₦airaland Forum

Incognito403:
Very good of them.

One group of miscreants can't go and ally with foreign agents to bring colonialism to our lands again.

We are Muslims and have the right to live by our Islamic laws and values.

Then secede & form your country & practice your religious laws & values as you deem fit.
It's wrong for you to enforce your religious law on a secular country operating by a secular constitution.

The country doesn't belong to only adherents of your religion.

JooEeL:
If you have a wife who is a determined go-getter in a corporate environment, rest assured that the chances that the top heads and executive of that company have either banged or currently bang your woman.

Also don't be fooled if she tells you she was raped orthey forced their way on her. It is your woman that will give all the green light and invitation for her to be lashed. It's a thing of bragging right for her to be seen having a close relationship with those who call the shots.

I have seen this unfold at my current place of work. You wouldnt believe the husband of this woman drops her to work unfailingly everyday!

Painful -- yes. Reality, sure.

At the last paragraph.....
And you don't deem it necessary to inform the poor husband about his wife's promiscuity?
Albeit anonymously?
It is unconscionable for you to just condemn the atrocious act in your mind without making any concrete effort to stop the evil especially since you have the power to stop it by alerting the husband.

Unless you are also scheming & bidding your time to have a share of the woman's kpekus.
In that case, you are an accomplice to the adulterous act.

Stop evil when you can, it's not just enough to condemn it secretly within your mind.

Makaveli217:
Why I said don't take your wife aboard is that some nigeria women are very shallow and easy to deceive, even if you marry right, after knowing the girl and her family for years, the toxic women over there will corrupt her.

Even in our local churches where couple have lived peacefully for decades, once they relocate aboard, the woman will turn overnight, turn the kids against the man, even if that man have never raised his voice on her, matured man will be reduced to dust.

Sometimes I wonder why our women here in nigeria are very easy to deceive, if you check, nigerian men are not the only one relocating with their wives, men from other countries and even africa relocate on daily basis, but hardly will you hear their women turn toxic and abusive over night, it's always nigeria women. Why?

It's because most Nigerian men are simps by default.
Most of them grew up with the false notion that women are to be treated like princesses, spent well on, given all the comfort that can be afforded, etc.

If you check well & make comparism with men of other nationalities, you will realize that Nigerian men are among the biggest spenders on women & their whims & are also the biggest enablers of slavish attitude towards women; most are ready to bend over backwards for women who don't even love them at all.

Only very few Nigerian men are really emancipated from simping for women.

The end result of this simping behavior by Nigerian men is that Nigerian women generally have become some of the most selfish, feminist, disrespectful, unfaithful (courtesy of statistics revealing the high level of paternity fraud among Nigerian women), toxic, entitled & spoilt brats in the world so far

Stephen0mozzy:
Hahahahaah.... 21yr old wey probably get grandchildren and like 13 farmlands for home.

We know say there's something like football age, but haba na. Even if na gene or suffer make the guy look like this, this guy na minimum 37yrs old.

Do you think a 37 year old will have the energy & stamina to play in a physically demanding league like the Nigerian league?

TokoEkambi:
Read it very well. The pouring from Libya was not referring to the herdsmen, but the weapons they carry.

I should be the one telling you to read it very well.

As quoted from the post " Herdsmen armed with AK-47s that poured in from Libya 15 years ago are Muslims"

How else can this statement be interpreted?

simpleseyi:
Southerners including President Tinubu should stop interfering in Northern family affairs

But the so-called northern affair you feel is none of your business as a southerner is killing & displacing fellow Christians who share the same faith & belief in Jesus Christ as you do.

If the jihadist terrorists are allowed to destroy all of them, what will happen when the northern christians are exterminated?
The terrorists will fall back on you the southerners with full aggression & ruthlessness.

At times before you type a comment, it's good to use your brain, think & weigh out your comment before typing & posting.

Even America far away is concerned about northern christians but you who share the same faith & country with them is claiming nonchalance about their plight.

Shame on you

TokoEkambi:
Read it very well. The pouring from Libya was not referring to the herdsmen, but the weapons they carry.

I should be the one telling you to read well.

As quoted from the post " Herdsmen, armed with AK-47 that poured in from Libya 15 years ago are Muslims".

How else can this statement be interpreted?

The post said that herdsmen poured in from Libya.

I never knew that Libyan Arabs are Fulani herdsmen till today

Kobojunkie:
Anyone below the age of consent is FORCED, by default.
Please, make Google your friend in these things.

Where did he mention her age for you to know if she's underage or not?

Kobojunkie:
You intentionally refused to use protection during sex with your girlfriend, endangering her life 3 times — abortions in Nigeria remain very unsafe for the body of the woman— and you came here to announce this, why? You knew well the dangers of abortion on the bodies of women, yet you ignored that because, after all, it was not your body or life at risk each time. That's also why you came here to regale us with this story, let me guess... so you could get applauded and commended for it?

Did he force her?

stagger:
This is why Rotimi Amaechi's tenure as Rivers governor can never be forgotten. Secondary schools were renovated to the point that they looked like university campuses.

The post is about Delta state, why are you mentioning Rivers state?

Dorwadora:
Your opinion does not count for all Nigerians women .

Wrappers is one of the culture almost every tribe in Nigeria can relate too.

It's easy to wear and decent.

While gowns are still the same with "Easy to wear and decent"... The choice on what to wear will be decided by the women.

Not a man taking decisions for us.

You pple always dress to attract us (men) & gain our attention.

Now, one of our comrades is giving you OT on how to attract us better & gain our attention better, but you are counteracting him.

Let me ask you a question: If you operate a restaurant, is your cooking not supposed to be based on your customers' tastes? Or is it supposed to be based on your taste? Since you are not the one buying the food you are advertising & selling.

If your customers say they prefer pepper in their food & you don't like cooking with pepper, will you ignore their preference & cook for them without pepper?
Will you ignore their preference because you feel they can't tell you how to cook?
I bet you, you will lose your customers to other restaurants that cook with pepper.
Apply it to this scenario

essentialone:
1. I don't ever give a Kobo to a lady I have not had sex with. No lady deserves such kindness. Doubt this and regret it later.

2. I don't ever borrow (lend) money to any lady. They will never ever pay you back. Don't even give it a thought. If she asks me to borrow her money. I give her a little I can afford from that amount and ask her not to pay back. Only a foolish man borrows money to a lady. Don't ever dare it.

Your 2nd statement invalidates your 1st statement.

If you can't give money to a woman you have not had sex with, then why would you say you can only give the little that you can afford if she asks you to borrow her money?

Giving only the little you can afford, is it not the same as giving a woman that you have not have sex with money?

placeofallure:
Thank you!
I have done it for many years without telling a soul. We will be nice to who is nice to us or who has been nice to us. Many people want to reap where they didn't sow.

The question is not just whether you will tell a soul or not.
Did you respect him & not nag at him while at it?

Did you maintain your faithfulness to him while at it?

MT:
Read my signature - I only dignify people with proper grey matter a response.

Thanks and get well.

That's your best response to escape accountability for your initial irrational comment?

He raised valid points demanding an objective response from you but it seems you obviously lack an objective response to his valid points, that's why you are escaping with this dumb response.

OceanEye:
Please let's stop this unnecessary comparison and let's face the truth.

I was born and raised in the north, so I am in a better position to explain some certain issues in the north. The entire northern region is currently more dangerous, compared to other regions in Nigeria.

You are still saying "north" without being specific, still being adamant in repeating what I was trying to correct you about.
There are 19 states that are classified as north in Nigeria.
You said the entire north is more dangerous compared to other regions, that means all the 19 states are dangerous right?

Even states like Gombe, Adamawa, Jigawa, Taraba are all also dangerous simply because there's insecurity in Zamfara, Kano, Borno, Kebbi, Niger, Benue, Sokoto & Plateau states right?

Going by your level of thinking, that means the whole southern Nigeria is also very dangerous since there are unknown gunmen in the 5 southeastern states & also ritual killers in Ogun & Oyo states.
We'll also make blanket statements about southern Nigeria because of insecurity in some southern states.

If you try to deny this about southern Nigeria, that means you are a bloody hypocrite, with double standards.

OceanEye:
North West. Sokoto and kebbi. Thede states were very peaceful until recent time.

Then specify the state or location instead of saying "north" as if it's the entire north that's engulfed in violence.

There are also unknown gunmen in Imo state & Anambra state in southeastern Nigeria & also human ritualist killings in Ogun state & Oyo state in southwestern Nigeria; yet we don't make state statements alluding violence to the "south". We always specify the particular place not insinuate the entire south.

OceanEye:
Yesterday, I called my siblings residing in the north. I am concerned about their safety and told them to be security conscious and vigilant. They are the only loved ones I have.

Which part of the north exactly?

Goldrosewine:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eg6JbKaBN-E

So I noticed in my last post, that a lot of guys just find it hard to believe I am literally a girl Nairalander that enjoys football, even politics.

In my last posts you'd see guys saying things like she's a scam, a girl can't do that, she's most active in male sections bla bla bla and that's actually why I am posting this in crime section because misogynistic men like that are just ruining my brand here on Nairaland, making it seem like this is only a forum for men.

Some believe my pictures are fabricated🥲 I actually take that as a compliment though.


When they send their privates to you and you block or ignore them they start calling you a scam smh

GoldRose🍷 RoseGold🍷

You think so highly of yourself just like the proverbial butterfly who thought himself a bird.

You are at most average, not beautiful as you your deluded mind seem to think.

Berankis:
Even America can't be trusted with all these their designations and re-designations. Is FACEBOOK not an American owned company? Are they unaware of the struggles of the man behind the account? So on what basis was it deleted? It's just rubbish to me! Trump we know has shown hatred towards Africans. Same man dumping condemned criminals on African soil is one screaming Christian Genocide in Nigeria (even though there is Christian Genocide), but he doesn't truly care, he is just putting up a show and trying to get back at Nigeria for Tinubu's deliberate avoidance of America and Nigeria's affiliations with BRICS.
It would have been better if it was Europeans coming to help out than this treacherous Trump.

You just ended up talking rubbish.

Facebook is owned by an independent American citizen Mark Zuckerberg, not by the American govt. as you seem to insinuate.

As for Donald Trump, you can hate him or like him, but the truth still remains that he's the first world leader to call attention to christian genocide in Nigeria & even demonstrate willingness to stand up for Nigerian christians that are killed & destroyed by rampaging Islamic terrorists with govt. negligence.

None of the Europeans & their ilks were bold & courageous enough to stand up for the long-suffering Nigerian christians till Donald Trump came up. A lot of them knew what was happening to Nigerian christians but they looked the other way, because of either political correctness or cowardice to stand up for the oppressed.

You can go ahead & deny the obvious christian genocide in Nigeria, but hardcore evidences are everywhere.

mozona:
Sorry ooo shey na only cultist dey ask for money ni for area.

Which cowardice be that! Know ur enviroment oga.

Coward, lily-livered boy, is the post not about cultists?

Even if it's not only cultists that ask for money, what right does a thug, vagabond or criminal has to ask you for your hard earned money?

Which work has he done for you to deserve payment from you?

Did he sell anything to you that will warrant you to pay him money?

MERCHANDISER:
That 1k might be on a weekly basis,not everyday. Those guys can be beneficial somehow😀
They can help you push your car or carry heavy luggage for free

So, non cultists can't help you push your car?

Just admit that you are paying them money to appease them because you are a coward & an enabler of cultism

mozona:
The thief at home is the ones that will invite the thief from outside.

They are like securities if u pay ur dues u are safe from external intruders.

How much is he giving them, highest #1k
Is enough .

Speaking from experience, born and breed in the ghetto. Now what i learn is helping me now.

U can even make how far how far friends with them but dont too get close to them.

That means you are enabling cultism, if you have to give them 1k so that they won't intimidate you.
That's an act of cowardice & a show of weakness

OOOKEWALE:
ISWAP, Boko Haram, and all these bandits are cultists. They are just religious, but their intentions are devilish. Once you join them, you cannot leave. There are prostitutes in Sokwato, Katsina, Maiduguri. In fact, Hausa Fulanis are also into discrete prostitution. It is wrong of you to classify a region as responsible for all the nonsense happening in Nigeria. For those of us who have travelled widely know these things. All your fake piousity is evident to those who have spent time among you. The highest abuse of alcohol and other substances is in the Northern States among your women.

Terrorism is not same as cultism.

Boko Haram & herdsmen are carrying out terrorists activities. They are not in the same league as the cultists in the south, they are even worse.

I'm talking about cultism in the sense of intimidating pple on the street, seizing phones, obtaining money from pple, wearing specific colors, cult clashes, etc.
Those are strictly southern issues propagated by southerners except Benue & parts of Kogi states in the north.

As for prostitution, at least 80% is done by southern women. In the north, it's only Benue state have a sizeable amount of prostitutes.
Even in the north, there are plenty southern women doing prostitution, especially in Kano, Kaduna & Abuja

johannesburg:
If you can't relocate due to reasons best know to you do this.

Target the day they will harass you again.
Go out with small change like 5k and a small phone you are willing to forfeit.

Refuse to give them anything and don't bow to pressure but don't raise voice or threaten.

Allow them do their worse including stealing the phone and money after they do so they would want to walk away and change spot to go have fun over that change then walk away quietly.

Get military men to drive with you another day they are gathered but agree not to stop by them just pass with some serious looks to their direction and make sure they see.

Leave the matter like that, e go remain so till you marry born and old self they won't cough again.
Those animals are insecure.

He should allow them to intimidate him & rob him of his phone, money because they are cultists?

Is that how you guys behave in the south?

sparko1:
If you count 10 guys in your neighborhood, 6 or 7 of them are cultist, especially if they smoke India herm

Except in the core north.
Pple in Kano, Sokoto, Zamfara, Borno, Jigawa, etc have no idea what cultism is all about.
Same with middle belt states like Adamawa & Taraba. Only exceptions are Benue & Kogi states that have active indigenous participation.

Bring your southern cultism to Kano or Sokoto, them go beat you up & pound you like fufu, that's if you can even survive it.
Try to obtain money from aboki in Sokoto or Katsina in the name of cultism, them go pound you up.

Cultism, prostitution & internet fraud are majorly southern issues propagated by mostly southerners.

Cultism is a brainchild of southerners, that's why it festers & breeds in the south.
That's the bitter truth

mozona:
If you are a street boy u can handle them more reason we guys should learn the street OT without being a cult member.

Anytime u have give, if they ask and anytime they ask and u don't have let them know men dem e no dey body go ur way.

This guys can come good some day when u won't expect.

Pls don't report them just learn how to handle them without fear.

If u report they will know and u will be targeted they will send another group.

And if u relocate too is the same thing, they are everywhere.

My little cent

Which work did they do for him that he should be giving them his hard earned money?

OOOKEWALE:
Lie lie. Cultist dey north especially from Kogi, Benue, FCT Abuja, and Kaduna etc. What do you think is fuelling the insecurity?

Core northern states like Kano, Sokoto, Yobe, Borno, Jigawa, Kebbi, Katsina, Bauchi, Gombe, Adamawa.

The states you mentioned are mostly classified as middle belt though they are geopolitically tagged north. The indigenous population of those states are the minority tribes of the north & they have majority christian populations as is the case in Benue state & FCT, while states like Kaduna (southern part) & Kogi have reasonable amount of christians though they may not be majority. That's why cultism fester in such places, because some of the indigenes are in league with cultists from the south who propagate it.

A state like Taraba is an exception, even though majority of the population are christians & the state is made up of minority Nigerian tribes, yet cultism doesn't survive there because the indigenes have an anathema for such.

The summary is that cultism is a southern Nigerian problem. Even the few incidents of cultism in some middle belt states are mostly propagated by southerners residing in the north & some very few northern accomplices (very rare).
Only Benue state in the north (middle belt) have large chunk of indigenes actively participating in cult activities. Same with prostitution