₦airaland Forum

Finnese001:
That shows you guys don't have a native name like the rest of the regions

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

LukasPodolski:
lmao, Baba face the subject under discussion.
even a machine cannot be 100% efficient.

"I was gonna" indeed.

LukasPodolski:
Firstly, Etinosa1234 , valirex , gregyboy , why is your brother not proud of his Bini heritage? could that be because of what Bini is known for? I mean, Witchcraft, Prostitution (both local and international), ilegal migration? what?

secondly, how many times did Yorubas voted for a northern candidate over a southern candidate? just once, and that's was in 2015.

while the duo of SS and SE voted for a northern candidate over a SW Candidate 3 times.

Twice against Awolowo
once against MKO Abiola.

that's 3 against 1... hahaha

but this degenerate born of a wh*re Bini mother thinks Yorubas who only voted for a northerner against Southerner candidate ONCE, Are more of a slave than them that does the same 3 TIMES.

Interesting.

Logan23:
^^In d post u claimed u are Ikwerre Iwuruoha and now u are asking me to ask Ikwerre people...mad mad identity crisis.....U HAVE ZERO CONNECTION WITH BINI^^


U jumped this sir

Logan23:
Keep quiet sir. Stop implying that bini are so so stupid that they accept any useless person that claims bini.

In d post u claimed u are Ikwerre Iwuruoha and now u are asking me to ask Ikwerre people...mad mad identity crisis.....U HAVE ZERO CONNECTION WITH BINI

Grow up

Logan23:
Are u sure u have sense sir?

Ikwerre is an igbo word.

Iwhuruoha is an igbo word.

All Ikwerre villages bear igbo names.

All Ikwerre people answer names.

All Ikwerre speak igbo.




All Ikwerre have zero connection with bini.

All Ikwerre dont speak any form of bini language.

All Ikwerre did not bear any single bini name.

Ikwerre is not a bini word.

Iwhuruoha is not a bini word.

Zero Ikwerre Iwuruoha village bears a bini name.



THERE IS ZERO CULTURAL OR TRADITIONAL CONNECTION BETWEEN BENIN AND IKWERRE IWURUOHA





Stop the mental madness and cure urself... ...that is If u are nt another Afonja Tonyebarcanita

Ideadoctor:
will you keep quiet? kwara this kwara that,you no get better talk again

Ideadoctor:
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your colo mental is still intact I presume?

Ideadoctor:
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no better argument again, just boring insult... am fed up

Ideadoctor:
you mean you

Ideadoctor:
you just like to dey run mouth, especially you and gregyboy

Ideadoctor:
* yawns and stretch* wow you children really made my day,if you want more spanking mention me tomorrow, I want to sleep now,princes don't stress themselves.

Cc.
Etinosa 1234
Gregyboy
samuk
valirex

Ideadoctor:
rant on we are still ruling

Etinosa1234:
This one loud

Ideadoctor:
if you can't answer,Yoruba supremacy remains, awa ni baba yin,iwaju bayi leti ma bawa

Ideadoctor:
olodo, one Edo monkey that was privileged to be touched with Yoruba civilization is speaking trash,if you don't have something real to tell,just glue your big lip

Ideadoctor:
Give just 8 reasons why Edo be the boss

Ideadoctor:
rant on while we rule omo ode! you go soon wise

Ideadoctor:
rant on while we rule omo ode! you go soon wise

Ideadoctor:
The current Emir is a Yoruba man,how about that. fools

Ideadoctor:
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you don't get it,kwara is not a particular place, we have Ilorin, omu aran, offa,jebba,kanbi,shao,share,lafiagi,malete et etera Ilorin was The only Fulani ruling dynasty, and the Fulani of Ilorin are more Yoruba than Fulani, they can't speak fulfube and not the whole of Ilorin is under the Fulani, just some fragments like gambari and geri alimi

Ideadoctor:
rant on,while we rule on, Yoruba no be your mate

Ideadoctor:
don't tell me you don't know you are slaves? we yorubas has made slave of you even till these era,remember how awolowo uses your resources to build our region, while your region was underdeveloped, it is only s slave that experience that

Ideadoctor:
Yorubas are lord of themselves, unlike Edo slaves

Ideadoctor:
thank you for attacking my stupidities, soon I will be left with no stupidity, but you stupidities are invincible and immortal am not sure if I can attack them

Ideadoctor:
defending my Ooni is my duty as s descendants of oduduwa, and I will so again and again, until you slaves accept his Lordship

Ideadoctor:
in what are they my lord,you slave son of slave?

Ideadoctor:
your insult is actually useless, cause Ooni is somewhere enjoying his life getting admiration from all over the world, but you are here,joblessly throwing intangible insult to someone who does not even know you exist

Ideadoctor:
the abokis whom you detest are always ahead of you, ode! you don't know that having hatred for people who are above you is the beginning of stupidity,I rather trust a honest aboki than a fucking Benin criminal, you get mouth to insult abokis, chai, I wish abokis too can get online like these and tell you how dirty and professional Edo slut can be,eranko! if you ever mention me again, Ogun kill you