Na like this them dey pound your woman for Lagos

Most of those girls are wilder & have a far higher body count than even some women of 60 yrs above. I know such girls that have been fuucked by more than 200 men, some can't even remember their body count, some have been banged by up to 7 guys at once,

The thing is that, advising them is a waste of time because it'll be as if your advice na generator noise for their ears & they'll hate you for that.
The best thing to do is to allow them burn themselves out with wild crazy adventures, if you get chance, also drill their toto & chop your own share .
Just make sure that you or anyone close to you doesn't marry them when they later 'repent' .
Their purpose in life is to serve as punishment for simps. Simps who are naive, stupid & refuse to be wise will end up with such girls as punishment for simping.
When a man decides to be a simp, he gets punished by getting married to hoes that have been destroyed & damaged

MSN1:

Dat mentality is for novice and extremely wild girls dat desire Off- life activities.

90% of men don't know that; THE BEST WAY MEN ENJOY SVX IS; TO GO SLOWLY, PAYING ATTENTION TO D WOMAN'S SOFT SPOTS.

Do those kind of girls have parents or guardians?
And are their parents or guardians aware about the kind of lifestyle they live?

Rizzputin:
It seems like every other casual conversation I have with men these days drifts into the subject of female nature.

Specifically how women are wicked and ruin men's lives.

What a lot of these men fail to realize is the roles they play. And one way they do this is by putting themselves in the boyfriend zone.

The bf zone is just as bad as the friend zone (maybe even worse). And like the friend zone, guys are the ones that put themselves there.

Now, you probably already know I'm a big advocate of becoming a hook up material rather than bf or husband material. It's a surefire way that makes a girl WANT to fùck you (and do it fast).

It allows her to bring out her slutty side for you. The side she'd usually hide from her bf.

Someone asked me how to avoid falling into this boyfriend zone trap. So, a lengthy answer to that question lies ahead…

To achieve this, there are DOs and DON'Ts. The things to DO to avoid the bf zone and get seen as a Hook up material will be for another day. Personally I use Lust Oriented Topics (LOT) and Frames to achieve this.

However, you can find a good number of the DON'Ts in this post.

And you should pay close attention because many times in seduction, the difference between having a girl see you as a hook up material she loves to fùck OR a bf guy she can bill or manipulate lies in the DON'Ts you should run far away from.

To set the stage, take a good, hard look at these comments:

"I picked her up… someone who hasn't seen 100k in her life. I bought her a car of 4mn. She said it's too small and went for 12mn… yet she left me after her business started doing well"

"When women start making money they misbehave" "I'm scared of women they're such evil and wicked creatures

Each comment you just read captures the sad essence of what it means to be locked up in bf land.

If I asked you to name a common theme amongst them you'd probably say the men invested heavily. And you'd be right. But there's something deeper.

You can find what in this comment: "women are such evil and wicked creatures "

You see, men have egos the size of a football field. Making it easy for us to shift all or most of the blame on someone else. Especially women.

To these men, they're blind to the roles they played in their predicament.

Tattoo this in your brain: A Woman's behavior and actions is the reflection of the man

Write it down on the walls of your room if you have to.

Because if you present yourself as a bf, a bf you will always be. Women adjust their behavior to the man or men they're around.

Weak men in society? Trashy women are created. Weak guy? Cheating gf. Bf zone guy? Billings and manipulation. Hook up material guy? Endless amount of free, passionate knacks.

Before we unpack all the bf DON'Ts you should run away from like Tinubu…

Let's zoom in on why the bf zone is such a bad idea:

---Why the bf zone guy finishes last

● Can you guess at which stage a woman is most manipulative? If you said "in a relationship" you're right

When a girl starts calling you her bf or husband BEFORE she gets sexually intimate with you, she's giving a signal.

That currently, she sees you as someone she can manipulate. So she's in a hurry to lock you down and bill you.

It's like that guy that's wondering why working class girls act independent before dating but suddenly start billing him in a relationship. He is a typical bf zone guy


● Another big reason why the bf zone is a no go area is her slutty side.

You see, girls are not stupid. When you present yourself as bf material she knows she has to live up to the expectation of a gf.

And we all know how much we want our gfs to be presentable and good. Therefore, she'll act (read: pretend) accordingly.

In your mind she's soo happy to make you her bf. But for reasons far different from yours.

You've found a girl you can take to mum. She's found a naive man she can bill and take her mum out of Sapa.

Being a hook up material stops this from happening to you. Because to her you can solve one of her problems: her urge to get fùcked.

● It gives a false sense of hope.

You might think girls don't like the guys they put in the bf zone. They do. Infact, a lot of them are charming and charismatic.

Very few women will pick a total loser to be her bf or husband.

That's why the moment before she makes you her bf is filled with her stroking your ego.

Telling you how much you'd make a good bf. Listing your attractive qualities and making you feel in top the world

Soon, you start falling for her. Believing her manipulation. To her, it's all a game. And she's setting you up as her escape from Sapa plan.

Now, let's dive into those DON'Ts you're probably eagerly waiting to know...

Ready?

---DON'Ts you should avoid from falling into the bf zone

● Taking her on Dinner Dates

Nothing screams "make me your bf pleaseeeee" like carrying a girl on dinner dates.

Sure, it's slightly possible to do it and still be seen as a Hook up material. But it's an uphill battle.

And I have no intentions to make things harder for you or myself. Especially if you met her online.

Dinner dates are just too much: Too much pressure, too much effort, too much investment.

I mean, you just met her and you're suited up to go on a date at a fancy restaurant. And you're surprised she didn't want to Bleep you after spending 30k? Lol

Recently I watched a tiktok where a girl described a rich, handsome guy she met online. They kicked things off fast and 2 nights later they were out for dinner

The guy was dripping. In her words, he looked like he had money. She had already planned on the trips they'd go to in her mind.

Yet when the guy invited her back to his place… her answer? No. Not gonna happen.

If inviting a girl to dinner is bad, inviting a girl to dinner you met online (think Facebook, tinder and whatsapp) is terrible.

Believe it or not, majority of girls active online on those 3 apps are looking to explore their fantasies. They want to experience those fast hookups they read in novels

But only with the right man. That is, the hook up material man. Going out for dinner just puts you several seats back. Almost back to the starting line. Bad move.

Rather than dinners, do a chill bar, lounge or a cinema. Or when possible, straight to your house


● Next up, is trying to impress or impressing her

Some guys are starting to realize why impressing men is a bad idea

Many others are stuck in their old ways of using money, cars etc to get a girl. However, the majority are often surprised why impressing women is such a terrible idea

After all, they hear phrases like these from women: "Money makes me happy" "Money is my love language" "If you don't have money, don't come near me"

The logical brain of a man goes "hmmm she said she wants money so let me impress her"

Only to find out the more he impresses or tries to, the further the coochie goes away

Let me tell you a story, over the weekend I was cock in deep in someone's soon-to-be fiancé when he sent her 25k for the week.

If someone gives me that money in this Tinubu era, I will bless him. But her? She was too concerned about the dìck neatly lodged in her mouth.

After we were done, we went downstairs to spend part of the money. Later on she told me that's how the guy does from the day they met. Always trying to impress her with money or his achievements.

Of course she said she likes the guy. But she doesn't really lust for him(he lacks hook up material vibe)

The biggest problem with impressing women is because they know they are not special. So when you take your hard earned resources (money, time and attention) and spend it on her when you barely know her, her respect for you disappears.

In her mind, how can I trust his leadership when it's easy for him to give up his resources for me.

That's why you hear girls say stuff like: "We just met and you're doing all that" OR "We just met and you're telling me that"

Does it boost her ego? Yes Does it make her feel validated and happy? Yes. But does it make her coochie wet for you? Absolutely NOT.


● Question/Statement Matrix


There are a host of questions and statements that place you neatly into the bf zone.

I'll go over three of them.

The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man.


"Where do you see yourself in a serious relationship in the future?"

Imagine you're out with a girl on a date. Then she pops that question.

Whether you like it or not, the thought of her wanting to be in a relationship with you will cross your mind.

That's exactly how she feels when a guy asks that. And to her, it's too early for such pressure.

So what she does is to start evaluating you for bf material when she should be looking at you as someone to hook up with.

Then, the journey to knacking her becomes longer than trekking from Lagos to kano.

"I'd never do that to you…I would support you. Let me help you get that"

You know that moment when a girl starts telling you how badly her exes or besties have treated her?

Then a guy jumps in telling her he'd never do that. Or he'd be different and treat her right.

Or he'd support her no matter what if he was the one. Lol. Doing that puts you in a long list of guys auditioning to be her bf

Sure, she sees you as safe. Like such a sweet guy. She tells you how much your "empathy" makes you a good bf. You're smiling… "I don catch her"

No, she has caught you.

2 months later when your bills and investments have crossed the 200k threshold and she's still cheating, you're wondering where it all went wrong.

Well, it started from those comments.


● Being too available.

Calling her Steady. Texting her a lot. Going on multiple dates with her BEFORE you're sexually intimate with her is a fantastic way to bf zone yourself.

Avoid being too available at her request before knacking her. It's a bad spot to be in.


● Avoid being her therapist

Girls are emotional creatures. And there's a host of things that could potentially trigger sadness in her.

When that happens, she's going to look for a naive man to offload it on.

You do NOT want to be that man. Girls want to have fun because it's easier for it lead to knacks.

Sitting there acting like her therapist to her never-ending problems just delays your progress with her

There was a guy here I advised who was toasting a girl in a relationship.

At first, she was feeling him because he was displaying hook up material qualities. Then he switched to bf zone guy activities and things started to fall off.

I had to bring him back. Make him understand that what she wants is to have fun and Bleep. Not for you to act like a therapist sponge and soak up her negative energy

She wants to forget her problems with you. That's why it's important you avoid dwelling to long on her problems

One or two lines to empathize with her and you change the subject.


So that's it. A bunch of DON'Ts you don't want to get close to.

I'll write about the DOs later.

But coming next is a detailed break down of why women lie and how you can drastically reduce or outright prevent them from lieing to you. So keep an eye out for that

The point you're making is that bf zone is only slightly better than friend zone & the best zone for a guy to be is the hookup zone.
But let me add that it's not completely game over for guys who naively & unfortunately got themselves into the bf zone instead of the hookup zone.
They can still redeem themselves & transit into hookup zone, but how?
Start undoing what they're doing as bf & start flirting & bleeping other bitches to give their woman competition.
When a girl knows that she has rivals & her guy can easily get pussay elsewhere, she will put in her best to to please him, her pussay will be wet for him by force

Omoawoke2:


I think runs girls are occasional transaction. They have other sources of income like selling men’s stuffs, working in big supermarkets, banks, nurses, etc

Those so-called sources of income are just smokescreens to hide their main occupation which is prostitution.
They actually use those other so-called sources of income/businesses in case their relations or parents or potential suitors ask them what they do for a living

There are both

WannaHowzit:


Lol, its clear your flat, square compressed head hasn't yet registered that SA and Palestine share a common history. This deserves Lagos open gutter poop emojis💩💩💩🇳🇬👎🏾. Ask your classmate sitting next to you under your tree school to explain.

If you are not too stupid, how will you side with Palestinians who form the bulk of Hamas terrorists simply because you have grudges against Israel?
And you wonder why most of your pple are useless, with very high level of HIV, sexual promiscuity among your women & laziness + crime among your men.
God blesses those who bless Israel & curses those who curse Israel.
You just can't be against Israel & still expect to succeed, life doesn't work like that.

Penguin2:

Look at you…

You weren’t ashamed to show Musa Keys who earned a Grammy nomination because of Davido, a Nigerian? Where’s ur shame sir?

Get back to me when Nigerian guys stop pounding your women under your noses😏.

This got me cracking with laughter 🤣
Wetin south African women toto no see for Nigerian men preek 😎

YourBestWriter:


Yes o. in fact, the thing will require opening another thread sef.

I served in a mini village called uromi, Edo state 2014 batch c.

They warn corpers that some of the parents have already betrothed some of their girl children to witchcraft, and what they do is to steal the glory of corpers who sleeps with them. You will end up seeing the corper becoming useless after pop, some may never want to leave the village, some will become a living dead corpse with no destiny during job search.

Another is that some of the parents because of poverty want their girls to be married off, and you know, they see corpers as government pikin. poverty, ignorance, spirituality etc.

So many reasons

Things dey happen o

We live in a strange world

MSN1:

Your problem, y do i need to impress anybody? I believe there is a prize for impressing pipo. Did i posted that i spent dat long fvcking, witot some breaks and small plays in between rest?.
4 ur info, if som1 said he /she had svx for 3mins, are u not suppose to know there were few moments of play and few seconds break?
How u pipo think baffles me, i wonder if u guys have experiences or roll with pipo sef. Or u think i am among those guys that kills themselves on a lady, making all sort of annoying fast moves with their waist, gud svx is more than dat, those ones na killing body, mayb u re in dat group.

Then it probably means that out of the 5 hours, you spent maybe 2 hrs sucking kpekus, 1 hour kissing & sucking breasts, then maybe 2 hours of actual Bleep with breaks in between

YourBestWriter:
During my nysc, there was this ss2 student that was trying everything possible to have sex with me. I thought it was teenage hormone, but then I discover that she was 21 years old.

Unfortunately for her, I held reputable positions, and also, I am not easily attracted to anything on uniforms whether student or nurse or police.

My fellow corps members however never mind as they took turn to sleep with students both teenage or adult. The students throw themselves on these corpers that I sometimes wonder what parents are doing. But later i discovered that some parents even want their children to sleep with corpers. lol

Infact, after everything i saw during nysc, I began to suspect every corper I see on the road as ashawo. lol

Say the truth and shame the devil. Did you eat the forbidden fruit during your nysc?

Did you find out the reason for the bolded statement?

MSN1:

Lol.
That was the longest fvck i have ever had, where the strength come from still dey baffle me.
From 10pm - almost 11am; i didn't take break for more than 5hrs at most.
And the funniest thing is dat;
I didn't cum at all!. Mind u, i don't take ANYTHING for sex.

-I have noticed this since 2015, whenever i have s*x with a new chick for d first time; I hardly cum.
My babe back den quarrelled with me a lot because of dat, she even said i didn't luv her dats y cumming was difficult but after months of familiarity, cumming bcame often, she was very surprised at the changes.

The bolded statement is a lie.
You don't need to lie to impress the nairalanders bro

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
i took a walk tonight on my way there was a big gutter full of thick black water, dirt and stuffs like that, there was this girl on black her slippers fell deep into that water (the slippers got a heavy weight so it could easily sink down deep)

Note: the girl get hand and leg complete ooo
no be say she dey cripple or handicap
as i observe closely there was this guy on an arsenal jersey that help this girl he dipped his hand deep into d potopoto water just to help this girl bring out that slippers i knew he wanted to pls this girl

immediately the slippers was out the girl no even talk thank you or anything
to be honest she no talk thank you cos i was listening to what they saying while on the move
immediately the guy bring out the slippers common thank you no come out for her mouth n
this girl was even saying how will you wash ur hand without offering him a solution maybe whining him self
imagine the germs, bacteria & infections that he might invite into his life cos of that thing

one mind was telling me may be it is her brother another was telling me it was a guy trying to date/fuxk her

cos if to say na her brother him go reject that shit he wont dare dip his bare hand into that shit cos d male sibling no go send am he fit dey vex or dey aggressive if the sister still beg say make he dip hand in d gutter to bring out her slippers at the end of the day d brother still no go do am

na why i choose the other mind which says he want to date/fuxk

i just waka cross gutter pass them by
i just know say that guy no go ever fuxk dat puna till thy kingdom come
the guy own don finish
it is real even if you think i cooked up the story

There could be other niggas out there who are banging the same girl real time, & those set of guys will never do what the guy did for her

ariesbull:
funny enough they marry and we still have others left for us


Igbo blood will make up 50% of Lagos indigenous peoples in 20yrs time

But you can't marry theirs?🤔

BitterTruth01:



The fat pig Asari has already disowned Tinubu.
He doesn’t know that his enemies see all of them there as Igbo. Even the ones that are not. He’s learning the hard way.

These ones are even direct Igbo heritage from way back.
The ones in the southwest are from intermarriage . The way things are trending in the southwest and how they’re all hustling to marry Igbo ladies , by 2050 there’ll be no pure yoruba blood left in there . Even their Alaafin has an Igbo wife with her bride-price fully paid.

Anybody wey wan vex should head to the lagoon instead . I no get time

Don't you think that as Yoruba men are marrying Igbo ladies, it will deprive Igbo men of getting Igbo ladies to marry?
Remember that Igbo men don't like to marry outside their tribe

Your brother should call her bluff

ireke:

Real niggas respect other people's choices even when they would have done things differently.

Most people that shout "real nigga this, real nigga that" do not know about anything other than the womanliness. When a lady has nothing to offer apart from pussy, una go complain, but most of the people that call themselves real niggas would be clueless if they meet a woman that does not bring p'ussy to the table because they don't know what to do with anything else. If they now perceive that the lady is intellectual, na to abuse am be next thing. Anyone that is not like them is a whimp.

Kontinuu

It's clear you don't really know how these bitches really are
There's no woman who cannot bring pussay in addition to whatever intellect she seems to have, unless she doesn't rate you as someone deserving of her pussay. That's why such a woman will never show you her sexual sides & avoid anything that will lead sexual tension with you.
She'll be very strict with you
Meanwhile, there's another nigga by the side banging her carelessly with little or no effort.
I'm giving you this advice for free, any woman you rate as being intellectual & is not free with you sexually, such a woman doesn't rate you as one capable of drilling her kpekus.
As a real nigga, you're supposed to be sexual with a woman not intellectual, even if you wanna be intellectual with her, make sure you're banging her puna first. You should rather be intellectual with your fellow man.
Whatever she's bringing to the table should also come together with her pussay.
You're a man not her fellow female friends

Gadafii:
I am not a slave to pusse like you my brother, I have it in abundance, but deciding when and who is very important as a man, it gives you edges over women,😎😎

Being served in a platter and rejecting it is not a weakness, rather is dominant virtue

But what does a pusse nigha like you know

Bro, honestly, you are a whimp & I'm sure that girl will never hold you in high regard no matter what you claim. The hallmark of dominant virtue in a man is being able to bang & conquer a pusssy even if it is offered on a platter, without catching any feelings.
A real nigga bangs pusssey with no emotions & no commitment
That's the kind of nigga these bitches respect, not a whimp like you

Uncle96:


Its so crazy I tell you.

There was this one in Abuja, right after she caught feelings. She got herself naked after a warm shower in my apartment. Laid on bed while desperately asking me to come enter her. The moment I did, she was just shouting, my king , my king, in a trembling voice ** in my head, I was like Wtf** ...after the sex, she started crying that she does not want my thing out of hers.. that she wants it to always be inside her.. omo i saw another level of madness

And this other one that her loved turned obsession.. she just randomly suck my roaster till I cum , no matter how long it takes, she swallows the cum all the time, i wasnt comfortable with it and told her about it. She said that she always want some part of my dna in her always in a way she wont get pregnant. Ive seen things in this life. Many girls are normal until u get close to them

Lies

Aonkuuse:
But our backward state is where your people rush to get food from, when they come, even dogs we keep as pets, they buy to go eat like hungry abokis... Your Akwa Ibom sisters has the highest number of cooks here in Abuja or there is another Akwa Ibom we don't know?? Or is it your Olosho sisters that are never satisfied on bed?? Go pack one side or go drink the beer your governor promised you people

You lack the moral justification to accuse Akwa Ibom girls of being olosho because we all know that Benue state girls especially Tiv girls are the most promiscuous & sexually loose girls with high libido in Nigeria & beyond.
They can Bleep anything and they dominate most brothels in Nigeria.
Everyone knows this fact

Nackzy:
who useless pass benue person, who Bleep pass idoma

Tiv

Jambofficial13:
My combination for this evening. Hookup girls is the best thing that ever happened to men

Foolish guys still wasting their time sayin "Hello angel, whats your name?" "May I know you?"

Hooker alert! Your "angel" is a hookup artist!

I just point and ask "how much?"

Na the way the life be now.

Hustle hard, get money, hookup and free your mind, get more money!

Toto go tire you soon

Israel07:


Benin, Ogun and Rivers are the first three, Anambra & Imo no even dey close to Benue and Abia

I think the first 3 should be Rivers, Edo (Benin), then Cross Rivers.
In Rivers state & Benin, it's very rare to find any family that do not have at least a son involved in cultism. Even secondarians are involved.
It is after the aforementioned states that you can now talk of Ogun, Benue, Anambra & Lagos.
Imo state is more of a flexing town with many hotels that boosts more of prostitution than cultism

Confirmedzombie:
After Benin in cultist Benue is 2nd and Imo state is 3rd

What of Rivers, Cross Rivers & Anambra?

Jlow2:
I think before 2030 with the kind of killing going on in benue, the population will reduce by 50%

Them dey born pass the number wey dey die.
You know they love Bleep more than anything & they don't believe in family planning or using contraceptives.
Many of them are are polygamists

benuejosh:
Ukum Local government has never experienced peace since the regime of former governor Gabriel Suswam. He empowered those guys with arms and encouraged millitia in that area. As a typical unlearned and a majority of uneducated people who were exposed to gaining power through violence, they embraced gun violence as a way of Life.

This act gave rise to people like the late Gana and a host of other people. Rivalry between groups then took a course in that area and to calm down the violence has been a major problem. Efforts were made by past government to cleanse those people of guns but it is too late. If a 10 year-old child warns you and tells you to very careful, please do because the next may be your death. They don't do childish Aye or eiya or whatever cult rivalry, what they know is how can you shot a gun. The same Ukum people recently kidnapped a serving commissioner and killed a former chairman that they kidnapped alongside the Commissioner.

The worst part of it is that, as soon as the government comes after them, they 'run into the bush'.

Ukum is where we have the largest Yam market in Africa. They produce the largest quantity of yams in the whole of Nigeria. They are so rich because of the yam business but majority of them are uneducated (they didn't go to school because they farm yams, sell and make money) and got exposed to modernity during the government of former governor Gabriel Suswam. Because of the so much money they have, buying guns is not a problem to them.

Amnesty has never worked because someone who has 5 guns may surrender 3 and keep 2. Or surrender 4 and keep 1. And because of what they did to Gana who was killed after surrendering himself, they no longer trust the government. The best that has worked so far is the government killing gang leaders. And it will surprise you to know that a member of a gang will derive joy in being the leader of gang to be killed and then they boast of 'even the government is looking for me'.

Only God can help with the situations in Ukum, Katsina-ala and Logo governments. But the worst is Ukum Local Government.

If they are rich & can buy guns & weapons, how come herdsmen are killing, raping & terrorizing them all the time?
Whats the use of weapons if you can't use them to safeguard/protect yourself & loved ones?

Is it true that cities situated close to water bodies like rivers, oceans, seas, etc, are afflicted by sexual immorality like prostitution & high level of promiscuity due to the strong influence of water spirits?
Example Lagos, PH, Akwa Ibom state, Delta, etc

Mrfeel:

I don't want to debate about prostitution,

The topic of this discussion is about a cultural practice amongst Tiv men giving out their wives to visitors , I repeat it's a big lie such does not exist amongst the Tiv people, and whoever your boss is , he is a lair.

He's a Tiv man as well