₦airaland Forum

Prosper24:
Maybe i should wait until after the said family meeting by next month.

If he skips the meeting this time

Or

Continue with his current behavior then I'm done with him.

Pls, I really really feel & understand you but choose to be happy. You will have your time ,no matter what don't drop any letter , i say again no matter what dont but time will heal things. Some people does that too (like ur dad) they like being good outside and home from will be lacking. Don't ever confront your dad to support yourself attend smes to help u even till u are out of school and till u get job. This is not the time to take sides. You will see more and learn more by being focused and being patients encourage ur mum that things like this don't last its just a face. But u need to stay strong and prepare to get job so as to help your siblings too. In all never look up your parents in d eyes.


The most painful thing is, one will keep managing in school while your dad will be sponsoring other women and their children. It pains..


This man has been doing this for years especially when he was still working.


Now he is only receiving pension, why can't him call himself to order instead he is fornicating and sponsoring other women while at the same time accusing my mom of the same fornication.

We have a lot of financial needs.

My dad had money, he was balling but now no investment, incomplete house. The few furnitures we have in the house my mom bought them all.

He married late and close to 30years older than my mom.


That man is a complete failure. So sorry to say but he has refused to take correction.

CharlotteFlair:
Which land? I hope you don't mean Lagos because Igbos own Lagos! You can continue killing your kit and kin in Ekiti, osun, Oyo etc to make money ritual! Yorrobbers!

Benekruku:
The bottom line is that the message has been conveyed and interpreted. The manner, route and language is negligible!

Deeldorado:
Okonjo Iweala committed economic genocide in her second coming as a public servant in Nigeria. Nigeria's resources were mismanaged and pilfered under her watch as Co-ordinating Minister under a feeble President Jonathan.

Her first attempt at public service was much more fruitful. And that was because there was an array of experts who did the job behind the scenes - Soludo at CBN, Ezekwesili at BPP, El Rufai at BPE, Nuhu Ribadu at EFCC, Nenadi Usman and Steve Oronsaye and under a more capable leadership of President Obasanjo. That was the golden era of public reforms in Nigeria in the current democratic dispensation.

In her second coming, the people that did the underground work were no longer there and President Jonathan himself was not visionary and did not provide political support. The right thing to do would have been to resign but she was enjoying the Co-ordinating Minister title, played along and fumbled at the end of the day.

Even if she sits with 100 presidents, it does not negate the fact that her second coming in public service in Nigeria was a disaster. She has acknowledged this fact herself.

People should learn to make objective assessments based on competence and not primordial attachments.

That I am Igbo does not mean that I should cover the truth when I see it.

mexxmoney:
You mean the unfortunate scorpion that died a poverty stricken, abandoned and bitter old man. If you think he was a hero, then may your end be like his

Kathmandu:
NOI do come into this country always.

Do you think this government will dare make a mess of hounding her? The country ll be a Pariah under 15minutes

desquad:
I know what war is all about, I've heard sound of guns countless times in this profession of mine, I think is better to start and end a war than to continue enduring this corruption that you know will never end


When they die their children continues where they stop and your children continue the hardship from generation to generation. My brother it's better to start and end this once and for all so you know you've secured the future of the next generation

Truelies2017:
NAiRALAND ooo!!! So that is hpw the whole lots of you deviated from the vagabond topic to MIL. I stated in my post he didn't call me that because unsaid his mum shouldn't go with us to check the land. He called me that cause I refused to tell him his mum has asked to go check the land without the consent. The question here is should a HUSBAND call his wife a vagabond. Besides i dont have any issues woth my mother in law at all. I love her like my mother. Deviating from the topic won't bring the answer. It will only casue more problems btw us. TRULY sometimes nairaland isn't the place to.pour out your mind. They will only nicely compound your issues spicing it up with joy pepper sauce.

Omeny:
Nigeria will not only pay back the loan but also service it with 1.5% Interest for 30yrs.

No way. This govt has so much money to turn things around with unless they are just being clueless.

DONSMITH123:
concur

#IstandWithTheSenate

hardbody:
I am not pro GEJ but if we have to be dispassionate, is it GEJ's fault that the price of oil has plummeted and continued heading south for an indeterminate period? Answer this question frankly. I always bow to superior argument, trust me.