I had always been the good girl, with good grades and hopes of ending up in the media organization of my dreams. I was the sort of girl everyone knew or thought would turn out successful. That was true to some extent till that moment I had a D in my exam. Everyone would have suggested that I tried harder the next semester but then it dawned on me that maybe after all my efforts academically, I may not end up where I wanted.

Then I agreed to go to the club with Sasha and Wendy. They were really excited because it was something they had always wanted to do with me.

I felt awkward stepping into the club, with bodies touching bodies, the sweat and noise. Following my friends, we found a spot and Sasha got us drinks. I avoided drinking because I am really lighthearted but that very night, I didn't really care as I downed the bottle into my system. I felt the effect almost immediately. It was nice. I felt free, as though I could do anything. Then I went into the dancehall, wiggling my butt to the rhythm of the music.

It wasn't long before I felt a presence behind me. I turned and he gave me a sly smile. He was attractive with white teeth that shone in the dark room. I smiled too and continued dancing with him. I never knew I had it in me but it all came naturally. Soon, I could feel his throbbing dick against my butt. I liked the way it felt, so I continued, feeling it get bigger and bigger. The more I felt it, the more my body tingled. It felt wrong because I was against one night stands. I felt commitment should go hand in glove with sex. But at that moment, I didn't care. I was needy and here was a willing dick. I can't say if it was all me or just the alcohol. But all I knew was I took his hand and we walked outside to where there was less noise. I asked him if he had a car. He nodded in the affirmative and took me to the car. It was pretty too dark to see and I was wasted. Resting against the car, I let my lips meet his. Without the slightest resistance, he opened up to me. He tasted like coffee and I wondered when he had that. But it was nice. Sweet and savoury. And the deeper and more intense the kiss grew, the more my body tingled. I could feel myself already wet in my pants and as he slid his hand down there, I felt I was going to melt. I threw my head back and enjoyed as he played with my clitoris. It was even more intense when he put those same hands into his mouth, making eye contact.
I was more than grateful when he opened his car. Shamelessly, I got in there, raising my gown up, taking my pants off. He smiled and stared at me, as if taking in the whole sight. Then he got on top of me, rubbing his cock all over my pussy and it sent waves all over my body. And in that instant, I begged him to actually have sex with me. Like a victorious soldier, he slowly slid his dick into my over ready pussy. He was big. I felt little pain, but it was pleasurable. He began with lazy strokes and slowly increased the pace till he found a rhythm. He went faster and deeper and I felt him in my womb. My climax started building and with every thrust, I felt like screaming out my lungs. We kept going at it till my legs hurt and then, shaking and screaming, I came. That must had triggered him to come as he immediately pulled out, splashing on the floor.
My Head felt better, seeing what had just happened, I quickly ran out of the car, to find my way home.

Days later, my mother asked me to come home for a crusade that was being held. Reluctantly I went home, thinking I would actually feel less guilt and condemnation.
On getting to the church with my mother, I sat down waiting for it to be over with.

Then the pastor climbed on the altar and it turned out to be the guy I had sex with in the club.

WORDWORLD:
greiboy can you see the double standard playing on this thread. I dont know why it hurts so bad when the TRUTH points to the female folks and the come all out running their mouths like machine guns.
Ubunja is on point! PERIOD!!!

spoken like a typical African man. Mtchwwweewww

habsydiamond:
U try op.... The major reason why they cheat is because Na chicken brain dey their heads....and Na their leg the brains even dey sef...what do u expect from someone who is walking with her brain...nothing good of course

I don't get your point, walai

boliswitpassprik:



your mother is a witch!

in the context which I write, yeah And even Your Own mother

ubunja:

men are born to cheat.
thats why we have millions of sperms and you only release one egg a month.
why do you think its possible for a man to impregnant all the women in the world but a woman cant give every man in the world a child.??











































i can twist anything to whatever i want.

lol be forming badass

ubunja:

and thats the beauty of it all my lovely arch-nemesis! you are CORRECT. nowhere in my first epistle did i say cheating is bad when done by women but good when done by men. nowhere. thats why i said the man will bang for beauty and blame the beauty yet refuse to marry the beautiful girl she cheated with.
it will shock u. BUT I AGREE 100% WITH YOU. men do sh!tty stuff then blame women.you make the mistake of thinking i tolerate cheating when its done by men. i dont. and you are correct in what you said.the only thing i hate is the False Excuses. thats why i said i dont care if women cheat.but be honest to yourself with it.
you think you know me. but you dont. i dont hate women.and i dont want to see women cheated on.im all for taking off masks from both sides.moreover im for male upliftment.coz when men are uplifted women also gain.
still i will give men tips on slaying pvssy and outsmarting women.

Hmmm

LadyMarionette:



Wow! This is such quintessential hypocrisy, it's actually beautiful for effortlessly achieving its ambitions. Be real and stop deceiving yourselves. I wonder how you can walk into something like this without forethought, and weighing both sides of the argument. Have you not heard:
1. A man bangs the maid, he blames his wife for hiring a "bangable" maid.
2. A man bangs his colleague at work, he blames it on his wife. She's now a house wife and not sophisticated enough to get his dick hard.
3. A man bangs his secretary, he blames it on his wife. She nags too much so he'd rather stay late at the office.
4. A man bangs an old flame, he blames his wife. She's pregnant. Again .
5. A man bangs a dog, he blames it on his wife. She likes money too much so he must do money juju.
6. A man bangs some random stranger, he blames his wife. She's not prayerful enough, otherwise God would have made him a better person.
The reasons are endless: she has let herself go, she works too much, she knows only one style, yadayadayada......men have not been able to take responsibility for their actions since Adam ate the fruit in Eden. And when God asked about it........the man said, the woman who thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the three, and I did eat. presenting him self as the victim of God's (poor?)judgement in putting Eve in the garden with him, and Eve's motives. And God only asked: have you eaten of the forbidden fruit? It was a "yes" or "no" question. But men are always looking for someone to blame. Why did YOU eat the fruit? I was deceived. It was the woman. It was the devil. That's all BS. You're evading the real issues which you actually have control over: I was weak. I was hungry. I wanted to please the woman. And now you're on about women not taking responsibility for anything they do? Please!

now that's sense

ubunja:

then let it go.no harm done.
how is boxing day?

when I understand what Boxing Day is about, then I'd start celebrating it

Purebeerry:
See person boyfriend

Edakun, easy with the lie, y'all be claiming single, who are the ladies dating.

LMAO.

ubunja:

ok.nice response.but look at it this way:
it doesnt make sense to marrry a man you know is poor then use his poverty as an excuse to cheat. why not marry someone who already can give you the lifestyle you want so you wont have to cheat?? but women still marry a rich man and cheat on that man with a more richer man. its never enough with women. coz its never about the materials. its about the d!ck. women love d!ck and the only way her pvssy can explain the cheating to her mind (so she can sleep at night) is to convience the mind the cheating is for material gain.thats a reason her conscience can accept (just like it made sense even to your own mind. you see-it works! ) .
its the same like when a pvssy-loving man excuses his cheating coz the other women are " more beautiful than my wife" or "i couldnt resist, she was hot !". its all an excuse. if u want her then marry her.but he wont.he will tell u he loves his wife. so its not about beauty.its about the pvssy. same mentality.
if it was for material gains the woman would have married a rich man to begin with.
and stop putting so much value on these surveys. they are done by people who dont want to piss women off and published in media that doesnt want to piss women off.remember these are the same surveys telling us WOMEN LOVE GOOD MEN. but good men are dying single amd lonely while badboys enjoy all the sex
are u getting the picture?

took my time reading all that, word by word and I still don't get your point

coolestofall:

Thnx, but sorry 2 disappoint, I'm currently single. So there's a gap in my heart 2 b filled, if u catch my drift.

lol. Is this one now advertisement?? �

ubunja:

it doesnt restricts freewill but OPPORTUNITY.
most women dont cheat only coz an opportunity hasnt presented itself. if it does they will take it.
just like some people dont steal only coz an opportunity hasnt presented itself.there is a proverb: "Give a man a million dollars and you will see his true character. "
give a woman a million dicks and you will see her character.

I still strongly disagree. It's not about dickery or fuckery. Take a survey. Reason why most women cheat is material gain. They don't even care about the dick they be riding. You know prostitutes Abi?

coolestofall:
They cheat simple because every opening has 2 b fiĺled. If u fill in d gap as much as possible, there wld b no need 4 outsourcing. Works 4 me like magic.

your woman is lucky to have you. You get sense.

ubunja:

stop casting men as the Villains of the World.women are independent creatures with moral agency who can decide whats good or bad for them based on their freewill.
to judge their actions by how men treat them is to reduce them to lower beings who are only capable of being reactive NEVER proactive.
thats the perception Feminism set out to put down: women can think for themselves.and decide. accept that without trying to define their actions and thoughts as things resulting from male actions.women are Big Girls. trust them.

am taking about women in a relationship. Being in a relationship somehow restricts some of that freewill. Don't you think?

delishpot:


Its natural for both. People say one can't cheat nature male and female makes no difference. It is natural.

it's even the in-thing now. Open relationships and all

delishpot:


Its natural for both. People say one can't cheat nature male and female makes no difference. It is natural.

now you come

delishpot:


But na natural thing na! Why refer to them as such na? Can one cheat nature?

oh for women to cheat is a shameful thing but men, it is natural. Mtchwww. I tire

ubunja:
women cheat for one reason: THEY LOVE D!CK.
coz women never take responsibility for anything they do in life; they will give u these reasons. do u know why all these reasons except Number 7 are not valid? COZ THEY PUT THE BLAME ON THE MAN.only Number 7 puts the blame on the woman squarely.and THAT is the only reason thats valid.
-material gain-MY MAN CANT PROVIDE. so im cheating. :blame the man.but he still has the same zero cents he had when you accepted his proposal.but its a problem NOW?
-boredom-MY MAN IS NOW BORING ME.like the man signed up to be a toy to keep u entertained and excited.
-wack sex-MY MAN CANT FVCK. and its his fault? how can he fvck u the way you want when you have fvcked 100 men before him?can he even begin to top that list?
distance-MY MAN IS FAR-but nothing is stopping you from going nearer to him.why did u accept his proposal when u knew he stayed/worked far and it was going to be a problem?why dont you break it off with him instead of cheating?
-to secure their heart-MY MAN WILL LEAVE ME ANY MOMENT BUT I WANA PROTECT MYSELF EMOTIONALLY TO BE READY WHEN HE DOES.what kind of bullsh!t mentality is that to entertain.the man is blamed for actions he hasnt even taken yet and punished for them.punished for a future crime he hasnt even committed.
-attention-MY MAN ACTS LIKE I NO LONGER EXIST.SO I CHEAT.how about you show him you still exist?how about you act your part as one part of a couple? love is not a river flowing one way.its a two way street.play your part too.be his GF.not his God.dont wait for worship while offering none to him.its love not religion .
number 7 is the only reason why women cheat. and number 1 to 6 are the cover women use not to reveal Number 7.

i dont care if women cheat. but atleast dont lie about your motivations. d!ck is irresistable we know. be real women and stop decieving yourselves.

Oga calm down

delishpot:
OP, Would you call men configured to have plenty women in their life promiscuous?

yes Nah.

Cheating is almost seeming a natural phenomenon. If truth be told, we all have cheated in our relationships at one point. Reasons why most women cheat

1. Material gain: The topper of the list. In this era of instagram and snapchat, they would readily cheat on you with a guy that takes her to nice places with nice backgrounds for instagram photos. Or someone that pops in money into her account like its nothing

2. Boredom: sometimes,a relationship gets boring. Same pattern, same routine. She may still love you oh but she just needs to get that excitement outside. You'd be lucky if she comes back to you

3. Wack sex: if the both of you are sexually active, it wouldn't be a bad idea for you to up your game. No matter how much she loves you, give her wack sex, and she is already looking outside.

4. Distance: some ladies can't cope with distance. They just need that sugar so they have this certain friend with benefits to give it to them till you get back.

5. To secure their heart: this may actually sound stupid but some ladies cheat so as not to get fully committed to them, so that if peradventure you leave them, it won't really hurt that much .

6. Attention : all ladies love attention. If you don't reply her texts on time, you don't show her off, you don't do those little things that matter, she'd look outside

7. Promiscuous nature: finally, some ladies are just configured to have plenty men in their lives.

What do you think?

geolabious:
including your mother

Oga read the context well before showing off your illiteracy. Thanks

Oxster:


Find me one dude,I guess your family geh good and lot of them,ur 6ta can serve as well

you are very stupid

Just today, Christmas day. I was at home, when my neighbors started fighting. My amebo nature carried me to where I'd hear enough details.
They were fighting because the man did not make enough money this year to flex as he used to when he was still a bachelor and he called his wife a witch. That since he married her, money has stopped coming in

That got me thinking. In Nigerian home, if anything goes wrong, the woman is called a witch

If she doesn't give birth, if she has only girls, if her husband falls sick, if he loses his job, if her in-law dies

If that be the case, then every Nigerian lady is a witch.

Lol

Purebeerry:
Go on, I dey like this kind gist .

Go to 9th mile and find it oh

ANTONINEUTRON:
yes

Ehyaa. Happy for you

ELdaar55:
VERY CURIOUS ABOUT ANYTHING THAT HAS TO DO WITH VIRGINITY BECAUSE AM STILL ONE...I WONDER HOW MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WOULD FEEL LIKE.

Are you expecting sorry

ANTONINEUTRON:
So i waste my hard earned data open this yeye??

yea!!

Lol. We've made your day nah

sylvez:
Hahahahahah from the first comment down to my own comment won kee me wit lafff :Dfrom the first comment down to my own comment won kee me wit lafff

Oga, since you have nothing better to do than to be chooking eye in another person's business, let me help you and waste your time.

Did you know that there is only one 'e' in the world apple?

Did you know that birds fly?

And dogs bark??

Mtchwww yeye

Go and be celebrating the Christmas and leave me oh

terrezo2002:

I didn't read it cos I knew it would be all about sinful acts.
I am sad you and some other people decided to use this day we are meant to celebrate our salvation to propagate sin

Merry Christmas dear

Oxster:


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