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Ladies, before you Say YES to that Man, it will be very wise enough for you to know that you won't be a victim of domestic violence.... here is 12 ways to spot a MISOGYNIST, also refers to as "woman-hater".... 12 Ways to Spot a Misogynist Men who hate women may not consciously realize it. But their actions reveal them The Misogynists.You may have heard of them. But what you may not realize is that they can be anywhere around you. They are notoriously hard to spot. They do not come with a label attached, and they may even come across as pro-woman. In most cases, misogynists do not even know that they hate women. Misogyny is typically an unconscious hatred that men form early in life, often as a result of a trauma involving a female figure they trusted. An abusive or negligent mother, sister, teacher or girlfriend can plant a seed deep down in their brain’s subcortical matter. Once planted, this seed will germinate and begin to grow, the tiny root working its way into the fear processing and memory areas of the brain as its tiny stem works its way into frontal areas of the brain, affecting emotion and rational decision-making. The first signs of misogyny are barely noticeable, but with additional exposure to neglect, abuse, or lack of treatment, this behavioral seeding will grow larger and more prominent. But even when the misogyny reaches maturity and the tendency toward acting with hatred toward women can no longer be controlled, the misogynist and the women around him will often fail to notice the condition until it’s too late. The following traits are typical of the misogynist: 1. He will zero in on a woman and choose her as his target. Her natural defenses may be down because he’s flirtatious, exciting, fun, and charismatic at first. 2. As time goes on, he begins to reveal a Jekyll & Hyde personality. He may change quickly from irresistible to rude, and from rude back to irresistible. 3. He will make promises to women and often fail to keep them. With men, on the other hand, he will almost always keep his word. 4. He will be late for appointments and dates with women, but be quite punctual with men. 5. His behavior toward women in general is grandiose, cocky, controlling, and self-centered. 6. He is extremely competitive, especially with women. If a woman does better than him socially or professionally, he feels terrible. If a man does better, he may have mixed feelings about it but he is able to look at the situation objectively. 7. He will unknowingly treat women differently from men in workplaceand social settings, allowing men various liberties for which he will criticize female colleagues or friends. 8. He will be prepared (unconsciously) to use anything within his power to make women feel miserable. He may demand sex or withhold sex in his relationships, make jokes about women or put them down in public, “borrow” their ideas in professional contexts without giving them credit, or borrow money from them without paying them back. 9. On a date, he will treat a woman the opposite of how she prefers. If she is an old-style lady who prefers a "gentleman" who holds the door for her, orders for both and pays for the meal, he will treat her like one of his male buddies, order for himself, and let her pay for the whole meal if she offers (and sometimes even if she doesn’t). If she is a more independent type who prefers to order her own meal and pay for herself, he will rudely order for both and pay the check while she goes to the bathroom. 10. Sexually, he likes to control women and gives little or no attention to their sexual pleasure. pre-intimacy, if it occurs at all, is only a necessary means to an end. He likes MouthAction but only as a recipient. His favorite positions enable him to avoid looking the woman in her eyes. 11.He will cheat on women he is dating or in a relationship with. Monogamy is the last thing he feels he owes a woman. 12. He may suddenly disappear from a relationship without ending it, but may come back three months later with an explanation designed to lure the woman back in. Only rarely will a misogynist possess every one of these traits, which makes it harder to identify them. Their ability to lure women in with their charm and charisma adds to the difficulty of spotting the early-warning signs. Women haters (unconsciously) get off on treating women badly. Every time they can put down a woman or hurt her feelings, they unconsciously feel good because deep down in their hidden brain, their bad behavior is rewarded with a dose of the pleasure chemical dopamine—which makes them want to repeat the behavior again and again. Berit Brogaard is the author of On Romantic Love Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201502/12-ways-spot-misogynist
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AreaFada2:thank you so much brother... God bless... I will do as directed, I really appreciate |
AreaFada2:thank you so much sir.... I will surely go for Echo and that was what exactly the doc told me to do.... But I really want to ask if it can be controll or cure or does it have to be like that? |
Papzey:thank you so much OP. But I want to ask something, there was one time like that I was having palpitation and very strong one and the doc told me to go for ECG.... Which I did, but in d result there was this "left Ventricular Hypertrophy"... Which I took back to d doc and told me to do another test on d LVH. But have not gone for the test.... Pls I want any doc in the house to explain to me what's LVH all about... Here is a picture of the test
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Partnerbiz:abi oo, they just don't know what to say or publish about MMM anymore. How on earth do they know MMM transaction cuz almost everyone doesn't signify their transaction as MMM.... MMM has passed tru hell of media and government, the scheme is just here to stay for good... FG itself should better join the train... If u can't beat them, u join them. Only fools will blv whatever they have to say. |
And a fool will still say in his heart that there is no God?...... This is nothing but a Miracle... Great God... I give u tuale oo. |
Nairalanded:All man for himself, I am beginning to wonder why you are this concerned!!! Biko calm ur nerves and take a chill pill, then wait till January for MMM burial.... U can actually be the one to plan the burial ceremony.... So chill!!! |
I wish those blabbing about the negativity of MMM would stop and go to that site and read the IDEAOLOGY behind MMM, the reason why the MEDIA and GOVERNMENT could easily create panic within the participants is that fact that 80% participants just participate, they don't know the brain or ideology behind MMM.... If they could all go back and study it well, they will get to know that MMM is just a mean to build the gap between the poor and the rich.... MMM ideology is to create a classless society and also deliver people from the exploitation of these hungry leaders and politicians. This will make them realize the fact that MMM is people and people are MMM. Sergei mavrodie could be a known fraudster worldwide, what about large number of unknown criminals and political fraudsters in Nigeria today? People decided to let them be just bcus you think they have the power to bring you down if you ever challenge them or go against them..... Come to think of it, if the media can just stop for a minute and bring out the negativity in those corrupt politicians like they are doing to MMM now, don't you think Nigeria will be better than this?.... our corrupt and politician fraudsters keeps giving us the impression that "THE RICHER WILL BE GETTING RICHER WHILE THE POOR WILL BE GETTING POORER" but MMM is here to give us the hope " THE RICHER WILL BE GETTING RICHER AND THE POOR CAN ALSO BE RICH" and we still keep believing in those political fraudsters just because they are giving you hopeless future and you keep kicking against what gives hope to the hopeless?.... Nigerians, think twice..... |
Naija..... I hail ooo, every way na way jo... Life is vanity upon vanity.... Thesame death that will kill Buhari living in Aso Rock is thesame as the one that will take away the person/people living in that house ..... So enjoy this life while it last.... Aye kan lowa.. |
D,Banj the kokomaster is out accusing a telecom company in Nigeria has been milking from him illegally and he didn't find it funny at all..... The question is, which telecommunication company could it be in Nigeria ?...... He didn't name anyone of them.... Hoping to know the actual telecom company soon............
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Is this post that superb...... Hitting FP twice at thesame time .... Happy birthday to her thou, turning 30 can be so dreadful mostly if you are a girl and still single even boy single at 30....... So help me God and listen to my inner heart desires..... I want to be a family man if not before.... Latest at 30 lord.... Amen!!! |
TOBIeee68:oga pack well, I fear for this your English.... |
KINGwax007:.... Lol #baddest..... |
hammedkola:Leaked version things noni, jah bless bro... Thanks. |
hammedkola:Abeg help me check bro email: tmanbuiz@gmail.com.. Pass: modupetemi |
Make I follow book space..... |
Lol, Fayose keeps extending with all these news.... You making him popular everyday with his name on FP...... |
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Agubushmenyo:Lol.... I fear your assumption oo. Smh. |
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McCarlito:laffing ... ah dey here too Ok, BTW, is like you have popcorn with you, make I go arrange my own sharply..... |
KashyBaby:lol, now you know you have been ghosting people, I doubt if everyone hasn't done this b4..... |
The trendiest way to breakup a relationship in 2016 is by “Ghosting“! Ghosting? What’s That? Ghosting is basically completing cutting off a romantic partner with no explanation. It mainly applies to people in dating relationships. Typically, the “ghosts or ghoster” stops answering all calls, deletes and blocks the “ghosted” from social media including but not limited to Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, Snapchat & Instagram. The New York Times defines “Ghosting” this way – (the term) has also come to be used as a verb that refers to ending a romantic relationship by cutting off all contact and ignoring the former partner’s attempts to reach out. Sounds cruel, doesn’t it? Do People Really Do This? In 2014, YouGov/Huffington Post poll of 1,000 adults showed that just 11 percent of Americans had “ghosted” someone. This week, a new survey released by the dating site Plenty of Fish revealed that 78 per cent of single Millennials have been ‘ghosted’ at least once! That is a major jump which shows this trend is truly popping. Ghosters speak out Ameena – I was in a very serious relationship with this guy for 3 months, we met and fell hard for each other. He invited me to go on holiday with him and we travelled to the Gambia. In Nigeria, we hardly have the freedom to do sleepovers and things like that so this was our first time “living together”. It was like he was a different person, he was impatient and got angry easily and he put a lot of pressure on me to have sex with him (I wasn’t ready and didn’t), though on other days, he was ok. He didn’t even realize he was doing anything wrong, I just acted like everything was ok. As soon as he dropped me at home in Abuja, I completely deleted his number from my phone and blocked him online. He kept calling and calling until I eventually blocked his number. Ini – I dated this girl for a year around the time I was ready to settle down. She ticked all the boxes and was wifey material for sure but she just didn’t excite me. Everything about her was perfect and Emma is really a nice girl. I had already hinted marriage and she had met my sisters. I felt trapped somehow. I couldn’t bring myself to break up with her so when I travelled to the East for a work retreat, I just didn’t call her while there or when I came back… The Ghosted Tunde – I was talking to this babe for a while. We went on a few dates and it was very cool. I thought we were going in the same direction. We talked everyday and all that. One night, we were chatting on WhatsApp and I was telling her how much I was missing her. I promised to send her a pic to show how much I was missing her… I sent a pic of something special…and she immediately blocked me on WhatsApp. I tried calling her but she never picked up. She didn’t even bother blocking me on Twitter, she just carried on her life. I really Need To Try this…. Culled From BN http://www.yabaleftonline.com/2016/03/find-out-the-trendiest-way-to-break-up-in-2016/ |
austine4real:lol ... smh. |
cr7lomo:on point, the best teacher in life is experience..... |
afolayanto:God bless you ..... The fact is that Nigerians are just in haste to see better Nigeria in no time..... D change we seek, is a gradual process don't forget. |
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A little nostalgia has never killed anyone. When we were younger, there were some funny things we did and now that I think about it, we had some crazy funny reasons for doing them. We somehow believed that these things helped us one way or the other. 1. Writing your name in your pen so that it doesn’t get stolen It eventually got stolen most times but well, we kept writing. 2. Throwing your teeth on top of the roof for a lizard to pick Because if you don’t throw your teeth, no teeth from father Lizard. 3. Waving at doves for white fingers Leke leke, give me white finger. 4. Removing strands of your eyelashes and putting them at the door for your punishable offense to be forgotten Until you hear your name and the next thing is a slap in your face 5. Reshape the bottle cap, put it inside the bottle and shake it Because somehow we were convinced that the drink increased when we did that.
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?...... He didn't name anyone of them.... Hoping to know the actual telecom company soon............