jawalis:
I’ll say Yes. Fvck the b!tch after a while and dispose her. Mission accomplished

Real nigga!

Does this mean some guys,(I can't even call them men sef) don't study the ladies they're interested in before asking her out
This question wouldn't be a generalization thing if you actually did.
O ga

plessis:
Depends on the qualities of the woman.
If she's got every virtue, characteristics my ideal woman should possess, I'll double-take care of her.

But if na one materialistic, entitled woman wey use weavon cover her empty head, I go ask am if her father wey suppose take care of am, don die.

whether she is the best woman in the world or not, its irrelevant... the minute she asks that question then she becomes a useless woman IMHO.
i believe that NO MAN should take care of a woman, let alone one he is dating... because even if that woman doesnt care about you, she will stay with you for the lazy life you are offering her.

24SEVEN:



This your write-up is called Theory. In Life, it is not practical


Practical African culture places the man as the provider for the woman. So men grow up knowing that responsibility is theirs. infact it is almost in the subconscious. There is nothing wrong in accepting such responsibility. There is no selfishness to it anyday, a woman should be certain that her needs are secure.

and for guyman like and my kind, who lust after very beautifully crafted masterpieces of women, her need is our very command.

U aren't worth a reply!

illicit:


It's a waste of valuable time.

Just let her go
Nothing special in her pussy

is not a lie..pussy no special!

Women are naturally programmed to receive from the opposite sex.A woman can voluntarily assist a man and not a compulsion.Everything about a woman is "receiving" you deposit inside them to form a baby,you pay her bride price and many more.The man is her helper.A man that expect to receive from a woman is a giggolo.women are meant to be taken care of.A man that his girlfriend or wife pays the bills is a lazy pip.

if naso the thing dey work in real world as you dey talk am here.it woulda been OK
buh all na wash.
looka ya father

Questions you get from lazy women

DaddyRochie1642:
I Hate Selfish Self Centered Women With Passion.

Really. That's nice coming from a lady

Personally I see nothing to get worked up about,I will definitely tell her yes which won’t take a dime out of my pocket anyway and then ask her the same question,her reaction and reply would give me idea of the context of her question.

Ok

MrBrownJay1:


bro may i ask what is the honest answer you gave her?

Sure. I told her I am not rich nor is my dad a rich man but I will share whatever I have or get with her.

Seem like d question that if care is not taking it might d Facebook relationship I have been tried hard to maintain for a year plus now...

The question is vr irritative to me n she keep asking such more often.. She always goes like "Can you take care of me and my unborn babies"
when I told her I am tired of her repeating d same question, she said she don't want to made d mistake of her elder sisters.
A vr awkward n bad negative thought of mind, this is a lady I have been vr supportive to while in school, though I did unconditionally to her. Same person that over d past 2yrs her daddy never for once send a Kobo to as she was in school before Coro..

As of now, I am just minding my ways.

Please what is white knight ?

blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

oga, there are respectful ways to put all that. Asking s0me0ne who u want to get into a relati0nship with is like saying, "i d0ubt u are my mate". As in, u guys are just abt getting to kn0w each other, dude, it's when u are into courting that she can really ask that questi0n. Read what the OP typed, he is talking abt the 1st date. Asking a questi0n like, 'can u take care of me' sounds very rude. U guys aren't c0nfirmed to be a thing yet.

LordReed:
Sure. I told her I am not rich nor is my dad a rich man but I will share whatever I have or get with her.

did you expect her to also share whatever she had with you, or was that just a one sided issue in your opinion?!

ORLAHOLUWA:
I must mark my own register

mark my words

baby will you take care of me?



Me: Yes my love over take care. fúck 2,000 times then release to the next user



such lady are always vulnerable to emotional exploration, na man they will end up with I pity because na devalued pussy him go meet

blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

STORY!!!

You dey talk like say you no dey live for 9ja

Big boys are never bothered about the money they spend on their women.How much can a woman spend sef?

Babes/women hustle ohhh so that broke boys wont use you to crate threads. It is actually easier to make your own money as a woman than to depend on any man.

EdiskyHarry:
Jesus will take care of you, I'm a mere human being Just like you.

I hope you go for women with muscles like you

Lovelyn451:
Frequently asked questions by runs babes, or better still, can u afford my cream and soap...but that's the kinda girls u efulefus like na, bad girls, adventurous ladies, slay queens...op u Neva see anything, you'll keep getting that kinda question until u have sense in dis life...rubbish
When they meet a homely well trained lady they'll tag her boring or good girl, take advantage of her and run...efulefus

Laughed really hard. Who formed the word "efulefu"? What does it even mean?

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

Thank God you said its your opinion. To each man his own

I have realized girls that have big yansh and big breast are fond of asking that question.

MrBrownJay1:


whether she is the best woman in the world or not, its irrelevant... the minute she asks that question then she becomes a useless woman IMHO.
i believe that NO MAN should take care of a woman, let alone one he is dating... because even if that woman doesnt care about you, she will stay with you for the lazy life you are offering her.

Taking care might mean anything. As a purist, I'd like to think of taking care of a woman as an act of love. If you meet a strong, ambitious, hardworking woman who makes her own money, Her talkiglng about care might mean emotional security.


If you claim to love a woman, you should have no problem with taking care of her because love is an act of selflessness.

SweetCunt97:
You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.

Says a b!tch who depends on boyfriend for 500 data subscription. It’s obvious generation of independent and virtuous women has gone either decades ago

It is even very stupid for a lady to even ask such a question? Is she a nuclear reactor

But what's wrong with the question na
Why are so many guys wailing like this

DaddRochie.Are you one of us or one of them?

DaddyRochie1642:
I Hate Selfish Self Centered Women With Passion.

SweetCunt97:
You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.

true talk Bae but lot of these young bbnaija generation (no class nor home training) babes be in that fast money materialistic, olosho mindset.

dem wanna get paid fast then leave to go visit the next simp/sucker.

THEN LEAVE (Official Video) - Beatking feat. Queendome Come (Directed by og_visions)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qqlw8iQeTHs

Lucrativress:

This isn't a matter of respect na kinide
Kilagbe kileju
This is a simple situation of being overly blunt
With tactical reasoning,he can answer it wisely
Instead of interpreting all sort of mannerisms to it,let him first think before he answers or ask the same question na.
Ewo tu ni respect nibe nsi?

first, n0t every0ne understands an0ther's native language aside the lingua franca. Sec0nd, why ask that when even a weakling would answer Yes? H0nestly, m0st times, ladies are the reas0n for abuse in a relati0nship/ marriage. A 1st date is just a fun time. Having small gists to see if both have chemistry. It's the chemistry that'll sustain the relati0nship. Unless the gal isn't interestd in a relati0nship but a parasitic adventure or a one sided affair. You guys aren't yet a thing, and bringing up em0ti0nal baggage on that day is a big no. It's like submitting your cv and inside, u ask the employer, "can you afford me?". As in, if u d0n't think highly of that pers0n, why go on a date with him? Am n0t saying the questi0n is wr0ng, but it's wr0ng to ask that on a 1st date. To be h0nest, if u ask me that on a 1st date, i'd turn the questi0n on the gal and have her spill things abt herself she might n0t be ready to tell me in that m0ment.

jawalis:
I’ll say Yes. Fvck the b!tch after a while and dispose her. Mission accomplished

and then after fucking her and her spirit traps your future destiny you will be here on nairaland disturbing us by shouting GOD PICK MY CALL upanda in every post