₦airaland Forum

dominique:
There are lots of level-headed, reasonable women over there in the US. These men will ignore them and go and import much younger village girls because because they want someone they can control totally. Most of these men control and exploit their wives financially till the wives get exposed and start exerting her powers. Marrying for the wrong reasons hardly end in praise.

That's Nigerian men for you.

The men marry village girls till date, thinking they can control the village wives imported to abroad.


And I laugh at their foolishness.

Even in Nigeria here, some husbands are adocating their wives gives them their paycheck every month.

One unfortunate useless banker while courting me in the past says, every money I make in my company will be paid into his account when we get married. Do I agree or not?

I laughed and looked at him, then I asked him? Where were u when I was struggling to build my biz? Because of dangling marriage like a carrot in my face, u think I'm so desperate to hand over my life savings to u?

You use jazz in your tongue? Cos i don't understand your English.

Thief! Ole!

Smhhhhh.

From another student from our school.

She nailed it.

Just 3months!

Take a step above competitions.. U can do it !

jornwhite:
I can see you're so much in love with yourself, i doubt if you have any luv left to give, if you feel like a trophy why not consider "marrying yourself ". must you cease every opportunity to brag achievement wey no dey 9 o'clock news where okonjo iweala still dey claim she is poor to employ staffs o ti mo e lara
Vic a lot of men seem to understand women b4 marriage, cos women don't blow out there full color ... once again you said so much about ur man n nothing about yourself do you understand him as well, he swallowz ur bullshit can you swallow his bullshit tew. vic vic i know u o, this is just my alternate

For a minute, i almost thot you lived with kim & kanye, its such a pity no news could relate to what you spew, there was no time kim(my gurl ) ever wanted to divorce kanye, a news got out buh it was a mere rumour n that was when kanye was acting kolomental.
kanye naa real G kim could neva av settled for a simp, hence d series of divorce and speaking of a no nonsense guy, here is what kanye said recently .

No problem.

Goodnight

jornwhite:
You beta stop feeling a trophy, if you follow kanye & kim well enough .. you wil know kanye is nonsense guy, even jenner & other kardashians watch there words around him.
you said so much about what your future hubby must do only to end up saying nothing about yourself ...why not say you will do the things kim did for kanye, jus curious

If I don't feel trophy with all I've achieved and passed through in life so far, who will feel it for me? You?

Anyways I do watch Keeping up with the Kardasians. I also watched when Kanye turned born again and wanted to make Kim accept his belief. But the more he tried his no nonsense attitude at that point, Kim revolts and wanted a divorce. She complained u cant accept and approve of my sexiness and nudity then wake up on me day and say uv accepted Christ and expect me to start covering up my body?
It doesn't work that way with me!
You want to be born again and change your lifestyle? Fine but don't expect me to change the Way I feel and love showing off my sexiness. You are actually suffocating me.
When Kanye realised he's about to loose Kim, his kids in a divorce, they had to come to a meeting point of him NOT taking total control of how she dresses.


So my dear Kanye's no nonsense attitude almost cost him a divorce.

That's one.


Then second question is very Childish, I'm not Kim, I don't look like Kim, I don't behave like Kim, she claustrophobic , but I'm not. Shes extremely vain, while I'm not even though I adore my chubby looks. Then my job is different from Kim's job, I don't like public nudity, she adores It. I'm a Nigerian,, and she is not. So many disparities between us.
The only similarities we have is: Live and let us live. Dont stiffle us with rules and control switches.

Then my man is a Nigerian, he's not Kanye West.
My man and Kanye West are two different people from different race ,beliefs and everything u can think of, even though in my eyes he's a great man cos he's won my heart to stay put with him.
Unlike guys I dated in the past who felt terribly Insecure about me from the day one, many years back.

One thing I know WIl be similar between Kim, Kanye, then me and my boo.

Least I omit, I have a boo and I have made up my mind to stand by him, support him through thick and thin no matter what as long as we are still in a relationship.

And so far his friends are amazed we are doing perfectly fine together even with their doubting Thomas minds. Saying a lady like Victorian? Mba ! She can't be submissive . We doubt it.

But he doesn't doubt it. He knows my mumu button which Im amazed about.
He truly surprised me and I pray we keep it up with each other.

I pray.


So don't expect me to be like Kim in behavior.

He's so pained a man married her and got her pregnant

He could not even hide his pains.

Sorry o! Uncle Meek!

m140:
Born girl tell her to marry 37 sir

You are so naive
It's not about telling your daughter to marry early and boom! She marries.

Marriage takes two interested people from different backgrounds, culture, beliefs to. Make a comfortable and peaceful home orelse she will rush in and rush out as divorced single mother of two or three kids.

Advice your daughter to marry a man she truly. Loves, complement and understand her. Its not by constant breathing down on her neck to marry.

Orelse u may end up dissapointed at the result.

Kraspo:
Even with her baby bump, she is still hot. The man that is able to impregnate a bad girl like Nicki and make her keep the pregnancy must be a real Gee.
But some feminists are busy saying men are scum while bad girls like Nicki and Kim Kardashian are getting married, making babies and creating beautiful homes.

Use your head

It's because their men were understanding, supportive ,extremely loving, tough and firm in a subtle way and they don't breathe down on the necks of kim, Nicki and other women like them As if they own these women as properties.

I always say the man who will eventually marry me, make me accept to get pregnant and create a home with him, is indeed a great man who has achieved a great feat in life even though I look calm.

It takes an intelligent, warm, very patient, overly kind and caring man who can trust my kind of person to stay with me and create a home.

Nicki's husband, Kim's husband are peculiar but great understanding men.

lefulefu:
it will work.wen i was in school there was this guy dating a runzgirl was diabolical.the guy was skipping classes and even stealing some thing in the boutique just to satisfy theis girl until he got caught.his parents came to resolve the issue and they took him home.wen the guy came back he told us some herbalist bathed him for six days with one strong concortion.Ever since then he stopped having any contact with the girl.

Wow.

Ok that's good.

Cos i like this guy as if he were my younger brother. His hot headedness reminds me of my brother. I'm always amused when he displays some stubborn behavior on what he believes in. I will just smile at his youthful exuberance and tell him to calm down with how he wants his dad and friends to believe his theory about life.

He's a good guy, if not for anything. He's a good hot blooded young chap.
It's well Lefulefu.

We go set am free.

lefulefu:
the only way to spiritually free that boy is that dem go carry am go a strong medicine man place.the medicine man will bath him with strong herbs for six days to wash all the jazz comot for im body or dem carry am to a strong pastor place wey go break am from the bondage

You are right.

I will tell the dad tomorrow.. He needs to set his son free orelse the family biz is in great jeopardy.
Tomorrow I will tell him.
Thanks jare

MhisTahrah:
You are one shallow individual.Ass, boobs and beauty are not all that makes a woman.

Does this ugly ducklling with flat chest and flat ass now makes a woman.

In my eyes, I see her as a deceitful snake already.

Infact what am. I even saying sef! She's a snake!

Sorry I'm insultive tonight o, but I'm truly dissapointed. That's the honest truth.

And mind u I'm not shallow., I admire beautiful ladies and cute guys. I simply like good looks but if the person is not good looking ?but as least compensate the ugliness with a heart of Gold ,

She can't be all zero in looks and character, to me it's highly unacceptable.

Extremely unacceptable!

lefulefu:
maybe the guy is seeing another thing when he looks at the girl.he might be seeing a girl with curvy buttocks or ample boobies ...d girl fit don turn the guy eyes

I believe so too.

What he may be seeing is a sexy girl

Because the love he has for the girl no balance with her looks. E no balance at all.
I will say to myself well, there are guys who desire such flat girls, so that no guy will woo her. Maybe that's why he loves her.

And d annoying thing I use to praise the girl before when he will call me aunty, , as he beams with smile, can't u see I made the right choice for a further wife. I even plan to sponsor her university degree. As she's from a poor home
I will look at her ugly face then I will reply the young guy whatever makes u happy no problem. It's good. U have nice plans for your wife. He will smile sheepishly

And I will look at the girl again, face your books o. Don't cheat on him when u eventually start your matric, be focused o.. She will smile shyly, and reply don't worry aunty I won't. I will be focused in school.

I didn't know she was playing a script. Lefulefu I shock make I no lie.

Honestly I'm tired.

lefulefu:
my friend in abuja he calls it decimal 10:10 .na from him i learn that word.there was one story that trended around 2017 or so.it was about one 19 yr old bini girl.this girl with the help of her mom who was an ex runz woman concorted one love portion and used it one one married man who was based in the uk and also came once in a while to spend some time in benin.na so dis man turn to complete mumu.all the money he was earning he was spending it on this girl and the mom .he opened a big boutique for her and bought her a brand new car.both the car and the mom upload a video of the car and begin dance and the splash the car with wine.but this man"s wife na all these commercial buses for benin she dey take go work.she no get car and nothing.the wife got to know about it and in anger she exposed both the girl and the mom and splashed their pixs on social media.she claimed that ever since the man had been spending on the girl he has completely negleted she and the kids.that she is the one who was paying for school fees for the kids and buying books while the man wasnt sending a single kobo.As usuall angry housewives and other married women swopped on the facebook page to insult the girl and instantly the girl deactivated .things dey happen.some jazz don turn some men to complete slowpoke.dey wont know what they doing again .

Chai!



Na wa o


Mehn! I surprise today. Things are really happening and if u see this girl, one ugly skinny girl that wear ojugo white eyeglass. Shes dark, shes not even fine, flat yansh, flat boobs .

The dad with anger says he doesn't even know what his son saw in her.

Sometimes I glance at her from my balcony upstairs and wonder what the guy saw in this plain sorry to say o, ugly looking girl. I never knew it was jazz.
And the mom was getting fatter and fresh the last time I saw her.
Sighs, things dey happen. No be lie.

lefulefu:
my friend in abuja he calls it decimal 10:10 .na from him i learn that word.there was one story that trended around 2017 or so.it was about one 19 yr old bini girl.this girl with the help of her mom who was an ex runz woman concorted one love portion and used it one one married man who was based in the uk and also came once in a while to spend some time in benin.na so dis man turn to complete mumu.all the money he was earning he was spending it on this girl and the mom .he opened a big boutique for her and bought her a brand new car.both the car and the mom upload a video of the car and begin dance and the splash the car with wine.but this man"s wife na all these commercial buses for benin she dey take go work.she no get car and nothing.the wife got to know about it and in anger she exposed both the girl and the mom and splashed their pixs on social media.she claimed that ever since the man had been spending on the girl he has completely negleted she and the kids.that she is the one who was paying for school fees for the kids and buying books while the man wasnt sending a single kobo.As usuall angry housewives and other married women swopped on the facebook page to insult the girl and instantly the girl deactivated .things dey happen.some jazz don turn some men to complete slowpoke.dey wont know what they doing again .

Chai!



Na wa o


Mehn! I surprise today. Things are really happening and if u see this girl, one ugly skinny girl that wear ojugo white eyeglass. Shes dark, shes not even fine, flat yansh, flat boobs .

The dad with anger says he doesn't even know what his son saw in her.

Sometimes I glance at her from my balcony upstairs and wonder what the guy saw in this plain sorry to say o, ugly looking girl. I never knew it was jazz.

Sighs, things dey happen. No be lie.

lefulefu:
my friend in abuja he calls it decimal 10:10 .na from him i learn that word.there was one story that trended around 2017 or so.it was about one 19 yr old bini girl.this girl with the help of her mom who was an ex runz woman concorted one love portion and used it one one married man who was based in the uk and also came once in a while to spend some time in benin.na so dis man turn to complete mumu.all the money he was earning he was spending it on this girl and the mom .he opened a big boutique for her and bought her a brand new car.both the car and the mom upload a video of the car and begin dance and the splash the car with wine.but this man"s wife na all these commercial buses for benin she dey take go work.she no get car and nothing.the wife got to know about it and in anger she exposed both the girl and the mom and splashed their pixs on social media.she claimed that ever since the man had been spending on the girl he has completely negleted she and the kids.that she is the one who was paying for school fees for the kids and buying books while the man wasnt sending a single kobo.As usuall angry housewives and other married women swopped on the facebook page to insult the girl and instantly the girl deactivated .things dey happen.some jazz don turn some men to complete slowpoke.dey wont know what they doing again .

Chai!



Na wa o


Mehn! I surprise today. Things are really happening and if u see this girl, one ugly skinny girl that wear ojugo white eyeglass. Shes dark, shes not even fine, flat yansh, flat boobs .

The dad with anger says he doesn't even know what his son saw in her.

Sometimes I glance at her from my balcony upstairs and wonder what the guy saw in this plain sorry to ugly looking girl. I never knew it was jazz.

Sighs, things dey happen. No be lie.

Kingininge:
It might be free pussy power.......don't rule it out

I hear. Na so

Only pussy indeed from a Jambite?

U try

lefulefu:
na God go save we guys oo
anyway i no dey use church these days to acess a woman cos i know some ladies with wicked characters na dem even sabi preach for church and speak in tongue.when u want to date a woman acess her character thoroughly b4 u end up with karashika

As in, I never knew it's this bad!

Honestly I never knew they are mixed up with jazz.

Mehn I fear! I fear human beings make I no lie!

It's just too bad. No wonder she showed me a brand new Samsung phone last month, sayin her mom gift her, and she loves her mom so much.

Mother I know say, no get work! How she could afford to buy her teenage girl new Samsung phone baffled me but I just smiled and said wow! Your mom try o.

One of my. Neighbours said no wonder they are looking So fresh, wearing new clothes, that she always see the girl eating turkey in their meals
. Everytime she sees her with turkey in rice, swallow and other meals. And she wonders how can a sales girl afford to eat so well. Lol

Ha! So it's the dad's money theyve been spending like this.

I was just laughing.


God Abeg o!

lefulefu:
iyam enjoying this tory ..which sacrilege dem commit biko

Have replied thru knininge


They've jazzed the poor guy!
Dey steal his dad's monies thru the guy all. In the name of I love you.
She's the one I will marry.

Mehn I shock today.

Kingininge:
What sacrilege did they commit?

Good!
This innocent looking naive girl whom we all thought is a good girl connives with her mother to charm her bf, to always transfers 100k, 200k, sometimes 150k to the young girls account.

The father called me this morning and said see what's happening about his son and his biz, cause we are friends. I said what Sir. He said do I know that whenever he balances his account, the account doesn't balance and his. Money keeps missing. He queried his son how come? What's really going on with my money, the son WIl give him a vague answer, he has quarrelled with his son several times until one day he found his sons phone where he was charging it and checked the inbox of the phone and realised the son has been transferring his head earned money to his 19 years old gf.

He almost ran mad! He called his son, what is this! Are u mad? So this is where most of my monies is entering! Oh my god! He ran to the girls shop, called her out and said so u and your mother has finally charmed by son. How come my son transfers so much money to your account? I will deal with u people and u! He told his son, u will no longer Have access to my funds and monies anymore and if u dare get close to this girl. I will curse and disown u! What kind of wickedness is this. His son was grumbling

I was shocked as he was unveiling everything to. Me. He said that girl and her mother are snakes no wonder the girls father is nowhere to be seen in their lives. He always wary about single mothers and their kids but he never knew it's this bad.
I told him to calm down, that it's not about cursing your son o. He needs deliverance, they've jazzed him, better take him to where his head will clear off.
He said he will even if he has to tie his son up and take him to where they will set his brain free. Lol

I was shocked, if u see how innocent this girl and her mother looks! U will never imagine they can do such things

And stupid boy thought he was having free pussy whenever he likes with his gf.

Life!

Human beings! Chai!

Randy91:
Modasucka

Morafucka!

Ekpa!

lefulefu:
ok i was thinking u were refering to early 20s .if u come dey run racket with an early 20s guy the mother fit accuse u of using jazz

No o!
I don't have any buisness with 20 years old guys.

No way! They are too small for me
Sorry guys no offense.


If u see what I saw today at my office building u go shock!

A young girl of 19 years old was dating a young guy of 23years old. The girl works as a sales girl in my office building. While the young boy recently completed his project before lockdown started at one polytechnic, I wont call the name of the school.
He's the sole heir to his dad thriving buisness, so he works for his dad and manage the dad buisness as his second in charge.

Everyone knows they were dating and inlove even the father of the guy was a bit sceptical in their relationship but he gave both of them benefit of doubt cos the young girl is always claiming born again and has shown she doesn't joke with church. Lol
That's how she and her mother managed to fool everyone Anyways.

Guess the sacrilege mother and daughter committed!

Lefulefu just ask me Abeg!

lefulefu:
if na to date a younger guy its safer dating one that is still matured and not a very boy living under his parents.imagine u dating a 21 yr old boy...dat one go dey under the control of im parents nau and they would interfere in the relationship.

Don't get me wrong o
Not that young o

21years old is way too young

A guy staying with his parents shouldnt be talking about marriage. It always ends in disaster,staying with a guy and his parents and such guys marry very young girls his fmaily can shove around and use as maid. That's the honest truth. The parents won't even accept an older lady.

No matured lady who. Knows her onions should marry a 21 or even guy in his 20s. Its not ideal at all.

Early 30s is what I call younger guy in my own point of view and he must be independent. Not depending on his parents for feeding allowance or tfare.

That's my kind of younger guy, biko

Randy91:
See self hyping


Las Las u r an N-Power Volunteer

Wharever!

At least I'm enjoying my relationship,which is paramount.

We no send anybody.

My young Mr capable as I love to call him, is one of my top most investors in my company and brand. He's sea never runs dry

If he says jump! I ask how high Boo?

If I say jump! He replies how high babe?

holocron:
It almost always never ends well.

Since you've been hearing of divorces cases. Have u ever heard a younger guy beat his matured wife to stupor over infidelity?
Have u ever heard a young man macheting his older wife?
Have u?

All cases we see and read online is a matured guy breaking his younger wife head cos of infidelity issues or extended family issues.

Asuito7:
three gbosa for you girl. I don't know why some guys are bitter or complaining about the lady been older than the guy. They never know the kind wahala and shakara the younger girls though not all have, e go shock them. It is the young man CHOICE in fact a better one at that.

To the guys complaining about the lady please CEASE FIRE.

HML to the couple

Thanks dear.

Younger girls have so many guys on their case . That's why they make Shakara like no man's buisness.


Let them complain, when they are tired, they will focus on their daily lives and leave the happy married couples alone. The young man is happy and at peace, that's all any sensible and wise man needs in life.

Peace.

He's fine no doubt.

But his type hardly keeps a babe or babes cos they are obsessed with their looks like kilode and Want their babes to be obsessed with them as well.
Their main targets are wealthy single ladies . I see his type every time. His looks doesn't freak me.

No big deal there.

oyigah:
My friend close your mouth for once..yen yen yen.
How about your eggs and the quality of kids?

Come and close it.

Asinwin!

But if it's to insult and degrade women all day and all night long, u can open your decayed fingers and type rubbish to delude confused guys online.

Village Ajasco!

Drfernandez:
You'll make a good marketer. That aside, you can send me a DM, let me know how best to help your ministry, maybe I can help connect you to one of my trusted contacts. I mean well for you, so I'm serious.

Personally, I'm happily married.

Smiles u are funny.

Well thanks on the compliment of being a good marketer.

In any case, no need helping my ministry. I'm already in a loving relationship with my sweet boo. A charming young upwardly mobile man and this is our 7month together.
So don't worry, my ministry is not hopeless. I'm perfectly fine with what we are building together.

But thanks for being a concerned citizen of nairaland . You are so generous and kind

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Iogobenz:
Keep pacifying yourself ooo.
Love of his life indeed.
Them don use over experience acquired from longevity of service tie somebody fine son.
E go soon clear him and it might be too late to change things.
Just imagine this woman after childbirth and say 3 years,the way she go old again ehn,to go house go dey hard the guy because nobody wants to go home to a dinosaur...
Nwanne sorry,we can't continue crying over spilled milk.

Lol keep consoling yourself as if younger Ladies don't turn dinosaurs.

Lol
Your mouth too bad.

May God forgive u.

If e pain u too much? Locate their home , go to court and seek divorce on their behalf.

U hear?

Ekpa!