Deji

chiogo:

Aww, that sucks.
Yeah, naija parents don't consider such as valid careers. They were also against my sister going into Architecture, which is related to arts.

That one of the reason why we have some fake doctors, lawyers etc
because he/she took a career that was forced on. our mentality
nee to change. I am into IT and help people with their computers
and i enjoy what i do. we complicate things alot in 9ja.

riversman:

@ Alxmyr - na who invite your dirty mouth inside conversation, hiss!!!

wow

So much for the good girl, bad guy talk.

Again, the truth is: "There's someone for everyone" (believe it or not).
Meeting that 'someone' is a matter of time 'n chance.
Identifying the 'someone' when u meet him or her is d next challenge. Lust, greed and fantasies often becloud most people's mentality(esp ladies, but guys aren't all innocent on this) when it comes to identifying.

In d end, most relationships affairs come to a premature end, then we start complaining that this girl or that guy is bad

Applause to you. This is the best reply have ever read.

Eba+okro

:d

lol

Re: Don't Some Guys Know Their Class?

A person you dont even know. naiaraland gosh!

busayo come let me wash your pusy for u not only pants and bra

You"re just a fool.

Are we not the one complaining we dont like MR too nice, now we"re saying something else. we go to church and pray to meet MR right at the same we"re not giving these guys opportunity. we"re still looking for MR bad.

A nigeria girl will never ask you out. belive it or you dont

Jobless Nairalander

I know this shouldnt be in the romance section. but, i think nairaland is like a darkness where everyone is just there. despite people hiding their email address, pitures etc. we still advice each other. if we trust each other y then do we hide all this things. c am saying my mind

I think is a shame. if this pains you, go and bang your head on the wall. 

The reason why i dislike Igbo people is that,you can not joke with igbo people the same way you joke with yoruba people and even on this forum,the meanest people are mainly igbo's, They are HOT TEMPER,and they can kill you if you are dealing with them

I agree

y are all this things happening in nigeria ? e.g. relationship etc

God!

Source: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/09/25/will-you-tell-your-friend-his-wife-is-dating-your-boss/

The coolness of the office as Frank entered his boss’s palatial reception was a welcome development.
He had suffered the heat of the afternoon sun to get drinks and snacks from a nearby eatery for Mr. Bruno’s (his boss)‘new catch’. The secretary was not on seat as she had been sent home earlier to make room for this ‘new catch’. It was the ways of Mr. Bruno as he would say, ‘I don’t want no old babe sniffing around’

Although married with three beautiful kids, Mr. Bruno had the reputation for bedding anything in skirts. Nick named ‘anything goes’ for his unsavory taste for women, the afternoon would certainly not be different. As Frank entered his office unannounced, he met his oga half naked, with his under wear and trouser hanging between his legs. It was obvious both were so consumed in the business that they had forgotten to lock the door.


Confused Frank, tried to beat a retreat, but his clumsy move only compounded his situation as he stumbled and fell over the side stool in the office. As he struggled to get up, he came face to face with best friend’s wife as she tried to straighten up her rumpled skirt. The annoying thing was none of them showed any sign of embarrassment.

Moments later as he drove home, the picture of what happened in the office continued to play back. Should he tell his best friend about the incident or not?

90% of these Campus girls and fresh undergraduate girls in Nigeria are too cheap and too desperate
for money and a fake lifestyle, they are all over facebook now
looking for nigerian men abroad to marry them lol!!!

god!

lol

Her smell prove she was Yoruba girl, l quickly run for my life oo

My question na why do Yoruba girls smell?

the main reason is, Self-hatred caused by the white media's negative portrayal of blackness.allowed black men to marry white women.Only the confused Black men do this. The smart, educated, self-loving, self-respecting Black men don't do this. Of course, true love is an exception but I believe everyone should stick with their own race

you"re 100% right. I cant date/marry a white man, not that am racist or anything like that.

My soul belong to the black race, that just the way it is, you either accept it or you dont.

just came across this http://kush-kush..com/2006/07/why-nigerian-men-marry-european-women_02.html

Why Nigerian Men marry European Women
I came across this article at this site and tears almost came to my eyes when I read it. (the error in numbering is hers and not mine).

I’m an Irish woman and have worked in a refugee centre as a paralegal for five years representing asylum seekers to remain in Ireland. In my time served in this field I have learned the main reasons as to why they marry European Union nationals and it is as follows.

Ten reasons why Nigerian men marry European women (please note this does not include those with full refugee status recognition, doctors, engineers, or those who have ordinarily been resident in an European Union member state for at least five years):

1. Stronger legal basis to remain in the European Union.

2. More freedom to move i.e. change jobs, travel

3. To qualify for European Union fees in colleges etc.

3. To appear to be more successful.

4. More time spent in state will be taken into consideration.

5. To gain citizenship of that country with a view to moving to another European Union member state upon receipt of same.

6. Easier to meet people, easier to integrate,

7. Cannot receive a deportation order and much less likely to warrant the attention of the authorities.

8. Use a white woman, milk her, give her ‘milky’ babies and make mince meat of her for five years for everything she has.

9. Trying a white woman an getting the things that an African lady wouldn’t do in bed although I wouldn’t either but most would (talking bj’s etc) only beauty in white women is things like this.

10. Finally, to have Nigerians when you go home on holidays (especially when choosing a wife) kissing the ground you walk on because you live in Europe people will fling themselves in desperation at you. So overall you get a higher status. What an honour, thanks silly white woman! Job well done!!!!! Now I can go and make my twelve kids, real kids that isPersonally if it was done to me, there will be heads rolling!Then again I know what tribe is more fond of this type of behaviour! together with the uneducated. (Sorry blue eyed Britney nice try but a white man would appreciate you more!)

Yasmeen.

To appear more successful? WTF? My reaction is in two parts. One would be to the bastard sellout Nigerian men (in the minority I pray) who have given this ignorant woman the reason to write this stupid article. I must admit I've missed my true vocation in life and that should have been to work in the British High Commission in Nigeria as the Senior Visa officer. I believe this must be an issue of lack of education primarily so if you don't have at least a OND (ordinary national diploma, as issued after 2 years of study at a College of Technology in Nigeria) you would need to give me some serious reason to let your ass leave the shores of the country.

Secondly this stupid Yasmeen woman that despite her five years of paralegal work is still unable to count. Unless I missed it somewhere did this biatch mention love? In a top ten list? What gives her the audacity to feel superior to Nigerians? Call it 'reverse' racism if you will, but this is why I won't even date a white girl talk less of marrying one. Like Eddie Murphy said "my soul belongs to the black race". Oya lets us dedicate the next five minutes to rain epe (curses) on Yasmeen's head!
Posted by Kush at 2:19 AM

I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. The relationship has been boring. He is too nice and i don't want to break his heart. what should i do?

sorry to say girl, I couldnt make out of what you saying. The relationship has been boring. how do you mean ?

just break it down a little bit. is it a sin for a guy to be nice and be himself ? why do you want to turn him to another person. I'm just irritated. no wonder the saying goes no matter what you do, you"ll never please a girl. a guy is good is a complaint a guy is bad is a complaint. gosh!

why all ladies needs so much money, if you call a lady she will only call money for you why?

I dont know why some guys will come here claiming to be looking for a girl and no picture up about yourself etc

I count some of this threads as a waste of time no one will reply if you"re serious then put some picture

guys dont get confuse or brainwash. be nice to a girl am sure she"ll like you. if you reading all this dating stuff forget it

be nice be real. good night

Nice guys?! What are the features of a nice guy?? I need to know so as to recognise him when oen comes my way  Cheesy

He does things naturally. no pretending just real compare to other guys.watch the way he move he use his body the clothe he put on. a nice guy will appear resonable like a mature person not all this playboy guys they come to you saying this and that. just be real guys.simple no need to worry yourself too much.just bring yourself how you are