wish those blabbing about the negativity of MMM would stop and go to that site and read the IDEAOLOGY behind MMM, the reason why the MEDIA and GOVERNMENT could easily create panic within the participants is that fact that 80% participants just participate, they don't know the brain or ideology behind MMM.... If they could all go back and study it well, they will get to know that MMM is just a mean to build the gap between the poor and the rich.... MMM ideology is to create a classless society and also deliver people from the exploitation of these hungry leaders and politicians. This will make them realize the fact that MMM is people and people are MMM. Sergei mavrodie could be a known fraudster worldwide, what about large number of unknown criminals and political fraudsters in Nigeria today? People decided to let them be just bcus you think they have the power to bring you down if you ever challenge them or go against them..... Come to think of it, if the media can just stop for a minute and bring out the negativity in those corrupt politicians like they are doing to MMM now, don't you think Nigeria will be better than this?.... our corrupt and politician fraudsters keeps giving us the impression that "THE RICHER WILL BE GETTING RICHER WHILE THE POOR WILL BE GETTING POORER" but MMM is here to give us the hope " THE RICHER WILL BE GETTING RICHER AND THE POOR CAN ALSO BE RICH" and we still keep believing in those political fraudsters just because they are giving you hopeless future and you keep kicking against what gives hope to the hopeless?.... Nigerians, think twice.....
PropertiesRe: Plywood Ghetto-house Under Lagos Bridge That Has An Air-conditioner! by uncleFola(m): 2:05pm On May 27, 2016
Naija..... I hail ooo, every way na way jo... Life is vanity upon vanity.... Thesame death that will kill Buhari living in Aso Rock is thesame as the one that will take away the person/people living in that house ..... So enjoy this life while it last.... Aye kan lowa..
CelebritiesD,banj Claims A Telecom Company Has Been Milking From Him Illegally... Snapshot. by uncleFola(op): 1:30pm On May 27, 2016
D,Banj the kokomaster is out accusing a telecom company in Nigeria has been milking from him illegally and he didn't find it funny at all..... The question is, which telecommunication company could it be in Nigeriahuh?...... He didn't name anyone of them.... Hoping to know the actual telecom company soon............

SportsRe: Amarachi Nwankwo Celebrates Her 30th Birthday Today by uncleFola(m): 11:50am On May 27, 2016
Is this post that superb...... Hitting FP twice at thesame time .... Happy birthday to her thou, turning 30 can be so dreadful mostly if you are a girl and still single even boy single at 30....... So help me God and listen to my inner heart desires..... I want to be a family man if not before.... Latest at 30 lord.... Amen!!!
PoliticsRe: Ekiti Workers Begin Strike Today Over Unpaid Salaries by uncleFola(m): 10:15am On May 26, 2016
TOBIeee68:
na wao for all dis blogger who told you fayose didn't pay dia worker Chai chai dre s God oo mind wot u say abt odas see fayose s paying us I work under him as student lecturer mind wot u post at tyms pls NL if u don't no anytin abt ekiti ask from dose leaving dere like oda state did dae pay dere workers also e.g osun, oyo own 7month salary a friend of mine told me am d1 DAT even send him d l2 salary I collected from governor fayose ogun state s among no accommodation for corpers quote me wrong if I lie ogun state pple please, kwara, n odas state I rep fayose s cuz his showing his people love, caring nt like odas governor afta campaign u won't see dere eyes again til 2019 again n if he don't do DAT again u people wl still talk na wao for Nigeria people with dere problem.


God fayose
God bless ajimobi cuz s my state governor
God bless buhari n zombies increase of fuel I wl neva forget. sai baba regime for wot he did to Nigeria
oga pack well, I fear for this your English....
PoliticsRe: Ekiti Workers Begin Strike Today Over Unpaid Salaries by uncleFola(m): 10:12am On May 26, 2016
KINGwax007:
after u lie finish, clean ur mouth... grin grin with this ur English, na spark plugs and battery u dey sell for idumota
.... Lol #baddest.....
NYSCRe: NYSC 2016 Batch A Corp Members House by uncleFola(m): 10:44pm On Apr 20, 2016
hammedkola:
Kogi state
Leaked version things noni, jah bless bro... Thanks.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2016 Batch A Corp Members House by uncleFola(m): 10:23pm On Apr 20, 2016
hammedkola:
From Lagos to Abuja............Glory be to God... cheesy cheesy cheesy, I'm so happy, drop your login details lemme check for you my people
Abeg help me check bro email: tmanbuiz@gmail.com.. Pass: modupetemi
NYSCRe: State Your State Of Deployment And Stream by uncleFola(m): 9:51am On Apr 20, 2016
Make I follow book space.....
PoliticsRe: Fayose: I’m Not Interested In The Presidency by uncleFola(m): 8:45am On Apr 04, 2016
Lol, Fayose keeps extending with all these news.... You making him popular everyday with his name on FP......
RomanceRe: My Fellow Nairalanders Do I Look Gay?? by uncleFola(m): 11:28pm On Apr 03, 2016
Lol
RomanceRe: Normal Vaginal Discharge by uncleFola(m): 11:27pm On Apr 03, 2016
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EventsRe: Nigerian Groom Cries On His Bride's Shoulder At Their Wedding (photo) by uncleFola(m): 11:15pm On Apr 02, 2016
Agubushmenyo:
Just when you realize that you used your Last savings for the weeding, just to Impress guests!! grin

And they don chop finish they go house!!
Lol.... I fear your assumption oo. Smh.
CultureRe: Father Kills Son Because He Was Gay by uncleFola(m): 11:34am On Apr 02, 2016
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EducationRe: 2 Ekiti State University Students To Spend 3 Years In Jail by uncleFola(m): 11:30am On Apr 02, 2016
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EducationRe: 2 Ekiti State University Students To Spend 3 Years In Jail by uncleFola(m): 11:29am On Apr 02, 2016
Newsbreakers:
Justice Monisola Abodunde of an Ado-Ekiti High Court has issued a three-year imprisonment verdict on two students of the Ekiti State University (EKSU). The EKSU students: Akintunde Olumide and Oladapo Olaoluwa are to spend the next three years in jail after being found guilty of involvement in cultism.

The Justice held that the prosecution has proved a case of stealing, assault and membership of a secret cult group against the accused beyond every reasonable doubt.

Mr Femi Falade, the police prosecutor revealed to the court that the accused committed the offence on July 13, 2013, at a hotel in Iworoko, Ekiti, adding that they were brought on a three-count charge of stealing, assault and cultism.

Falade added, ‘This offence is punishable under Section 355, 4(1) of Criminal Code Laws of Ekiti State 2012 and Secret Cults (Abolition and Prohibition).’

During interrogation Criminal Investigation Department, the accused made a confessional statement, stating they are members of the Confraternity.

The Police also found in their possession: a small cutlass, a black head warmer, black T-shirts and black trousers.

The judge commented, ‘It is not a tool for education, it is a weapon of danger and indiscriminating, which should not be seen within the school premises.’

The exhibit recovered from the accused gave the judge the needed proof to sentence them to three-year imprisonment without any option of fine.

www.newsbreakers.ng
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RomanceRe: The Trendiest Way To Break Up In 2016( You Need To See This) by uncleFola(op): 11:24am On Apr 02, 2016
McCarlito:
Federal Government is hunting Ghost Workers
The citizens are busy being Ghosted or Ghosting themselves...
www.nairaland.com/attachments/3554500_giphy_giff78492f0513c659e69dab2e47f567202
Make I pitch my tent here dey watch
laffing ... ah dey here too Ok, BTW, is like you have popcorn with you, make I go arrange my own sharply.....
RomanceRe: The Trendiest Way To Break Up In 2016( You Need To See This) by uncleFola(op): 11:17am On Apr 02, 2016
KashyBaby:
grin Damn! I'm guilty doing this...but I never know tat it's called "ghosting"...
lol, now you know you have been ghosting people, I doubt if everyone hasn't done this b4.....
RomanceThe Trendiest Way To Break Up In 2016( You Need To See This) by uncleFola(op): 11:11am On Apr 02, 2016
The trendiest way to breakup a relationship in 2016 is by “Ghosting“!

Ghosting? What’s That?
Ghosting is basically completing cutting off a romantic partner with no explanation. It mainly applies to people in dating relationships. Typically, the “ghosts or ghoster” stops answering all calls, deletes and blocks the “ghosted” from social media including but not limited to Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, Snapchat & Instagram.

The New York Times defines “Ghosting” this way – (the term) has also come to be used as a verb that refers to ending a romantic relationship by cutting off all contact and ignoring the former partner’s attempts to reach out.

Sounds cruel, doesn’t it?

Do People Really Do This?
In 2014, YouGov/Huffington Post poll of 1,000 adults showed that just 11 percent of Americans had “ghosted” someone.

This week, a new survey released by the dating site Plenty of Fish revealed that 78 per cent of single Millennials have been ‘ghosted’ at least once! That is a major jump which shows this trend is truly popping.


Ghosters speak out
Ameena – I was in a very serious relationship with this guy for 3 months, we met and fell hard for each other. He invited me to go on holiday with him and we travelled to the Gambia. In Nigeria, we hardly have the freedom to do sleepovers and things like that so this was our first time “living together”. It was like he was a different person, he was impatient and got angry easily and he put a lot of pressure on me to have sex with him (I wasn’t ready and didn’t), though on other days, he was ok.
He didn’t even realize he was doing anything wrong, I just acted like everything was ok.

As soon as he dropped me at home in Abuja, I completely deleted his number from my phone and blocked him online. He kept calling and calling until I eventually blocked his number.

Ini – I dated this girl for a year around the time I was ready to settle down. She ticked all the boxes and was wifey material for sure but she just didn’t excite me. Everything about her was perfect and Emma is really a nice girl.

I had already hinted marriage and she had met my sisters. I felt trapped somehow. I couldn’t bring myself to break up with her so when I travelled to the East for a work retreat, I just didn’t call her while there or when I came back…

The Ghosted
Tunde – I was talking to this babe for a while. We went on a few dates and it was very cool. I thought we were going in the same direction. We talked everyday and all that. One night, we were chatting on WhatsApp and I was telling her how much I was missing her. I promised to send her a pic to show how much I was missing her…
I sent a pic of something special…and she immediately blocked me on WhatsApp. I tried calling her but she never picked up. She didn’t even bother blocking me on Twitter, she just carried on her life.

I really Need To Try this….

Culled From BN

http://www.yabaleftonline.com/2016/03/find-out-the-trendiest-way-to-break-up-in-2016/
FamilyRe: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by uncleFola(m): 1:07pm On Apr 01, 2016
austine4real:
Mayb the load is too much 4her to bear, wash clothes,cook,breastfeed,wash yansh


and u go com bak 4rm work remove ur smelling prik 4rm ur dirty boxers and say baby spread ur legs i want fvck,no intimacy no hw are u? No hw did ur day went


my broda u must b wicked oo aaah u must be D 2nd satan sef


do u communicate things to her,i mean hw u feel?
lol ... smh.
RomanceRe: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by uncleFola(m): 11:28am On Apr 01, 2016
cr7lomo:
I understand your plight... U still a baby and babies are usually rebellious and confused, especially ladies... I hv nothing to say to u as of today until experience comes as ur lesson teacher to take u on a course called " LIFE"
on point, the best teacher in life is experience.....
PoliticsRe: Hypocrisy : Reno Omokri Blasts Buhari ( Screenshot) by uncleFola(m): 8:23am On Mar 30, 2016
afolayanto:
There have been several attacks on the person of PMB and his Econmic team.

Oil price per barrel between Febuary and April 2015 hoovered between 54 to 57 dollars per barrel.
It is interesting to know that at this price, Jonathan and the mother of our economy (NOI) were already borrowing to pay salaries and meet up obligations to contractors.
What would have been happening when oil went as low as 28 USD per barrel. Would Nigeria have been sold? Naira was devalued to 197naira per dollar then yet it didn't solve any problem as Nigeria still had to keep borrowing. Will devaluing Niara solve anything now?

Fellow Nigerians,
Despite the lowest oil price rate of all times, President Buhari have never borrowed to pay salaries rather they have dished out bail out funds to states to pay salaries.
The present Economic situation have been expected even before this adminstration as evident in the several warnings issued by the past minister of Finance even when oil was 74USD per barrel
In summary;
Buhari inherited a very big problem and have so far so good tried his best to navigate the ship Nigeria safefly. I urge Jonathanians to take a chill pill, and give this adminstration some time as its first ever budget have just been passed.
God bless the Federal Repubic of Nigera
God bless Mr President
God bless you ..... The fact is that Nigerians are just in haste to see better Nigeria in no time..... D change we seek, is a gradual process don't forget.
CultureRe: 5 Things You Only Remember Doing If You Were Raised In Nigeria by uncleFola(op): 11:27pm On Mar 25, 2016
uncleFola:
A little nostalgia has never killed anyone.

When we were younger, there were some funny things we did and now that I think about it, we had some crazy funny reasons for doing them. We somehow believed that these things helped us one way or the other.

1. Writing your name in your pen so that it doesn’t get stolen

It eventually got stolen most times but well, we kept writing.


2. Throwing your teeth on top of the roof for a lizard to pick

Because if you don’t throw your teeth, no teeth from father Lizard.

3. Waving at doves for white fingers

Leke leke, give me white finger.

4. Removing strands of your eyelashes and putting them at the door for your punishable offense to be forgotten

Until you hear your name and the next thing is a slap in your face


5. Reshape the bottle cap, put it inside the bottle and shake it

Because somehow we were convinced that the drink increased when we did that.

Culture5 Things You Only Remember Doing If You Were Raised In Nigeria by uncleFola(op):
A little nostalgia has never killed anyone.

When we were younger, there were some funny things we did and now that I think about it, we had some crazy funny reasons for doing them. We somehow believed that these things helped us one way or the other.

1. Writing your name in your pen so that it doesn’t get stolen

It eventually got stolen most times but well, we kept writing.


2. Throwing your teeth on top of the roof for a lizard to pick

Because if you don’t throw your teeth, no teeth from father Lizard.

3. Waving at doves for white fingers

Leke leke, give me white finger.

4. Removing strands of your eyelashes and putting them at the door for your punishable offense to be forgotten

Until you hear your name and the next thing is a slap in your face


5. Reshape the bottle cap, put it inside the bottle and shake it

Because somehow we were convinced that the drink increased when we did that.

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