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adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.

We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.

You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.

Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.

Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.

Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.

So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .

Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .

She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .

Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .

Here is my question, why are witness like this ?

This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?

So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .

Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.

I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.

Do have a nice day .

Sorry for your pains...

Your writeup is one hell a difficult stuff to read though.

But must you attach her church to what you wrote? Things like this is obtainable everywhere irrespective of one's religious persuasion.

From my little knowledge of them- the Witnesses, I think you should report her to her church members and she will be disciplined for immoral conduct. That I know.

Bros you try, even if I no get chance read the details. Because I no go even understand everything for inside...

Make I for no waste your time and that of those wey go read my post, I say you try.

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Xhuntra:
Former

I think the guy is correct.

Abia, always in the wrong side of news...


Unfortunate state, led by one Las Laggerback after another

SlyDev:


Abia Umuahia

Glorified Village

Do you know South East have the highest unemployment rate in Nigeria?

Is true there is connection between poverty and terrorism?

You are a blind hypocrite. Your list contains ten states, only two from SE. And three from SS are among the first five.

If you are not a hypocrite, why wouldn't you say a state in the SE is topping the list rather than say the SE as a whole has the highest number.

You no go die well if you no change your biased analysis of fact. MUMU

iLoveYouToo:
Wild accusations with no receipts

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DaDais:
And he had to go under a very new moniker to call scam.

Don't mind him, he ain't serious yet.

You no get mouth/hand?

Free me nowwwwwwwwwwww..................

Some of these government agencies would wish COVID-19 doesn't go away because of the big cashing out they are into...


Money exchanging hands swiftly.

Our children are not safe anymore.


You leave them for work sexual predators will want to take advantage of them... Street/ compound bullies will threaten them at home.

You send them to school, bullies at school will make life miserable for them...


It's high time legislatures make stiff rules that must be enforced to protect these young ones...

Keep fooling yourself... More grease to your to your foolishness.

I have nothing against fighting those that are fighting you. But why raze houses? Even if the houses are believed to be owned by the enemies, which I doubt. You have nothing against the buildings.


The international community should sanction NA for this barbaric act they are fund of. South East elites should drag the NA to ICC for this act of terrorism... It is unacceptable... I'm so pissed off...


They never burn houses up north when they are attacked.

The Police should kindly explain what happened to the rail tracks as seen in the video.


Was it rat that ate off parts of the track and also caused the block work to dissect?


The uniform men in the video were so scared that one was urging others... "let us go, let us go, let us" repeatedly...


This country is completely finished... Anyone hoping it will get better is simply hallucinating.

MEGA4BILLION:
I don't know what the op is talking about.
But I know that one of the requirements to be a medical doctor is bad handwriting

Are not a human? Which one is you 'don't know what the OP is talking baout'?

It's a pity you guys went through all that... I think it's because you probably don't know any senior officer in the Police hierarchy.


I pity any Police man wey go try that nonsense with me again.

The last one who tried it last two years in Anambra State, pleaded until he began answering me Sir! Sir!! Sir!!!


The poor masses have suffered in the hands of these people...

I'll love to see this guy shine more brilliantly. Dude has some good skills that need to be harnessed.



Welcome back Sam!

The guy is loved by his people while his oppressors are losing the love and support of their people... What an irony

zebrawebs:
The APC National leader, Chief Bola Ahmed Tinubu has returned back to Nigeria after months of medical vacation in London.

A close Associate to Bola Ahmed Tinubu revealed to 9News Nigeria that the 2023 APC potential presidential aspirant has just landed in Nigeria after months in Lagos on medical vacation.

READ MORE ON 9NEWS NIGERIA

https://9newsng.com/bola-tinubu-returns-to-nigeria-after-months-in-london-on-medical-vacation/

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OP the weed you took is too strong for you, please quit...

Which one be?: A close Associate to Bola Ahmed Tinubu revealed to 9News Nigeria that the 2023 APC potential presidential aspirant has just landed in Nigeria after months in Lagos on medical vacation.



To the news... I won't be surprised that after this hardship that'll last for almost two more years if Nigerians make another HUGE mistake in their choice of president... We don't learn but always allow emotions, religion and ethnicity take the place of merit.


SPITS

Racoon:
You spoke my mind-thank you sir.Let the failed army and the grossly clueless and irresponsibile Buhari-led APC continue to romance & pamper these never-say-die killers.We treating their victims with disdain.We we all see who is stupid @ last.

This country is really annoying- no thanks to the ruling class.

Regards!

Recurring news...

Let them keep recycling/ rehabilitating the terrorists while soldiers are used as sacrificial lambs


No RIP to waste

Has anyone tried the link? Is it working? Is it a reliable link and not something else?

In this Buhari economy if someone can see 'daily bread' (food) na to thank God ooo.


They have unapologetically rendered the masses poorer, the naira useless & zombies senseless

RobbStark:
So you are a Ph breed.
Truth you spoke.
I passed Ikwerre road once like that on a Friday, do you know exactly at that Gambia junction, they covered one side of the road we were forced to ply one way. The thing tire person.

Sometimes, I wish Wike shud have started with Gambia street before that Ikoku junction construction.

Weldone.

Sure!

You are talking about Ikwerre Road, if enter the street (Gambia), you'll understand the challenge people face there whenever their prayer is on.


This has continued for decades now.

The crime rate there is something you don't want to witness... Lots of shanties in the area...

This is one the things that pisses me off.

The same thing is replicated everywhere in the South, but a Christian religious organization can't try it in the north without violence resulting from the religion of "PISS".

The same thing plays out in Gambia Street Mile 2, Diobu PH.

It's really annoying...