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Xavier0978:
Hey guys,

Please, I need your opinion on this issue. So I’ve known my girlfriend since NYSC 2019, and ever since then, we’ve been best of friends. I travelled out in 2022, but we still kept in touch and from there we started dating. I’m 29 and she’s also 29. Honestly, I have plans to settle down and marry her when things are right.

A quick note: she’s been trying to come over to meet me as a student ever since I got here, but for one reason or the other it hasn’t worked out (Canada visa rejections and all). Now, she’s talking about how she plans to settle down before her next birthday and even suggested that I marry her while she waits in Nigeria for a maximum of two years before joining me. She really just wants to get married.

To be honest, I currently work and I’m also doing another master’s program in a very reputable institution here in Canada, and I will be done this year. The stress of working and schooling is a lot, and my current workplace pays the barest minimum. I literally have nothing left after sorting out all my bills and expenses. I’m not financially ready to settle down right now, and I even gave her a timeline of two years. Worst case, no matter what, we’ll settle down in two years max. Let me try and fix things for myself here. I can’t marry and bring someone’s daughter here to come and suffer.

I’m a worried person. My dreams are really big and God knows I’m working tirelessly to achieve them. She also knows because I discuss everything with her. Honestly, I understand her point of view, but I’m the kind of person that gets really anxious easily. It would kill me to get married, have kids, and not be able to cater for them.

I know you can’t have everything financially before settling down, but I want at least a moderately stable job. One that allows me to take care of her confidently even if she comes over and doesn’t work immediately. To be honest, my job pay is very low, like unimaginably low, and I’m just barely surviving. I’ve pictured every possible scenario, thinking and planning ahead, but everything is pointing to one answer — I’m not ready.

Considering her age and the kind of person she is, I strongly believe that after marriage she will want kids and to start building a family. That’s not a bad thing, but I, as a man, don’t want to get stuck in that life yet because I know the kind of future I envision. I’ve always promised myself that I won’t raise a family on “manage-manage.” I feel like if I get married now and start raising a family, my focus will shift entirely to making sure they live well, which could make me lose track of my personal goals.

I swear, I know my girlfriend loves me. That’s not in doubt. But I’ve been pleading with her to give me at least two more years. If after that things are still not great, then we’ll settle down and manage until something better comes.

Right now, to be honest, I don’t even have anything financially to plan a small wedding, and I definitely won’t borrow or ask anyone for financial support to do a wedding.

Please, I want your honest opinion. The two options here are: either get married before this time next year or end the relationship now, as there are other people already asking for her hand in marriage.

adeniranfam:
I am having same issue here

Mtschewwww:
Or should I do a court affidavit for age declaration abd attach it to my WAEC which I should submit to the school abroad. The age declaration must be the same with my international passport. I just don't know.

wittywriter:
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webincomeplus:
With 450 to 600 daily page views coming from tier-1 countries, you should be doing at least $120 monthly. That's even a conservative figure.

There's most likely an issue with the placement of your ads. If you don't mind, I can help you give it a look. Send me an email (basicfreelance@gmail.com)

PawsitiveBro:
Hmmm! With my current EPMV on Ezoic $10.44), this your daily page views can fetch me between $4-$8 a day

webincomeplus:
UPDATE: MAY 2023 EARNINGS AND TRAFFIC -- UPWARD I GO

At the end of last month (May 2013), the site earned $91.21. Remember, it earned $73 in April. So, that's still an increase. Actually, the site should have crossed the $100 in May, but I did some modifications to the ads while testing out some new ad networks I stumbled upon. This affected the Adsense ads for about 5 days.

As for the traffic, it also went up to 7.3k in May (from 4.9k in April).

So, it's still making sense.

NOTE: For the month of June, the earnings might not be impressive because I'm still experimenting with some other ad networks, so I'll be pulling down the Adsense ads for many days. I'm trying to see if I can earn more from the ads than Adsense is offering.

I'll keep you posted.

webincomeplus:
If your site is slowing down, I doubt if that's due to any issue from Namecheap's end. While Namecheap isn't the best hosting service out there, you shouldn't have issues with them with your present traffic figures or even after it goes up to as high as 50k monthly.

But if you're bent on leaving Namecheap, other reliable, yet affordable hosts you can consider are hawkhost and a2hosting.

webincomeplus:
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- Agriculture
- Small business ideas
- Education
- Technology (devices, reviews, and hacks)
- Making money online (legitimately, of course)
- Entertainment

I'm sure there are more, but that's the few I can come up with as I type right now.

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nurd:
Note: As far as I know, all networks slow down your site, even adsense. So it all depends on how you build your site. I've achieved 90+ page speed score on ezoic and other networks so don't let that limit you.

As for your question, mediavine doesn't need any integration. Only ezoic does that in the industry. They will just insert a code on your site like you do with adsense, install their plugin, and you're good to go.

As a note, also check out monumetric. They have slightly higher RPM than ezoic. The only downside: you pay $99 to start if your traffic is below 80k pageviews a month.

nwachinemelu:
Approximately 10years if I’m not mistakenly. I heard is counter 12hours as 1 day.

Faber:
That's 10yrs and 6 months.

Dude have bribed heavily, he bought his own jail term. Welcome to Nigeria where money answereth all

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Last last......

Justice....
But 21 year is too small

Day and night equal 10 years and six months

Okay...but I have a feeling it is day and night

Minime10:
The judge sef no try at all, wetin be 14years in a case of first degree murder of a young girl of 19.
Night and day is counted as two days in serving jail term.
The murderer will be out just after 7yeaes

Cashio:
Op, please ignore any suggestions about saving to build a house for now. That will tie your money down and you may not complete the building.
Save enough to start up a side business which will act as security even if you lose your job tomorrow. From that business, you can start saving up to buy a piece of land and build as your business progresses.
All in all, I don't think you should still be with your sister after this year. You still need a space of your own, even if it is a self con.

The first priority of any man trying to start life should not be to build his own house, but to have a steady and sure means of income.

fastseo:
Stupid bank. Why not go to another branch or bank.
Don't tell them its Google adsense rather you will be using it to ship items abroad