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DrMrsCK:
You see? Mr. Body language...lol

Lol, it took a lot of convincing oh. I talked sha. I just didn’t expect her to buy the idea. When I don talk tire, I just carried her to this thread and left her there. Na she use her hand come find me for parlour. It’s marriage we are talking about. You need to be really really sure to make that move.

Thanks brother

Yemsot:
congrats

Thanks

Distinct777:
Nice! Congrats.

Lol @jungle don mature

Lol because she know say if brother leave this country, she’s on her own. Jungle haff mature finish

Negotiate:
I’m hopeful you’ll get their support. Goodluck.

Thanks. We talked about iT and she accepted. It was easier than I expected. Maybe it’s dawning in her say jungle don mature. So we are going with option A. Thanks a lot

Negotiate:
Do try to get adults involved... they should be pleased that you’re making this much commitment. If e too much, do intro and take pictures which will even strengthen your case.

Yes after discussing with her, I will be meeting her family this Christmas. I plan on telling them my plans too

Hahahahahahahahaha

We will talk

Hephgirl:
When she gets to u... First relieve the Konji so she won't vex and close leg then it will now be 10-0.. And her Konji will even make her vex more sef. Buhahahahhah

On a serious note.
Its pharmacy so it's not as bad as medicine.
Explain to her d way newmum adviced u.

also use this opportunity to read about the process of pharmacist in Canada and educate her.. Itll make her more relaxed.

DrMrsCK:
Lol@body language. Talk to her abeg

I will, but na my woman. I know what to expect. We go de alright las las

DrMrsCK:
Well, you have to keep talking to her till she changes her mind

Yes I will. I wouldn’t blame her though, we had already planned everything for next year and this whole thing is just happening so fast. I really appreciate all the responses here, I am just not into long distance relationship when marriage is involved. Man body no de fire wood.

joo2018:
Emphasizing the bolded. If you for whatever reason marry anytime after AOR, you MUST INFORM IRCC BEFORE YOU LAND!

cc: @venorite

I understand totally sir, thank you

fatiah:
From your previous posts I'm guessing your fiancee is a medical student? Don't worry about her not being so interested now, it's Co she's still in school and doesn't know what's up especially when it comes to being doctor in Nigeria. I'm positive that she will soon come 2 know. Anyway, Newmum0615 has given you the best possible advice in my opinion...all the best to you guys.

She’s doing pharmacy. I haven’t actually discussed with with her, just speaking from her body language. I will talk with her today and see what we can do

Negotiate:
She’s your girl. Both of you should talk. Do a court wedding and keep it between both of you. Add her after PPR or COPR... both of you can land while she leaves after a few days back to Nigeria to finish school.

She is visiting today, I plan on discussing with her, I hope she understands sha. This whole travel thing is all me, she is not so interested
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say4gunit:
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Chief are you sending me the money for the items?

Wow this is so explanatory, by trv, you mean? Lol at the lord will strengthen us to skype properly.

This particular issue has given me sleepless night. So let’s see we get married in a court, have our certificate, all she needs to bring to the table is just IELTS?

Wow, will need to discuss this with her. I hate long distance, especially when married. I have always fought against it, now looks like I will be towing that part. I will bring her to this thread so she can read and decide.

Marriage for women is a big deal, especially when they are very young

Ifeoma77:
Oga you need to spend time reading up.
The way I see it, you have two options;

1. Marry her while you're processing your application. If you do the registry/wedding and then raise CSE to inform IRCC of your marriage, it won't affect your points (btw spouse work experience does not affect CRS. Since she's still in school, the only thing she can contribute is IELTS scores. No post-secondary qualification to access for ECA).
After you've gotten the COPR, you can both go and land and then she comes back to finish school. She has up to 3 years to stay in Naija and can still meet PR renewal conditions. Meanwhile as a PR, she can zoom in and out of Canada during school vacations - to visit you.

2. Complete your application and go and land. Then come back and marry her. THEN you can sponsor her.
DO NOT do the wedding before landing and not notify IRCC.
You should know that simply because you are a PR and married doesn't mean you automatically get to sponsor her. You must meet the earning requirement and show that your income is capable of supporting your wife. This would probably mean getting a good job, working for considerable time, filing taxes etc.
Then the sponsorship process itself will take over a year and will require you to travel back to Nigeria - more than once.
In the meantime, you might consider getting a TRV for her so she can visit (or you can do the visiting).
Or there can be no visiting at all, the Lord will strengthen you both and give you the grace to Skype properly

The choice is yours

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Sandydav:
Work experience outside Canada doesn't count.

For spouse you mean? I do not really want to rush this marriage thing. I think I will opt for the sponsorship route

Thanks

DonTee07:
Only God knows our fate!

If you get married after you land, you will sponsor her or she can follow the EE route too. She gets to earn point more because her spouse is in Canada already.

Thank you

pyruvateluv:
That means you will opt for spousal sponsorship which might take a year or more to be finalised

a year isn’t going to be bad. It will give me time to settle down too. What it means is that I have to do my wedding before I land, that way I can start processing hers once I land

Thank you

mcstan18:
She won't get points for a Canadian PR spouse. I guess his best bet would be sponsorship since she would likely not have an MSc to support her NYSC experience with. I even suspect that draws might go higher then than they are now.

It's either they tie the knot now and have her added or just wait and do sponsorship.

Cc: Venorite

this sponsorship, does it work? If to say we do trad and court wedding and I land, can she get her pr within a year? She has to do internship after school, she graduates next year, and we will need one year for her internship

chuckdee13:
Since u know u will most definitely get married y not do a court wedding and add her now...just a suggestion.

This is going to be a problem because he parents wants her to finish school. She wants to finish school before anything. Plus I think she will bring my score down as she doesn’t have work experience

Considering that we won’t be married when I land by the grace of God, i want to know my fate.

DonTee07:
Why not wait till that time and not get worried unnecessarily ?
Continue your process as a single applicant. If you get married before your PPR or after, you will notify them.

There might be a small delay but they will add her into your application but if its after you've left Nigeria...you will need to sponsor her or she put in her own EE application. All the best.

Good day my people. Please I have a question. What happens if I get married after getting ppr and copr? How do I apply for my wife. My case is delicate as I have started the process and my fiance is in school. She doesn’t want to leave the country until 2020 when she must have gotten her Intenship and all things being equal, I should have my ppr next year and we must have been married

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Deal or no deal

IPhone X and iwatch... we die here

gbens2000:
I will give you iwatch series 3 38mm gps and cellular and add 120k for only d phone

I am not looking for swap brother, I need cash

Kufie:
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name your price

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