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Kobojunkie:
Anyone below the age of consent is FORCED, by default.
Please, make Google your friend in these things.

Where did he mention her age for you to know if she's underage or not?

Kobojunkie:
You intentionally refused to use protection during sex with your girlfriend, endangering her life 3 times — abortions in Nigeria remain very unsafe for the body of the woman— and you came here to announce this, why? You knew well the dangers of abortion on the bodies of women, yet you ignored that because, after all, it was not your body or life at risk each time. That's also why you came here to regale us with this story, let me guess... so you could get applauded and commended for it?

Did he force her?

stagger:
This is why Rotimi Amaechi's tenure as Rivers governor can never be forgotten. Secondary schools were renovated to the point that they looked like university campuses.

The post is about Delta state, why are you mentioning Rivers state?

Dorwadora:
Your opinion does not count for all Nigerians women .

Wrappers is one of the culture almost every tribe in Nigeria can relate too.

It's easy to wear and decent.

While gowns are still the same with "Easy to wear and decent"... The choice on what to wear will be decided by the women.

Not a man taking decisions for us.

You pple always dress to attract us (men) & gain our attention.

Now, one of our comrades is giving you OT on how to attract us better & gain our attention better, but you are counteracting him.

Let me ask you a question: If you operate a restaurant, is your cooking not supposed to be based on your customers' tastes? Or is it supposed to be based on your taste? Since you are not the one buying the food you are advertising & selling.

If your customers say they prefer pepper in their food & you don't like cooking with pepper, will you ignore their preference & cook for them without pepper?
Will you ignore their preference because you feel they can't tell you how to cook?
I bet you, you will lose your customers to other restaurants that cook with pepper.
Apply it to this scenario

essentialone:
1. I don't ever give a Kobo to a lady I have not had sex with. No lady deserves such kindness. Doubt this and regret it later.

2. I don't ever borrow (lend) money to any lady. They will never ever pay you back. Don't even give it a thought. If she asks me to borrow her money. I give her a little I can afford from that amount and ask her not to pay back. Only a foolish man borrows money to a lady. Don't ever dare it.

Your 2nd statement invalidates your 1st statement.

If you can't give money to a woman you have not had sex with, then why would you say you can only give the little that you can afford if she asks you to borrow her money?

Giving only the little you can afford, is it not the same as giving a woman that you have not have sex with money?

placeofallure:
Thank you!
I have done it for many years without telling a soul. We will be nice to who is nice to us or who has been nice to us. Many people want to reap where they didn't sow.

The question is not just whether you will tell a soul or not.
Did you respect him & not nag at him while at it?

Did you maintain your faithfulness to him while at it?

MT:
Read my signature - I only dignify people with proper grey matter a response.

Thanks and get well.

That's your best response to escape accountability for your initial irrational comment?

He raised valid points demanding an objective response from you but it seems you obviously lack an objective response to his valid points, that's why you are escaping with this dumb response.

OceanEye:
Please let's stop this unnecessary comparison and let's face the truth.

I was born and raised in the north, so I am in a better position to explain some certain issues in the north. The entire northern region is currently more dangerous, compared to other regions in Nigeria.

You are still saying "north" without being specific, still being adamant in repeating what I was trying to correct you about.
There are 19 states that are classified as north in Nigeria.
You said the entire north is more dangerous compared to other regions, that means all the 19 states are dangerous right?

Even states like Gombe, Adamawa, Jigawa, Taraba are all also dangerous simply because there's insecurity in Zamfara, Kano, Borno, Kebbi, Niger, Benue, Sokoto & Plateau states right?

Going by your level of thinking, that means the whole southern Nigeria is also very dangerous since there are unknown gunmen in the 5 southeastern states & also ritual killers in Ogun & Oyo states.
We'll also make blanket statements about southern Nigeria because of insecurity in some southern states.

If you try to deny this about southern Nigeria, that means you are a bloody hypocrite, with double standards.

OceanEye:
North West. Sokoto and kebbi. Thede states were very peaceful until recent time.

Then specify the state or location instead of saying "north" as if it's the entire north that's engulfed in violence.

There are also unknown gunmen in Imo state & Anambra state in southeastern Nigeria & also human ritualist killings in Ogun state & Oyo state in southwestern Nigeria; yet we don't make state statements alluding violence to the "south". We always specify the particular place not insinuate the entire south.

OceanEye:
Yesterday, I called my siblings residing in the north. I am concerned about their safety and told them to be security conscious and vigilant. They are the only loved ones I have.

Which part of the north exactly?

Goldrosewine:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eg6JbKaBN-E

So I noticed in my last post, that a lot of guys just find it hard to believe I am literally a girl Nairalander that enjoys football, even politics.

In my last posts you'd see guys saying things like she's a scam, a girl can't do that, she's most active in male sections bla bla bla and that's actually why I am posting this in crime section because misogynistic men like that are just ruining my brand here on Nairaland, making it seem like this is only a forum for men.

Some believe my pictures are fabricated🥲 I actually take that as a compliment though.


When they send their privates to you and you block or ignore them they start calling you a scam smh

GoldRose🍷 RoseGold🍷

You think so highly of yourself just like the proverbial butterfly who thought himself a bird.

You are at most average, not beautiful as you your deluded mind seem to think.

Berankis:
Even America can't be trusted with all these their designations and re-designations. Is FACEBOOK not an American owned company? Are they unaware of the struggles of the man behind the account? So on what basis was it deleted? It's just rubbish to me! Trump we know has shown hatred towards Africans. Same man dumping condemned criminals on African soil is one screaming Christian Genocide in Nigeria (even though there is Christian Genocide), but he doesn't truly care, he is just putting up a show and trying to get back at Nigeria for Tinubu's deliberate avoidance of America and Nigeria's affiliations with BRICS.
It would have been better if it was Europeans coming to help out than this treacherous Trump.

You just ended up talking rubbish.

Facebook is owned by an independent American citizen Mark Zuckerberg, not by the American govt. as you seem to insinuate.

As for Donald Trump, you can hate him or like him, but the truth still remains that he's the first world leader to call attention to christian genocide in Nigeria & even demonstrate willingness to stand up for Nigerian christians that are killed & destroyed by rampaging Islamic terrorists with govt. negligence.

None of the Europeans & their ilks were bold & courageous enough to stand up for the long-suffering Nigerian christians till Donald Trump came up. A lot of them knew what was happening to Nigerian christians but they looked the other way, because of either political correctness or cowardice to stand up for the oppressed.

You can go ahead & deny the obvious christian genocide in Nigeria, but hardcore evidences are everywhere.

mozona:
Sorry ooo shey na only cultist dey ask for money ni for area.

Which cowardice be that! Know ur enviroment oga.

Coward, lily-livered boy, is the post not about cultists?

Even if it's not only cultists that ask for money, what right does a thug, vagabond or criminal has to ask you for your hard earned money?

Which work has he done for you to deserve payment from you?

Did he sell anything to you that will warrant you to pay him money?

MERCHANDISER:
That 1k might be on a weekly basis,not everyday. Those guys can be beneficial somehow😀
They can help you push your car or carry heavy luggage for free

So, non cultists can't help you push your car?

Just admit that you are paying them money to appease them because you are a coward & an enabler of cultism

mozona:
The thief at home is the ones that will invite the thief from outside.

They are like securities if u pay ur dues u are safe from external intruders.

How much is he giving them, highest #1k
Is enough .

Speaking from experience, born and breed in the ghetto. Now what i learn is helping me now.

U can even make how far how far friends with them but dont too get close to them.

That means you are enabling cultism, if you have to give them 1k so that they won't intimidate you.
That's an act of cowardice & a show of weakness

OOOKEWALE:
ISWAP, Boko Haram, and all these bandits are cultists. They are just religious, but their intentions are devilish. Once you join them, you cannot leave. There are prostitutes in Sokwato, Katsina, Maiduguri. In fact, Hausa Fulanis are also into discrete prostitution. It is wrong of you to classify a region as responsible for all the nonsense happening in Nigeria. For those of us who have travelled widely know these things. All your fake piousity is evident to those who have spent time among you. The highest abuse of alcohol and other substances is in the Northern States among your women.

Terrorism is not same as cultism.

Boko Haram & herdsmen are carrying out terrorists activities. They are not in the same league as the cultists in the south, they are even worse.

I'm talking about cultism in the sense of intimidating pple on the street, seizing phones, obtaining money from pple, wearing specific colors, cult clashes, etc.
Those are strictly southern issues propagated by southerners except Benue & parts of Kogi states in the north.

As for prostitution, at least 80% is done by southern women. In the north, it's only Benue state have a sizeable amount of prostitutes.
Even in the north, there are plenty southern women doing prostitution, especially in Kano, Kaduna & Abuja

johannesburg:
If you can't relocate due to reasons best know to you do this.

Target the day they will harass you again.
Go out with small change like 5k and a small phone you are willing to forfeit.

Refuse to give them anything and don't bow to pressure but don't raise voice or threaten.

Allow them do their worse including stealing the phone and money after they do so they would want to walk away and change spot to go have fun over that change then walk away quietly.

Get military men to drive with you another day they are gathered but agree not to stop by them just pass with some serious looks to their direction and make sure they see.

Leave the matter like that, e go remain so till you marry born and old self they won't cough again.
Those animals are insecure.

He should allow them to intimidate him & rob him of his phone, money because they are cultists?

Is that how you guys behave in the south?

sparko1:
If you count 10 guys in your neighborhood, 6 or 7 of them are cultist, especially if they smoke India herm

Except in the core north.
Pple in Kano, Sokoto, Zamfara, Borno, Jigawa, etc have no idea what cultism is all about.
Same with middle belt states like Adamawa & Taraba. Only exceptions are Benue & Kogi states that have active indigenous participation.

Bring your southern cultism to Kano or Sokoto, them go beat you up & pound you like fufu, that's if you can even survive it.
Try to obtain money from aboki in Sokoto or Katsina in the name of cultism, them go pound you up.

Cultism, prostitution & internet fraud are majorly southern issues propagated by mostly southerners.

Cultism is a brainchild of southerners, that's why it festers & breeds in the south.
That's the bitter truth

mozona:
If you are a street boy u can handle them more reason we guys should learn the street OT without being a cult member.

Anytime u have give, if they ask and anytime they ask and u don't have let them know men dem e no dey body go ur way.

This guys can come good some day when u won't expect.

Pls don't report them just learn how to handle them without fear.

If u report they will know and u will be targeted they will send another group.

And if u relocate too is the same thing, they are everywhere.

My little cent

Which work did they do for him that he should be giving them his hard earned money?

OOOKEWALE:
Lie lie. Cultist dey north especially from Kogi, Benue, FCT Abuja, and Kaduna etc. What do you think is fuelling the insecurity?

Core northern states like Kano, Sokoto, Yobe, Borno, Jigawa, Kebbi, Katsina, Bauchi, Gombe, Adamawa.

The states you mentioned are mostly classified as middle belt though they are geopolitically tagged north. The indigenous population of those states are the minority tribes of the north & they have majority christian populations as is the case in Benue state & FCT, while states like Kaduna (southern part) & Kogi have reasonable amount of christians though they may not be majority. That's why cultism fester in such places, because some of the indigenes are in league with cultists from the south who propagate it.

A state like Taraba is an exception, even though majority of the population are christians & the state is made up of minority Nigerian tribes, yet cultism doesn't survive there because the indigenes have an anathema for such.

The summary is that cultism is a southern Nigerian problem. Even the few incidents of cultism in some middle belt states are mostly propagated by southerners residing in the north & some very few northern accomplices (very rare).
Only Benue state in the north (middle belt) have large chunk of indigenes actively participating in cult activities. Same with prostitution

sparko1:
First mistake, don't laugh or play with such guys, wear earbuds and don't ever give them money.

You have already fallen into their trap, what you are paying is like protection money.

A quiet guy should never have a conversation with such people, except if you smoke or drink, then you can't escape them.

Breaking away from them will be very difficult, you need to zero your mind, create an emotional wall, don't listen don't try to befriend anyone else, they will see it as threats.

If you have a girlfriend in the area breakup with her, she'll most likely be their source of information, if they come to you look for a very sad sorry, you lost your job, or your business is not going fine, try to act as vivid as possible, go to one of those selling stuff in the area, possibly the person selling them alcohol, pretend to buy on credit, if they sell don't pay back when you said, pretend and beg the seller to give you more time to come up with the money, VERY IMPORTANT, MAKE SURE THE MONEY IS VERY SMALL LIKE 800 TO 1500 NAIRA, something that shouldn't be difficult to give, something that is very embarrassing.

Drag the payment for a while, make sure you have stuff at home before you do this because during this period, you shouldn't be seen buying or paying for anything, when they discover this they will naturally just stop talking to you, if they try again make up another story, if every time they come to you they are given a sad story, they will stop altogether.

Now, after they stop, you need to completely ignore everyone around that area, you don't buy or have anything to do with them, because those in the area are their information sources, they know who has money and who doesn't.

Or you can just relocate, anytime to arrive at a new place, don't try to make friends, try to know those living there first before attempting to make friends, and most importantly stay the mess away from ladies on your streets.

You will never see such misfits in the north.
Cultists & their enablers end in the south

Winterhaven:
Christians are one of the dominant religions in Nigeria, they are free to proselyte and preach their beliefs without been indered or harrassed by the federal government. So I wonder who is persecuting them.

Christians are a victim of terrorism, banditry and insurgency same as Muslims and other religions, in Nigeria.

Christians in Nigeria targeted, Killed, raped, persecuted & their churches & properties burnt while they get displaced by their attackers who are always Islamic jihadi terrorists; hitherto christian towns get occupied & renamed by these same Islamic terrorists.

Are these things true or false?
Answer: True

If you say Muslims are also attacked, then the question is this: is it not your fellow Islamic terrorists (that most of you even support covertly whenever they kill christians) that are also killing you guys?

Is it christians that are killing you?

Should we keep quiet & not voice out our grievances just because your fellow Islamic terrorists brethren are also killing you?

Is that not your family affair?

correctguy101:
Lwkmd 🤣🤣...

Had an operation some years back. Some random girl was quarrelling me that she must be the one to shave me as I or my woman won't do it well... My girl back then was irate with the whole matter. Ordinary appendix wey dem wan comot o. The girl claimed the rule is to shave the hair from my chest to my laps. I was confused and didn't find it funny at all....


My girl reported her and was allowed to shave me herself but the sneaky werey got her way with me secretly as me and my long throat no fit let her go like that...

Younger days and wahala... SMH

Stories that never happened ......

MaxInDHouse:
The mark has been out few decades ago but it's forcefulness is gradually turning to a global case. That mark is POLITICS.

Have you noticed that you can't become a billionaire if you don't have anything to do with the government?
You can only become a billionaire once you start getting one contract or another from the government and you must belong to a party even though the masses may not know it yet.
So talk of the mark billions around the world has taken it unknowingly thinking they are just doing the normal thing while Satan's agents in false religion are compelling them to take the Mark!

As for Israel it's no longer that nation bearing the name today rather it means true religion will go into exile which has happened and pure worship has now been restored.

Do you read about two prophets killed in the Bible book of Revelations 11?

Well it simply means the Bible was rendered inactive for centuries the two prophets are the Old and New Testament. Satan made it difficult for people to understand the message found in these two sections but in the last few decades millions around the world have come to get the sense and now living according to Bible message so they are fulfilling what is written in the Bible book of Isaiah 2:2-4.

God bless you and may you have peace!

I really enjoyed your analysis, just one last point.

With regards to the 2 prophets mentioned in the book of Revelations, I read a documentary some years ago that referred to them as Moses & Elijah. Others say they could be Enoch & Elijah
It said that Moses & Elijah will return as those 2 prophets to lead the revival & preach pple to Christ before the antichrist will finally kill them.
Remember that Elijah didn't die, he was taken alive to heaven by chariots of fire. If it was Enoch & Elijah as some have posited, it could also be because Enoch also didn't experience death, but was taken alive to heaven.

But from your analysis, you could be right. Nobody really understands the book of Revelations enough to make accurate interpretation of all the revelations therein.

Kudos bro. 👍

MaxInDHouse:
"RAPTURE" is wrong scripturally there is taking away of born again Christians but calling it rapture isn't in line with what the Bible teaches.

Surely after the taking away of the born again Christians who are sleeping in death the tribulation will occur and it has started several decades ago in fact that's what we are facing presently.

The judgment is destruction of ungodly people and it will be unjust to kill them when they haven't heard the Good News of God's Kingdom.

If the tribulation has already started decades ago as you have stated, that means there will reach a point in this current dispensation when everybody will be forced to take the mark of the beast if he or she must buy or sell, right?

Also, that implies that in this same current dispensation, a point will reach when Israel will be deceived by the antichrist into a peace treaty that will guarantee them peace with all their current enemies. Then they will rebuild the temple under the deceit of the antichrist & in the middle of the 7 years tribulation, the antichrist will demand to be worshipped like God in the temple of Jerusalem.
And that's when they will realize that he's a devil incarnate.

The number of years for the tribulation is given as 7 years , & unless God shortens the tribulation period, no human will be saved (all life will be destroyed) by the antichrist & his demons.

If the tribulation has been going on for decades, are you implying that the 7 years given by the bible is probably just allegorical ?

Emeskhalifa:
What kind of thinking is this? Has there ever been a time Northerners claim to be indegenes of FCT?

Ogar stop this gaslighting. Una centre man ef up and he collect 🤣🤣🤣

I've watched clips of a northern cleric detesting Tinubu for appointing Wike a southerner as FCT minister.
The cleric was speaking in Hausa & his audience were applauding him