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Please, Nairalanders help me oooooooooooooooooooo
I am dating a lading in which we met during my nysc den she came for her IT the family she stayed with gave me a big problem but she stood by me which made me give my all finishing NYSC. This yr april i decided to know her family and i met only the mum i was made to understand that her father stays else where in which the mother asked me am i for play or real, i answered positively but since then she said any time the father comes or she visits she will let him know and she will communicate the response to me but since then its one excuse that the dad would not listen to that for now, later may be after her skool ,now the lady has finished the motehr said she cant visit me, i have introduce this lady to my family but my pain is im too much for this hide and seek game i gave the lady ultimatum if im unable to speak to her Dad a weeks time (Note we have been on this issue for some time and also God sees my heart that i've been faithful to her uptill this point im writing but i believe i need to know where im going) im quiting the game. Please nairalanders im i on the right tracks

Let me go the way of HOLY THUG, omoluv pls most of the opinion sent here are dia experience but i disagree with dem because if it all went well they will not be talking like this because it did not work with dem, does not mean it will not go well with u.Y cant dey tell us d good part or why things or how things went wrong all they say is sacrifice the man, but b careful. Dont make a mistake that i said u should agree, but let me tell u about my experience while in part 3 in d uni a lady i date told me that she is a "V" and i trusted her but later got to know it was a lie (then i was a baby in d heart) but later i was orientated and very very strong @ heart , i met a girl during my service yr she said d same thing but i disconcur today we are dating because later i had her and knows she is not lieing even she just finished skool this week and by the grace of God she will be my wife. So know the person why he wanted it if 4 selfish interest but all i want to tell u is take a decision dat will make u happy ur happiness supercede evryopinion here.
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Hello Nairalanders, Since i joined this group i have never regreted it.
Please i need any one who know much about Highly Skilled something people and how to apply 4 it. I will appreciate your response or you can direct your response to onebigfamily2002@yahoo.co.uk. Thank you

In my own opinion in which i will advise you to take pls dont include any photocopy and pls put reseanable amout that can cover your trip with your tickect, copies of relevent document of who invited you as in house and other payments he/she made just to show he/she is not a liability there pls put more of original copies ur tax clearance and evidence that will show u will be back even your boss can vouch 4 u and may be u are married or something important that will surly bring u bak 2 nija. All the best

again im 29th Dec real mate can cal 08027365152

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mine is 29 Dec know de hia @ all pls Dec. pple pls join me oooooooooo

Hi woman, reading tru wot some have said i will go by the way of OSAWOLRD and also say this pls sit your husband down and pls i dont belif calling the whole family talk 2 ur husband because of the luv and the understanding u both have 4 urselfs tell him if he could allow you go with d children because he is not financially boy and if u leave he can try but can never play ur role and belif with d children with you and communication to their father daily or as u want will give d man way to think and also move if ur husband is not d type dat looks around. I feel he cant stand baffing d children and other things its ur duty and if possible pay him weekend visit unschedule visits with d children, and with time u can go for your reposting bach 2 abuja. Pls think b4 u move but never compromise this job because its not easy and i belif they will have a branch in Abuja so u can still press 4 reposting. Thank you.

@ wonder God will bless u, 4get d gurl n move on even if she comes back reject her a lady or my fiancee 2 be leaving me all because of her age or anything did u complain or say u r not interested again. Wonder God wan show u wonder na him make d gurl 4k up is beta now dan wen u r married pls go 4 beta once dia arms are wide open. Pls remove d love u hav 4 her and pls love with ur head not ur heart.

@ everbright u are wrong pls watch wot u hear always confirm from pple who have tried but not sentimental. I did d test twice i passed d test went for my interview @ apapa some did dias @ head office . The last interview is wit d MD in which u will go home late and u must be in Suit and all u need is boldness if u make hemmm u are out and d likely qtn is hw old are u what do u no abt access bank and where do ur parent live and their occupation d man looks @ ur english and composure just be bols as 4 2.1 its true. I did not make it but i will b launching back.any more info contact onebigfamily2002@yahoo.co.uk

I want have d experience ooo pls everybodi wish me success now haba wetin!!!!!

Oga Obeto, pls me i get smal probs oooo im a grd of accounting but i want to go by d way of the it recently prciselylastweek wed Guardian Newspaper some organisatn talk say dem fit giv scholarship provided u pass dia test to me test no b probs but wch on 2 do i have who have oracle doe he studued comp and i like net working pls help wch one shld i do and u can send d dunps to onebigfamily2002@yahoo.co.uk. Thank you i go de expect ur reply ooooo pls help me

Bros, my advise be say as all de talk apart from weighing d salary with a Niger wahala pls try no come except incase all fail u can start on ur own with the experience over ther but u know say u need finance but if u gat it come home @ least come and develop ur country (u no tell us weda u b truly Nigizie) my own paspective is learn new thing and come here 2 establish them here . Remember u will always b a 2nd class citizen even if u are a citizen and black. Dont deceive ursef. and anoda point nigeria job is not permanent consider all dis if u gat d money plus ideas and d new job here u can start something even if dem 4**k up, i belif u udastand mi Kanji ko!!!!

@Jesus sorry no @ Thomas leave wot ever u blif, i bliff im far beta dan u someone sharing ones problem instead of helpin u r sayin rubbish all in d name of Jesus Pls stop deceving ursef and change ur thinking because its stinking pls drop d name JESUS and hold unto Thomas it fits u best.

Hi Bros, pls weda u r wrong or right pls keep ur head up ladies behave any how d mistake from u is that u love wit ur heart but d real place shlould be d head . Pls move on, dont think u cant love another woman, there are many opening their hands to u pls reach out 2 them.

I feel u ooooooooooo but, lets be frank its easier said than don most people given these advises (most especially the ladies) will not leave him because is a space 4 another woman. U said he is dump founded wot do u expect him 2 say " rubbish of course" 2 show d fear and remorse pls go back, there is nothing new under d sun but give him some conditions, check his friends love him d more i belif he is a man of conscience he will come on his knees. If he is like me i will do d same (cos Men we are bogus) but one on one i will beg her such will never happen even if its going 2 happen not in my home and not a slit insticnt will tell her.

I will like 2 ask does he have any palns 4 d future because most men do not (Apology 2 all men) but the truth must be said. ask him where will he be nxt 15,10yrs 2 come not only 4 u but his entire family.

@ Jesus pls change ur name to thomas because if u dont blif urself hw do u blif others. Pls everybody is not like u.

Hi all, please i need your help im a graduate of acounting from OAU (Accounting 2.1) working with a small audit firm i will like to go the IT way but which one is better 4 me if i have my way i should have done CISA but no Kudi i saw an opportunity to study the following please help chose which way to go consider by degree though i did small html whle in school but not part of school programme friend just forced me and i enjoyed it so consider my degree and please i want a lucrative one that will fetch money.

A+ (Computer Engineering)
N+ (Networking)
Oracle 9i Database administration
Oracle 10g Database administration
MCDBA: Microsoft Certified Database Administrator
MCSA: Microsoft Certified Systems Administrator
2003 Network Infrastructure
CLIENT-SIDE INTERNET & WORLD WIDE WEB
MCSE: Microsoft Certified Systems Engineer
ADVANCED DIPLOMA IN SYSTEMS AND NETWORK ENGINEERING

Hi all, pls i need ur help im a graduate of acounting from OAU (Accounting 2.1) working with a small audit firm i will like to go the IT way but which one is better 4 me if i have my way i should have done CISA but no Kudi i saw an opportunity to study the following pls help chose which way to go consider by degree though i did small html whle in school but not part of school programme friend just forced me and i enjoyed it so consider my degree and pls i want a lucrative one dat will fetch money.

Thank you all @ domino you are right but im not comfortable with her lies, i will do something @bebe. thanks so much you healed a big wound i will give her more time.

Y all of una de spoil d guy show make u leave d ladies to judge. D guy no get gut but using this means i feel he is still on course

Pls help me im dating a lady outside lagos who i think she will be my better half she is ok by me just introduced her to my parents but we qurrel because she lies occassionally and i deduce from wot she says after she knows she will just say im sorry. Im i about to take a step(wrong or right) though she was there 4 mi while i was looking 4 job though i just got a small one but the distance is a big barrier i cant substanciate my claims but i feel she is cheating. I am about droping her because she belivs man does everything eg wether she have credit or not she flashes but i call but she calls when i tell call me or i wont wot , i must drop out of my salary every month cople with her lies (ladies help me) pls though she is a student a final year student what should i do

4 u, i know how it pains, but i want to go outside wot odas r saying a man lookin 4 a job does not know luv but can only patch it. Give him time. Give him encouragement even if he wants to change his mind giving him hope can give u hope too from him.

, 2 b frank are u old, i belif ur d factor "are u old truly?" Its either he is seeing another person or teasing u 2 c ur reaction but watch out. as u can c guys are waitin 4 u. 2 me ur beautiful because bible says all God all he created is beautiful im not on d queue.

, this is not really a laffin matter but d other way round it is, reading all d advise all i can say is b patient i have tried it "Silence" and it worked for me few can practice it but it works. because any action can lead 2 any bad counter action. She nos dat dats wot u value most. Pretend as if u can get anoda one and make sure u repaort theft of ur cert.