₦airaland Forum

SadiqBabaSani:
What is the agenda against us, what is it that the U.S knows that we don’t know?

Or is it the same Libya format at play all over again?

There's no agenda, it's just that your terrorist brethren have been killing, burning, raping & maiming Christians for many years.
Now that the atrocities have caught up international attention from the world's super power, y'all are jittery because y'all know how America deals mercilessly with terrorists who kill innocent christians because they've been obligated by their religion to do so.

It's game over for Islamist terrorists under the guise of Boko Haram, Fulani herdsmen, Ansaru, etc. + all their supporters & enablers like you & your likes.

KingAzubuike:
See as north empty. Reminds me of my journey to so many northern states many years ago. Most part of the north is so empty, arid and large you just begin to wonder how these people became so power hungry and how they manage to have this born to rule mentality. Like you wonder where the hell they came from among those emptiness. Road travel is so much fun tho

If you are talking about the north, be specific about which part or which state of the north you are referring to.

Just like, we can't just lump the whole south together when talking about a happening in any state there.
For instance, if something happens in Lagos, we don't say " the south" .
We mention which place it occurs?

Why is the case different when for instance Yobe state is involved & everybody lump the whole north into it?

Noblejohn32:
You know you can just keep mute and scroll past. Who has such time to to cook up a story? I'm telling you what happened yesterday and funny enough, I was still discussing it with my landlord when I stumbled on this thread. And I'm like, what a coincidence!!!

Inconsistencies in your narrative.

You said you used your last 3k to buy him food & lucozade.
If that 3k was your last fund, then you wouldn't have been able to fund the enquiries you made & also fund his cousin to take him home.

Noblejohn32:
Today, just few hours ago. A guy that lives in my street started behaving in an abnormal way. Before we knew it, he ran inside the bush, screaming and begging an invisible white woman to forgive him. It was a funny, yet pitiable scene.

I had to gather over five guys and we marched into the bush and held him down. The guy just sat and didn't say a word for over two hours. He appeared very weak and disoriented. I had to empty the last 3k I kept to survive and got him lukozade and a meal. Bro ate the meal like a hungry lion, drank the booster and began to act funny.

We had no choice but to call his people. Omoh, I emptied every single funds I had to make enquiries. Turns out his aged mother lives in a neighbouring town, Uyo. Madam didn't even have a single cash to pay her way to Eket. With a broken heart, I parted with my very last coin so his cousin could take him home.


This is a guy that would rather buy weed than eat. Bro smokes like a chimney. Now, he's insane and I don't know if he can be helped.


Stay away from drugs.

Concocted story just to pass a message

sexyking1:
It was during buhari.

Nope, it was during Jonathan's regime, 2014.

You can browse it

SAMAJ:
Please be informed that this is the same Obasanjo's son who (as a Colonel then) was shot by Boko Haram while fighting insurgency in Maiduguri. Ironically, Obasanjo was the President at that time.

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Obasanjo was not the president when it happened.
It was during President Goodluck Jonathan's tenure

Willy2025:
A Brigadier Gen who hasn't fought any battle in his life. He can barely handle an AK47 and I am sure he can't eliminate house rats let alone the deadly band!ts

Didn't you read where it was stated " an infantry engineer with combat experience?"

Or you just want to display your resentment towards him?

Samantha125:
Ke a leboga, meaning "thank you" in Urhobo...

I'm just using SA for cruise...

I thought as much.

Anyway, have a nice day with lots of fun 🍷🍾

Samantha125:
I'm Urhobo from Delta State...

No wonder, detected that rare Urhobo beauty from your profile pic.
That's why I was curious when you wrote you are Limpopoian from South Africa 🤔

Samantha125:
I'm none of the below mentioned...

Which ethnicity are you pls?

According to a Nigerian proverb "he who asks questions never loses his way?"

Samantha125:
I'm a wannabe...

Be sincere with me pls.

Are you Zulu, Xhosa, Sotho or a white South African?

Tenrack:
gratification. There's something they see in those people that they want. Female brains are wired in a special way. It all balls down to what has her drawn to that person ATM. Could be solace, a good listener, sweet talker - making her feel good ATM..a lot of stuff. You cannot understand that gender bros.

Why can't she seek for the gratification from other rich men instead of those below her husband's status, considering the hypergamous nature of women?

JackDaAlienz:
This is a very good question.

Rich wife's deal with a lot of power dynamics.

1. Their rich husbands majorly cheat and sleep around. Power comes with a load of attraction from opposite sex. So the wife knows that her husband has women drooling over him.

2. Women want to taste power too.
When a rich woman gets bored
She will always want to try something different
In this act she gains
The trill and adventure of sleeping with whoever she wants without getting caught.

They see how easy it is for their rich husbands to lay whoever they want.
So it gets to a point when madam will be like let flex my own power and pressure security man or bodyguard to sleep with her orr satisfy her. In her mind the sex is not the goal but the feeling of power to persuade somebody to sex you. Its power flexing.
She wants to feel the same power her husband feels that is why she sleep with gateman ,
To the gateman he sees it as madam loves him or is attracted to him.
From the madam point of view she did it to revenge her husband or to prove a point that she can do all types of things without getting caught.

Nice submission.

But don't you think she will ideally crave for another high profile or rich man for sex instead of descending low to fúck a gateman or security guard that is below her level as oga wife? My opinion is based on the hypergamous nature of women generally.

On a second thought, do you think she's fucking the gate man or security man strictly out of revenge for her husband's assumed cheating? And she thinks cheating with those below her husband's status will hurt him more compared to those of his status or higher?

I need an honest opinion on this pls

Jakumo:
A man can convey sexual interest in a woman without putting her on the spot by making such a formal "proposition" to be her boyfriend. While I cannot speculate on the way women over 30 might view this subject, I do know from experience that women in their twenties who are blessed with beauty, tend to be wary of any man who shows signs of seeking an exclusive, monogamous relationship that is precisely defined, and for which a woman's consent to abide with a definitive, legally-binding commitment treaty is expected.

Conveying sexual interest to her doesn't mean she must accept it.

Him, taking her out as you suggest, while spending on her & conveying sexual interest to her is not a guarantee she will accept.
She may turn the tide against him & flare up with statements like " is it because you bought me this or that, that you think you can sleep with me?".
Meanwhile, he has already wasted money on her & she probably already has another man or other men smashing her pússy for free.

A lot of men have asked girls directly to be their girlfriends instead of playing games & the girls have accepted & they enjoyed access to pússy.

If one girl doesn't accept your proposal for a relationship, other girls will. At least, she's not the only girl in the world.

The guy made the right call.

RollinTNDA:
Women use sex to achieve an end goal
For Men, Sex is the end goal
For women Sex is the vehicle they use to reach their end goal...

That is why women don't give it out freely

There must be something she wants from you before she gives you sex.
If she sees that there is nothing to gain from you. She will not give you sex.

When you have something
That is when women will open wide open

For Men sex is just pump and pour
For women Sex is a tool she use to get what she wants from you.

Your MONEY
Your tall cute genes
To be your wife
To make you commit to her

You must have something that she needs before she opens wide open.

women understand that men love sex and inorder to make men hunt, protect, commit to them. They will use sex as a tool to make sure she gets all her demands.

What of wives of supposedly rich men who sleep with their gatemen, security guards, drivers, etc.
What do they gain from such men?

Jakumo:
He could have simply dated her a few times, and then suggested they go chill at his place once the rapport was smooth and flowing. There is never any need to file a serious application as he did. That is way too formal and will turn off many women who might otherwise have progressed to giving the man hot sex on demand.

For her to accept going on a date with him, she must have had some romantic interest in him.

From all indications, she doesn't even have any romantic interest in him.

Assuming she even agrees to go on the so-called date with him once or twice & after depleting his money on the date, she still declines his request by saying she already has a boyfriend & can't go with him or probably she's not interested, is it not a waste of money on his own part?

Why can't he just be straightforward with his desire instead of playing games & making assumptions while his resources gets depleted & his time wasted?

Jakumo:
Fellas, this man's failed mission is a fine example of what a man should NEVER ask a woman. Any man foolhardy enough to formally apply for the official post of "boyfriend" will only succeed in killing off any chance of romance that might have existed BECAUSE that kind of question carries so much baggage as to erase whatever attraction the woman might have initially felt for the man if only he had kept things simple.

A young woman faced with a man applying to be her boyfriend will immediately sense that the man is lacking in confidence, and likely to become jealous and possessive as soon as the woman replies that such a formal relationship can start. Instead of going that old-school job application approach to entering the promised land, it is far better to keep things playful, flirtatious, and light hearted, so the girl can simply go with the flow, without being placed under pressure by such a formalized applications to hang pipe.

Nothing wrong with the guy's approach.

It's relationship he wanted with her & he's bold enough to tell her instead of playing games & assuming the feeling is mutual while it's not, at the expense of his pocket & mental health.

He wants to define his relationship with her to be sure she's also interested in romantic relationship with her, so that tomorrow she'll not query him with statements like "did you ask me to be your girlfriend?". Or " when did I tell you we are dating?".

It only takes a bold & courageous man to be straightforward with his intentions with a girl, a coward will only hide behind games & make assumptions because the girl is close to him, while his pocket is getting depleted. He doesn't want to be stringed along like a low self-esteemed coward.

At least he knows where he stands & he will take his leave for good.

Other better girls will accept him for a relationship

Kaybaba5:
This one na old style naw, if you use this style nowadays it's mission impossible.
I remember the day girl in my area then wrote a love letter to me. I swear I was like what a joke......

There's nothing like old style here, he wanted to define his relationship with her.
If he only assumes she's his girlfriend without asking her out, she may later query him that she never told him she's dating him.

To me there's nothing wrong with his method, another girl will accept him for a relationship

Biggaboi:
The days when we ask women out are long gone. Now we just keep it simple, take it slow and let her decide for herself of he's single not to want to start a relationship with you. No be only women dey "woke" now.

Is it wrong to define your relationship with a girl you are close with?

I think that's what the guy wanted to do.
Instead of assuming that she also has mutual feelings for him, he decided to ask her out straight ahead in order to be sure, so that tomorrow she'll not query him with statements like " when did I tell you we are dating?".

To me there's nothing wrong in asking a girl for a relationship instead of playing games & assuming she's your girlfriend

Samantha125:
Well, he's not bad looking... ... He's got great modelling traits like those South Sudanese...

Are you really a South African or a wannabe?

I'm curious

MightySparrow:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RoCkUvHertA?si=QK7YBBUqV2NHyKhW

The UK recently parliament passed a law against certain practices of Islam and the shari'a.

Elaborate pls, especially for those of us that can't watch YouTube

Demigod22:
I lived off campus and in a lodge of 45 rooms, more than 15 rooms have campus couples living campus marriage. You will see these girls cooking, washing, cleaning and being wifey.

The tertiary institutions are a crazy place. My experience for four years convinced me that I can never date a student no matter how beautiful she is.

How sex is being given and received in school like two neighbors sharing salt is mind-blowing, many girls you don't need to ask them out, during birthday party, end of the year party, neighbors in the same compound, classmates in the department, staff to students, even the bike men, a Mairuwa got a student pregnant in my school, even a secondary school boy in the University secondary school got a 300 level Sociology girl pregnant too.

Sex is really common and cheap in school. When a neighbor has a birthday and throws a party in the compound, a neighbor must bang a neighbor. Cheating and fornication piqued in school.

School is the place that even the good ones turn wild. Those girls that went to school as a virgin and graduated as a virgin without smooching, sucking, fingering, masturbating, anal sex, send nudes, are quite few and rare.

Is it a northern school?

How was the Mairuwa able to convince or impress a university student that she could open toto for him?

ChildOfDoom:
I realised that when I communicate with my mum and brother or with my colleagues in school/work place, I feel uncomfortable or not excited.

Currently at a brothel, watching football, enjoying the music and chatting up fine ladies I made friends with there. Surprisingly it gives me more excitement, sharing in their pain story and having fun with them

As a reserved person, I hardly go out for events I am invited to. Once any amount enters my hand, I go to a brothel to chill. Here I find solace

Is this normal?

You are really living up to your name

Makavelli001:
Hello nairalanders
I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.
When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.
How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...
Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .
Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

What's the solution to that?

udemzyudex:
Bayelsa state governor should be probe immediately his tenure ends.

Do you know the challenges in Bayelsa state that he's battling with?

There are challenges of militancy & general insecurity, coupled with oil spills & environmental degradation.

A very large chunk of that money goes into tackling such problems.

Hence, the state government has very little left for developmental projects, empowerment programs & job provision.

Don't comment out of ignorance or mischief because you hate the state government, learn to be objective in your comment pls

Fountainofyouth:
Niger Delta states have the highest allocation but nothing to show for it, everyone is always focused on the federal government instead of holding their governors accountable for the development of the state.

What a shame.

You are just delusional or ignorant or both.

Niger Delta states are battling with militancy & environmental pollution due to oil spills.

Much of their allocation goes into tackling these serious challenges.

Hence they have very little left for developmental projects & empowerment projects.

You can't blame their state governments, learn to be empathetic pls

bmd1010:
There isn't but dey act like they are always holy praying 5 times daily makes u think other wise

What of christians that also speak in tongues, pray, sing gospel songs, preach & still engage in that?

Are they not also acting like they are holy yet indulge in such secretly?

Mind you, I'm a Christian myself

osuofia2:
That's a foursome there.
So hijabbi people de knack, thought they are so holy than holiness

Must you give a religious colouration to this?

Is there any religion whose adherents don't have sex?