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luminouz:
Seems you are either MÃD or DÃFT!!!

If you can't comprehend what I wrote.

U are a very big fool
95% of niger girls more especially Eastern girls de find money , Continue claiming alpha towards girls wey no send you

luminouz:
I disagree. The only way is to develop yourself to be an Alpha in everything, not just on money. The redpill wants you to take care of yourself FIRST. When you make money to attract women, you will always attract the ones hooked on money and little else. You need virtues and values, not leeches,beeches and weeches!

You are troll.... Get a life dude!!!

Pls tell me how many girls that are not doing leeching
Redpill teaches you true nature of women but if you think being alpha without money will fetch you women in this hardship era then you are making a big mistake
You said we need virtues and values ,oya tell me the kind of value that attract women if not fame or money

I go soon expose una useless books for here

Being redpilled is good sha
But have it in mind the only way to make a girl that is not attracted to you to actually get attracted to you is to make money
Any book seller promising to sell you book on how to get women without money or material things just want to scam you
Know this or perish

If una like no go think better things to do with your lives ,de there de form masters of game
Mumu people

luminouz:
Two monikers used by the same entity...


To TROLL...


Kai...I never see this kain joblessness before

I am not him and he is not me
Una go come here de claim PhD in getting pussy but in reality na for soap una de get pussy
Useless idiots

ashewoboy:
"Impregnating women will have other women hanging around you. They won't come with the express intention of getting themselves pregnant too or to offer you sex. More a case of them just finding themselves subconsciously drawn to you. That's the wombs doing their thing. And one thing will lead to another, (as it always does) and the women, women who should have known better, will find themselves pregnant for a man that has impregnated half a dozen girls in the area. The psychological of these women just got overridden by the biological."


Ubunja, ma pa mi now🙂. No lies detected.


Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery🙂.

Just see the kind trash person just waste him time to type
Nigerian girls will only hang around you if you have high status or money
Continue believing crap from useless ubunja
I feel like wiping you fifty strokes for this nonsense you posted

Ourtruth247 continue abeg

Lol

Those of you here posting about game
Is it this hungry girls that full every were u won go try your game on
Una de craze honestly

Pukkalolo:
Ok let's get started...

1. I'm tired of being a nice guy and insecure. I want to be more confident and improve my frame?

Look, the only way to be truly confident is to simply become comfortable with rejection and criticism. We think confidence comes from the ability of getting what we desire... But in reality, true confidence is being comfortable with losing what you desire(e.g the girl). For example when a beautiful girl reject or decline a guy's romantic interest, he tends to feels sad and emotionally weak.

But I'm totally different in the sense that when I get rejected or it seemed like I'm losing a girl, I still carry myself with a boatload of CONFIDENCE. That's because I'm totally comfortable with rejection.

Confidence works in a paradoxical way: The more I try to make things go my way and try hard to get the girl, the more insecure and less confident I become. But the more I embrace that not every girl will like me, the more confidence I suddenly feel in my own skin; and that then boost my chance of getting her.


2. How do I improve my sex game?

Look at it this way: imagine you moved into a new estate, and you want to give yourself a nice haircut. You heard there are only two barbers. Let's say these two barbers are I and IAmHim1.

So you first enter into my saloon. Without even asking you the haircut you want, I began barbing your hair. I rush the task, and in less than "2 minutes" I was done with your hair. Then I demanded for my fucking money. Of course, you are not satisfied with my job.

A week later, you went to IAmHim1 barbing salon. Before he begin haircut, he asked you how you want your haircut to look like...then he began the task. He relax and passionately cut your hair. He took his time and make sure he gave you maximum satisfaction. After over 30 minutes he was done.

You naturally prefer IAmHim1 service over mine because he took his time to satisfy your hair needs.

When a girl allow you bleep, she wants sexual satisfaction from you. Having good sex game is simply having the ability to satisfy her sexually.

But here's the interesting thing I've learnt from dating different ladies over the years, there is no "one fit size all secret" to satisfy any woman. I noticed that different women have different preferences and different things they enjoy in bed . What works for one woman may not necessarily work for another woman.

Just like IAmHim1 ask you about your haircut preference before going ahead to cut your hair. The only way to know what she enjoy most is to talk about sex with her and pay attention to how she responds to what you are doing in bed.

Most times, when I'm the talk stage with a girl or getting to know her, the vast majority of conversation is centered around relationships, sex and romance.. This helps me get to know her deeply and what she enjoys.

3. How do I handle this situation? She was asking me how to make me feel better and asking if i was mad when she told me she was dating him.

Well, dude...life is teacher, the more you live the more you learn. It's a good thing that now you know the kind of best friend you have: he's a fucking snitch. And that also says alot about the girl.

4. How do I remedy this situation and still Bleep her again?

Wait, dude, are you still concerned about bleeping her You got to be kidding me!
I see what your problem is, but don't worry, we'll get that in #7.


5. How do I stop being emotional and acting like a girl?

I've already answer this question several times. Simply open my profile and read all my posts on these thread and read all my topic nairaland.

6. How can I keep myself sane and stop thinking about it?

Well, distract yourself with productive activities....and try to meet other girls online or something. By the way, why do you still even have her phone number Anyways, just keep yourself busy with productive activities.


7. Give me some general advice about game? How do I improve and go on from here.

The best way to improve your game with women is to change your focus. Most men are pussy focused because they subconsciously believe pussy is the prize. They'll do anything to get the pussy...

But I'm different. I'm attention focused because subconsciously I believe my attention is the fucking prize. I learned about the idea of pussy focused and attention focused over the years of dating different (naija) ladies.

It's funny, in my entire life, I've never seen or heard anyone talk about the concept of pussy focused or attention focused. I had to learn that the hard way: personal experience.

Years ago, I realized that most women dating advice out there always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex.

But nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women. Instead they tell men the opposite. They say, "women love attention, so if you want to get her, give her your full attention."

But in reality, it's the other way around: if you want to get her, give her less of your attention.

When you are pussy focused, you believe her pussy is the prize to be won, so you try to impress her by saying or doing things that you think would inspire her to give you access to the pussy. This naturally makes you weak.

A man who is pussy focused places more importance on "getting the girl".... He doesn't mind disrespecting himself or sacrificing his self-esteem in the process.

I'm attention focused, so I places my attention on pedestal, not pussy. A woman's heart or pussy is not the prize to be won but rather my ATTENTION is the prize to be won. She has to earn my full attention.

The reason why you find yourself in this mess with that girl is because you are pussy focused. If you were attention focused, by now she'll be the one chasing your attention and trying to give you the pussy continuously.

Pussy focused game is what most pua, dating gurus and even most redpill advice teach... This is why most guys still lack solid game despite everything they've learn about women.

I run attention focused game because my attention is the only thing i have DIRECT CONTROL over. So, I don't give a flying Bleep about her pussy: my focus is to simply keep adjusting the validation(attention) I give and withhold from her.

I have met only few guys in my life who are authentically attention focused. These guys are never lonely: they attract and get lots of women in quality and quantity

When you run pussy focused game, you'd be trying to pass her shit test.

But when you run attention focused game, you'd be the one basically dishing out the shit test. Remember, my attention is the prize and she has to earn my full attention, that's why I'm dishing out these shit test to see if she's worth my attention.

Later on this thread, I'll give you different series shit test I throw at woman to see if she's worth the pursuit... The more she pass my shit test, the more I reward her with my attention.

When you run attention focused game you might naturally tend to come across as a asshole, cocky or overconfident.. Which is not a bad thing tho. Girls will love you regardless.

See my interaction with this girl in this post. She thinks I'm the biggest asshole, but up to this day she keeps returning for the D:

https://www.nairaland.com/7800065/darkest-aspects-female-psychology#125048452

I hope this was helpful. Stay blessed.

Oga bookseller don de look for ways to advertise his stupid books

luminouz:
You should have ignored him.

Other mumus like him are vicboy1, wotowotoman. Same moniker, same person...

Ignore and watch them fade away like the mist before the early morning sunrise

Ewu
Who tell u say wotowotoman and me na the same person
To slap you just de hungry me

luminouz:
Ignore biko


Let's just ignore.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Abeg gat at
Una go just de come here de chase clout with different lies
Very soon na some of una go start to de sell shitty dating books

IAmHim1:
people dont change with time. they do so with basic understanding of themselves. the basic understanding of themselves is then wrapped in time. thats why you hear phrases like "time heals" NOPE TIME DOESNT HEAL. if not all politicians @ 40yrs would have been veerry wise

Being a man isnt the addition of more man-like qualities. lolzzz do this and do that. NOPE!

being a man means FIRST severing ties that makes you a woman
see it this way: Being cold isnt the addition of adding more cold BUT BY REDUCING THE HEAT. stop what hurts you first. i keep singing this like an anthem. even wrote something about it. titled 'The equation to Happiness'

what are the qualities that makes a man a woman you might ask
look around you observe women what are they known for
complaining, inability to lead, shyness(cant maintain eye contact), ask for permission for being women, easily agreeable, etcetera etcetera. Observe all the traits you see in women that makes you act like woman AND WORK ON ENDING THOSE TRAITS IN YOURSELF FIRST!!!!


as for the sex, work on the food you eat. what gives erections is blood flowing through blood vessels properly. If at any point in time this blood flow is affected due blockages in blood vessels, then youre left with premature ejaculation and inability to maintain erections. heart pumps blood BUT the blood must have free flow to the penis else youll be having stop and start which cause weak erections and quick ejaculation problems

see sex like a swimming pool. when you go swimming, you dont immediately jump into the pool. nope. you gotta feel the water first with your legs thats why you see girls hanging around the edge of the swimming pools first before they swim. NOPE testing the temperature of the water doesnt make you a girl. YOU THINKING OTHER PEOPLE WILL THINK YOURE A GIRL IF YOURE TESTING THE POOL WITH BOTH LEGS MAKES YOU A GIRL!!

the penis is sensitive especially the cap. mostly sensitive to temperature. the pussy is most times warm n moist. so you see. THE PENIS IS MOSTLY OUTSIDE THE BODY. sometimes the penis is cold other times its neutral. now introducing the a cold/neutral SENSITIVE penis inside a warm vagina without making the penis adapt to the warm vagina is the reason why most men dont last Apart from poor diet issues of course



when you get inside a woman, make your penis adapt to the temperature of her vagina for some few minutes first before you start stroking if not you may not last that long.
thats why you see stores selling cream to help men last longer. this cream takes away the sensitivity in the penis cap making men last longer in bed
so GOOD DIET (cut away refined sugar, soft/hard drinks, butter) etc. try eat natural. + making the penis adapt in vagina first

refined sugar, coke, chelsea, heineken, guilder...theyre all bullshit. the reason they tell diabetic patient to not eat much carbohydrates is because the end product of carbohydrate is sugar. so you see. the end product of carbohydrates is still sugar so why d fvck will you be drinking garri(sugar) and still using sugar again. lolzzzzz

i hear people still saying "ill just use a lil sugar make e sweet" or " its just one bottle of alcohol per week. it shouldnt hurt"
lolzzz. for those reading this, if its addiction, i have been there too. im out now and i managed to write how i got out of my addiction "The One Guide to ending your addiction"
one core tenet of redpill is discipline. if you dont have control over yourself, others( people and things) will easily have control over you. its more of an aura thing

sex styles are also important. theres a relationship between gravity and erection. thats why styles like missionary most men dont last long while other styles like cowgirl and reverse cowgirl makes men last long. its all on the angle at which the penis enters the vagina AND STAYS so youd be wise to check out sex styles that can make you last long not necessarily the ones youre comfortable with


work on your mindset. it seems easy typing this on the yellow chair im sitting on right now but it pays. Ill reveal something to you right now that will change everything for you

you wanna fvck a girl that chosed you friend over you so you can regain your lost masculinity right. you come online looking for advice on how to Bleep this girl really good so she can realise the captivating penis she wasnt so patient with and almost missed.
its all cool. we all think we got something to prove but by doing that youre reinforcing the image placed on you

by fvcking her, youll be reinforcing her image of a cold heartless bitch you placed on her.

HOW!

In your mind youll be thinking "yeah, this girl made me a better man. ive fVcked her and she seems happy. now shell know who's the boss"

BUT IN HER MIND, SHES FEELING "so all i had to do to make millie0 a better man in bed and in life general WAS TO SLEEP WITH HIS BEST FRIEND. lolzzz. so the next time i want millie0 to perform better in bed and fvck me senseless, ALL I HAVE TO DO IS FVCK ANOTHER OF HIS FRIEND AND PURPOSELY MAKE HIM FIND OUT. and if i want the best of the best sex from millie0, i have to fvck 3 of his friends at a time and make him find out about the affair. ill make him think he has something to prove to me while enjoying myself in the process"

now that up there is the difference between emotional thinking and logical thinking. women are emotional, men are logical

and women chase relationships. it gives them an opportunity to form a bond with that stranger that makes their pvssy dripp.
if you as a man start chasing relationship, it robs women of the opportunity to form a bond with you. focus on your purpose.
YOUR PURPOSE HAS TO BE HIGHER THAN YOURSELF. if you make a woman your purpose, what then happens when such a woman dies. you crave to remain purposeless huh

your friend has taught you a lesson? and what did you pay him with. you lent him your play station n chillz lolzzzz
hating your friend would be the most stoopid thing to ever do to yourself. learn your lesson and dont try to repeat it another person. you know how you felt when someone did it to you unno

the girl doesnt respect you.
when man and woman have sex, the man disrespect the pussy and the womans body in general while the woman RESPECTS THE MAN DISRESPECTING HER PUSSY AND HER BODY IN GENERAL. its the madonna LovePeddler complex thingy. the madonna is respected but isnt fvcked well while the LovePeddler is disrespected and is fvched the way she craves.

what am i saying.
respect is looking up while Disrespect is looking down

to fvck a girl in a mind blowing way, you have to see her in a disrespectful way. men claim they hate prostitute but when they fvck prostitutes, they swalllow truck loads of tramadol to get erect and teach that nasty prostitute a lesson. lolzzzz while their respected wives at home is denied a proper sexxing.

for a girl to want to be fvcked in a disrespectful way by you, SHE HAS TO RESPECT YOU.

hope you see it clearly now millie0

Just negodunu
See the kind rubbish person wake up to post on nairaland

Una way the sale books on how to game and get women I go soon expose una,nonsense
Bunch of he-goats wey lack of pussy Don show shege de sell books on how to get pussy

Pukkalolo:
luminouz, here is the interesting and counterintuitive thing...

Those trolls always dropping hate comments on this threads are actually playing an important role in making this thread successful...

Here's why... please read carefully. There's a big lesson to be learned here:

We are in "attention age".

Meaning, in this current age and time, getting attention is the secret sauce to being relevant and successful, and sadly it doesn't even matter if it's positive or negative attention.

Nairaland algorithm doesn't give a shit about negative comment/attention; as long as there's engagements, it will keep pushing the thread to the top.

I watched an interview with an American rapper who get millions of view on his songs and cash out on them. He said something very interesting. He said that, "half of the people that watch his music videos on youtube and stream his songs are mostly his haters..."

That's basically saying, "half of his music revenues and income are coming from his haters."

Most Celebrities understand that attention, both negative and positive attention, is the secret to staying relevant in the industry.

Think of it: Andrew Tate became a billionaire and became one of the most googled man on Earth strictly from his ability to garner attention to himself. The funny thing is, many of the attention are even negative attention, i.e criticism and hate...

Your ability to handle trolls, haters criticism, negative reactions is the secret to your success in any areas of life.

Using interaction with women as example, one of the major differentiators between me and the nice guy is that the nice guy is so much scared of being criticize, disliked or rejected by the women he desires, while I on the other hand I'm very "comfortable" with getting criticism or rejection.

How do the women cash out on the nice guys? Because when a nice guy is getting criticize by a girl or he sense that he might be losing a girl, he assumes he is the cause. So he try is best to impress her and do more and more bigger nice things for her.

I embrace criticism, rejection, drama, tension, randomness, uncertainty that why I'm never lacking pussy....

The nice guy is scared of criticism, rejection and being disliked.... and that's why women easily manipulate and exploit him.

It doesn’t matter how smart, intelligent or educated you are . The difference between the winnner and the loser is the ability to handle criticism, haters, trolls, rejection, failure and negative reaction.

I'm not affected emotionally by criticism, rejection, setbacks, trolls, negative reactions because I already expects those things to happen. I've already included them in my calculations for getting success..

You have to lose the battle to win the war. If you want to be admired by some people, then you must be willing to be disliked by some other people. No two ways about it.

Running from criticism and negative reactions only means that when you finally lay your head down at the end of your journey on earth, your life would be empty and filled with regrets. In order to prevent that, you need to ride above trolls, rejection and negative opinion of people -- and live life on your terms.

Anytime you choose to do something that is worthwhile, and you begin to climb up the ladder of accomplishments, the amounts of individuals who wish to bring you down increases. You'll certainly upset some people by trying to move higher.

Youll upset some people by trying to improve yourself. Some people would feel threatened when they see that you are making moves to upgrade yourself; they would criticize your moves.


One of my mentor once told me, "the best way to kill something or make it irrelevant is to simply ignore it."

Our goal is to continue ignoring the trolls but also to make sure they don't ignore us, because in a counterintuitive way, the more hate comments they drop and the more they don't ignore us, the more they make me, you and this amazing thread even more relevant and bigger.

Happy new year to everyone and God bless you all.

Later na you go start to de sell that your useless books and some fools here that don't think will still buy the book

Pukkalolo:
Here's why you end up not making a move and moving the interaction forward:

You're scared of fucking up the interaction and you are trying to ensure smoothness of the interaction...

Please read open mindedly because I'm about to show why many guys aren't making progress with women or even life in general...

Let's begin...

You said, "This girls will steal glance tire but I no dey make move, some will even knowingly march my legs and start conversing with me but I always give this 'others will come vibes'...."


No bro, you are not giving the "others will come vibes"...., you are actually giving the "I'm scared of fucking up the interaction vibe."


When you see that an interaction might work out, i.e the girl respect you or is attracted to you and showing you sign of loyalty, you become uncomfortable because you are scared of fucking things up at some point DOWN the road, and spoil the respect she has for you.

So, you avoid moving the interaction forward, because you are scared of fucking up the interaction.... That's to say, you undermines your progress and prevents yourself from actually getting her.

You basically hinder your success, but in order for you to feel good about it, you deceive yourself with the saying: "others will come."


Most people don’t realize that, this is why they don't succeed with women or life in general.

They procrastinate and put off things, because they are scared of losing their "rep"; they are scared of making mistakes, failing, or fucking up things...

As a result they hamper their own success, and so they settle...they settle for less...they settle for porn.... Because at least with porn, there's no risk of fucking things up. There's no rejection because there's no real woman involved: it's just you, your lotion, your hand and your dick.

I'll tell you one of the BIG reason for my success with women... It's NOT because I've got game, neither is it because I know any redpill, alpha or seduction techniques...

Here's the BIG obvious reason:

I'm willing to Bleep things up with women.

All this game crap or smooth alpha bullshit is a false facade that prevent you from actually being ALPHA.

Because, paradoxically, showing BALLS and willingness to make mistakes, fail, or Bleep things up is the most ALPHA shit ever....

Every guy wants to date the best chics and have amazing sex—but not every guy is willing to go through the messy conversations, the tension, the rough, awkward and irregularities of male-female interaction....

And your ability to go through with that stems from your willingness to Bleep up.

But because you are not willing to Bleep up, you tell yourself, "others will come."

So you asked and wonder "how do I take it from respect to romance..."

Romance is NOT equal to smooth interaction

Romance is equal to emotional turbulence, irregularity, tension and drama....and fucking things up and risk losing her.

Trying to ensure smoothness of the interaction hinder your chance of romance with her.

To be frank, I only go for the beautiful ones, but in order to attract those caliber of chics I understand that I must be willing to embrace the emotional turbulence, irregularity, tension and drama that comes with trying to date beautiful women.

Therefore, your romantic success isn't determined by your ability to create smooth interaction with women, but by your ability to create tension, emotional jolt and drama in the interaction. Which means, you must be willing to create drama, build up tension and blow sh*t up.

The movie industry make use of these concept very well: they dial up the uncertainty, suspense and anticipation to an intense level and get you extremely focused on the screen, wondering what might possibly happen next.



Romantic success or success in life in general is messy, dramatic and filled with tension and uncertainties.

The guys who have the BALLS and BACKBONE to handle these tension, drama and uncertainties are the successes.

So na this long post I go read just to get girls
You get luck say I no hold cane I for Don lash you 99 strokes

some mugus go just read dating books and believe it without analyzing properly
Una well done

LifeofDream:
It's not PUA rubbish, it's true...
May not be hundred percent tho..

Most girls no send you whether you want them or not if u no get this 💰 💷 💷 more especially in the east

AlphaNugget:
Girls will want you the most when they feel like you don't want them.

I didn't make the rules, nature did.

---

If a seller knows the buyer is desperate to get a product, he hikes the price.

Similarly, if a woman knows you're desperate to hit it, you get no cookie.

This is why:

For buying, you gotta act like you don't want the product to get a good bargain.

For women, you gotta act like you don’t want the cookie to hit it.

Different games, same rule.

When you want her,

You don't get her.

When you don't want her,

You get her.

Desperation kills the attraction.

---- MasculinePeak -----

Any girl wey no want you no really want you
Make una stop de read PUA rubbish

luminouz:
Pukkalolo... Kindly ignore that asslicker crying for your attention. Don't let IT derail the thread.

Who but a dîngbat would ask someone to provide evidence of his success with women so he can send Xmas money? Dem tell you say we be smellos for here?

Mumu

Mumu no go find something better to do with your life de there de support hungry book sellers olodo

Am good in html css and js react and backend
We work as team , so pls bring up any site idea we will create it for you

I swear ebonyi people are so very cunning
And the sometimes pretend to be caring when the want to scam you
I have one neighbour wey be ebonyi, this guy has attempted different means to run me scam but as a sharp guy, him no succeed.
If an ebonyi guy can be this cunning then imagine how cunning there girls will be

But ourtruth247 growing babies through plant outside looks so illogical to me. Won't cold affect those babies badly, babies needs serious care,preservation and maintenance so de won't get sick and die but from the picture above see how the are growing them like say na normal plant

Ourtruth247 what do you think of end time ,is it really going to happen?