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CelebritiesRe: Ronke Oshodi Weeps For Lateef Titilop Itakure At His Burial by vanhayor(m): 8:57am On Jun 20, 2016
EVILFOREST:
Please correct ur grammar.. .
Does that sentence really make sense to u..?

Such grammar kills more Nigerians more than Road Traffic Accidents...
grin grin
Not LOOSE but lose
Itk...
We knw pple like u....
If u re a jambite u can't score 50 in ur english language nd if u re an undergraduate or a graduate, am very sure ur GNS was done for 2 years nd above
FamilyRe: What Can You Do When You Notice Your Wife Is Cheating? by vanhayor(m): 11:43pm On Jun 19, 2016
loveisblind:
Greetings to all NLs.....i think solution to my problem will come from good people of this forum and such will safe me from doing the wrong thing.

It all started wen i was dating my wife of which my fam did not want her as they want me to marry someone else, though they could not tell me to my face why.....Also my wife families did not want her to marry me base on xtian vs Muslim stuff, but we both insisted....after some years we have kids and later we did our wedding witot any assistance from both families i.e. we shoulder it alone......recently, in the night, while she was in her room, PHCN brought light and i was helping her to charge her fon and i saw a guy's number whom they ve been calling each other almost on daily basis, on a normal ground i dont check her fon and she doesnt check mine....but wen i noticed this number, i went straight to chat with d guy, only for the guy to be responding romantically, i pretended as if its my wife behold....d guy was saying ........If i handle you again......I cant belief myself reading such, i quietly dropped the fon, and went to bed, the next morning I confronted her and she said the guy is her friend that nothing attached.....I did not want to escalate the matter for children's record, i went to work, wen i came back i asked her younger one staying with us if she is aware of the guy, she said yes is just a friend to her elder sister......I called my wife again and she was so bold and bragging that whats the big deal in having male friend.........

I noticed he had called the guy wen i was away to work, i dont know what they discussed anyway. I told her not to cook for me anymore and nothing like sex in between us....for some weeks now it has been like this......Now my pains are these:-

I cant report to my family
I cant report to her family too cos the father never attended our wedding he only sent delegates
I dont want to take laws into my own hand cos i feel like pulling down mountain
We married legally and I feel like filing for divorce cos have told her in the beginning that such act is what i cannot forgive in my life
If i divorce, what about my little kids, who will take kia of them cos I know she doesnt have what it take to ?
before i discovered this she told me if she does such i can never find out and i told her if she try it i will surely know

Am totally fed up with the marriage cos there are lots have been enduring, believing its subject to change but for the past 10years no changes.

Please what do you think?
Dats d problem....u think childhood was jst funhuh...it has some lessons, op do u remember dis song??
Children listen to ur parents
FamilyRe: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by vanhayor(m): 11:38pm On Jun 19, 2016
banjolek:
Hello guys,

I need your honest opinion on this, how much is really ideal to give one's wife as monthly pocket money?.

Here's my story, i recently got married and also moved to a new 3 bedroom apartment around gbagada. I earn a pretty decent income while my wife also works in the bank with a salary of like 150k. She saves a half of this salary and uses the remaining for upkeep.

Now the issue is my wife insists that i must give her monthly pocket money and i have proposed 20k, an amount i feel is more than adequate for her if added to about 75k which she already has to herself from her salary. Also note that this 20k does not mean i dont get to buy her random stuff during the month or provide anything she asks for if i feel its a reasonable demand.

A1so bear in mind that i am still 100% responsible for providing food and other bills in the house. In addition we just moved to a new apartment like i mentioned earlier and still in the process of furnishing it so a chunk of my monthly salary goes into furnishing the house.

We also have a plan to set up a business for her, so i'm also currently saving part of my salary to fulfill that dream.

Now my wife has rejected the proposed amount of 20k saying its too small.

I need your take on this people, considering all i have mentioned above, is 20k really too small to be giving her monthly?

i wrote this in a hurry, please bear with any typo observed.
If u weren't matured enough for marriage, y did u go into it....
Hate d idea of bring ur personal matters here on..
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by vanhayor(m): 11:34pm On Jun 19, 2016
Hiv nd aids has cure already
Its called viracomb....take 750mg for hiv nd 1500mg cures aids....am nt telling u to marry her oooo
D choice is urs
Car TalkRe: Naija Kazeems Wahala by vanhayor(m): 8:34am On Jun 18, 2016
kingreign:
now, you see ya sef?
Truth is, Kazeem isnt to share all the blame.
1. Learning auto repairs is an expensive procedure,
2. Buying 21st century auto diagnostics and fixing tools are very expensive. Do you know a diagnosis tool can go as high as 3m?
3. The govt, well meaning nigerians, and private institutions arent ready to set up auto learning centres.
4. Parts sold here are mostly used, substandard parts.
5. Most car owners would rather shy away from genuine OEM parts when available and compare it to their income, price of fake substandard parts, they also try to encourage the technician to cut corners in fixing a problem such as removal of thermostat, connection of fan directly, adjust throttle pedal and idle speed valve to compensate for rough idle or even dead maf.
6. Most cars entering the country and being driven in the roads are salvaged, and you know what it means buying running and fixing a salvaged vehicle (especially accident, flood or fire salvaged)
7. When a technician does a great job the right way, most customers dont encourage them by paying well.
8. Some mechanics dont wish to learn new things.
Seems du re kazeem ooooooo
U*
Car TalkRe: Naija Kazeems Wahala by vanhayor(m): 8:32am On Jun 18, 2016
kingreign:
now, you see ya sef?
Truth is, Kazeem isnt to share all the blame.
1. Learning auto repairs is an expensive procedure,
2. Buying 21st century auto diagnostics and fixing tools are very expensive. Do you know a diagnosis tool can go as high as 3m?
3. The govt, well meaning nigerians, and private institutions arent ready to set up auto learning centres.
4. Parts sold here are mostly used, substandard parts.
5. Most car owners would rather shy away from genuine OEM parts when available and compare it to their income, price of fake substandard parts, they also try to encourage the technician to cut corners in fixing a problem such as removal of thermostat, connection of fan directly, adjust throttle pedal and idle speed valve to compensate for rough idle or even dead maf.
6. Most cars entering the country and being driven in the roads are salvaged, and you know what it means buying running and fixing a salvaged vehicle (especially accident, flood or fire salvaged)
7. When a technician does a great job the right way, most customers dont encourage them by paying well.
8. Some mechanics dont wish to learn new things.
Seems du re kazeem ooooooo
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Aigbe In Lovely Deep-blue Jumpsuit by vanhayor(m): 4:10pm On Jun 16, 2016
pyyxxaro:
WEAR ALL THE CLOTHES NOW O

COS WHEN U DON REACH HEAVEN OR HELL FIRE,NA NAKED U GO NAKED DE WAKA UP AND DOWN FOR THERE

BY THEN ALL THE EZYEMA FOR UR BODY WE GO SEE AM embarassed undecided
Must u be an hater??
CelebritiesRe: Korede Bello's Girlfriend, Azaria, Has A Daughter, Loves Nigeria And Ghana by vanhayor(m): 10:15am On Jun 16, 2016
Hmmm.... NL is now producing d most jobless pple... Cos someone showed us his gf u went to make research..... Dis is why our country is nt developing....u gat d talent Y nt join d SSS rather dan facing other pple's life
CelebritiesRe: Korede Bello's Girlfriend, Azaria, Has A Daughter, Loves Nigeria And Ghana by vanhayor(m): 10:14am On Jun 16, 2016
Hmmm.... NL is now producing d most jobless pple... Cos someone showed us his gf u went to make research..... Dis is why our country is nt developing....u gat d talent Y nt join d SSS
FamilyRe: Annoying Attitudes Some Men Display by vanhayor(m): 10:33pm On Jun 15, 2016
Op.... Dis is d silliest thing I've eva read


Lala..._ fall ma hand oooo....hw dis thrash go make fp
CelebritiesRe: Fathia Balogun Rocking Her Bald Hair by vanhayor(m): 11:31am On Jun 15, 2016
passionate88:
Most Nigerian girls ugly die.
If ur sis or gf skin her head like dis dem go fine? Talking bullshit...
CelebritiesRe: Chika Ike Shows Off Her Hair Without Extensions by vanhayor(m): 11:27am On Jun 15, 2016
Majority would say she looks pretty dis way bt let's all be sincere.... She would be 10 times prettier if she's on extentions
CrimeRe: He Wasn't Stabbed Because He Wasn't Fasting... by vanhayor(m): 11:24am On Jun 15, 2016
Ftc.... Drop one like before u leave pls... Ramadan kareem
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Aimakhu Steps Out Looking Demure In An African Print Dress (photos) by vanhayor(m): 12:28pm On Jun 14, 2016
IamMissMarvel:
Ankara is African print, this isn't.
Dats how pple fail...
Who told u ankara is an african cloth
CelebritiesRe: 2face And Annie Idibia At Kenya's Giraffe Centre, Nairobi This Morning by vanhayor(m): 6:51pm On Jun 13, 2016
vizkiz:
The expression on Annie's face though grin
Nt funny at all
PoliticsRe: Fashola Launches Kano Mass Meter Deployment by vanhayor(m): 6:08pm On Jun 13, 2016
Love Machine:
Is it just kanõ alone?What a SAN.
U re dull! Won't u start frm somewhere.... So u expect him to be in all d 36 states 2day... Tch!
Foreign AffairsRe: Richard Branson Catches Worker Sleeping On The Job - See What He Did by vanhayor(m): 9:02am On Jun 12, 2016
WAECFlyer1:
SEE WHAT THE EMPLOYEE DID AFTER WAKING UP FROM SLEEP (LMAO)---> http://timenaija.com/billionaire-richard-branson-drops-in-on-virgin-staff-finds-employee-asleep-photos/









Such a nice and playful billionaire
Hard to come by
Which one have u ever came byhuh....lol
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage To Feature On E! Documentary by vanhayor(m): 11:04am On Jun 09, 2016
ireneony:
so true. It was as if she won a lottery
As if she won a lottery??....hmmm...bad belle If u were to be d one, am sure ur extended family would dier problems to u
SportsRe: 5 Things About Muhammad Ali You Probably Never Knew by vanhayor(m): 6:47pm On Jun 04, 2016
DeltaOil:
Muhammed Ali was really a spotting icon, and fought for black people!

It's a pity he died as a moslem.
As we all know that Mohammed himself said he does not know what will happen to
both he himself "mohammed" & his followers, hence they won't make heaven.

Sura 46:9
"I am not something original among the messengers, NOR DO I KNOW WHAT WILL BE DONE WITH ME OR WITH YOU(MUSLIMS)."

If he had died as a Christian he would have the promise of salvation that moahmmed did not have nor his following muslims


Mark 16:16 (KJV)
He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.


Jesus went to heaven in the view of people, unlike mohammed that is dead and buried

Act 1
9 And when he had spoken these things, while they beheld, he was taken up; and a cloud received him out of their sight.

10 And while they looked stedfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel;

11 Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven
Y did u say muslims won't make heaven??
Dats to show how immature u re...
U being a christian doesn't mean u'll make heaven....so stop postin stuffs u ren't sure of
Bloody fanatic
CelebritiesRe: Pantless Photos Of Actress Ella Mensah by vanhayor(m): 4:04am On Jun 01, 2016
philanthropist1:
Marine spirit in physical appearance.









anyways is she sexyhuh??
U too like marine girls
CelebritiesRe: Davido's Sagging Picture On Instagram Got Everybody Talking by vanhayor(m): 9:11pm On May 27, 2016
If u re still sagging ur trousers.... Happy childrens day
SportsRe: Onazi Ogenyi Pounding Yam For His Mother (photos) by vanhayor(m): 8:13pm On May 23, 2016
ever811:
pls op don't forget to post when Lionel mercy pound akpu for him mama..as everything don become news for Una..
Messi nt mercy....
Always trynna look at d correct spelling on jerseys
SportsRe: Onazi Ogenyi Pounding Yam For His Mother (photos) by vanhayor(m): 8:11pm On May 23, 2016
ever811:
pls op don't forget to post when Lionel mercy pound akpu for him mama..as everything don become news for Una..
Messi nt mercy
PhonesRe: Upload Your Home Screen Lets See Who Got Nice Customization by vanhayor(m): 10:02am On May 23, 2016
Beat dat

CrimeRe: Female Trader Died Instantly While Selling In The Market(Very Graphic video) by vanhayor(m): 4:05am On May 18, 2016
Omg.... RIP
PoliticsRe: NLC Decides To Go On It The Strike Despite The Court Injuction-bbc by vanhayor(m): 4:02am On May 18, 2016
FTC.....
I'm dedicating it to NLC
Like u re happy with d strike...
Share if u dnt
PoliticsRe: After Watching Buhari On CNN, I Can't Stop Laughing by vanhayor(m): 1:53am On May 18, 2016
omenka:
grincheesy
Dats a lie..... Why do u guys post false stories...
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Female Celebrities With And Without Makeup (pictures) by vanhayor(m): 6:28pm On May 14, 2016
faith551:
Angela Okorie beats them all without make-up's, she has such kissable lips tongue
let me come and go and post my own make-up free picture
Checkout toke makinwa very well
PoliticsRe: Buhari Meets With Justin Welby, The Archbishop Of England (Photos) by vanhayor(m): 11:46pm On May 13, 2016
crazysaint:
please what will the dullard say? undecided this man is a big messup to nigeria, and a disgrace to black nation.
Hmmmm...
Ur monika has told us abt u
PoliticsRe: Buhari Meets With Justin Welby, The Archbishop Of England (Photos) by vanhayor(m): 11:45pm On May 13, 2016
LoveMachine:
Look at him islamizing the Archbishop of England. I'm on to you Buhari...I'm. on. to. you. huh









*end sarcasm*
U re really daft

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