luminouz:


They have their own pink pill thread. I don't think any redpiller ever went there to say shiit. We just don't give a fuq. But women can't stop interrupting our convos here and you always wonder why. You don't like something? Then stay away and do you. We always handle them here by ignoring them.

Kindly refrain from quoting any f moniker on the thread. We don't need their attention, and we won't engage them in conversation, lest the thread be closed down by the owner of Nairaland. That's the holy grail of desire from the feminists on NL

ShaqFu:
honestly, It shouldn't be your business or anyone else's how a person decides to spend his money, or who he decides to give it to.

Tunde835:
Bro you need to stop giving her this kind of attention just ignore.

MetalJigsaw:
Pink pill😂😂 what does that look like?

luminouz:

I don't know bro...check the romance section. I never bothered.🤣

PureFace1:
Some Essential Dating Advice for Men
by Mike Pilinski

If you're a single guy still looking for your dream girl, I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. A lot of it is "common sensical" as you well know.

Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox -- and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead. Check these out:

1) Don't Try to Act Like a Fake on the First Date

A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche.

Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh, unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.

Acting like a phony with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive.

She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!

2) Create New Memories Instead of Swapping Them

Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.

It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's TOO MUCH information!..."

For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.

So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere.

Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.

3) Don't Be a Bore

A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!

The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR interests lost in the background.

Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)

4) Forget About Trying to Act "Like Yourself"

The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic" B.S.

Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phony-baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.

So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up... dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks.

Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is... something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance motor is humming along in high gear.

5) Five Minutes of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down

After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND.

You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!

Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.

6) Obsession Is the Hallmark of the Weak Male

Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But -- because they have many options with females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested.

Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread... women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few times already.

7) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and Believe It

I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind!

Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you... *no matter what*.

Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH.

Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.

Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!

Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you test it out.



https://www.sosuave.com/articles/essential.htm

PureFace1:


You are the idiot here, because the last time i check there's no book advertisement in that post and even if it was nobody is forcing you to buy any book.

You can just continue on with your miserable existence because i don't understand where the agony you are feeling is coming from, is it jealousy of people successful with women ?

Many women are out there you can get as much as you like too with whatever beliefs and strategies you have, no need to be so bitter like someone that will soon commit suicide.

Ballzproblem2:
There are several monickers people should learn to ignore


They're: tranquility, wotowot.oman labidi.69


(same person)

learn to ignore him once you see his moniker in your mention Don't try to read the context is not worth it.😉

luminouz:


You should have ignored him.

Other mumus like him are vicboy1, wotowotoman. Same moniker, same person...

Ignore and eat g them fade away like the mist before the early morning sunrise

millie0:
.

At this point, i need advice on multiple things:

1. I'm tired of being a nice guy and insecure. I want to be more confident and improve my frame. Some girls i've messed with in the past say I'm too emotional and can't be a fuckbody because I attach emotions to it. This blasian girl said something similar, she said i was a loverboy. She's also told me to be more confident, stop second guessing myself and when we text, and i get pissed or something she says i act like a girl.

I need to stop being this nice guy. How do I erase it from the fabric of my soul because I've struggled with it for years and it has hindered me multiple times. That's also why I couldn't Bleep her the way she wanted even after she told me.

2. How do I improve my sex game? Genuinely like how to Bleep (do we use the waist/hips to control thrusts or it's the full body) properly. How do I last longer and get better erections ( I know this is cliche but i need something that works for you), how do i stop being insecure about my dick size (already told you measurements earlier)? But, if i bleeped her three times, that means it should be fine. I want to get good sex game so when i Bleep a girl she would always want me back.

3. How do I handle this situation? She was asking me how to make me feel better and asking if i was mad when she told me she was dating him. at first i thought it was a joke but they are serious but not too many people know about it. i messed up yesterday and let my emotions get a hold of me and i blocked her. but i unblocked her and she started acting angry to me and cold but i apologized. i've been acting needy though and doing too much and she complained today so I said i'll back off. if she doesn't text me first, i'll talk to her when i get back to the US in a few months. I'll still see my best friend (or ex best-friend) when I come back because we have the same friend groups and I can't avoid him.

4. How do I remedy this situation and still Bleep her again? I know it sounds stupid but my mind is made up. She's my first and she was actually good and I enjoy spending time with her when we Bleep. i don't necessarily want to date her but at least I still want to hit that. Also, it's a matter of pride to me because if they're still dating when i come back and i can Bleep her while she's dating some of my hurt will reduce. Also, i know i'm attached to her but I also want to right my wrongs and give her mind blowing sex to redeem myself and my sanity. How do I remedy the situation and still keep her on the cards? To be honest, even if you say not to try to Bleep her my mind is made up. I have to try at least, so please advice me accordingly.

5. How do I stop being emotional and acting like a girl. I react to things too much, take things personally and I'm insecure.

6. How can I keep myself sane and stop thinking about it? It's hurting my soul and staying here for months basically doing nothing is going to be torture for me?

7. Give me some general advice about game? How do I improve and go on from here.

Please I need comprehensive responses, I don't need a band aid on my wound but a full body surgery. I want to change this few months I'm here before I go back.

Thank you again for reading and forgive the errors and improper structure. I've been writing straight for two hours.

Pukkalolo:



Ok let's get started...

1. I'm tired of being a nice guy and insecure. I want to be more confident and improve my frame?

Look, the only way to be truly confident is to simply become comfortable with rejection and criticism. We think confidence comes from the ability of getting what we desire... But in reality, true confidence is being comfortable with losing what you desire(e.g the girl). For example when a beautiful girl reject or decline a guy's romantic interest, he tends to feels sad and emotionally weak.

But I'm totally different in the sense that when I get rejected or it seemed like I'm losing a girl, I still carry myself with a boatload of CONFIDENCE. That's because I'm totally comfortable with rejection.

Confidence works in a paradoxical way: The more I try to make things go my way and try hard to get the girl, the more insecure and less confident I become. But the more I embrace that not every girl will like me, the more confidence I suddenly feel in my own skin; and that then boost my chance of getting her.


2. How do I improve my sex game?

Look at it this way: imagine you moved into a new estate, and you want to give yourself a nice haircut. You heard there are only two barbers. Let's say these two barbers are I and IAmHim1.

So you first enter into my saloon. Without even asking you the haircut you want, I began barbing your hair. I rush the task, and in less than "2 minutes" I was done with your hair. Then I demanded for my fucking money. Of course, you are not satisfied with my job.

A week later, you went to IAmHim1 barbing salon. Before he begin haircut, he asked you how you want your haircut to look like...then he began the task. He relax and passionately cut your hair. He took his time and make sure he gave you maximum satisfaction. After over 30 minutes he was done.

You naturally prefer IAmHim1 service over mine because he took his time to satisfy your hair needs.

When a girl allow you bleep, she wants sexual satisfaction from you. Having good sex game is simply having the ability to satisfy her sexually.

But here's the interesting thing I've learnt from dating different ladies over the years, there is no "one fit size all secret" to satisfy any woman. I noticed that different women have different preferences and different things they enjoy in bed . What works for one woman may not necessarily work for another woman.

Just like IAmHim1 ask you about your haircut preference before going ahead to cut your hair. The only way to know what she enjoy most is to talk about sex with her and pay attention to how she responds to what you are doing in bed.

Most times, when I'm the talk stage with a girl or getting to know her, the vast majority of conversation is centered around relationships, sex and romance.. This helps me get to know her deeply and what she enjoys.

3. How do I handle this situation? She was asking me how to make me feel better and asking if i was mad when she told me she was dating him.

Well, dude...life is teacher, the more you live the more you learn. It's a good thing that now you know the kind of best friend you have: he's a fucking snitch. And that also says alot about the girl.

4. How do I remedy this situation and still Bleep her again?

Wait, dude, are you still concerned about bleeping her You got to be kidding me!
I see what your problem is, but don't worry, we'll get that in #7.


5. How do I stop being emotional and acting like a girl?

I've already answer this question several times. Simply open my profile and read all my posts on these thread and read all my topic nairaland.

6. How can I keep myself sane and stop thinking about it?

Well, distract yourself with productive activities....and try to meet other girls online or something. By the way, why do you still even have her phone number Anyways, just keep yourself busy with productive activities.


7. Give me some general advice about game? How do I improve and go on from here.

The best way to improve your game with women is to change your focus. Most men are pussy focused because they subconsciously believe pussy is the prize. They'll do anything to get the pussy...

But I'm different. I'm attention focused because subconsciously I believe my attention is the fucking prize. I learned about the idea of pussy focused and attention focused over the years of dating different (naija) ladies.

It's funny, in my entire life, I've never seen or heard anyone talk about the concept of pussy focused or attention focused. I had to learn that the hard way: personal experience.

Years ago, I realized that most women dating advice out there always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex.

But nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women. Instead they tell men the opposite. They say, "women love attention, so if you want to get her, give her your full attention."

But in reality, it's the other way around: if you want to get her, give her less of your attention.

When you are pussy focused, you believe her pussy is the prize to be won, so you try to impress her by saying or doing things that you think would inspire her to give you access to the pussy. This naturally makes you weak.

A man who is pussy focused places more importance on "getting the girl".... He doesn't mind disrespecting himself or sacrificing his self-esteem in the process.

I'm attention focused, so I places my attention on pedestal, not pussy. A woman's heart or pussy is not the prize to be won but rather my ATTENTION is the prize to be won. .

The reason why you find yourself in this mess with that girl is because you are pussy focused. If you were attention focused, by now she'll be the one chasing your attention and trying to give you the pussy continuously.

Pussy focused game is what most pua, dating gurus and even most redpill advice teach... This is why most guys still lack solid game despite everything they've learn about women.

I run attention focused game because my attention is the only thing i have DIRECT CONTROL over. So, I don't give a flying Bleep about her pussy: my focus is to simply keep adjusting the validation(attention) I give and withhold from her.

I have met only few guys in my life who are authentically attention focused. These guys are never lonely: they attract and get lots of women in quality and quantity

When you run pussy focused game, you'd be trying to pass her shit test. But when you run attention focused game, you'd be the one basically dishing out the shit test.

When you're run attention focused game you might naturally tend to come across as a asshole or jerk or overconfident.. Which is not a bad thing though.

See my interaction with this girl in this post. She thinks I'm the biggest asshole, but up to this day she keeps returning for the D:

https://www.nairaland.com/7800065/darkest-aspects-female-psychology#125048452

I hope this was helpful. Stay blessed.

IAmHim1:
people dont change with time. they do so with basic understanding of themselves. the basic understanding of themselves is then wrapped in time. thats why you hear phrases like "time heals" NOPE TIME DOESNT HEAL. if not all politicians @ 40yrs would have been veerry wise

Being a man isnt the addition of more man-like qualities. lolzzz do this and do that. NOPE!

being a man means FIRST severing ties that makes you a woman
see it this way: Being cold isnt the addition of adding more cold BUT BY REDUCING THE HEAT. stop what hurts you first. i keep singing this like an anthem. even wrote something about it. titled 'The equation to Happiness'

what are the qualities that makes a man a woman you might ask
look around you observe women what are they known for
complaining, inability to lead, shyness(cant maintain eye contact), ask for permission for being women, easily agreeable, etcetera etcetera. Observe all the traits you see in women that makes you act like woman AND WORK ON ENDING THOSE TRAITS IN YOURSELF FIRST!!!!


as for the sex, work on the food you eat. what gives erections is blood flowing through blood vessels properly. If at any point in time this blood flow is affected due blockages in blood vessels, then youre left with premature ejaculation and inability to maintain erections. heart pumps blood BUT the blood must have free flow to the penis else youll be having stop and start which cause weak erections and quick ejaculation problems

see sex like a swimming pool. when you go swimming, you dont immediately jump into the pool. nope. you gotta feel the water first with your legs thats why you see girls hanging around the edge of the swimming pools first before they swim. NOPE testing the temperature of the water doesnt make you a girl. YOU THINKING OTHER PEOPLE WILL THINK YOURE A GIRL IF YOURE TESTING THE POOL WITH BOTH LEGS MAKES YOU A GIRL!!

the penis is sensitive especially the cap. mostly sensitive to temperature. the pussy is most times warm n moist. so you see. THE PENIS IS MOSTLY OUTSIDE THE BODY. sometimes the penis is cold other times its neutral. now introducing the a cold/neutral SENSITIVE penis inside a warm vagina without making the penis adapt to the warm vagina is the reason why most men dont last Apart from poor diet issues of course



when you get inside a woman, make your penis adapt to the temperature of her vagina for some few minutes first before you start stroking if not you may not last that long.
thats why you see stores selling cream to help men last longer. this cream takes away the sensitivity in the penis cap making men last longer in bed
so GOOD DIET (cut away refined sugar, soft/hard drinks, butter) etc. try eat natural. + making the penis adapt in vagina first

refined sugar, coke, chelsea, heineken, guilder...theyre all bullshit. the reason they tell diabetic patient to not eat much carbohydrates is because the end product of carbohydrate is sugar. so you see. the end product of carbohydrates is still sugar so why d fvck will you be drinking garri(sugar) and still using sugar again. lolzzzzz

i hear people still saying "ill just use a lil sugar make e sweet" or " its just one bottle of alcohol per week. it shouldnt hurt"
lolzzz. for those reading this, if its addiction, i have been there too. im out now and i managed to write how i got out of my addiction "The One Guide to ending your addiction"
one core tenet of redpill is discipline. if you dont have control over yourself, others( people and things) will easily have control over you. its more of an aura thing

sex styles are also important. theres a relationship between gravity and erection. thats why styles like missionary most men dont last long while other styles like cowgirl and reverse cowgirl makes men last long. its all on the angle at which the penis enters the vagina AND STAYS so youd be wise to check out sex styles that can make you last long not necessarily the ones youre comfortable with


work on your mindset. it seems easy typing this on the yellow chair im sitting on right now but it pays. Ill reveal something to you right now that will change everything for you

you wanna fvck a girl that chosed you friend over you so you can regain your lost masculinity right. you come online looking for advice on how to Bleep this girl really good so she can realise the captivating penis she wasnt so patient with and almost missed.
its all cool. we all think we got something to prove but by doing that youre reinforcing the image placed on you

by fvcking her, youll be reinforcing her image of a cold heartless bitch you placed on her.

HOW!

In your mind youll be thinking "yeah, this girl made me a better man. ive fVcked her and she seems happy. now shell know who's the boss"

BUT IN HER MIND, SHES FEELING "so all i had to do to make millie0 a better man in bed and in life general WAS TO SLEEP WITH HIS BEST FRIEND. lolzzz. so the next time i want millie0 to perform better in bed and fvck me senseless, ALL I HAVE TO DO IS FVCK ANOTHER OF HIS FRIEND AND PURPOSELY MAKE HIM FIND OUT. and if i want the best of the best sex from millie0, i have to fvck 3 of his friends at a time and make him find out about the affair. ill make him think he has something to prove to me while enjoying myself in the process"

now that up there is the difference between emotional thinking and logical thinking. women are emotional, men are logical

and women chase relationships. it gives them an opportunity to form a bond with that stranger that makes their pvssy dripp.
if you as a man start chasing relationship, it robs women of the opportunity to form a bond with you. focus on your purpose.
YOUR PURPOSE HAS TO BE HIGHER THAN YOURSELF. if you make a woman your purpose, what then happens when such a woman dies. you crave to remain purposeless huh

your friend has taught you a lesson? and what did you pay him with. you lent him your play station n chillz lolzzzz
hating your friend would be the most stoopid thing to ever do to yourself. learn your lesson and dont try to repeat it another person. you know how you felt when someone did it to you unno

the girl doesnt respect you.
when man and woman have sex, the man disrespect the pussy and the womans body in general while the woman RESPECTS THE MAN DISRESPECTING HER PUSSY AND HER BODY IN GENERAL. its the madonna LovePeddler complex thingy. the madonna is respected but isnt fvcked well while the LovePeddler is disrespected and is fvched the way she craves.

what am i saying.
respect is looking up while Disrespect is looking down

to fvck a girl in a mind blowing way, you have to see her in a disrespectful way. men claim they hate prostitute but when they fvck prostitutes, they swalllow truck loads of tramadol to get erect and teach that nasty prostitute a lesson. lolzzzz while their respected wives at home is denied a proper sexxing.

for a girl to want to be fvcked in a disrespectful way by you, SHE HAS TO RESPECT YOU.

hope you see it clearly now millie0

IAmHim1:
people dont change with time. they do so with basic understanding of themselves. the basic understanding of themselves is then wrapped in time. thats why you hear phrases like "time heals" NOPE TIME DOESNT HEAL. if not all politicians @ 40yrs would have been veerry wise

Being a man isnt the addition of more man-like qualities. lolzzz do this and do that. NOPE!

being a man means FIRST severing ties that makes you a woman
see it this way: Being cold isnt the addition of adding more cold BUT BY REDUCING THE HEAT. stop what hurts you first. i keep singing this like an anthem. even wrote something about it. titled 'The equation to Happiness'

what are the qualities that makes a man a woman you might ask
look around you observe women what are they known for
complaining, inability to lead, shyness(cant maintain eye contact), ask for permission for being women, easily agreeable, etcetera etcetera. Observe all the traits you see in women that makes you act like woman AND WORK ON ENDING THOSE TRAITS IN YOURSELF FIRST!!!!


as for the sex, work on the food you eat. what gives erections is blood flowing through blood vessels properly. If at any point in time this blood flow is affected due blockages in blood vessels, then youre left with premature ejaculation and inability to maintain erections. heart pumps blood BUT the blood must have free flow to the penis else youll be having stop and start which cause weak erections and quick ejaculation problems

see sex like a swimming pool. when you go swimming, you dont immediately jump into the pool. nope. you gotta feel the water first with your legs thats why you see girls hanging around the edge of the swimming pools first before they swim. NOPE testing the temperature of the water doesnt make you a girl. YOU THINKING OTHER PEOPLE WILL THINK YOURE A GIRL IF YOURE TESTING THE POOL WITH BOTH LEGS MAKES YOU A GIRL!!

the penis is sensitive especially the cap. mostly sensitive to temperature. the pussy is most times warm n moist. so you see. THE PENIS IS MOSTLY OUTSIDE THE BODY. sometimes the penis is cold other times its neutral. now introducing the a cold/neutral SENSITIVE penis inside a warm vagina without making the penis adapt to the warm vagina is the reason why most men dont last Apart from poor diet issues of course



when you get inside a woman, make your penis adapt to the temperature of her vagina for some few minutes first before you start stroking if not you may not last that long.
thats why you see stores selling cream to help men last longer. this cream takes away the sensitivity in the penis cap making men last longer in bed
so GOOD DIET (cut away refined sugar, soft/hard drinks, butter) etc. try eat natural. + making the penis adapt in vagina first

refined sugar, coke, chelsea, heineken, guilder...theyre all bullshit. the reason they tell diabetic patient to not eat much carbohydrates is because the end product of carbohydrate is sugar. so you see. the end product of carbohydrates is still sugar so why d fvck will you be drinking garri(sugar) and still using sugar again. lolzzzzz

i hear people still saying "ill just use a lil sugar make e sweet" or " its just one bottle of alcohol per week. it shouldnt hurt"
lolzzz. for those reading this, if its addiction, i have been there too. im out now and i managed to write how i got out of my addiction "The One Guide to ending your addiction"
one core tenet of redpill is discipline. if you dont have control over yourself, others( people and things) will easily have control over you. its more of an aura thing

sex styles are also important. theres a relationship between gravity and erection. thats why styles like missionary most men dont last long while other styles like cowgirl and reverse cowgirl makes men last long. its all on the angle at which the penis enters the vagina AND STAYS so youd be wise to check out sex styles that can make you last long not necessarily the ones youre comfortable with


work on your mindset. it seems easy typing this on the yellow chair im sitting on right now but it pays. Ill reveal something to you right now that will change everything for you

you wanna fvck a girl that chosed you friend over you so you can regain your lost masculinity right. you come online looking for advice on how to Bleep this girl really good so she can realise the captivating penis she wasnt so patient with and almost missed.
its all cool. we all think we got something to prove but by doing that youre reinforcing the image placed on you

by fvcking her, youll be reinforcing her image of a cold heartless bitch you placed on her.

HOW!

In your mind youll be thinking "yeah, this girl made me a better man. ive fVcked her and she seems happy. now shell know who's the boss"

BUT IN HER MIND, SHES FEELING "so all i had to do to make millie0 a better man in bed and in life general WAS TO SLEEP WITH HIS BEST FRIEND. lolzzz. so the next time i want millie0 to perform better in bed and fvck me senseless, ALL I HAVE TO DO IS FVCK ANOTHER OF HIS FRIEND AND PURPOSELY MAKE HIM FIND OUT. and if i want the best of the best sex from millie0, i have to fvck 3 of his friends at a time and make him find out about the affair. ill make him think he has something to prove to me while enjoying myself in the process"

now that up there is the difference between emotional thinking and logical thinking. women are emotional, men are logical

and women chase relationships. it gives them an opportunity to form a bond with that stranger that makes their pvssy dripp.
if you as a man start chasing relationship, it robs women of the opportunity to form a bond with you. focus on your purpose.
YOUR PURPOSE HAS TO BE HIGHER THAN YOURSELF. if you make a woman your purpose, what then happens when such a woman dies. you crave to remain purposeless huh

your friend has taught you a lesson? and what did you pay him with. you lent him your play station n chillz lolzzzz
hating your friend would be the most stoopid thing to ever do to yourself. learn your lesson and dont try to repeat it another person. you know how you felt when someone did it to you unno

the girl doesnt respect you.
when man and woman have sex, the man disrespect the pussy and the womans body in general while the woman RESPECTS THE MAN DISRESPECTING HER PUSSY AND HER BODY IN GENERAL. its the madonna LovePeddler complex thingy. the madonna is respected but isnt fvcked well while the LovePeddler is disrespected and is fvched the way she craves.

what am i saying.
respect is looking up while Disrespect is looking down

to fvck a girl in a mind blowing way, you have to see her in a disrespectful way. men claim they hate prostitute but when they fvck prostitutes, they swalllow truck loads of tramadol to get erect and teach that nasty prostitute a lesson. lolzzzz while their respected wives at home is denied a proper sexxing.

for a girl to want to be fvcked in a disrespectful way by you, SHE HAS TO RESPECT YOU.

hope you see it clearly now millie0

luminouz:


You should have ignored him.

Other mumus like him are vicboy1, wotowotoman. Same moniker, same person...

Ignore and watch them fade away like the mist before the early morning sunrise

AyoII:
Wahala dey oo, So f.. king trolls has taken over this thread. It's too early in the new year to start doing this. You guys can do Better.

millie0:
Gold. You explained things perfectly and colorfully. I see things clearly now. I've learnt my lesson from this situation.

millie0:
Well understood.

I was placing too much importance on her and I lost myself in the process. By acting too needy and desperate, I was making her pull away.

I'm the prize and my attention is worth more than sex with her.

This has thought me more about human relationships. I also realized I was naive, your "friend" could sell you out faster than your enemy.

Thanks again.

Pukkalolo:



Ok let's get started...

1. I'm tired of being a nice guy and insecure. I want to be more confident and improve my frame?

Look, the only way to be truly confident is to simply become comfortable with rejection and criticism. We think confidence comes from the ability of getting what we desire... But in reality, true confidence is being comfortable with losing what you desire(e.g the girl). For example when a beautiful girl reject or decline a guy's romantic interest, he tends to feels sad and emotionally weak.

But I'm totally different in the sense that when I get rejected or it seemed like I'm losing a girl, I still carry myself with a boatload of CONFIDENCE. That's because I'm totally comfortable with rejection.

Confidence works in a paradoxical way: The more I try to make things go my way and try hard to get the girl, the more insecure and less confident I become. But the more I embrace that not every girl will like me, the more confidence I suddenly feel in my own skin; and that then boost my chance of getting her.


2. How do I improve my sex game?

Look at it this way: imagine you moved into a new estate, and you want to give yourself a nice haircut. You heard there are only two barbers. Let's say these two barbers are I and IAmHim1.

So you first enter into my saloon. Without even asking you the haircut you want, I began barbing your hair. I rush the task, and in less than "2 minutes" I was done with your hair. Then I demanded for my fucking money. Of course, you are not satisfied with my job.

A week later, you went to IAmHim1 barbing salon. Before he begin haircut, he asked you how you want your haircut to look like...then he began the task. He relax and passionately cut your hair. He took his time and make sure he gave you maximum satisfaction. After over 30 minutes he was done.

You naturally prefer IAmHim1 service over mine because he took his time to satisfy your hair needs.

When a girl allow you bleep, she wants sexual satisfaction from you. Having good sex game is simply having the ability to satisfy her sexually.

But here's the interesting thing I've learnt from dating different ladies over the years, there is no "one fit size all secret" to satisfy any woman. I noticed that different women have different preferences and different things they enjoy in bed . What works for one woman may not necessarily work for another woman.

Just like IAmHim1 ask you about your haircut preference before going ahead to cut your hair. The only way to know what she enjoy most is to talk about sex with her and pay attention to how she responds to what you are doing in bed.

Most times, when I'm the talk stage with a girl or getting to know her, the vast majority of conversation is centered around relationships, sex and romance.. This helps me get to know her deeply and what she enjoys.

3. How do I handle this situation? She was asking me how to make me feel better and asking if i was mad when she told me she was dating him.

Well, dude...life is teacher, the more you live the more you learn. It's a good thing that now you know the kind of best friend you have: he's a fucking snitch. And that also says alot about the girl.

4. How do I remedy this situation and still Bleep her again?

Wait, dude, are you still concerned about bleeping her You got to be kidding me!
I see what your problem is, but don't worry, we'll get that in #7.


5. How do I stop being emotional and acting like a girl?

I've already answer this question several times. Simply open my profile and read all my posts on these thread and read all my topic nairaland.

6. How can I keep myself sane and stop thinking about it?

Well, distract yourself with productive activities....and try to meet other girls online or something. By the way, why do you still even have her phone number Anyways, just keep yourself busy with productive activities.


7. Give me some general advice about game? How do I improve and go on from here.

The best way to improve your game with women is to change your focus. Most men are pussy focused because they subconsciously believe pussy is the prize. They'll do anything to get the pussy...

But I'm different. I'm attention focused because subconsciously I believe my attention is the fucking prize. I learned about the idea of pussy focused and attention focused over the years of dating different (naija) ladies.

It's funny, in my entire life, I've never seen or heard anyone talk about the concept of pussy focused or attention focused. I had to learn that the hard way: personal experience.

Years ago, I realized that most women dating advice out there always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex.

But nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women. Instead they tell men the opposite. They say, "women love attention, so if you want to get her, give her your full attention."

But in reality, it's the other way around: if you want to get her, give her less of your attention.

When you are pussy focused, you believe her pussy is the prize to be won, so you try to impress her by saying or doing things that you think would inspire her to give you access to the pussy. This naturally makes you weak.

A man who is pussy focused places more importance on "getting the girl".... He doesn't mind disrespecting himself or sacrificing his self-esteem in the process.

I'm attention focused, so I places my attention on pedestal, not pussy. A woman's heart or pussy is not the prize to be won but rather my ATTENTION is the prize to be won. She has to earn my full attention.

The reason why you find yourself in this mess with that girl is because you are pussy focused. If you were attention focused, by now she'll be the one chasing your attention and trying to give you the pussy continuously.

Pussy focused game is what most pua, dating gurus and even most redpill advice teach... This is why most guys still lack solid game despite everything they've learn about women.

I run attention focused game because my attention is the only thing i have DIRECT CONTROL over. So, I don't give a flying Bleep about her pussy: my focus is to simply keep adjusting the validation(attention) I give and withhold from her.

I have met only few guys in my life who are authentically attention focused. These guys are never lonely: they attract and get lots of women in quality and quantity

When you run pussy focused game, you'd be trying to pass her shit test.

But when you run attention focused game, you'd be the one basically dishing out the shit test. Remember, my attention is the prize and she has to earn my full attention, that's why I'm dishing out these shit test to see if she's worth my attention.

Later on this thread, I'll give you different series shit test I throw at woman to see if she's worth the pursuit... The more she pass my shit test, the more I reward her with my attention.

When you run attention focused game you might naturally tend to come across as a asshole, cocky or overconfident.. Which is not a bad thing tho. Girls will love you regardless.

See my interaction with this girl in this post. She thinks I'm the biggest asshole, but up to this day she keeps returning for the D:

https://www.nairaland.com/7800065/darkest-aspects-female-psychology#125048452

I hope this was helpful. Stay blessed.

PureFace1:
Some Essential Dating Advice for Men
by Mike Pilinski

If you're a single guy still looking for your dream girl, I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. A lot of it is "common sensical" as you well know.

Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox -- and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead. Check these out:

1) Don't Try to Act Like a Fake on the First Date

A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche.

Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh, unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.

Acting like a phony with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive.

She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!

2) Create New Memories Instead of Swapping Them

Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.

It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's TOO MUCH information!..."

For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.

So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere.

Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.

3) Don't Be a Bore

A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!

The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR interests lost in the background.

Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)

4) Forget About Trying to Act "Like Yourself"

The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic" B.S.

Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phony-baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.

So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up... dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks.

Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is... something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance motor is humming along in high gear.

5) Five Minutes of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down

After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND.

You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!

Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.

6) Obsession Is the Hallmark of the Weak Male

Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But -- because they have many options with females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested.

Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread... women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few times already.

7) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and Believe It

I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind!

Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you... *no matter what*.

Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH.

Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.

Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!

Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you test it out.



https://www.sosuave.com/articles/essential.htm

Pukkalolo:



Ok let's get started...

1. I'm tired of being a nice guy and insecure. I want to be more confident and improve my frame?

Look, the only way to be truly confident is to simply become comfortable with rejection and criticism. We think confidence comes from the ability of getting what we desire... But in reality, true confidence is being comfortable with losing what you desire(e.g the girl). For example when a beautiful girl reject or decline a guy's romantic interest, he tends to feels sad and emotionally weak.

But I'm totally different in the sense that when I get rejected or it seemed like I'm losing a girl, I still carry myself with a boatload of CONFIDENCE. That's because I'm totally comfortable with rejection.

Confidence works in a paradoxical way: The more I try to make things go my way and try hard to get the girl, the more insecure and less confident I become. But the more I embrace that not every girl will like me, the more confidence I suddenly feel in my own skin; and that then boost my chance of getting her.


2. How do I improve my sex game?

Look at it this way: imagine you moved into a new estate, and you want to give yourself a nice haircut. You heard there are only two barbers. Let's say these two barbers are I and IAmHim1.

So you first enter into my saloon. Without even asking you the haircut you want, I began barbing your hair. I rush the task, and in less than "2 minutes" I was done with your hair. Then I demanded for my fucking money. Of course, you are not satisfied with my job.

A week later, you went to IAmHim1 barbing salon. Before he begin haircut, he asked you how you want your haircut to look like...then he began the task. He relax and passionately cut your hair. He took his time and make sure he gave you maximum satisfaction. After over 30 minutes he was done.

You naturally prefer IAmHim1 service over mine because he took his time to satisfy your hair needs.

When a girl allow you bleep, she wants sexual satisfaction from you. Having good sex game is simply having the ability to satisfy her sexually.

But here's the interesting thing I've learnt from dating different ladies over the years, there is no "one fit size all secret" to satisfy any woman. I noticed that different women have different preferences and different things they enjoy in bed . What works for one woman may not necessarily work for another woman.

Just like IAmHim1 ask you about your haircut preference before going ahead to cut your hair. The only way to know what she enjoy most is to talk about sex with her and pay attention to how she responds to what you are doing in bed.

Most times, when I'm the talk stage with a girl or getting to know her, the vast majority of conversation is centered around relationships, sex and romance.. This helps me get to know her deeply and what she enjoys.

3. How do I handle this situation? She was asking me how to make me feel better and asking if i was mad when she told me she was dating him.

Well, dude...life is teacher, the more you live the more you learn. It's a good thing that now you know the kind of best friend you have: he's a fucking snitch. And that also says alot about the girl.

4. How do I remedy this situation and still Bleep her again?

Wait, dude, are you still concerned about bleeping her You got to be kidding me!
I see what your problem is, but don't worry, we'll get that in #7.


5. How do I stop being emotional and acting like a girl?

I've already answer this question several times. Simply open my profile and read all my posts on these thread and read all my topic nairaland.

6. How can I keep myself sane and stop thinking about it?

Well, distract yourself with productive activities....and try to meet other girls online or something. By the way, why do you still even have her phone number Anyways, just keep yourself busy with productive activities.


7. Give me some general advice about game? How do I improve and go on from here.

The best way to improve your game with women is to change your focus. Most men are pussy focused because they subconsciously believe pussy is the prize. They'll do anything to get the pussy...

But I'm different. I'm attention focused because subconsciously I believe my attention is the fucking prize. I learned about the idea of pussy focused and attention focused over the years of dating different (naija) ladies.

It's funny, in my entire life, I've never seen or heard anyone talk about the concept of pussy focused or attention focused. I had to learn that the hard way: personal experience.

Years ago, I realized that most women dating advice out there always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex.

But nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women. Instead they tell men the opposite. They say, "women love attention, so if you want to get her, give her your full attention."

But in reality, it's the other way around: if you want to get her, give her less of your attention.

When you are pussy focused, you believe her pussy is the prize to be won, so you try to impress her by saying or doing things that you think would inspire her to give you access to the pussy. This naturally makes you weak.

A man who is pussy focused places more importance on "getting the girl".... He doesn't mind disrespecting himself or sacrificing his self-esteem in the process.

I'm attention focused, so I places my attention on pedestal, not pussy. A woman's heart or pussy is not the prize to be won but rather my ATTENTION is the prize to be won. She has to earn my full attention.

The reason why you find yourself in this mess with that girl is because you are pussy focused. If you were attention focused, by now she'll be the one chasing your attention and trying to give you the pussy continuously.

Pussy focused game is what most pua, dating gurus and even most redpill advice teach... This is why most guys still lack solid game despite everything they've learn about women.

I run attention focused game because my attention is the only thing i have DIRECT CONTROL over. So, I don't give a flying Bleep about her pussy: my focus is to simply keep adjusting the validation(attention) I give and withhold from her.

I have met only few guys in my life who are authentically attention focused. These guys are never lonely: they attract and get lots of women in quality and quantity

When you run pussy focused game, you'd be trying to pass her shit test.

But when you run attention focused game, you'd be the one basically dishing out the shit test. Remember, my attention is the prize and she has to earn my full attention, that's why I'm dishing out these shit test to see if she's worth my attention.

Later on this thread, I'll give you different series shit test I throw at woman to see if she's worth the pursuit... The more she pass my shit test, the more I reward her with my attention.

When you run attention focused game you might naturally tend to come across as a asshole, cocky or overconfident.. Which is not a bad thing tho. Girls will love you regardless.

See my interaction with this girl in this post. She thinks I'm the biggest asshole, but up to this day she keeps returning for the D:

https://www.nairaland.com/7800065/darkest-aspects-female-psychology#125048452

I hope this was helpful. Stay blessed.

Tranquility2345:


Guy you don finally treat that STD for your balls abi you carry am enter 2024 🤢🤮

MetalJigsaw:
🤣🤣🤣 u dis guy abi girl wetin u want sef

Tranquility2345:


See na. Na him alt be that Kezie moniker

Fiscus105:




Why given ADVICE wen all women are bad and indoctrinate ur fellow men against women?

Why not get married to ur fellow men and go for "adoption" to have ur "biological" kids?

Bunch of hypocrites!

MetalJigsaw:
Chai! Na true sha... U sef come carry am enter this thread😂😂😂 ...ah u Kala o🤣🤣🤣

Abeg free d nigga o