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milehigh06:
Oh sorry...go hustle for your food...you never even chop and u wan follow me argue
..lmaoooo

even if I never chop,no suppose affect you...y u dey talk like small pikin!

ogododo:
Dem de beat Warri Wolves for Warri Township stadium

na once a while de happen

When it only home teams that win matches!

Poultry as that person earlier!

What type of goods do you deliver?

illicit:
It's a waste of valuable time.

Just let her go
Nothing special in her pussy

is not a lie..pussy no special!

jawalis:
I’ll say Yes. Fvck the b!tch after a while and dispose her. Mission accomplished

Real nigga!

But ladies usually say when we get married,we control our husband!

07039397858

Fariq:

Salam,pls I'm in need of job,if any is available,HND in public administration..kaduna base but can relocate to Kano!

chatinent:
What is this world turning into? Father, let your kingdom come please!

which world or your country!

Once they free this guy na too start work!

Nigeriahomebiz:
Yes like 2 units of buoys quarters with each unit having 3 self contained (no parlour, just toilet & bath, small kitchen)

make sense b dat!

EngineerBode:
If the other dwarf was good at penalties, he would have won something for his national team. Here is a video to refresh your mind


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tW3GdF9U5DU

uncle I'm not for Barca but Liverpool fan!

RTSC:
But some men get mind.

How do you woo a reverend sister and make her your wife?

Or did she do the wooing?

even as a reverend sister,guys they Bleep them steady!

Sabi na still men they Bleep the olosho!

myles16:
I don't even know which category I fall into .... We just dey sha

my level....girls plenty for hand but I no even know d one I love,na just to call anyone if I wan rest!

Very complicated issue but just try forgive her and move on

Ochason:
I wanted to post my story for advise and opinions on this matter.

My wife and I have been married for 8 years and we really have not had any issues until now. The whole situation started about 5 months ago. I think it was early January. We just launched our second business branch and my wife threw a party for us.I am into real estate and other strings of businesses. Last year was a good year for us. Our business grew and we expanded by opening one more branch office here in Port Harcourt (not real location). My wife,who is our Business development strategist came up with an office opening party so we can invite dignitaries and celebrities to come and even invest more in our businesses. My wife decided to engage her friend that is a top event planner to handle the event. The event was successful no doubt ,everything was just glamorous. Then,there was another part of the event that moved to the club that night. We were all having fun. And then,my wife’s friend who planned the earlier event showed up looking really well dressed..more like very s*xy outfit. Of course,lot of people were dressed to kill at the party. In a lit party like this,one should expect some serious drinking and some inappropriate behaviors. It was clear,my wife’s friend was getting a little more than tipsy. She was doing a little too much and my wife was concerned. I tried to call my Driver to come take her home but the foolish guy was drinking somewhere and didnt pick my call. My wife agreed that I escort her friend to go sleep in our SUV until the Driver shows up. I guided her friend to our car and tried to get her inside to sleep but things took a different turn. She was drunk and started to pull me to kiss her. she was rubbing on me and telling me she wants me. I knew it was the alcohol talking but she kept on and on. Begging me to kiss her so she can sleep. No one was looking and I gave her a small kiss just to let her feel she got what she wanted. Of course she wanted more but I didn’t oblige her. I put on the AC for her and pulled the seat back for her to rest. As I walked away,I finally got through the Driver and he came to take her home. I thought that was the last I would hear of what just happened but I was wrong. Two days later,this lady starts to chat me and saying she wants to see me. I thought it was a joke. She said things like she knows I want her too cos I kissed her at the club 2 days ago. She kept confessing her love for me and how she cannot control herself. To be honest,this is not the first time women would throw themselves at me but this is the first time,a friend of my wife would do such a thing. I asked her what if my wife finds out and she replied me with a bomb: she said..she does not care because my wife is also not a saint. What?!!!!..what did she mean by that? I asked her to explain and she said she cannot tell me because she swore never to tell anyone but that my wife has definitely been with someone else but me.At this time,I was getting really worked up. I told her she was bluffing and she said I was being naive. I told her I would ask my wife…she said she would deny but that does not mean its not true. She would deny because she swore to keep my wife’s secret.
So,in order to play her game,I told her I would sleep with her if she told me who my wife was cheating with. She agreed. She sent me lots dirty messages and told me to meet her at a hotel that night. And then,I asked her: how do I know you are not trying to set me up and walking into a trap? My wife’s friend then gave details. She said my wife and I were having issues just a few months before our wedding,I said yes!…she said because of the issues…my wife was doubting my loyalty and she went back to her ex and slept with him. And that they were seeing each other even after we got married until like 4 months after marriage.
I knew this woman is desperate but this information she just released scattered my brain. I drove straight to see my wife and straight up told her what her friend just told me. My wife began to act shocked and pretend that her friend was lying so I told her, I have recorded conversations (which I really didn’t have)and if she pushed me to release these conversations, it would be over between us.
At that point,my wife broke down and started crying. She then confessed to having gone back to her ex when we were having issues weeks before our wedding. But she swore on her children’s’ lives that it did not continue after we got married.
However,her ex went to tell her friend that they were seeing each other which was a lie. That her ex wanted her back by all means and was telling lies that I was not treating her well and that she misses her ex and wants to come back but she is stuck in the marriage.
All these revelation was too much for me to bear. I told my wife to leave our home but she refused so I took a my things and went to the company guest house where I have been. I have been so angry and betrayed that I do not know what to do.
I never planned to be a divorcee. I love my wife. She is very instrumental to the success of my business …but how do we work through this when she has betrayed me like this? And she is insisting the affair ended when we got married….the affair before marriage is hurtful because we were still engaged even at that time but if it continued after…I cannot live like this.

How then,do I believe she may be telling the truth? Trust has been thrown out of the window. Our families have been trying to reconcile us but as a man,I have never been so hurt and emotional in all my life. I trusted my wife with all my life.

I finally agreed for us to see our Pastor last week to counsel us but it ended up in a disaster. I recognize I was still angry and I was shouting and my wife was crying uncontrollably saying I do not believe her but I believe a woman who is trying to ruin our marriage.

Well,if her friend is trying to ruin our marriage…she caused it..she allowed it. We both left distraught and later that night,the friend showed up in my guest house. She told me that she came to beg for me to forgive her friend. But you should have seen what she wore. The most see through outfit and as soon as I allowed her to sit down,she came hard on me.
Pushing her away was my first thought. But I felt so angry that I also wanted to revenge my wife and I started responding to her. I was ready to make love to this woman but I stopped and told her to leave. Since then,she has been determined to make me sleep with her.

I felt I needed space but the more space I need,the more s*xual temptations are coming my way. And yes,I would be justified if I give in right? After all…my wife did it first? Maybe if I did…I would feel better and maybe be able to forgive her after we are even.

I miss my wife but how do I trust her….I feel tempted to sleep with someone else. Its not that hard for men…I do not know how much more I can resist the temptation. How can I be sure that my wife is telling the truth? How do I know the affair ended after our marriage?

Will I be able to trust her again? Is there any hope for our marriage?

lefulefu:
so in this modern time some naija guys based overseas still go back to nigeria to carry women to train in US .So why wont such women disrespect them after getting a good job .pls let such women keep on disrespecting such mumu men so those mumu men would learn and stop allowing themselves to be scammed.

thank you....I rather help a dog than those bitches!

EngineerBode:
Ronaldo will finish with 30+ goals

With all the noise they are making about spanish league, someone is topping the league with mere 22 goals. You did not add german and french league

if Juventus keep getting penalty!

Poultry and transportation!

Nigeriahomebiz:
You have several options alt hough I personally do not subscribe to the idea of people asking which business can I start with X amount? There are many factors that should determine what business you should venture into. You don't want to make a big mistake while picking a business to do.

Having said this based on some ideas you have I will suggest;

1. A mini supermarket which will cost at least 4m to start (The business should put 6,000 naira or more into your pocket as daily profit)
2. Okrika grade AA products (you can start with as little as 150,000 naira and make between 3,000 to 7,000 naira daily if you understand the business well). You can find out more about it on this thread; https://www.nairaland.com/5968399/how-make-money-nigeria-lucrative
3. A standard barbing salon is another idea worth exploring
4. If you know real estate business a little and depending on your location, you can build 6 units of self-contained for rent and charge 220k per year per apartment (passive income plus property value which will appreciate year on year)

You can reach me on: nigeriahomebusiness@gmail.com for more opportunities worth exploring.

Best of luck!

5m will build 6 units of self!

milehigh06:
When you get hung for whistling then you can talk...i know you hate yourself for who you are and its ok

hate myself because you beat me,oga I get site to go,dis ur story no follow!

Try soccervista,forebet and adibet.....2odds daily won't hard you!

milehigh06:
I guess being hung for whistling at a white lady is better...half of your Mfers would have been hung by now considering how you all salivate behind white women

you just dey make noise!

Na only Lagos get job for nija!

tosyne2much:
Most broke guys are quick to anger and attack ladies at any slight frustration. An average broke dude is a frustrated dude. Et al, Tosyne, 1600 BC

I know that most guys will have me hated for this write up but the truth is bitter they say

Take a bottle of yoyo bitters & sit on a coconut tree

Here I go

10 Things Broke Guys Often Say

1. I love my girl friend so much and she's the best lady that has ever come into my life.. Ask him why he loves her so much & he will say " she's not demanding at all" # e no go beta for brokeness #

2. If you send N100 recharge card to your girlfriend and she doesn't call you with at least N50, it implies she's using the credit to call other male admirers/suitors # God punish brokeness #

3. I'm contended with my torchlight phone because I'm not one of those using expensive phones just to impress ladies

4. When I become rich, I know so many ladies will be stalking me. I will bleep and dump them mercilessly

5 . Any lady who doesn't like my brokeness should go to hell because I can't kill myself

6. Any lady who loves me now that I'm broke is worthy of my ring as soon as I become rich

7. Money is not everything. I don't have money but no lady can make me feel less of myself

8. Ladies who turn me down now will regret when I become rich

9. I don't like ladies who point to expensive things when I take her to an eatery, at least courtesy demands she order for cheap thing 'cos she doesn't know the weight of my pocket

10. Ladies who run after rich dudes are mostly gold diggers



Written by : Tosyne2much

Guys Feel Free To Add Yours


Let Forming Begin & Bashing Begin

do you know why all is trash because I didn't come to this life to please ladies!

Notateflonguy:
I really don't see any need coming here to emphasize on the word virgin.....can't you just make emphasis on the benefits of marrying a good woman...virgin or no virgin so far she's good and done with her past...if she happens to be a virgin very great if not very great also

talk for urself abeg!

CAPSLOCKED:
THEY CAN ALL CRAWL FROM EUROPE TO SOUTH AMERICA AND BACK. RACISM WON'T GO AWAY AS LONG AS BLACKS CONTINUE TO DISREGARD AND SUBJUGATE EACH OTHER.

you said it all....racist is even better than the way we treat ourselves!

Elslim:
Best player

in penalties!

Nigeria leader thief or thieves in aso rock....God go punish all of them!

Elgorny:
Save for the future. Family issue is bigger than 50k. Seat back and think well. The bag of rice is more than 20k currently. Do you think naira has value? 50k is just $120-130 if am correct. Don't let love decieve u at all

and if he buy bag of rice for 20k,he finish it in one month!