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ZIINI:
That's very sad to be frank if you're my woman I won't raise my hand anyday anytime to beat you.
Although some women are sometimes provoking but that doesn't mean you should beat them to me going out is the best thing.

Well since the day I know what dating and relationship is, No man has raised his hands to beat me. None!

I hate nagging, I hate violence and I've always being a lover of peace.

If a man is a bully? I take a walk!
If he's insultive? I take a walk!
If he's aggressive? I take a walk!

So it's alright , no man can ever raise his hands on me.

In real life, I radiate peace

Don't mind my commando actions on nairaland . I do it for fun. Lol

Very necessary to be tough here, if one wants to survive the attacks on this forum.

Must she always go back?

My God! See panel beating! And they are not married o.
Ladies of these days I just taya!

Must you die on top relationship!

God forbid!

That's how my neighbor a 24years old guy beats up his 17years old gf just this weekend. Break her phone and beat her up, while people came to separate them.. She was screaming with a black swollen eye, the glasses broken and daring him as if she can beat him back . One lanky girl with ojugo glass like that.

I just shake my head in disgust. After her mother came to settle them, she was screaming you are an animal! Bloody Animal for beating a girl! People come and see Femi, hes an animal!


Sighs! I just taya!

If both of u are volatile! Then cut off! If the stress is too much? Break up!

Don't fuccing date anymore! Love is not by force!!!!!

The guy said she was too clinging and he needed his space to rest , but she won't let him be! After work he wants to be alone and rest but she's allways coming over to his place and he's tired,he needs to rest and think!

Money for food, money for phone, money for school fees, she's bout to go for her matric and her single mom is poor ... When love dey shack his Brain, only him promise her mom he will train her in school from begining to end. But it seems he's tired already with feeding and providing for both mom and daughter.

Just too bad. The load is too much on the young man for God sake.


Back to the topic! Camille leave the young man alone! Don't die on top his matter. He could be tired of your stress!

lefulefu:
wait a moment..do young guys play baba ijebu?
i was thinking its our dads or grand dads age group dat play baba ijebu

My dear yes o!

Especially betnaija! It has eaten deep in some men's blood and Brain.

I once dated a guy who has good job, tall guy, well suited up, and his salary was 280k excluding benefits. But this guy is always broke.
Although he eats well but after buying foodstuffs, he's always broke.

One day I sat him down and I ask him how do u spend your salary cos I'm surprised u are broke. I hardly ask u for money. I pay my tfare to and Fro, to come see u. I don't demand a dime from u. So what's happening with your salary?

He didn't want to open up initially, until one of his siblings begged him to assist her pay her school fees and he wanted to ask me for assistance, I then asked him, u need to tell me the truth. What's happening with your salary?

That's when he confessed he's addicted to betnaija.
I was like what?

He said he had his sister's school fees kept one side o, until a voice whispered to his Brain to use it and play the bet, so he can have double or triple of it but unfortunately he lost. And thats how he has been loosing money playing bet but he knows one day he will hit it big!
And that's how the voices always pop up in his head to use money in his account to play , even when he looses.

Chai! I weep for the guy
I said u need deliverance. This is not ordinary and you are the first son with siblings and parents u said u need to cater for. Guy! U need pure deliverance!

Anyway that's in the past. I wish him well in his sojourn in life. So some do.

jimmychang:
Nigga speak for yourself

It's well.

ukaface:
Then she's foolish

Sadly but some women are that foolish.

I've seen a mother curse all her 6 children that they will all be useless in life and the life of her husband because her husband married another wife.

And truly 5 out of 6 of her children were useless, except the second son. The rest were nothing to write home about and her grandchildren ended up as single mothers, her grand sons living empty lives, except the second son 's children that made headway in life due to the son determination to break out of the curse.


That's some women for u.

Ready to destroy all due to jealousy

franchasng:
I am happily married oh with the most handsome son in the world now, but I just love beautiful ladies....light skin ladies with big bombom can make me forget my surname, and even my wifey knows



I am like David not Solomon, loving women is my only sin, I am sure I will be pardoned at the gate of hell because I no kill anybody, na love I love them and I make them forever happy

Awwww I love the one u said u have the most handsome son .. And u also make women that catches your fancy happy forever That's so cute.

I now understand your plight with fair beautiful sassy ladies.


Well I'm not your spec because I'm extremely boobilicius with nice fleshy assz.
Im not trying to tempt u o. I'm just like being free with words.

So like I said earlier i cant be with another.

My guy, He's a ghost member and fan here on nairaland. So it's a no no for me

franchasng:
lol, I am a guy na, so I know guys' ways too....form lonely and ready to marry next Saturday, get one of your friends to hook you up with his bootilicious sister, u chop am sharpally and give one reason like; she no sabi cook water yam soup, the last indomie she prepared was too sweet, her bombom is too big, that means she has chop too many banku


Move on to the next big ukwu asap



Me self go like press your piano if u allow me

At the bolded, so true.



In pressing my piano, sorry my name is not Animashaun and not from the clan. My piano belong to my Boo, he deserves being sole owner of it.

First guy ever to ever drive me nuts! I'm surprised but in control anyways.


In between I thought u are married?

Heartlessbanker:
I use glasses.

Oh no wonder.

Then better change the glasses, they are faulty.

Replace them before they land u in mistaken eye sight saga.

I've said my own o

But the choice is yours anyways.

Heartlessbanker:
how about women/girls and their "relationship scam"?
Why do you have hairs on your chest though? Abi I nor see well

It goes both ways.


Hairs on my chest?
Seems you have eye problem!

Go fix those eyes first!

franchasng:
first of all, my name no be Francis oh, don't let the handle mislead u oh lol



As for the ladies, it's just that I am not a fixer, never liked it and will never be one, would have fixed you up with one or two, but u know guys can never be trusted, even when they want to put the tip of their dagger inside that thing, they will disguise that they have come for marriage or serious relationship but all na wash, that's why it's dangerous to be a matchmaker for guys


I see lots of these ladies everyday oh, both on social media platforms, real life, in fact they are everywhere except u don't have good eyes.


Try instagram. I am sure u do come across such ladies but feel you don't need them because of theit age; most of them are above 27yrs. If you want a quality lady, avoid girls of 25yrs below, search from 30yrs above or maybe 27yrs

God bless you.

Please don't matchmake any guy for anyone.

They all have sweet mouth as if they want to really settle down and marry but check the guys life, it's either he smokes igbo as a hobby or he is neck deep in debt because of baba ijebu. Or he's a fucccking player looking for more good ladies to mess up and possibly fleece from.

I can never match make guy with any one. Let them go and find that special babe and mess it up all by themselves!

You really understand guys and their deceptive paroles.

Thumbs up!

Happyfela:
You can't be submissive to your man. You said it yourself. Abeg pls no marry make u no spoil somebody's son life pata pata

I'm very submissive to my man and he's a very wise man who knows he can't take my submissiveness as a fool. He doesn't walk all over me. He doesn't take advantage of my love and submission to him. He's very easy going . I'm very easy going. He doesn't demand too much like some men out there.
We are not clinging to each other but we are there for each other when it matter most.

Because I make him so happy ,relaxed and cherished. He knows I adore him to the moon and back, so in return he credits my account with 9 digits, whenever I ask. We know most men these days are so stingy. They are like one is trying to strike water out of a rock!
And sympathise wth such men and their love lives.
I truly sympathise from the depth of my heart.

Anyways we are still together, we ain't breaking up anytime soon
No matter when his friends say to him, I'm too Pretty and expensive . He's not complaining. He's a very happy dude having me around during our spare time cos we are both workaholics with our different careers.

So don't sweat it. We are doing just fine He's my angel.

Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money, she should be ready to suffer with them (they will maltreat her after the money comes), she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.

Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman? Is she your mother?

That's why we have so many divorce cases flying everywhere.
Women are not ready to sit still and keep suffering emotionally and financially.

Eyes don open.


Later men will troop online saying they are scared of marriage, as if they are saints.

If one cant stay faithful and responsible to one's partner, then Such person has no business talking about marriage.


As a woman don't allow your husband walk all over you. Cos there is high tendency he will keep on doing it over and over again.

bizzibodi:
He is not aware of his heart ,when is baby brain short- circuited & he opened his big mouth & spill vitriol on a journalist.

He forgot at that moment of anger. Possibly he has been controlling any form of outburst until he spoke to the journalist. I bet you after the outburst, he will feel the effect in his body and heart, then blame himself why did he loose control.
And I bet u he will take some bp pills afterwards and remain calm again.

Hes a human being .

Human beings loose control in some certain agitated situations.

It's called 5mins moment of madness.

It can happen to anyone. Nobody is perfect and calm at all times when faced with certain situations. So calm down in crucifying him.

Hes already being crucified in his home by his wife and possibly friends and workers even though the wife was the one who cheated on him. And the public sef join to crucify him over and over again, even bringing up his past life's of being a wife beater and counting the number of women he married and divorced.

Irony of life

Anyways it's karma giving him his own dish served very hot.

The man is highly stressed up!

drakeskull:
Who catches his spouse with another man in bed and all you hear is everyone wants peace. Story doesn't add up, believe this then you can believe everything

Hes 60years old, with a frail heart . At that age, you don't need any thing to trigger your anger, no matter the grieviance commited. All one need at such age is peace or else Na cardiac arrest go follow am up, straight to the grave or stroke.

Hes no longer a vibrant young man and he's very aware of his heart.

Karma is revealing itself to him.
He slept with ojukwu wife and made mockery of it online.

Now another man too has slept with his own wife.
Shame no let am talk before until she posted a video of their arguments. He had no choice to spill the beans.

Men who like fucccing people's wives, the cane u people used to make married women moan in ecstasy will be used on your wives as well.

Keep messing with other people's wives o.

E dey una blood.


But why do people like washing their dirty linen in public sef

No matter my quarrel with Boo, I won't make it a headline topic online. Heavens forbid.
We both have names and reputations to protect!

The day I saw her pictures with low cut, as In very low hair cut with a skinny face, I knew her marriage is about to come to an end. It's just a matter of time.

Her pictures then looked like a shadow of her once bubbly and fresh looks. And people were complaining how come she looks dry with an ugly skin cut. She said in a video that she's watching her weight and wants to feel healthy.

I just shook my head in disdain. I knew her husband must be very controlling and thats the last thing some women need.

I can never ever marry a controlling man. Never!

A suitor asked me last month, can I marry him? He's controlling and he knows with my looks, I won't be submissive.
I smiled and I told him, sorry I can't leave my carefree bf and marry you. I can't cope with a controlling man. And thank God my bf loves me the way I am. Marry someonelse.


Some men and Control is so out of this world!
Jeez!

More.

I placed it in my office. She deserve the honour

The babe lose
If u want to be a great chef in the kitchen and cook all the time? Please be my guest. Cook Biko, I ain't complaining.

The kitchen is all yours

anibi9674:
by force marriage. if marriage dey hungry her so, she no go fyn poor man marry.

Most rich ladies don't want to marry a poor man

Rich marry rich looks and it feels better.

No envy, No nagging and feeling of entitlement he's not getting enough millions from her to foot his new appetite in luxuries and choice of cars. Infact the disadvantages of marrying a poor guy outweighs the advantages.

Rich ladies, rich guys are sick and tired of nagging.




In between she's truly obsessed with Anthony, Eeyah

jornwhite:
Yea ! am asking you out on a date and about the bills not entirely true buh true you will be the only one to eat, me i'm ok with bottle water. so hypothetically paying for what you eat is not absurd.
stop doubting me, how real could i av been, or you want me to take you to cubana or La mango so we end up washing plates
If you are not a feminist what are doing on NL, when ur mates are on snapchat, instagram tweking or funnily moving there head 2 a music in BG why do gurls even do that shit. lol
I don't know fashion like dat buh am old skool tew, and i also have numerous hiv test reports to certify i am pure.
vic the way you keep rejecting me publicly am afraid no one will be able to beat your record o! ... begging is not in my dictionary buh i don't give up either. maybe we should just do what Op said .. eat from home, problem solved. now i know yu wil change ur mind

Smiles don't mind me, no need begging pls.
I'm simply on nairaland to play and possibly advertise one of my biz.
For the records I'm not a feminist and neither am I those type of girls that twerk on instagram, twitter and other online sites to catch a guy's attention. My looks alone does it for me with less stress, while my brain complete the rest for me

My kind of breed is totally different, with all sense of humility.
I believe in using my Brains to keep what I want and evidently I'm in a relationship. I don't double date because that's how Im created no matter the Hurt and dissapointments from exes in my past.
It made me tougher and made me to understand men better.
I'm in a relationship with one of the best of men out there and he's simply an angel sent from above.
We've been in a relationship for like 6months till date . He's all I can ever ask for.
Lemme say a short preview of whom I'm dating so u can understand me better.

He's a Corporate buisness mogul guy from delta state. In his late 30s. Dark skinned with thick bushy eyebrows, cute dude, very cultured, extremely quiet and focused.
And also top investor in my company and businesses in Lagos and delta state.

I don't joke with our relationship and I don't want to double date with any other.

You sound like a nice guy, keep it up. But I'm taken.

Also don't mind my pics on my profile, Its just for fun. Nothing more.

Thanks for the offer. I appreciate.

jornwhite:
Vic i think its about that time we go on a date, bills on you make e no be like say i dey drag whu get money pass with you

Smiles, u are asking me out on a date and u want the bills to be on me?

Are u for real?

Have I ever mentioned on nairaland or anywhere online that I'm a feminist?



Honestly u are so funny. I don't drag wealth or money with men.
I'm old fashioned with dates. I don't take care of bills on first date it's not in my dictionary and I weigh a lot of options,do some background checkups before accepting any date.
If you are pure, then u can take me out in a date but bills on you.
If you are not pure? And even if the bills will be on you and u are also offering a buffet with Loads of champagne? I ain't coming. I'm very selective.

So my dear Im not footing any bills. Not interested.

DZTech:
How can food be the primary focus of a new outing/dating?

How can you get to know someone better when hunger is your main focus?
Times are hard, but life goes on; so, it's high time we used our common sense.
The entitlement mentality must stop.

Ladies, gents - if you're going on a date, eat at home and go out for drinks in a bar.
how many cans of malt can you drink in 2 hours?
las las, 1,500 don cover am.
enough of the nonsense.

What d'you think?

It's well o!

Voila! A 3months old student.

nuelyoyo:
It seems your boo is a boobs man. I am not a fan of big boobs, especially in a lady I am considering for marriage. I am a lover of big yansh, especially the ones that weight 40kg

Well every man with his taste. Some like big yansh only. Some like models shape, Slim and tall, some like short and and big booty. So it varies all man and their taste.

He says I'm too sexy and pretty for words and I love it when he tries to act tough, buisness like and quiet sometimes. He doesn't get angry at me. He's always well behaved with me, he chooses his words carefully and credit me with any amount I request for, without stress.

Big yansh and dark skinned is not his favorite.

Pretty Asian face, fair skinned ,plump shape and huge boobs does it for him. I'm truly lucky I have him.
Marriage is a topic for another day. Lemme not hatch my chickens before they hatch.
Let it hatch first before I blow my trumpets.

jomarq:
noted, I will do this.but do husband borrow wife money and got it back, I want to know?

No.
It creates bad blood later

Even in stable relationship. My man does not borrow me money but invest money on me, cos he knows it will benefit him and me on the long run.
His benefit : I don't need to ask for little change to buy things except big funds at times
My benefit : I can save and take care of my needs from proceeds from my business without him being around all the time.

It's not cool borrowing ones companion Money, no matter the amount.

nuelyoyo:
Every time I see Dorothy's picture , I remember Victorian .

Lol




When I saw her the first time on bbnaija, I was Chai! See my replica


But I'm not as fat as she is.

She's fat down. I'm simply very busty like her. And thank God I'm very fair.

My type is hard to find

I thank God. My Boo won't be enticed by her. I even jokingly tap Boo, and pointed at her.

He said with a short smile and reply don't mind her, she no reach. You glitter like the sun and extremely busty . Forget her.

But she try in showing them off!

She over try! I can't dress like her outside. I can't.

Fox12:
I accidentally eavesdropped on him on the phone(Having intimate conversation) with an anonymous girl.
Should I tell my sister about it?

Most men cheats on their wives and the wives know but most place blind eyes.

So telling her is simply a way to make her feel embarrassed on what she has been praying u nor any family member don't find out. It can be very embarrassing and painful.

It's either she leaves her husband and go back to her father's house or she stays and pray one day he doesn't infect her with HIV which can cut short her life span or she stays put and accept the sham called marriage, she's into.

Sighs some human beings taya me especially where deception and mind games is involved.

In fact local woman is tired.

I give up!

Obierika:
I'm wondering why she's even a lesbian, it's not like she's ugly like the others

It's not far fetched
She must have had terrible experience from men. And couldn't cope anymore than to tilt towards lesbianism.

A 22years old lady was pouring her heart to me last night, how she's thinking of becoming a reverend sister and she is so tired of mind games and dissapointment from men. She just want to focus and dedicate her life to God and forget men and marriage.

I told her hell no!

If at my age, I've not given up on love and I'm having the best of two worlds with wealthy guys at my beck and call. I can stick to one ,the wealthiest of them all.
Or waste my precious time dating several but I decide to choose a caring and loving one.
So I wonder why u should throw in the trowel at such young age. You have your whole life ahead of you

Never allow demonic men change who you are. They are not worth the stress.

She eventually changed her mind and focused on graduating with good grades, get a nice job before plunging into another relationship.

Hopefully she should be wise and prepared enough to quickly decipher wolves in sheep clothing from the good sincere guys by the time she graduates .

Hopefully. I will personally tutor her on the antics of wolves.

She's my side pet project.

Personally delivered to me by one of her male friends who knows me very well and felt, she's dating wrong guys who are making her feel worthless and depressed.

May God help young ladies coming up.

Amen

Liposure:
people will always talk

Exactly.

Grow a tough skin and make yourself happy and the guy bringing out the dough very happy.

It's a win win and happy entanglement.

Simple.

How are u doing dear?

She's balling hard and looks well prepared for anyone who wants to block her parole.

Ned sef!

It's her time. Enjoy babes!

U no kee person, Na enjoy u just want enjoy and make more easy money with style &finese.
Cheers to your guts!

More pics from my students coming up this weekend.

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